Simon Sinek TED – Restoring the Human in Humanity

Simon O. Sinek through his 39 years become famous by his motivational speaking and his book Start with Why: How Great Leaders Inspire Everyone to Take Action” (2009). The thing he is most famous for is the theory of being able to motivate anyone only by following the golden ratio of the “Golden Circle”. The thing I have chosen his video for our “Weekly Topic – Introducing SEMP” is because he has some brilliant insights on What Does It Mean To Be A Human. This speech explains a lot of topics that I have written in the SEMP Introduction article. Watch the video, which is 7th most watched video on TED, and you’ll understand something more on being a human. It is focused more on the business world but if try and link his words with everyday life, if you manage to see the metaphor, you’ll understand the wisdom of his speech.

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What Does It Mean To Be A Human?

A human, what is a human? We are humans, but what are we? This question can be answered from many different points of view, but simply accepting one answer to be the real answer is not possible, it is but only for dumb people who look only straight.

If you open your mind to these different points of view, only than you’ll realize that the answer is in all of the answers, the answer is not just a quote, or some picture, or a melody, for each of us the answer has different representation but the same meaning.

What matters is not to know what the answer is but to understand its meaning, even if we are not capable of explaining. This is why I decided to show you the 3 best articles on the internet about this question, answered by a different perception.

For me The Answer Is In Being SEMP, to balance your Spiritual, Emotional, Mental, and Physical being. But, if I talk with biologist, he would answer me something different that is also true and if you look at the bigger picture maybe the same.

Psychologists would answer me something else, Christians, Muslims, Atheists, Musicians, Artists, Writers, Scientists, each of them would have different answers. Each person has a different answer, but its meaning is all the same if the answer makes you understand the truth.

The answer lies in all of the answers, so in order to get closer to the truth, open your mind to all the points of view and maybe some of the answers will make you see the bigger picture.

This first website “Life Coach View”, is created by a very wise woman who has a lot of information on Spiritual Guidance. She is doing everything she can to come closer to the truth and understanding and she is doing a pretty good job. In her article about Mind/Body awareness there is a lot of interesting examples about what does it mean to be a human. I think this Spiritual point of view may speak to a lot of people, so my first choice is this article. Check her website she has a lot of wonderful wisdom which is a lot similar like mine. That proves the fact that the universal truth is all the same only the answers are different. “Nothing is only physical, or nothing is only emotional, or mental, or spiritual. Our fears and beliefs are coded in our body

Life Coach View

 

The second point of view is a lot more from the Mental being “Eyes”. It has many quotes from scientists and other people who see the world from the neutral side. I think that exactly in these kind of quotes we can see that we are something more than just some biological form. A lot of scientific quotes have more Spiritual essence than most of the guru’s. Weird right? Well “Weird” being also the name of the website what I want to say is that scientists have bigger faith than most of the radical believers, even if they are not aware of it. What I mean by this is that the ones who think that to believe something you first have to see it, understand more than they know how important believing is. “A star-studded panel of scientists gathered to discuss those heady themes at the World Science Festival in New York City. Here are their answers in convenient nutshell form”

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The last point of view I have chosen comes from a Psychologist. His website “Psychology Today” has many useful and insightful info on human behavior and thinking. I think it would be really interesting to see psychologist’s thought on this subject. Their perception of human being comes from a place where Physical, Emotional, and Mental elements connect. I think this point of view connects the other 2 above, so this is why I have putted last. “Minimally to be human is to be one of “us”, but this begs the question of the class of creatures to which “us” refers”

Psychology Today.

To be a human is the rarest thing humans do. We ether forget our Spiritual side and become egoistic materialists, or we forget our Physical side and become extreme believers. Sometimes we become cold tools by neglecting our Emotional side, or become naively Depressed by neglecting our Mental side. Being a human needs all of these parts, being a human requires thinking logically and rationally and in the same time believing in something we cannot see, loving and caring and expressing emotions totally exposed to being hurt but in the same time being strong and physically ready to fight and survive.

