The First Detail That You See On This Image Reveals Unconscious Secrets of Your Personality

Psychology

November 18, 2017

The First Detail That You See On This Image Reveals Unconscious Secrets of Your Personality

We all look at the world through different eyes. Hence, we all live in a different reality.

The way you see things is much more than just the mold that creates your reality. It reveals key secrets about you that hide inside your unconscious mind.

This test is just one of many that reveal what the things that catch your attention the quickest tell about you.

However, I love this test because it’s not complicated. It separates the world into 3 basic categories and each of us belongs to one of them. These categories reveal how you approach your existence and what’s your strategy for self realization.

Why is this important? Because EVERYTHING we do in life boils down to one of these 3 categories!

This image is the perfect image for this psychology test because it gives the right subliminal message about life and living. Your focus and perception tell the rest of the story:

Look at This Image! What’s The First Detail That You See On This Image?

Do not think about it, just go with your intuition!

1. Face

Just like the face on this image, you build your character like a puzzle.

You don’t look for yourself, but rather, you try to create yourself. You want to show yourself to the world.

You try to excel at different areas and put them together like pieces of a puzzle to construct the ideal image of yourself.

You collect various different Character Pieces that you put together to create this image.

These pieces can be actual (outer): clothes, looks, accessories, property, social circles, friends, even partners that paint the image that you want to project;

or abstract (inner): accomplishments, experiences, values, mastered talents and memories you use as tiles to construct the character you identify yourself to be;

But you might try to build your image to perfection and this can be counterproductive as perfection is an illusion.

Your approach for self actualization is outward. You start from your essence and you materialize it into an image through various different elements.

You want the world to see the real truth of who you are.

There’s nothing wrong in the approach you take, but make sure your main purpose is not chasing approval from others.

2. Brain/Tree

Just like the tree on this image, you desire to consistently grow your knowledge.

You are really curious. You try to learn and understand as much as possible of the world. Everything you do is because you are looking for knowledge.

You love learning about new things and explore different topics. It’s most likely that you are a fan of supernatural phenomena, conspiracy theories and mysteries.

Others would describe you as someone who is knowledgeable in many different areas.

You easily understand psychology and psychological concepts. If you were born a couple of thousand years in the past, you would have been a philosopher, without a doubt.

But every single piece of information that you take is intended for a bigger purpose. The bigger purpose of everything you are trying to understand is to find the cosmic truth.

The information you collect is put together and closely examined, like detectives do on a pin board, in order to link things together, find the answers and solve the mystery.

Your approach for self actualization is inward. You start from the outside world and you absorb as much information as you can so you can come closer to the truth and find the answers you are looking for.

You could not care less of how others perceive you, all you want is to find out who you really are and what you are doing here. That’s your greatest mystery.

There’s nothing wrong in the approach you take, just be careful not to lose yourself in the process. You are not the answers that you find, you are the one who asks the questions.

3. Birds and Nature

Just like the birds on this image, you do not feel like a part of the game society tries to play, or let’s say the image society tries to paint.

You do not try to create yourself, nor find yourself. You just want to be free to be yourself and experience the world.

You do not feel like you fit where you are at the moment. You would rather travel and explore the majestic world.

You do not like to stay at one place for too long. The understanding that everything is momentary just amplifies your anxiety and desire to try different things.

You do not take things very seriously. You love to party, have fun and just be crazy from time to time.

You love being surrounded by nature. Your heart fills up on the sole thought of exploring new exotic places around the world.

You value experience over any knowledge. You absorb information and materialize different elements, but nothing stays for too long. It’s there until it serves the purpose of creating the experience and then you let go. You move on.

Your approach for self actualization is radiant. It’s a mix of inward and outward with emphasis of going forward. As you beam forward like a photon of light, unchained and dual in nature, you learn more about yourself and project more of yourself.

