11 Signs You Are A Creative Sensitive And How To Unlock Your Superpower

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Psychology

December 9, 2019

“The truly creative mind in any field is no more than this: A human creature born abnormally, inhumanly sensitive.” — Pearl S. Buck

The most creative people are inhumanly sensitive. And most sensitive people are unusually creative. It can feel, at times, like these two traits are somehow related.

The truth is, creativity and sensitivity are not just related but they complement each other like two parts of a bigger whole.

Sensitivity feeds creativity and creativity requires heightened sense about life. Experiencing life on a much deeper level is the way of sensitives.

For a highly sensitive person a kiss is an ecstasy, a gaze is a miracle, a friend is a lover, a lover is a god, music is healing, and beauty can be hypnotic.

But a Creative Sensitive uses this hypersensitivity to feed their creativity, that’s how they end up creating world changing pieces of work.

What Is A Creative Sensitive:

Creative Sensitive people often pick up on the little things in the environment that others miss, see patterns where others see randomness, and find meaning and metaphor in the minutiae of everyday life.

They are deeply touched by a piece of art, a beautiful song can give them goosebumps that last for minutes and a movie scene can leave them in tears or even change the course of their life.

Most people think that being highly sensitive person is a weakness, but any Creative Sensitive can prove the opposite, being highly sensitive person is actually a superpower and only few who are given this gift know how to use it.

Many famous musicians like Michael Jackson and Dolly Parton, the best authors like J.R.R. Tolkien, psychologists like Carl Jung, even the most brilliant scientists like Albert Einstein, from Dalai Lama to Jim Carrey, most people who impacted the course of the world were, and are, Highly Sensitive Creatives.

To be highly sensitive is like having a highly sensitive skin. If you touch a person with normal skin, and a person with skin without its first protective layer, the person with skin without its protective layer will feel your touch much stronger than the person with normal skin because their skin is much more sensitive.

Highly sensitive people are without this first protective layer, but not on their skin, instead on their emotions. They feel the world much stronger than normal people, and this is the secret of their hidden superpower. That’s why they can create things that leave everyone in shock. See if you are a Creative Sensitive.

11 Signs You Are Creative Sensitive:

1. You struggle with low self confidence.

You have a negative self image, you continuously seek approval from others, you are sensitive to criticism, you do not see yourself as good enough and you are in constant competition with others.

2. You find it hard to make decisions.

You tend to overthink, or even postpone deciding your plans until last minute because it stresses you.

3. You lack strong will to pursue your goals.

You know what to do, but for some reason you feel it’s too hard to follow through and execute, you lack enough will and your motivation dries out quickly, you feel it’s somehow harder for you than for others.

4. You consider yourself as really creative.

There were countless times that you surprised others and even yourself with your own creativity, when it comes to being creative you just know you are, without even questioning.

5. You show signs of high intelligence.

In school, university or college you felt as superior to others, you felt like the things you were learning are pointless and common sense or that you would not need them at all in your life, you used your intelligence to move through things much easier than others in various circumstances through your life, you might have manipulated others in some way so things turn as you like them to be.

6. You struggle with anxiety or depression.

At some point in your life, or maybe even now, you struggled with anxiety and depression, you feel this anxiety mostly in the mornings as you wake up, you have or had problems with your hormones, possibly your thyroid gland.

7. You have an open mind and accept other people’s opinions.

You can play with different ideas and you feel comfortable talking about controversial subjects like religion, gender equality, paranormal phenomena, science, The Universe and aliens, you respect every person’s opinion even if you sometimes do not agree completely with them.

8. You weren’t supported by your parents when you needed it most.

Your family and most people in your childhood saw your sensitivity as weakness, every time you shared your passions, curiosities and ideas, others saw them as too unrealistic, you might have been even ridiculed as childish, naive or inexperienced, and all you did was see through the pretense, the blame games and the lies others kept telling themselves.

9. You choose to follow your heart.

You always had strong intuition, you always knew that the right thing to do was to follow your heart, and whenever you did follow your heart great things came into your life, greater than you could have ever imagined, but many times you don’t really know what your heart wants.

10. You know you have a bigger purpose but don’t know exactly what.

You have this deep sense that you are here for a big reason, that there is so much more to you waiting to be unleashed and developed, that you should play an important role in this life, that there is a greater purpose waiting for you to find it, but you don’t have a clue what it is or what you should do to follow it.

11. You are hyperaware.

Where someone might be aware of three things in a room, you are aware of ten, you subconsciously absorb information about the temperature in the room, the lights, the people inside, their energy, emotions, facial expressions, the sounds and noises, your subconsciousness is aware of everything.