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<To be a human means a lot of different things depending on the point of view that you observe the problem from, but when you look at the bigger picture all of the meanings have one same Truth, to be SEMP>

Introduction To SEMP

What you’ll read next is something new, well it is the truth and it exists since we all exist but nobody ever talked about it. It is called SEMP. What is this, what does SEMP mean?

Ok, so, SEMP means being perfectly balanced. The word comes from the first letters of Spiritual, Emotional, Mental, and Physical which are the 4 parts of every human being. If these 4 elements are at balance than your whole being would be perfectly healthy and you’ll become SEMP. In this article I will show you how important each of these elements is.

 

S – Spiritualspiritual

All of us, whoever you are and whatever you believe in, we all have souls. It is the energy that we almost start to understand but it still troubles many scientific minds. That is the brilliance of the soul, you cannot see it but it exists no matter if you believe it or not. It is the foundation of our beings and it dictates the Universal truth.

How is our soul the foundation of our being? Let me explain, our souls give us the code and mission of our existence. They dictate what do you stand for, what is your vision for life and what is your purpose. Let’s say that all of the most difficult questions that we think cannot be answered, hide their answers in our souls.

I don’t know where our souls come from, if I did you would have probably heard of me already, maybe on the news that I’ve been shot with a sniper raffle. But I know how powerful a soul is and that the answers we are looking for can be found in it.

Maybe they come from some higher plane that our logic denies, maybe the energy of the universe is what we call soul and it carries the information. Who knows for sure?

As it expands the imagination of many writers, artists, filmmakers.. the soul shows what is important to us, it gives meaning to things. Each soul is different because each of us grows it differently.

That is the second most interesting thing about the soul. Each soul is different and that’s why each person is different. The higher self improves through our soul and Our Soul Improves Through Our Higher Self, but sometimes our soul can be neglected to a level where it fades into nothingness.

Our souls hold the real meaning of the universe, it shows what is right and what is wrong, what really matters, which is usually something non-material.

As we clean ourselves from The Paradigm that society bombards itself with, from laws and political systems that are created to bring order, from fear and greed which create the “junk” that blocks our Soul’s Code, as we clean ourselves from all of this, it starts to tell us more answers and truth. Our foundations become stronger.

I’m not going to write about that clichĂ© topic that the world is fucked up and how the people are focused only on the material things because even a 6-year-old knows this. What I like to tell you is that if you focus a lot on the material, physical, than you are neglecting your soul and it becomes dirty.

Dirty soul won’t show you a lot of answers, so you get what I am trying to say right. No, you shouldn’t only focus on your Spiritual being also because you are neglecting the physical being then, you also live in the physical world, so what you’ll need to do is balance them.

Randy Pausch Lecture – Time Management

Randy Pausch is a legend when it comes to explaining complex staff. He was a professor for computer science and computer-human interaction. This man died at age of 47 but his inspirational teachings, thanks to youtube, will stay forever. In this video he is speaking about time management and How To Be More Efficient in life. When you watch the whole video, your time managing skills will improve and your subconscious will reprogram itself to be more efficient.

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Grab Time By The Arrows

Tick Tock Tick Tock Tick Tock…… The sound of infinity. The endless tempo of the universe which exists maybe even before everything. We cannot control it, we cannot change it, we desperately try to measure it and we always need more, like a drug that we are addicted to consume but in the end we are consumed by it. It is shapeless, colorless, invisible, but still we are addicted to that golden sand in the hourglass. Time.

All of us have exactly the same amount of time each day. Those 24 hours we work with as long as we are alive. Why are we so different then? Why do some have more than other? Why aren’t we all the same if we have exactly the same time in a day?

It is not about the amount, it is about what you do with it. Every day we dream and we live the reality when we wake up. The reality we have created for ourselves in the past. We sleep 8 hours for optimal health and in those 8 hours we dream. But, the important hours are the rest 16 that are remaining in the day. In those hours we try to get closer to our dreams. In those hours we create the reality in which we will wake up the next day.