But your main purpose is to realize yourself and experience the world. You don’t really care about how others see you, or what’s the cosmic truth. You feel like a traveler on a vacation who is there just to explore and have fun.

There is nothing wrong with the approach you take, just make sure you do take proper care about your relationships. Even though nothing is permanent, the only time you will find substance in your purpose is when you build and take care of something that will not last forever.

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Eliminate These 12 Bad Habits to Grow Further In Your Spiritual Journey

Journey

Nezel Padayhag

November 18, 2017

Embarking on a spiritual journey is not as easy and shiny as it sounds. That’s why we need to make things as smooth and as easy for us as possible.

It means you have to let go of all the things that are not helpful to you in your spiritual quest.

Some of these things are the bad habits that you have been accustomed to. These habits become obstacles in your journey.

That’s why you need to eliminate them. If not, these bad habits will become an extra baggage on your journey that will just make things harder.

Besides, you could not transform yourself into something new while operating in the same old way. If you want to grow than you will have to update.

Here are the common bad habits we all get accustomed to in our life. Try to eliminate each of them.

You’ll see how your journey becomes smoother and easier without each of them.

Eliminate These 12 Bad Habits to Grow Further:

1. Having self-limiting beliefs.

Self-limiting beliefs include defining yourself in a certain way that you could no longer see any room for improvement.

If you see yourself as a mediocre person, you tend to act that way because you believe that is what you are.

That’s how you limit your possibilities as well as the divine spark of The Universe within you. Stop defining yourself. Open yourself to becoming.

2. Seeing your job as your life.

Just because you spend more time in your job than on the things that make you whole, it means your job is your life.

If this is the case, who would you be, if today or tomorrow or the next day you would lose your job?

Your job title has nothing to do with who you really are. You are more than your job. Once you see yourself that way, your life will have more meaning.

3. Having yourself as your own worst critic.

While it’s good to evaluate yourself and your actions from time to time, criticizing yourself for the things that you committed wrong is not healthy.

Be constructive in your criticisms with yourself. Stop when you sense you are judging yourself wrongly. Instead, focus on how you can improve yourself.

In fact, that’s what criticism is for, to point you where you should improve and what you should learn from, not to belittle you.

4. Feeling anxious all the time.

Anxiety is not only harmful to your body but to your spirituality as well. Too much anxiety is likely to lead to depression.

It’s okay to feel anxious when your work is about to be evaluated because this means it’s important to you. Make sure you have done all you can to give your best.

However, feeling anxious all the time is not good.

This will prevent you from seeing things as they are and will harm your spiritual connection.

Let anxiety go by accepting that some things are outside of your control. Focus your energy on the things that are. That’s all you can do anyway.

5. Listening to your ego.

Your ego is always there to feed itself. It wants to stay the same, defined and protected. It doesn’t care about your growth whatsoever.

If you allow your ego to have the final say, you will not grow.

One sign that you listen to your ego is when you take things personally and have other’s opinion of you penetrate in your mind and emotions.

Don’t push your ego away because it is not your enemy. Just acknowledge its presence but never listen to it.

Give your focus on things that can make you a better person. Listen to your soul instead.

Let others have their opinion. Besides, they have all the right in The Universe to have their opinion, it’s their opinion and not yours.

You focus on your own opinions and your personal growth.

6. Holding on to guilt feelings.

You are an imperfect person just like anyone else. You may have made a decision that hurt others or yourself badly.

It’s alright to feel bad for these things because it means you realize the mistake in those decisions. But this doesn’t mean you have to feel bad about yourself forever.

Feeling bad will lead to guilt. And feeling guilty doesn’t solve things.

The best thing you can do is make amendments. Ask for forgiveness. And learn from your mistakes so you won’t repeat them.

However, if some of these mistakes you do repeat, it does not mean that suddenly it’s ok to feel guilty even more.

The same applies here too: make amendments, ask for forgiveness, and make even more effort to learn. From there aim to be more wise and kind the next time.

