What is Magic? The Definite Answer !

Dejan Davchevski
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What is Magic? The Definite Answer !

What is magic? – Maybe the most ridiculous question that exists! Why? Well, you deserve an explanation before I throw this judgment in your face, so let me explain.

Let’s just say you go on a magic show, let’s call it “The Dance Of Life”. You enter the large room with seats and big stage where the show is about to start and you sit down ready to observe the tricks of the magician.

The show starts and the magician makes his entry. He slowly starts to introduce himself with a short story. He tells the story in an interesting way so you are not bored before “The Magic Starts”.

PieroMacGowan_DennisMoellers_StagedTheaterConceptYou feel comfortable, the show is interesting, you like to see the magic but there is still something in your head that makes you “keep your guard up”. There is something that makes you observe everything the magician does with one purpose, to find out how is he going to fool you.

The magician, of course, knows this. He uses this feeling of awareness to fool you. While you are busy generating almost every possible outcome from the things you see, the magician has already created the trick behind the curtains. He just makes you lead yourself to the trick.

Then suddenly BOOM, you experience the trick. You feel something, that feeling of “maybe everything is possible”, “maybe magic really exists”. The magician succeeded in fooling you, but, if he succeeded then why he doesn’t tell you how he did the trick?

The main question is did the magician really fooled you? – He fooled you as same as you fool someone when giving a beautiful wrapped up gift without telling them how much it costs you or what’s inside. That’s what creates the magic in the first place, the not knowing.

1555419_281191008696421_1787633775_nMagic exists my dear, badass readers, but it only exists if you let it flow. It only exists if you “put your guard down” and let it fill your curious heart.

The truth is, everything has an explanation. Every action has its own reaction and everything that we understand suddenly becomes simple.

But magic makes everything we don’t understand, everything that is so complex, FEEL simple without understanding what the hell is happening.

It makes us feel enchanted, powerful, motivated, inspired, so it is as REAL as the dreams you have, as the past you struggle with, as the plans you make and the music you listen to. The magician didn’t fooled you, he gave you “The Gift Of Magic”.

The magician is life, that’s why the show is called “The Dance Of Life”. Life shows us things we keep our attention to while he leads us to the trick, and when we least expect it, life will give us “The Gift Of Magic”.

6f3c7_9310a33684e3b958fbe9a6d399f811beb5934e90Almost every one of us experienced a situation when you think something magical happens. Let’s say you think of a person when suddenly the song that connects the both of you starts playing on the radio, like your personal theme music.

That’s when you feel the magic of life, through all the space and time it happened right there at that exact moment while you were thinking exactly that and it was that song from almost trillion songs.

The thing is magic happens all the time, but we feel it only when we “let our guard down” and start dancing with life. If not, life will find a way like a true magician to “fool” us.

What is Magic 2Magic happens while we dine with our family, while through all of the suffering in the world there is a joke that makes us laugh our ass off.

Magic happens when we forget everything for a little while and dance with our friends.

Magic happens when we do something so stupid even we laugh at ourselves.. magic happens when you have fun, when you dance with life.

So why is the question “What is magic?” the most ridiculous question that exists? The answer of that question will automatically destroy magic and then there will be no point in answering it.

THE ESSENCE OF MAGIC IS NOT KNOWING WHAT MAGIC IS, BUT LETTING YOURSELF FEEL IT.

We try to understand life not knowing that life is not meant to be understood. That destroys the magic of life. That’s why life seemed so magical when we were little kids and we didn’t know much, we enjoyed the magic show.

THE CODE

<What you do not understand but your heart feels is Magic>

The SHOCKING Truth About People – We Hide Behind Masks !

Dejan Davchevski
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The SHOCKING Truth About People – We Hide Behind Masks !

Most of the day we hide behind Masks – characters we play in the act of life. It’s because we feel safe like that, not showing What We are Truly Capable of.

We are scared of being judged, scared of being convinced that we are not the person we think we are. That’s why we hide behind someone who is not really us, the character that is usually opposite of who we are.

If we really put on a Mask, a real one which hides our identity and looks, than our character is actually showing its true colors and paradoxically we are hiding ourselves but showing who we truly are.

Hiding Behind a MaskThis is because we are afraid of being convinced that we are not the person we think we are, but always, the one who does the convincing is Us. We decide What Defines Us.