For everyone’s best, I have decided to review the 3 best posts of the web that teach you how to manage your time. If you learned How to Be More Efficient and you want to know more about time management, forget everything you need to do and spend your time reading them. Your outcome will be priceless.

Time means stress for a lot of us, but it doesn’t have to be this way, well it does if you don’t know how to manage your time for your benefit. “Mayo Clinic” have written an amazing post on how to reduce stress and improve your productivity. They have created a list of 13 strategies that are going to help you improve your efficiency. “Choose one of these strategies, try it for two to four weeks and see if it helps”

Time means stress for a lot of us, but it doesn’t have to be this way, well it does if you don’t know how to manage your time for your benefit. “Mayo Clinic” have written an amazing post on how to reduce stress and improve your productivity. They have created a list of 13 strategies that are going to help you improve your efficiency. “Choose one of these strategies, try it for two to four weeks and see if it helps”

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You have 8 hours to dream and the other 16 hours are yours to come closer to your dreams. Every day you need to use those 16 hours to the fullest. Every day you need to work, learn, plan, eat, socialize and have fun in those 16 hours. Many of us use those 16 hours just to survive through the day. Try to use them to escape from hell not just to survive it. Use them to gain success, use them smart so you will be able to live your dreams and not just dream them. You need to learn some habits that will help you get the best from these 16 hours. Believe it or not, Benjamin Franklin knew some awesome habits that improve productivity. “Forbes” have written an amazing post that will teach you these habits. “You can improve your life by applying Benjamin Franklin’s method”

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 You must have a plan where you need to go, that is why we dream first and then we wake up. We forget that the day starts with us sleeping not with us waking up. You must have a dream to be able to chase a dream. Every day chase your dream for 16 hours and eventually, some day when you wake up, you will wake up in a reality shaped by your dream. But, if you don’t know your mistakes, you may never learn what are you doing wrong. Therefore, it is essential to know the 10 most common time management mistakes that “Mind tools” have written about. “One of the most effective ways of improving your productivity is to recognize and rectify time management mistakes”

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Time is like you perceive it is. Maybe we cannot change it, or make it longer, or spare it, but we can use it and invest it in something that will make the future worth living for. Or invest in something which will make something, that will make the future better. It is up to you and your plan to decide how to use the time that is given to you. Remember that every successful person in the world have used the same 16 hours.

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Time Plus 4 Smart Tricks Equals Efficiency

The riddle says: “What is the reason, what is the trick, is there a magic in being so quick? While some do little, some accomplish much, are there more hours on their watch?”

The answer is: “It isn’t a magic, there aren’t more hours, get your ass up and don’t be lazy.”

Without the structure of an idiotic song, the question, that I think you should know the answer to, is: How to be more efficient than others while we all share the same time in a day? My simple answer to the question would be: Time efficiency tricks! Here are the best 4 tricks that I want you to learn:

 

The Snooze Effecttime

One beautiful morning, while the sun rays gently touch your face through the window, the alarm of your ( clock, phone, some device from the future ) rings. Your bed is warm and comfortable, the only thing you want is just 5 more minutes to enjoy this magic of the morning. Therefore, you snooze your alarm.

After 5 minutes Your Alarm Rings again and your mind tells you that you must get up or you will be looking for a new job tomorrow. You get up thinking how nice would be if you had more time to enjoy your bed. You go to the bathroom to wash yourself.

Coming out you realize that you don’t have enough time so you put your clothes on and in a rush, you’re storming out of your home. You enter your car and you start driving to your work.

Some joker is driving slowly ahead of you and that’s driving you mad. You slowly start to build anger in yourself because you don’t want to be late at work, not when you sacrificed your precious time with your bed, not because of this joker. You speed up and you pass him but, the traffic light is red.

You wait, you wait, Your Anger Builds, you wait some more and just as you are about to turn green and smash the traffic light, it turns green. You arrive to work and you manage not to be late. Than it is time for the boss, your boss.

He arrives late. You haven’t drunk even your morning coffee when he starts giving you tasks that seem impossible even for Tom Cruise. He leaves and you are starting to love that comfortable, safe feeling in your bed even more.