How To Unlock Your Secret Gift As A Creative Sensitive:

If you found yourself in more than 3 of these signs than congratulations, you are a Creative Sensitive. But what does this mean? What you should do?

Many who are labeled as highly sensitive individuals think they need to overcome their sensitivity, like it’s some type of mental problem or adversity.

Instead, what everyone should realize about High Sensitivity is that it’s a gift, a super ability that you don’t overcome, but embrace. You learn how to use it in your benefit.

It’s like you are Superman with the gift of flight but you don’t know how to use it. And as you walk randomly you start levitating without control, you try grabbing things to get on the ground and keep walking, you struggle living like this every day being on the mercy of the randomness of your flight ability, it just makes your life harder.

You don’t need to overcome your super ability, you need to learn how to use it and become Superhuman.

If you are tired of living like a lame Superman and want to become an actual Superhuman, to unleash the gift you’ve been given and learn how to use your Superpower, join The Superhuman Academy designed specially for High Sensitive people who experience fear and anxiety instead of Freedom, who lack strong will to reach their goals, who are tired of feeling too much and overthink. We take them by the hand and lead them to the core of their uniqueness, helping them to embrace their gift and emerge as Superhumans.

If you are still unsure if this is you, get on a Free Consultation Call and I will be glad to work with you 1on1 to help you get these things done. I can also answer any questions you have about our exciting work. Book your call here, or Decode Into Superhuman right now without procrastinating your purpose anymore.

5 Counterintuitive Ways How All Psychology College Students Can Write Papers Faster

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Dejan

December 7, 2019

Being a student is not easy. Coaching students is where you aim if you want to help people make better choices in their life. We believe that this period is where most of your choices decide how your life is shaped. That’s one of the main reasons why we try to create more content that helps students on our website.

Students don’t have it easy. They have lots of assignments, essays, lessons, things to study, presentations, and on top of it all most of them have to manage their finances by themselves. Not to speak about relationships and other normal things the rest of the people also struggle with.

All students write papers. However, psychology students write a lot of papers. From essays and term papers to case studies and reports, psychology students are buried under writing assignments. But a psychology student has only as many hours in the day as any other student. In fact, a quarter of today’s college students also hold down a full time job. Almost half of undergrads and three quarters of grad students work at least 30 hours per week.

With less and less time to devote to essay writing, finding tips to speed up the process becomes an essential life survival skill for students. So where can you get the time to write more papers and write them faster to fit more into your busy day?

In this post, we’ll look at five counterintuitive ways how psychology students can write their papers quickly. This will help them get through their work faster and make time for the important things in life. If you are one of them, you are welcome.

Just remember, spending more time on the right things, even if it seems like an extra work and counterintuitive, will take time off from unproductive busyness that comes from not being prepared.

5 Ways How Students Can Write Papers Faster:

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1. Outline your paper before you write.

Outlining has been shown to be a time saver overall, even as most students continue not to believe that it is possible for outlining to reduce the overall amount of time spent writing.

At first glance, their position seems logical. For example, writing an outline seems quite a bit like doing extra work since you will be writing material that won’t be part of the final essay. However, this isn’t exactly the case.

An outline serves as a guide for your essay, and by establishing the key parts of your paper before you start writing, you begin the writing process with a map telling you exactly where to go and what to do.

This cuts down on the amount of time that you spend stopping and thinking as you write.

This way, you can ensure that you’ll never write yourself into a corner or go off on a tangent that will cost you valuable time and not contribute to your final paper.

2. Plan your research and resources before your start.

Collect your research before you begin writing. Pull out important quotations and add them your outline.

You should also develop your bibliography and add notes about important citations to use in each paragraph to the outline before you start writing.

This way, you maximize your research efficiency by doing all of the hard work of collecting facts and evidence at the same time, without the need to start, stop, and go back for more.

Any time you can cut out busywork from the writing process is time that you will save at the end. This way, you can write your paper without needing to stop to check sources. You’ll just draw from the bank of resources you’ve already collected.

3. Develop a firm writing schedule.

Many students like to write when inspiration hits them, or they try to cram their essay writing into the last night before a paper is due.

This won’t save you time in the long run. Instead, set aside specific times to write during the day.

By having a fixed, distraction free writing time, you can train yourself to write more effectively because you won’t be panic writing or trying to capture lightning in a bottle.

4. Take breaks while writing.

This is another counterintuitive strategy, but one that works. When you write, there is a tendency to slow down as you push through the process, and your brain can become fatigued, tired, or bored, reducing your writing efficiency.

Experts recommend that you can maintain your writing prowess at peak efficiency by taking a five-minute break every half hour.

By giving yourself a little bit of free time to think about something else, you effectively reset your brain and allow yourself to return to writing fresh and ready to make new connections, approaching your topic with fresh eyes.