Because we choose to link our Material possessions with our Immaterial values, we choose to be defined and valued by the Material things we own.

The Mask and The TruthIt’s like they are some kind of rewards or medals for who we really are, for our Immaterial values.

True worth don’t require medal. Define yourself by what you feel, by who you know You are, not by “the medals” you own.

Material is a product of Immaterial, so if you manage to BE WHO YOU REALLY ARE without wearing a mask, you will show others your true values and look like WHO YOU REALLY ARE.

“You are not a champion because you have a medal, you have a medal because you are a champion.” ~ Dejan Davchevski

Be You TifulBe your own convincer, be the one who defines You. See your insecurities and try to look through them. Approve who you are and your insecurities will disappear.

Only then the need for others to approve your values will disappear. Only then you will be free to be who you are.

You won’t be afraid anymore of being convinced that you are not the person you think you are, because only than you’ll know you are the one who defines yourself and tells WHO YOU ARE. Your mask of character will fall and you’ll BE FREE TO BE YOU.

Mind PointsTHE CODE

<Become aware of your mask and take it off, the only one you need to convince and the only one who can convince you who you are is you>

Ground Yourself – The Simplest and Most Effective Exercise !

Dejan Davchevski
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Ground Yourself – The Simplest and Most Effective Exercise !

Grounding, in physics, is a reference point to a direct physical connection to the Earth. This term is used in psychology to describe the act of becoming Focused on The “Here and Now” relieving yourself from the stress of the Past and the Future.

What we mean by “Grounding” is to anchor yourself in the Present and just be, right there where you are. The act of doing, what we call Ground Yourself, promotes pleasant feelings in your body which construct a Much Healthier Psycho-physical Profile.

But, as you can see, Life Coach Code is sorting this article in “The Soul” category instead of “The Mind” or “The Body”. Why is this?

Ground Yourself1 part of us is a Material Being and another part is an Immaterial Being. The thing with everything Immaterial is that it exists outside of the 3rd dimension. It is not bounded by time, nor it perceives time as a river but instead as a lake.

Being connected with The Earth anchors our Immaterial Part to The Present – the only place our Material Part exists. Our 2 parts becoming connected as a whole through us unlocks our true potential.

 

Grounding ExercisesWe become the center of space and time, we are the center of The Universe, we are the nexus where Our Own Universe and The Outer Universe meat.

Focusing on the “Here and Now” or Grounding is actually focusing on ourselves without exploring our Inner World and understanding who we are. We just are who we are in that present, there are no worries, plans or regrets, we just exist.

In Meditation we achieve grounding by focusing on our breathing which exists here and now. However, meditation is much more than just a grounding technique.

Be that as it may, we cannot always be comfortable to meditate. Still there is a way to achieve that feeling of stress-free awareness of the present and we can accomplish this wherever we are by following this simple and most effective exercise.

  1. We always carry something with us; find an object you always carry with you which makes you feel pleasant.
  2. Take a deep breath; no matter what you do just take 3 deep breaths while you hold the object in your hand/s.
  3. Try to visualize the object by gently touching its texture.
  4. After you finish with the 3rd breath say the next sentence with your thoughts “I am ______ – your name – I am safe, and I am awake”
  5. Repeat the whole process 3 times.
  6. After you finish with the 3rd repetition you’ll be more aware of the “Here and Now”

If you want to boost the sensation try becoming aware of your whole body after you finish with the exercise.

This exercise is the most effective one but from the “Simple” category. “Simple” means you can do it everywhere no matter what you do and it’s easy accomplished.

However, the most effective exercise for grounding, by far, is taking a barefoot walk on the ground and receiving its pure, rejuvenating energy.

Spirit PointsTHE CODE

<To ground yourself no matter what you do take an object you find pleasant, take 3 deep breaths while you hold the object with your hand/s visualizing its texture by touching it, after your 3rd breath say the sentence “I am ______ - your name - I am safe, and I am awake” and repeat the whole process 3 times>

What’s The Downside of Smoothies ?

Dejan Davchevski
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What’s The Downside of Smoothies ?

As a Life Coach I always promote a healthy lifestyle. I am happy to say that with every day more and more people are waking up from the false reality of pleasures they lived and realize that there is a better, healthier way.

The practice of a healthy lifestyle is at its highest percentage till now. People start exercising on a regular basis, switching their diets for healthier ones, we all start practicing gratitude, Meditation, self discovery and love. I believe that if we keep on doing this the world will become a better place.