Your built up anger turns into sadness. Your sadness kills your motivation. You have million tasks and your heart is million miles away. Probably the quality of your job would be as miserable as you feel.

After your work is over you go back home and you realize that you have been robbed because the door was left unlocked. Not the best day for you buddy, is it? It happened, shit happens, what can we do now right?

Let’s go back in time! Well not driving De Lorean while you generate 1.21 gigawatts with some nuclear reaction. Let’s hypothetically go back in time.

One beautiful morning while you lie comfortably in your warm bed, the alarm rings for you to get up. You turn off the alarm and you get up. You wash yourself and you put your clothes on. Calmly thinking on your possible outcomes, you lock the door and you start the car.

On the way to work you think the possible tasks you may have today and how to do them. You think of some ideas, not thinking on the slow idiot in front of you. As you arrive to the intersection, the traffic light turns green, the idiotic “turtle” turns left and you head on straight. You arrive at work on time, ready and calm.

You drink coffee and the boss arrives giving you some tasks you were expecting. Having some ideas on how to do the tasks you calmly drink your coffee and smile at your boss. Your boss leaves and you start doing some work.

The work you have accomplished is awesome, you have putted a lot of effort and heart. The boss sees this and awards you. The work time is over and you go back home happy and singing. The best thing is, that now the bed is all yours, except if you are sharing your bed with someone, in that case the bed is only half yours, don’t forget that.

What is the meaning of the story? What is wrong with the first case? What planet is Nicky Minaj from? For the last question I am not quite sure, maybe planet Bigass.

The meaning of the story is that something as little as not snoozing your alarm can give you happiness and efficiency. Why? Because snoozing your alarm opens a door to a world where you are fine just lying in your bed, doing nothing.

This, of course, is wrong, because when you eventually wake up you’ll realize that the world you are actually living in requires focus and effort to get the staff you really need. The feeling that you need nothing, just your bed, was only an illusion created because your mind was still asleep.

What is wrong with the first case is not that you were 5 minutes behind the second case, the wrong is the illusion that lingered in your mind keeping your heart and brain in that other, imaginary world where you only needed to lie in your bed to be happy.

With the illusion keeping your subconscious in the other world, and the fear of losing your job, rushing you and blocking your conscious here, you create a set of events that have bad outcome for you. This is what we call a bad day, it is nothing else but our way of thinking and acting that creates the bad day.

Weight Management 103 – How To Endure

When you have all the knowledge for the weight management, when you have all the information, all the recommended pieces and tools, there is still one thing that misses and if you don’t have that piece, nothing will work.

Imagine a car, you know how to drive, all the parts work and they are in their right place. You are heading into the direction you want to go, but there is not enough fuel in the car.

Despite all the things that are in their right place, despite all your knowledge, you won’t arrive to your desired destination. The third key to the basics of weight management is exactly that missing fuel, the “how to endure” guide.

 

The Prologue

Before you start with everything from the weight management program, you need to set your mind into the right frequency of thinking. This means that you need to realize what will be ahead of you.

First thing that you need to realize is that weight management is not something that you work for, it is something that you work with. It is not a destination it is a road that leads to better life.

Weight management is not a process it is the operating system. You are working with weight management and you will continue to work with it and create whatever you like and you are able.

Before you start you need to know that dedication and discipline are everything when it comes to weight management. They will help you to make this way of living a habit. Make sure you work on these 2 key components.

The last thing you should know before you start is why are you doing all of this. What are your goals? What is the thing you will work for? Put that thing on a paper, put it somewhere it will remind you every day and show you what you really want. That is your true goal and the big picture for your effort.

 

The Beginning

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Every beginning is hard. More of it is psychological, but it affects your mindset and will. How do we make sure we keep our will to keep on going?

It is not as simple as it may sound but all you need to do is change your thinking. Our thoughts are creators of our emotions, if we manage to control specific thoughts, then we’ll manage to control specific emotions.