5. Consider professional help.

If you have truly run out of time and need your paper done even faster, consider professional assistance.

While you may be tempted to call up an essay writing service and say “Write my paper fast, please!”, there is a better way to use professional papers.

Consider them a type of super outline in which you can see exactly how to develop your essay topic and address all the papers of the essay, including the specific research you need to use.

This will help you to write your own paper faster and make the process that much faster.

If you are a college student, or someone who just cannot find enough time for everything in their life, someone who struggles with daily anxiety and cannot handle their inner chaos, join our Academy and free yourself from all that extra baggage. Upgrade Your Life and learn simple techniques to use your mind like a Superhuman.

3 Ways How To Train Your Mind To Preform Better Under Pressure

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Dejan

December 6, 2019

Your mind can give you the key that unlocks all the doors in the world, or be your worst prison, the difference is in how much you have mastered it.

Your mind is a powerful tool. Even saying it’s powerful it is an understatement. Your mind literally shapes the reality around you.

However, this wild beast can lead you to places you really don’t want to be at if you let it run untamed. So you must learn to master it.

Mastering the mind should be your priority, it should be for all of us. Most of the world’s problems come from untamed minds.

Conquer yourself. Do not try to control your mind, but learn how it functions. Then, learn how to use it and learn how not to be controlled by it.

For example, your mind can go really wild when you are under pressure, it can generate unreasonable decisions. Here are simple tricks how to train it.

3 Ways To Train Your Mind To Preform Better Under Pressure:

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1. Give small rewards.

What do you think gives better results, punishment for bad performance or small reward for a little improvement in the positive direction? According to neuroscience and many psychological studies, small rewards for positive behavior are more effective.

According to B.F. Skinner, famous American psychologist, behavior which is followed by positive reinforcement tends to be repeated. In short, decoding what we did wrong is harder for our mind than following what we did right.

We can use this trick to train our minds to preform better under pressure. For example, let’s say you have a lot to study and you are under pressure. Your mind will postpone things that demand lots of energy from it until the last moment.

Our minds have couple of priorities, and the biggest one is energy efficiency: finding ways that cost least energy and mental capital but give good enough surviving results. You will most likely avoid studying because it costs your mind lots of energy.

You will postpone it until the last moment when the pressure is too high that you cannot handle it anymore. Instead of waiting for your pressure to motivate you and letting your mind control your actions, train your mind with positive reinforcement.

If you need to study 3 chapters, and each chapter has 9 points, create rewards for each point you study. Take 30$ and give them to someone. Tell them to give you 1$ for each point you learn, and bonus 1$ for each completed chapter. You’ll be much more motivated.

2. Prepare for things not going your way.

When you are not using your mind, your emotions are using it for you. Whatever you feel determines what your mind will perceive and what it will think about. Because of this fact, when you are under pressure your mind can overthink and be irrational.

Being under pressure promotes feelings of anxiety and feelings of anxiety tend to make us overthink. The more we overthink the more irrational we get because we lack critical thinking. Getting one step ahead of your anxiety can train your mind to preform better.

Your anxiety basically tells you that something can go wrong, but you have no idea what, hence the overthinking. If you practice a protocol for things not going your own way you already have a strategy if something goes wrong. You’ll free your mind from anxiety.

3. Create a 3 priorities mantra.

No matter how much you try to conquer and control your mind, it will always have a certain freedom. Because the truth is, your mind will always play on its own, the difference that you need to make is to not let its play move and control you. Think in terms of water.

How do you control water? By taking each piece of drop and putting it where you want the water to be, or do you create a certain pathway so the stream of water flows there naturally? of course, it’s the latter. It’s the same strategy with controlling your mind.

Whenever you are under big pressure, let’s say you need to negotiate something, do not control every word of the conversation. Instead, create 3 priorities and remember them as mantra. So whenever your mind steers of, these will keep its flow in the right direction.

If you want to Master Your Mind and conquer all your inherited Super Powers that lay dormant within you, if you want to unleash your Full Potential and Upgrade Your Life, get full access here and join The Superhuman Transformational journey with the other Superhumans inside.

4 Rare Natural Soothing Teas You Probably Don’t Know About

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Nutrition

Dejan

November 29, 2019

4 Rare Natural Soothing Teas You Probably Don’t Know About

There is certainly something relaxing even about the thought of having a good cup of tea. The right cup of tea has the power to boost your immune system and increase your energy level.

Every cup of tea is packed with vitamins, antioxidants and minerals. Furthermore, with so many varieties of teas in the market, there is something for every person. But you must find the types of tea that will suit you.