7. Being comfortable with procrastination.

It’s okay to think things over once or twice before making a decision. But using your overthinking to procrastinate is not ok.

You will be hurting your productivity and missing important opportunities.

At times, it’s more helpful not to think things over, instead do it right away. Of course, only if those things are not extremely dangerous or really important for your life quality.

8. Surrounding yourself with the wrong company.

Be aware of who you surround yourself with.

As it has been said: “If you hang around five idiots, you will be the sixth. If you hang around five broke people, you will be the sixth. If you hang around five confident people, you will be the sixth. If you hang around five millionaires, you will be the sixth.”

Makes sense, doesn’t it?

9. Seeking validation from other people.

We all seek validation from others, especially when what we feel is quite uncommon. But when you seek validation from others to make you feel good about yourself, it’s no longer healthy.

Constantly seeking other’s approval is denying the greatness in you. It means you are giving others the right to tell your value instead of yourself.

Others have known you much less than you have known yourself. So no one has the right to validate you rather than you. You may not be the best, but you are the best at being you. Focus on yourself and your growth.

10. Dwelling on the past.

If the past still haunts you, it may mean there is something in the past that you need to go back and heal.

Healing is the only business you will ever have with your past.

Let go of regrets. Accept what took place. Learn the lessons. Heal yourself. Then move on.

11. Having too much attachment to things.

One lesson that can help you most in your spiritual journey is the art of letting go. Letting go is detaching yourself from the material and immaterial things that you have.

Learn to slowly detach from your possessions, your guilt, your ownership of people’s attention and time.

Realize that nothing is permanent and that material things, even many immaterial things, are temporary. Enjoy their presence, but do not attach too much.

However, another trap many people fall into is the attachment to detach. They try to detach and let go of as many things as they can not realizing that they are attached to the act of detaching.

Some things are worth holding on to, even though they are temporary in nature.

12. Failing to give value to time.

Time is our most precious asset on earth. Give your time more value by spending it on activities that make you grow, whatever they may be.

In spirituality, the most precious time is the Now. When you make your every Moment counts, you are well on your way to your spiritual journey.

Come to the present moment and realize that that’s the only moment that truly exists, the only moment when you truly exist. Stay present and in the now.

6 Ways to Shield Yourself From Low Vibration Energies Without Avoiding Anyone

Journey

Nezel Padayhag

November 17, 2017

Positive and negative energies are all around us. Being connected mentally and energetically with everything else, picking up some of these energies is guaranteed.

Interacting with others while swimming in this pool of entanglement it’s really hard to filter out only the energies that you find appealing.

However, this does not mean that you can’t do anything about negative energies.

Even though you should not try to block every tiny negative vibe, there are techniques that can help you shield yourself from negative extremes.

Problems arise when you pick up more negative energy than you can handle. This low vibration energy will have a devastating effect on your mental stability and physical well-being.

It will manifest in your mood as either feeling sad or depressed. But there is no need for you to stay away from people.

And sometimes these people who emit low vibration energies are close people, friends, family, and avoiding is not the right move when it comes to people you love, no matter what they emit.

However, you have the power to shield yourself from people’s low vibration energy while still interacting with them, possibly helping them. Here is how:

6 Ways to Shield Yourself From Low Vibration Energies

1. Closing your auric field.

Your aura is said to extend up to 6 feet. When your aura is expanded this far, it means you can easily pick up foreign energies.

In a room where people tend to get closer to you such as elevators or public utility vehicles, protect yourself by closing your auric field.

Do this by crossing your arms and legs. Or imagine your aura sticking around you.

2. Shortening your stay in a place.

Acquaint with your surroundings. Be aware of the people or strangers you will possibly meet.

By knowing your surroundings, you are able to prepare yourself to protect your aura. Once you feel that the place would not do you any good, shorten your stay in that place.

Choose properly the right words to use in your graceful exit. Remember, you are not avoiding, you are just shortening your time around negativity while still trying to help.