Our feelings affect our lives more than we can imagine. If we create positive feelings, we perceive every situation from that point of view. If we create negative feelings than we see the world from that negative zone.

As we know every situation has both sides, good and bad. That is because, in nature, every situation doesn’t have a meaning until we, as conscious beings, give meaning. We, humans have both sides. We are both good and bad and our perception varies by what side we are leaning more to.

Here our emotions come to play. If we feel positive emotions, than we see through that good “glasses” in our mind and we feel like everything is alright. The same goes with negative emotions but now we see things through the bad “glasses”.

If we manage to control our thoughts, than we control our emotions. If we control our emotions than we control how we perceive the situations in our life. Therefore, we can try and think positive things about the beginning of our weight management.

The hardest part in the beginning is that “taking action” part. The things we do are still new to us and we have old habits that are hard to “kill”. What are we going to do to overcome this problem?

The problem usually appears just before we follow the steps. We always try to postpone or change what is necessary to do, with what will suite us more according to our old habits and laziness. What we need to do is to think of the future.

First thing you should do is to think on what you are going to get with this way of living. Think of your goals and dreams. Realize that if you continue with your old habits and lazy attitude, you’ll never get what you want. The only way is by following the steps you need to follow.

Sure, you’ll feel a lot better if you stay at home and watch some TV, or if you eat that greasy French-fries, but you will feel better only that moment, after that you will only regret your decision and feel bad about yourself.

You need to invest and sacrifice that short good feeling for much longer and better feeling that you’ll enjoy in the future. This kind of investment is the best investment you can make because you will certainly get more from it in the future.

If you manage to think like this and block all those negative thoughts that tell you to stop, than you’ll solve your problem with the beginning. After this, you will need to face the “Rising Action” part.

 

The Rising Action

This part is where you show how much you are going to change. It is something like speeding your car. You will raise your “speed” as much as you want to “drive” and as much as your “car” can.

The most important thing here is not to lose your balance. Most of us want to get us much as we can but we forget that we invest something in that process and that while we earn something we lose something else.

You need to know how “fast your car can drive” without getting out of control. Remember that you need fun as well. You need to live your regular life, to go to work, to go out, to eat cheat meals, but you also need to combine that with the weight management.

Balance is everything, but it is not easy. The hardest thing for a human is to say no to something he likes. If you are able to control your urges on some level, and act smart, than you will manage to balance your life.

There is a balancing technique and it is called “ANT ( Avoid Non-important Things ), you may find it useful for this problem. The technique is showing you how to choose what things to avoid and what things to enjoy. Its philosophy is based on ants.

Ants collect food all of the year so they can enjoy it and survive in winter when they are unable to get it. If you choose things smart, let’s say you workout all of the year, but you set a 20 day break each summer and winter so you can enjoy vacations without having guilt, than you haven’t lost anything you just postponed your “good time” in order to earn your body and muscles.

Despite investing smart, another problem that appears in this part is that “work for nothing” attitude. You give a lot of effort and you don’t get the results you deserve. Your will slowly drops and it may perish forever if you don’t change your attitude.

The biggest mistake you can make is to work for results. Work for the good “high” after the exercise or work for that peaceful rest at night, but don’t work for drastic results over night. Most of the results you’ll get won’t be able to be noticed by you. It is similar like when you are growing and only people who haven’t seen you in a while notice.

The changes are minimal day by day, maybe even microscopic. That is why you don’t stop, you keep on going until enough little changes combine to make one great, big change.

The best thing to work for is to make that work a habit. Work to stop feeling like you are working. That comes with time. Everything that you do continuously becomes a habit sooner or later.

Another thing you should do here is not to be afraid to push your limits. It is very important to keep the balance but that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t push a little more. Many of us don’t know how much they are able to accomplish because they haven’t tried to push their limits a little further.

Our limits are set by us and what we accept from other people’s experience. If someone cannot accomplish something that doesn’t mean that you won’t be able too. We would have still hunt with bones if we never pushed our limits further. Only you, that real you deep inside your head can tell you what you can do and what you cannot, no one else.