Just think of something and google will provide you with a list of products. However, there are many healthy teas we don’t know about and because they are not mainstream, it’s really hard to even know about them.

The market is flooded with weight loss teas and those that help in keeping you active for the rest of the day. Seldom will you come across rare and real health promoting teas in a grocery store.

In this article, we will guide you through a list of healthy teas you probably haven’t heard of. From insomnia to different kinds of allergies, healthy teas have the power to treat such issues.

4 Natural Soothing Teas You Don’t Know:

1. Stinging Nettle.

Rare Natural Soothing Teas Stinging Nettle

If you are suffering from high fever, stinging nettle tea can improve your health. This tea is famous because it boosts the immune system and reduces the level of the body’s histamine. This means, once you drink this tea, you will easily be able to get rid of frequent sneezing, coughing and itchiness on your skin. This tea doesn’t cause drowsiness of any kind. Stinging nettle has a sweet smell, and it can also be made better by adding mint, depending on the individual’s taste preferences. You can get your good quality, organic and non GMO Stinging Nettle here.

2. Kratom Tea.

Are you surprised to hear about this? Kratom is a tropical herb that has no medical benefits, yet is used by many people for making different beverages. People who drink kratom tea claim it provides relaxation to the mind for long time and also treats muscle pains. If you want to make kratom tea you must get a quality kratom powder. You can buy good quality kratom powder from the golden monk as it is something we have tested. Kratom tea is a major item in South Florida bars, it is as cheap as $7 per cup.

3. Tulsi Tea.

Tulsi tea is regarded by many as “the queen of all herbs”. This plant is cliché in India and is said to boost stamina. South Asians love this tea because it also improves the skin tone. Experts say that this tea can be used as an alternative for conventional tea and coffee. Tulsi is a major South Asian plant that is consumed for various reasons. Its use as a coffee is just one part of it. This tea is considered to be one of the best teas for dealing with anxiety and stress because of its relaxing and calming effects. Drink a cup of Tulsi tea before you appear for your job interview and leave the other applicants without a chance. Get your organic and Non GMO Tulsi Tea here.

4. Dandelion Tea.

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Most people drink dandelion coffee and must have never heard of dandelion tea. This tea is ideal for weight loss and has many other health benefits. Dandelion tea is ideal for people who are suffering from insomnia. It has great amount of anti oxidants that help in improving the skin. You can drink a cup of dandelion tea just before going to bed if you want to sleep well. So next time you’re in need of coffee, just try drinking a cup of dandelion tea. It’s much healthier.

5 Ways How You Can Reduce Your Energy Footprint On The Planet and Save Money

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Dejan

November 28, 2019

When you want to make a lifestyle change for the better, it’s natural to start with improving yourself. That might be through loving yourself more, which we’ve talked about recently, or making other positive changes in your close environment that compound to the positive change in your life.

It’s genuinely difficult to find the time to work on yourself. We all know this because we’re running around like crazy trying to keep up with life and all our responsibilities. But changing yourself for the better is worth it, it’s actually one of the things that should be worth it more than anything else for you.

The same can be said for considering the energy we use during our lives, how that energy is obtained, and whether we’re living a good life through that usage.

If you want to see a positive change in the world, start with yourself. That’s where you should always start from, change your inner world, change the impact you have on the outer world, and with this change inspire others to do the same. But you start with yourself.

We should all ask ourselves some important questions. Is electricity produced by power plants and fed through the power grid something we want to be involved with, or would a solar solution be eco friendlier and feel just as good? It’s ideas like these that are intriguing to see how we can modify our energy management in our lives and whether different choices make sense.

5 Ways How You Can Reduce Your Energy Footprint On The Planet:

1. Transition to Solar Power.

Solar power is now far more affordable than it once was. This is because the solar panels have become much more efficient at harnessing the sun’s power and turning it into usable electricity.

As a result, even days that are somewhat overcast can still generate a respectable amount of electricity for the average home.

It’s possible to use a roofing solution to install solar panels there. This turns a simple roof into a more functional part of the home and removes the potential for a panel to be an eyesore.

Indeed, a solar installation may potentially make a home more marketable if you are putting it up for sale later, because energy efficiency is very hip and trendy right now too.

Getting a great solar install isn’t easy. However, Semper Solaris are a good choice because they have many years of experience and are Veteran owned too. It’s important to pick the right type of company that has copious amounts of experience with solar panels, roofing installs and battery storage and management.

This is because the energy captured through the sun’s rays must be converted into a power source that is usable through the home. Batteries store the excess energy that isn’t used immediately which allows it to power the home in the evening when the sun has disappeared over the horizon.