However, not everything that seems healthy is healthy. There is a saying old people usually advice us with, “Everything in moderation, even moderation”.

Smoothies are a great substitute for a snack or even a meal. They are basically a “soup” of nutrients depending on what you put in the mix. They are tasty, easy to consume, fun to make, they hydrate your body, they are great for your metabolism and 100% Natural.

You probably wonder “What’s not to like in a Smoothie?” Well, there are people who have nothing better to do than to find the bad in the good. However, we need people like that because there are 2 sides to everything and being blinded by only one of them is never good, no matter what side you are on.

The negative side of Smoothies, Natural Juices and so on, is their sugar concentration. Our bodies are used to absorb the sugars we consume by slowly breaking down the food we eat.

Large amounts of sugars in already liquid form are kind of a shock for our bodies because they need to absorb large amounts of sugars in a very short period of time. Sugars give us energy but too much from everything is bad.

So what now? We give up on Smoothies? Hell no. We just need to find a way how to make them healthy again. Here is how.

The key to a healthy Smoothie lies in the moderation. We need to balance the ingredients of our recipes so we’ll consume less sugars, more protein and decent amount of nutrients.

After we create a perfect Smoothie recipe for our own needs, we need to limit its consumption to 1 smoothie per day.

The 1 Smoothie is best to be consumed as substitute for a meal, Breakfast or Lunch, Dinner is not so good idea.

The best way for me to drink a Smoothie is after a breakfast and morning workout as a substitute for energy boosting snack rich in protein to satisfy what I expended through the workout.

It is different for each individual of course, depending on the lifestyle, time, needs, desires, schedule and so on.

Experiment for a while, find your best way of drinking a Healthy Smoothie and keep on building a healthier lifestyle.

Remember that everything in moderation is good. The World depends on us and if we are happy and healthy we’ll create a happier and healthier world. Everything you do matter so take responsibility for your actions buddy.

Body PointsTHE CODE

<The downside of smoothies is their concentration of sugars but if we balance the recipe and use everything in moderation we can create a harmless, healthy smoothie to add in our menu as a substitute for a meal or an energy boosting snack>

Acceptance from Society – Why Do We Beat Up The Monkey on The Ladder ?

Dejan Davchevski
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Acceptance from Society – Why Do We Beat Up The Monkey on The Ladder ?

If the Nature of our Body is to survive, the Nature of our psychology is to be accepted. We always seek acceptance from society because, just like our Personal Body wants to grow the same way our Interpersonal Body wants to grow – by creating more relationships.

Our Personal Body is the “Driver” of our Lower Self, Our Interpersonal Body is the “Driver” of our Outer Self. Imagine your Outer Self as a unity of every relationship you have – the main power of your Outer Self is the Impact you have on other people. The strength of your impact is proportional to the amount and quality of your relationships.

I discovered the importance of this kind of power by being Life Coach Code‘s webmaster. One day I asked myself “If at any moment I want to share a message to the world, how many people will get that message?”

 

The Eye-Opening Realization

The Eye-Opening RealizationAs a Life Coach I want to help people. I discovered a way of seeing A Human unlike anyone in history till this day and wanting to share my discovery as pure as it is I realized that my voice may never reach as many people as I intent; it may never reach a 1000000th of the amount of people I intent.

This eye-opening realization made me work my way up – building quality relationships with as many people as I can so I can have a bigger influence on the world.

I have created a website and I discovered that building a quality website is actually A LOT harder than it seems.

 

Developing a Quality Website

Developing a Quality WebsiteAnyone can create a “Healthy Food” website and copy untested texts, already copied from another website that have copied from a quality website. When I am saying quality website I am talking about a website with a team focused only on what that website stands for – inventing, testing, researching subjects on their own.

Also, I have discovered that today we are million times more connected with each other though the World Wide Web than we were at any time in history. But, this “relationships” are with the lowest quality.

The lack of quality is the reason why we don’t have as great influence on the world as our connections should give us. There is very low amount of trust and emotional promotion – the essence of a quality relationship.

That’s why, even if having a quality website, it is hard to have a strong influence. People tend to have a little tolerance on trusting what they read on the internet and I don’t blame them. With so much bulls**t around the internet I wouldn’t trust my best friend’s texts.