One of the greatest pleasures in life is when someone says you can’t do something to say “watch me” and prove them wrong. It is very sweet feeling and “growing food” for your character.

After you “raise enough speed” it is time to stabilize and reach the climax which you will “drive” with. This is the next part of the story.

 

The Climax

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Like every climax, this is the point where your work is highest and your outcome is also highest. This part should be the part you will work with from now on. This part is what you have been building till now.

The climax of your work should be also balanced with your everyday life so nothing is negatively affected. That way your outcome will be optimal. If you manage to create such climax, than you’ll be on the right way.

The trickiest thing in this part is to notice your climax, to notice when it’s enough and you should stop “speeding”.

This can be done by following your natural instinct and combine that with results from what is your body telling you. Whenever you start doing something extreme your body will find a way to tell you, you just need to listen.

Check your body and check your everyday tasks. Check what is the optimal pace you can keep and how much you can push until your everyday life gets affected. Find your optimum in all of these areas and decide what will be your climax.

The hardest thing in this part is the stabilizing process. Since you’ve been raising your effort a long time your body got the habit to do more and more. This is good but in a while you’ll start doing extremes and that is unhealthy and may conflict with your way of living.

There are two ways you can stabilize your “speed”. The first way is “hard brake” the second way is “release the pedal”.

The first way is quick and saves time but it is hard shock for your body and your routine. You need to notice where your climax is and if you are over it, you need to “drop your speed” suddenly to meet the climax. This can be done overnight but it will be harder to get use to.

The second way is longer but you’ll feel no drastic change, everything will go smoothly. All you need to do is decrease your work one step at a time. Every day decrease a small amount of effort until you reach your climax. This way the climax will be easier to become a habit.

The crucial thing that you’ll need to do after you start working with your climax is to keep “walking on that thin rope”. It is very easy to miss a step and fall of your climax. What you need to do is control your actions.

Make a list of parameters or simple rules which if you follow you will be sure that you are meeting your climax. Take notes of your work and compare them with your list. This should give you the answer for do you need to continue your work or should you change something.

After some time your climax will become your habit and it won’t be tough at all. You will know if you are “driving fast or slow” from your instincts. You won’t need lists and schedules any more. This can be done only by investing time and smart effort. Now we come to the “Epilogue”

 

The Epilogueweight-management-story

Weigh management, like any management, is a tool to fix something or create something better. It is not a destination you are heading, it is the road you are driving through.

Everything continues, every story has an epilogue, some of the stories tell us the epilogue, some don’t but all of them leave a place after the end where everything is left for your imagination.

This story has an epilogue, an epilogue which I will set the rules for, but it is up to you to modify it and ”write” it. You will need to follow your climax until you see no more results for more than 3 months, you notice that you can do more and it won’t affect you or your lifestyle, or if you cannot keep up any more.

When I am talking about the work you are doing, I am not talking only for the physical part, or only for the exercises, I am talking for everything you do that is included in the weight management. That means training, eating, sleeping, thinking, planning
 everything that the management requires.

The story is left for you. It is up to you to “write” what will you do after this text, how long will you do that, and how much will you get from it. I have taught you 101 – How to Workout, 102 – How to Diet, and 103 – How to Endure. It is up to you, your will and your discipline to tell the rest of the story.

You have officially “graduated” Weight Management.

Congrats!

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Weight Management 102 – How To Diet

Let me ask you a question, is it possible to weigh less than someone but be fatter than him?

Of course it is, in fact you would be surprised how fat some of the skinny people actually are. Why is this happening?

Well first I need to explain dieting to you and how it can be harmful for the weight management.

 

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Every person who suffers from having a couple of pounds more than he/she should, desires to lose them fast and without a lot of effort. This is where the dieting programs come to dig some money. A lot of dieting programs focus on 1 general fact, that to drop 1lb of body fat, you need to lose 3500 calories.