2. Turn to Carpooling.

For one or two car families that own their car, love their car and won’t give it up, having one is a lifestyle choice. They want the freedom that it affords them. The ability to get away from the city on the weekends and all the rest. Well, okay. But let’s see if we can make it a little more friendly on the energy side.

Carpooling is initially something that many car owners turn their nose up to. If they’ve already invested in a car, why should they leave it at home? Well, what if you could enjoy easy travel into work and not have to have your eyes glued to the road the whole time? Would catching up with your email, posting out on social media or watching a YouTube video on the way to work be more enjoyable than dealing with daily traffic jams?

Don’t think about a loss of freedom or independence with carpooling. Think of it as a hugely energy efficient way to transport several people to their workplaces and back in a single trip. While the car might be paid for, the gasoline isn’t free. Sharing the cost of daily trips into work and back adds up fast. Why not add the savings to your account and get to retirement a year or more sooner, and all while keeping the environment less polluted?

You’ll still have the freedom of your vehicle to run errands after work or take trips on the weekend, plus it’ll put less wear and tear on the vehicle, so it should last longer too.

3. Shop at the local Farmer’s Markets.

A local farmer’s market has great tasting produce from farmers and other producers in the nearby and neighboring counties. It’s your opportunity to support the local community with money you’ll be spending anyway on food.

When buying food from local or regional producers, it cuts down on the cost of transportation and the needless moving of food across the country that is so commonplace.

Less investment in transportation means less pollution from transportation. You might not see it, but each cent you spend is an investment in an industry. It matters what you support, you literally feed those systems with your money, so you might as well feed systems that will not harm the environment. With reduced transit costs, local food is often cheaper too, and as we said, it’s certainly better for the environment.

When you compare this to big supermarket chains where they receive their food through a broad supply chain and heavy negotiation which often drives out small producers, this doesn’t help local businesses trying to do the right thing.

The energy usage is far higher, pollution to the environment greater and it lacks the feel good factor because of it too. Be wise about where you invest your money because everything you buy is a kind of investment in that industry. You give that industry energy, and what you give energy to, that thing grows.

4. Ride a Bicycle instead of driving a Car.

If you’re not already a car owner, then consider getting a bicycle to ride to work instead. Use peddle power and not gasoline.

It’ll be better for the environment and far less expensive too. With a bicycle, you can weave through traffic jams with ease and get to your destination faster.

There are more and more bicycle lanes nowadays, making it easier to get around urban areas too. You can use bicycles with just a phone app in some cities.

If you don’t own a set of two wheels and aren’t sure, consider using a mobile app to rent a bicycle for a free hour to try one out if it’s been a while. It’s possible that you already live in a bike friendly city too.

You can find bicycles every 100 meters and scan one with your phone, this will unlock your bicycle and you are free to drive it. It’s really cheap and you can leave the bicycle anywhere. You might find that you enjoy running on your own steam, and not having to worry about a place for parking or getting tickets too.

5. Be energy efficient at home.

Not only is getting solar a great idea, but working to use less electricity also makes sense too. Switching off the lights in rooms and areas of the home that aren’t being used in that moment feels a little odd initially, but it’s just energy smart.

It’s probably what your grandparents did when you were growing up and you’ve forgotten about it. Also, most people have already switched completely to eco friendly light bulbs. If you’re the last to hold out, it’s time to fix that.

Turning off PCs when not in use, or at the very least putting them into hibernation mode to reduce their power usage close to zero, avoids wasting up to one hundred dollars a year running a PC for no gain.

Similarly, if you own a tablet as well as a smartphone, power it down when it’s not being used rather than keeping it on all the time. The same goes for other devices where their standby modes are still using energy.

Managing the amount of energy that you use is great for the planet, but it also saves you money. Whatever energy currently consume in your daily life, it’s almost always possible to reduce it to something more reasonable.

Everything you do matters. You might think that your impact is small, or what your actions can really change, you are just one person. But when over 2 Billion people think this way than it makes a huge difference. So think that your actions make a change because they do, and they inspire others, and others inspire others. Start with yourself and do not wait for others, they will follow eventually.

Rant From The Heart For This Month: Take the three stairs

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Motivation

Dejan

November 27, 2019

Every single person has some kind of a goal. The goal might be vague or clearly defined but there it is, driving each of us towards something.

We create this map for ourselves, main goal we need to reach by first reaching smaller goals, smaller steps we need to take.

Some people get sucked into the everyday routine just mentally fantasizing about the steps they should take, others actually execute.

But nobody really understands the real power they have. It’s not about procrastinating or executing, it’s about shaping your map.

You have the power not just to execute on the things you need to do to get closer to your goals, but to elevate the map itself, to upgrade your goals.

You are the master of your life!

You have created some rules when you were young, you have taken on some outdated beliefs and you still play by the same.