When we calculate this ratio, it shows that if we lose 500 calories per day, we would drop 1lb of body fat in just 1 week. You think “Whoa, it is easy and the facts speak the truth.” Wrong! Let me explain why this is wrong in so many levels.

We are all unique, we all have different height, weight, muscle mass, body structure, body fat… we cannot get generalized by the fact that we drop 1lb if we lose 3500 calories. For each of us is different because we are all different.

Other thing is that our body is not a programmed machine. It is a living organism which adapts to changes. If you start dieting like this, let’s say you start eating 500 calories less per day, your body will adapt over time and it will enter a fat storage state. Why is this?

It is because our body doesn’t recognize dieting, it only recognizes starvation. Its senses show that you are starving so, in order to survive, it slows down your normal functions as well as your metabolism so it can store fat which is energy.

This puts your body in a fat storage mode and your body adapts with your calorie intake. This means that in time you will stop losing that 1lb of body fat and you will reach a plateau, where you won’t lose weight anymore and you’ll double your body fat gain.

You will start to feel tired, you will sleep more, you’ll crave for sugars and all of this is because your body was adapted to a different amount of calories. You will lose weight like this, but you will gain more body fat in the process. That is why a lot of skinny people end up with high body fat.

Our bodies are smart, their most important objective is survival and they don’t care about how you look or dieting. They will adapt in any situation just to survive. You need to play smart when you are trying to manage your weight.

What you need to do is not to lower your calorie intake but to increase your calorie burn. This way you can keep on taking the same amount of calories but you will erase those extra ones without setting your body in starvation mode.

With this strategy you will also make your metabolism faster, you’ll lose fat and you will feel more energetic. Like this you will get results much slower but they will be far more healthy, real and long-term.

 

The Most Important Meal Of The Day

We all know that breakfast is the most important meal of the day, but why is that? Why is breakfast so important?

The main reason breakfast is so important it’s not because the recipes for breakfasts are so healthy, it’s because breakfast is not a meal it is a period of time, a beginning of the day where you can fill your body with energy and get ready to spend that energy on the right things.

Also, many studies have shown that eating healthy breakfast gives you a lot more energy than any other meal in the day. You will stay concentrated and focused longer, you’ll think clearly and your cholesterol levels will drop.

The secret in healthy breakfast is to mix carbs 45%, protein 30%, and fat 35% in the meal. This combination will give you the right amount of energy and protein boost to start the day. You will feel better because this is the perfect balance of carbs, protein, and fat in a breakfast meal.

Your calories should come mainly from the carbs, but for a balanced diet the proteins should give you 20% of the calories, the fat should bring 30% calories and the rest 50% of calories should come from the carbs.

My suggestion is to eat eggs. 1 egg contains 4g of protein, 3g comes from the white and the 1g comes from the yolk. The reason why I prefer eggs is because their protein is with highest quality.

Many researches show that people who have eaten egg protein have regulated their weight and muscle mass far better than people who have eaten the same amount but from some other type of protein.

Other different breakfast foods you should include are oatmeal, raisins, cereal, yogurt, peanut butter, bagels. Play with your food, experiment, try different recipes and never skip the breakfast meal.

 

Soldiers Of Healthdaily-foods

The human body is very complex structure unlike any other in the known universe. There are so many levels and points of view to consider when it comes to health. One thing applies to them all, the balance.

In order to be healthy we must keep the balance between all the essentials in our body from our protein intake to our vitamins, minerals etc. Imagine Christmas tree lights. If one of the lights is broken, every other that comes next doesn’t work. You may ask yourself, why does this psycho talk about Christmas lights?

I am not a psycho, well, maybe a little bit… but, my good people, I will gladly explain to you. Our body essentials are similar to the Christmas lights. If we are poor on some vitamin, or any other necessity of our body, we will start losing a lot of other “lights” that are connected to it.

In order to keep our “Christmas lights” working we need to make sure every “light” works properly, or in other words, if we want to be healthy we need to make sure we have all of the necessities that our body needs. We need to keep them in balance.

These are the necessities of our body:

Proteins

These “workers” repair our muscles and other body tissues, they are essential in our body development. They are like healthy food for our muscles and they also help our body make enzymes and hormones.

Fats

Let’s say that fats are something like cushions for the organs. Another job for these underrated helpers is that they are one type of fuel for our body and like any fuel, they provide energy. Also, they help your body absorb the fat soluble vitamins.

Carbohydrates

The main source of our energy. The “coal for our train”, the “kerosene for our plane”, the “drug for our rock-star”… you get what I am trying to say. This “little buddies” also ensure that our kidneys, muscles, brain and nervous system function properly. There is a specific type of carbs called fiber and it helps your digestive system by providing bowel movements.

Minerals

They are the building blocks of every cell in our body. Almost every function in our body requires minerals, the creation of amino acids, proteins, the function of many vitamins, the formation of enzymes, blood and bones, the creation and maintenance of the nerve system. They are also the conductor and carriers of electricity and magnetism for our body.

Vitamins

The “amines of life” are the alpha and omega of health. If some of the vitamins are missing from your body, serious consequences appear. We need our vitamins for the proper function of our body. They play very important roles in many chemical processes in our body.

Water

You know that almost 70% of our bodies are made from water so you get the idea how important it is for our health. It’s the transport of our nutrients, hormones, waste products, the temperature regulator, the balance control of many concentrations in cells. No water for more than 3 days and say “bye bye”.

Roughage

The best friend of your digestive system is found in many fruits and vegetables. It helps with bowel movement, prevents constipation, colon cancer, improves the efficiency of the digestive system and it’s the main reason why you need to go to the bathroom so much after consuming it.

If we want to be healthy we need to include all of these necessities in our diet. The perfect balance is to drink 8 to 12 glasses of water every day, consume the daily vitamin and mineral dosage, eat healthy organic food, beans, fruits, vegetables, and next I am going to show you how to calculate your protein/fat/carbs dosage.

 

Healthy Mathematics

These are the rules, for every hour 1.3 calories are required for 1 kg, or for 1 day, 32 calories per kg. For a 60kg human, 1920 calories are required to maintain his health. This is the Basic Energy Requirements ( BER ).

If the person works out than, for each hours training he/she requires an additional 8.5 Calories for each Kg of body weight. 2 hour workout for 60kg person would require, 17 x 60 = 1020 additional calories. This is the Extra Energy Requirements ( EER ).

So for a 60kg person who trains 2 hours per day, 1920 + 1020 = 2940 total calories would be required so his body would function properly.

Perfect diet is contained of 20% protein, 30% fat, and 50% carbs. If we take the fact that 1g protein holds 4 calories, 1g fat holds 9 calories, and 1g carb holds 4 calories than we can calculate how much of the “3 amigos” we require in our daily diet.

Let’s see how much protein/fat/carbs are required for the 60kg buddy. We will need to calculate these separately:

Protein – 20% of 2940 is 588 calories from protein. 588/4 = 147 grams of protein per day.

Fat – 30% of 2940 is 882 calories from fat. 882/9 = 98 grams of fat per day.

Carbs – 50% of 2940 is 1470 calories from carbs. 1470/4 = 367.5 grams of carbs per day.

This is the main calculation for 20 to 50 year olds with regular health. It is not that complicated as it sounds, everyone can calculate his own requirements and create his own diet. You just need to stay close to this health guide and use your creativity. Another benefit is that you can customize the diet according to you financial capabilities.

 

Dessert For The Endhealthy-foods

When it comes to healthy living you need to play smart. Don’t get fooled by the diet propaganda which are made only to rob you. Learn how everything works and customize it yourself.

If you are too lazy to do that, maybe I can help. You can contact me and tell me what is your plan and your body statistics, your weight, height, age, health, body fat. I will create a sample program customized only for you. Let this be my award for you because you read this whole text.

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Remember, everything is in the balance. If you master the balance you will master the happiness of your life. As the brilliant mind of Walter Bishop have said,

“Nature doesn’t recognize good or bad, nature recognizes only balance and imbalance.”

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