You must remind yourself that you are not just the player, you are the one who decides what and how you are going to play.

So instead of following the same main goal you had years ago, instead of circling around it, create a bigger goal.

Upgrade your goals!

Make the main goal just a small step toward a bigger goal, toward something 100 times better and more satisfying than it.

Then your map will scale up, your steps will become bigger, and your time for reaching them will shrink significantly.

And all of this will bring you closer to them. We decide how fast we are going to reach our goals, but we try not to remind ourselves of this.

Reach your goals faster!

Make the limits of your imagination broader. The thing you dream about and thought you will chase most of your life, make it a simple step.

Make it a smaller step toward a much bigger goal. Reach this smaller goal faster, you don’t even know how much better dreams you can dream of.

When you reach your dreams, dream bigger dreams. In order to reach your goals, create 100 times bigger goals then them.

You should not complicate your life!

Why you should not live happy right now? Why you should not live the life you always dreamt of, and even a life 100 times better than that?

You decide what you deserve. So decide to upgrade your goals, your happiness, your dreams, yourself, and your whole life.

Remember, you decide how fast you will reach your goals. You can take one stair at a time like most, two stairs like few, or go for three because you can.

Take tree stairs at a time!

Stop procrastinating!

Make the journey toward your main goal simpler!

Upgrade your goals!

Dream bigger dreams!

You can do much better than what you think is your best!

How To Be Free: The 7 Steps To Achieving Complete Freedom In Life

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Dejan

November 24, 2019

Real freedom starts from within.

What is freedom? Have you ever asked yourself this? We talk about it with our family, in relationships, in politics, religion, work, in every aspect of our lives, but what is it?

I am going to tell you a secret now, we don’t really like this question. We don’t want to define what freedom is because as long as it is vague we can make it be anything.

The truth is, real freedom, complete freedom is fiction. It does not exist. Freedom is a concept created by humans, an idea that has a contradiction right at its core.

We created this concept because deep down we know that we cannot be fully free within a society. The limits of freedom for one person end at the beginning of someone else’s.

We need rules to create a functioning system. And that’s ok, everything in The Universe follows certain rules. But why do we, from all other species, obsess with freedom.

How to Be Free:

Humans obsess with freedom because we struggle with a dichotomy. We have this completely free soul within us but we are aware that we are not free in the outside.

We are gods of our own inner Universe but almost insignificant piles of atoms in The Outer Universe and we are aware of it. We must follow the laws of The Universe.

We do everything we can to manipulate the laws of The Universe in our own will but at the end of the day we must follow certain rules. And society has magnified this.

We have this free part, let’s call it the driver, but it must follow laws, rules of society, it is influenced by biology, by our emotions, by our perception, our subconsciousness, beliefs.

The irony is that we lack freedom because we have a part that is completely free. We are free to obey the laws. If we didn’t have this part, like other species we would just live.

We wouldn’t obsess with freedom, rules, laws, we would just live and obey unknowingly. But after all, we have small room for choice, and to be really free we need to expand it.

The 4 Pieces of Freedom:

In order to expand your room for choice and gain more freedom in life you need to work on each of the 4 pieces of freedom. Each of these aspects adds to the others.

The first piece of freedom is time. Mastering how you spend the limited 24 hours given to all of us makes all the difference. Rich people buy time from others so they’re more free.

The second piece of freedom is space. This one is obvious, having the freedom to move is probably its basic level. Think also about transport, citizenships and permits.

The third piece of freedom is society. It’s the status you hold among people, the connections you have, the value you give, the income you earn that allows you to do more.

The fourth piece of freedom is yourself. How much you let your subconscious make the choices, how much you react on emotions, ego, how much you’ve mastered yourself.

Discipline and Freedom:

The fourth piece of freedom is probably the most important one because that’s where you start from. That’s where you can immediately start working on to make a difference.

As I said, working on each of these pieces adds to the others. Working on yourself, mastering yourself and your emotions, rising above your ego, it will give you freedom over yourself.

And you can do that from anywhere and at any time. Freedom over yourself will give you a bigger room for choice and control over your time and how you use it.

Freedom over yourself and your time will give you more freedom within society and to shape the space around you. All of these results will compound, unless you lose freedom over yourself.

Then none of the other pieces of freedom will matter. There is one tool that helps us to master the freedom over ourselves and that’s discipline. All freedom, ironically, starts with self discipline.

The 7 Steps to Complete Freedom:

1. Start with controlling the food you eat.

It might sound strange, but everything starts with controlling the food you eat. Rising above your desire for taste is the first step to mastering yourself and achieving complete freedom. It’s the first test that determines whether you are worthy of your freedom.

There is an active battle of capturing our attention in society via marketing, especially when it comes to food. We don’t eat to feed our bodies or for nutrients, we eat for taste. And our taste is the strongest temptation we must learn to overcome.

Controlling the food you eat is about freeing yourself from outside manipulation, from inner drives, and letting yourself, the driver, to decide what your body really needs and what is healthy for you to consume. It’s a hard step but it’s necessary. It’s foundation of discipline.

2. Respond before you react.

The second test is about mastering your emotions and emotional drives. We all have triggers. When someone holds the line for longer than usual, when someone is slow on the road, when you come home and the apartment is messy, different things trigger us.

These triggers arouse emotions within us and these emotions execute certain behavior. However, between these emotions and our behavior we have a small room to pause and steer to a different response. Learning to expand this small space is everything.

This will give you freedom over your emotions, not to suppress them, but to choose the behavior they catalyze. In order to respond before you react you must achieve awareness, you must observe the emotion, see what it tells you and decide the appropriate response.

3. Push yourself past discomfort and resistance.

Most of us are so afraid of leaving our comfort zone that it has become our prison. Outside our comfort zone, obviously, is discomfort, it’s the unknown, the uncertainty. But it’s also our personal freedom, our potential, growth. This is the third test of freedom.

Learning how to push a little bit more than our comfortable limits is a necessity in order to grow and gain more freedom. We resist discomfort, but pushing past resistance means that you acquire freedom to go out of your comfort on will.

This means that, if you exercise you do one more set, or you work for 30 more minutes on your dream, or you tell how you feel even if it’s uncomfortable. Gaining this freedom over yourself will upgrade your life to a whole new level.

4. Face your shadows.

The fourth test of freedom is the last test, everything after it it’s just a step that manifests your personal freedom into the outside world. If you pass the fourth test, you have proven to yourself that you are worthy of your freedom.

It’s all about facing your shadow. We all have it, this part within our psyche that sabotages us. The one way to face your shadow is to do the thing that excites you but scares you the most. For example, you want to start your own business but you are terrified. Do that.

It’s not about the outcome. It’s about facing one of the greatest drives of humans, our fear, and reminding it that you are the driver. Doing what you want despite your greatest fear is the ultimate test. If your greatest fear can’t chain you, nothing can.

5. Take control over your time.

When you gain personal freedom you are free from ego drives, from false beliefs and fears. You are free to listen to your heart and use the time you are given for your soul’s greatest benefit, not to mindlessly follow the herd or to try to fill an inner void.

Taking control over your time simply means organizing your day in accordance to your main goals in life that are now inspired by love. However, for the sake of freedom, you should consider using your time to create systems that give you more freedom.

This means that you create certain habits that optimize your health and productivity. Invest time in building assets that will generate you income. Don’t neglect the things and people you love but expand around them. Invest time in things that really matter to you.

6. Shape your reality.

You are the master of your own reality. But in order to be able to shape it first you must gain personal freedom and learn how to invest your time. Your reality is determined by your environment, by the people you let be part of it, by the information you consume.

Your emotions shape your reality, or let’s say color it. Depending on the emotions you experience you will perceive different things. The emotions you feel are promoted by your inner and outer environment, by people you hang out with, the information you consume.

This means that choosing to hang out with high consciousness people, to live in a more positive environment, instead of negative TV to read books for self development, even listening to more uplifting music, will literally shape a more positive reality for you.

7. Transcend yourself.

The last step to gaining complete freedom over your life is to transcend yourself. To get out of your own selfish way and to focus on what the world needs, how you can serve others, make the world a better place for everything and everyone.

The thing is, this might sound like the most selfless thing. But in reality it’s not. This is something we all naturally really want to do. Our soul’s purpose is based on this because it knows the law, the more you give the more you receive.

That’s why we are happier when we make others happy rather than just ourselves. Real freedom comes from moving out of your own way and letting your soul drive. That’s when infinite possibilities appear. From choices based on unconditional love.

What You Can Do Right Now to Be Free:

Letting yourself be unchained and completely free without consequences is not actually real freedom. It’s an illusion, it’s not the freedom you really seek. It’s actually the opposite of that.

Most people dream about this state of carelessness and liberty where they can just let go and let themselves completely off the leash because they do not know how to master their freedom.

That unleashing is not freedom. It’s actually amputating the force that can give you freedom. It’s like a horse rider letting their horse run free. The rider, however, is left horseless.

You are the rider. The freedom you, and all of us are really seeking, is giving the rider more room for choice in the outer world, and that is achieved through discipline and the steps above.

One sure way to achieve complete freedom is to join our Freedom Mentoring Program. It’s a program designed to literally take you by the hand through the steps above and make sure you take action, execute and get results in just few weeks.

One thing you can do RIGHT NOW to be more free is to get on a free mentoring call with me. Schedule your call here but note that we might not call you because we are really careful with who we work with. We get hundreds of requests per day and I want to make sure I work only with people who are serious about upgrading their lives. So if you are someone who is serious, who will take action and execute on what I teach, than you are welcome to schedule your call with us. If the link is not working than it means there are no more free spots left. You are always welcome to try another time.

4 Tips for All Students Who Find It Hard to Get Motivated

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Dejan

November 22, 2019

They say that we learn up until our last day on this world. Life is series of lessons. But as a student, it can seem like your days are never ending.

From your first day of education right up until now, there is always something to study, to prepare for, when does it end?

It’s like you are in this spinning wheel and just as you think you have finished with your tasks more and more assignments show up.

Staying motivated to get the best results possible can be hard, especially as you progress in higher education and spend more time studying.

In case you’re having difficulties in this area, here are four tips for you and all students who find it hard to get motivated.

4 Tips for All Students Who Can’t Get Motivated:

1. Start with the main goal in mind.

What’s sometimes lacking from education is a clear reason for why a particular course of study is being taken. When there’s little focus on the why, the what loses its meaning.

You turn to external sources of motivation but external motivation fades away quickly, it’s not something you can lean onto. External motivation is much harder to maintain than internal motivation.

Internal motivation comes from knowing your Why. Knowing what you’re shooting for gives you clarity.

For instance, if you know that you wish to be an attorney because it’s a professional role that garners respect, pays well, or gets you some other requirement you are ultimately seeking, will give you clarity why you need to study, get good grades and take that diploma. It’s just a step toward your main goal.

Sometimes we lose sight of our main goal following the smaller steps required to get there. Remind yourself daily of your main goal.

2. Plan your fun time.

When you have downtime between study courses or semesters, plan what you’ll do to let loose and have some fun.

It’s important to release the stress and pressure felt from needing to get high grades. There’s no better way to do this than doing things that excite you, things that you enjoy and really love to do.

Just like with detailed planning for a vacation before taking the trip, planning some parts of your downtime is not the distraction you might think it is.

Actually, it will give you the motivation to keep studying hard because there’s something to look forward to in the near term, not in a few years when your studies are over.

You can even create rewards for yourself. For accomplishing a certain checkpoint, let’s say finish studying for the week, you get to do something amazing, something really fun. You will feel studying is a game where if you complete that level, you get that fun reward.

3. Surround yourself with serious students.

Not every student is on a path to success. Some students are irresponsible about their studies and only really start trying near the end.

Others perhaps aren’t blessed with a knack for rapid learning and know they must push hard every day through academia, and it shows.

Surround yourself with serious students. They’re not always the cool kids to hang out with but remember, you’re in education to learn and get the best grades that you’re personally capable of.

Hang with like minded students, share your ideas, converse about the topics you are studying, it will fertilize your mind to absorb the information you are studying much easily. Also their focus will rub off on you.

We are not talking to not be friends with others, nor that you should isolate yourself and only study, we are saying that having a study mastermind group helps in unbelievable ways. So, know when it’s time to study, and when it’s time to have fun, but behave friendly to everyone.

4. Follow the best motivators daily.

Motivation is like taking a shower. You do not do it only once, you do it whenever you feel the need to. So having a daily motivation routine is important for your emotional hygiene.

Daniel Wong, a great motivation expert and student helper, provides motivational thoughts, ideas on personal growth, and simple study tips to the many readers of his blog.

His ultimate study tips blog post features over 100 separate ideas for how to achieve more through academic studies to make the price of your education worth it.

He knows, and it’s a good reminder, that the final grades for the subjects being studied have a meaningful impact on the future.

Doing just 20 percent better can mean the difference between securing that dream job and coming up just short of the target.

Additional bonus tip to free your time.

You should aim to study smarter not harder. Find out the 20% that gives you 80% of your results and put your attention there.

There is always something you do, a way you are studying, a period of the day or a place that gives you most results. Forget everything else, do that.

Find your distractions and eliminate them. Make a list of the things you do that distract you from effectively studying, checking messages, social media, email, watching videos, memes, even planning to study, whatever it is, find them and eliminate them.

See what you can delegate and find ways to automatize the things that do not really require your attention.

Use the time you have freed to remind yourself of your main goal, to plan your fun time, hang out with serious students and to motivate yourself.

Use the above tips to set you back on the right path if you feel that you’ve lost your way. If you need personally customized 1on1 mentoring to help you stay motivated daily and do 30% better on your studies than schedule a free consultation call here so we can see how we can help you. Having a personal coach is the biggest shortcut for success in life. Play life smart.

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