3. Not reacting to negativity.

When people express negativity, especially in heated debates or conflict, never allow yourself to be carried away.

Instead, maintain your calm and summon your positive thoughts. Always think of ways to find a solution and reach the aim of the conversation. Do not invest with your ego to determine who is right or wrong.

By staying calm and positive, you prevent yourself from being influenced by other’s low vibrations. If things escalate, either try to change a more positive topic, or remove yourself from the situation.

4. Practicing meditation.

Meditation strengthens your spirit as well as your aura. When you are spiritually strong, low vibration will have a hard time penetrating into you.

The inner peace and calmness that meditation brings, are your best shields against negative energies.

By practicing meditation, you are connecting to your higher source which wards off any negativity around.

5. Exercising regularly.

Exercising daily will keep your energy from being stagnant. This makes your body and mind alert. It improves your self confidence and self esteem.

When you are alert and confident, your energy is more fortified. You are more aware of what’s going on inside and outside of you. Hence, negativity couldn’t stick with you.

Besides, when you are physically and mentally healthy, your positivity quotient is at its high. This means your positivity is strong enough to not get easily affected by any negativity around.

6. Surrounding yourself with an energy shield.

With the power of your mind, create an imaginary shield all around you. Let this shield protect you from negativity and any low vibration energy.

Make this shield pervious so as to allow you to send energy but prevent outside energy to enter. See to it that this energy shield will last for hours.

When you protect yourself from this low vibration energies, you are not only taking care of yourself but that of your loved ones too. Because they are also able to pick up whatever energy you emanate.

Source: Conscious Reminder;

12 Most Common Signs Your Consciousness Raises to Higher Levels of Vibration

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Nezel Padayhag

November 16, 2017

A ‘Vibrational Shift’ occurs when your consciousness raises from lower to a higher vibration. This usually happens during a spiritual awakening.

With this shift, your core purpose becomes clear to you. You think clearly and your whole being seems elevated.

Having a higher vibration of consciousness means that your consciousness operates on a higher level.

You reason and understand more complex things at a much shorter time. You connect things and find patterns between them seeing how everything connects with everything else.

You see a bigger picture of reality and you are not burdened by small details of everyday life.

When your consciousness starts to raise you will sense a couple of changes in your personality and behavior.

12 Signs Your Consciousness Raises to Higher Levels of Vibration:

1. You are more in control of your emotions. You become highly positive and the negative emotions are less likely to affect you. You take full responsibility for your feelings.

2. You start to become open-minded and adopt a better perspective of living your life. Your curiosity gets high and you are more open to change.

3. You are more grateful for everything that you have in life whatever they may be. You see a decline in the amount of your wants, wishes, and desires, but you see an increase in the intensity and the meaning in the wants, wishes, and desires that remain.

4. You have increased empathic skills and are able to put yourself in the shoes of others. You become a more caring and loving person.

5. You become highly creative and want to approach things in a new and better way. You no longer stick to the old methods of doing things.

6. You have an increased self-awareness. You focus more on how you relate to others and you try to avoid hurting anyone.

7. You have become difficult to manipulate and no longer follow the rule of others. You do your own thing regardless of what others think of it.

8. You easily forgive others. You have come to distinguish between the sin from the sinner. Your energy becomes softer and lighter. You are less aggressive and dualistic.

9. You are more kind to others, even to animals and plants. Most especially, you are more kind to yourself. You understand that all life is sacred.

10. You are able to give without expecting something in return. It’s because you adhere to the workings of positive karma.

11. You meditate every day to connect with your Higher Self. Achieving stillness and clarity of mind is your top priority now. You find a peaceful place within yourself you can always return to and recharge. You realize that you are a multidimensional being with many layers waiting to be discovered and unfolded.

12. You shut yourself from people, situations or places that can give you a negative vibration. You are able to see and accept people as they are, but you do not hesitate to detach from negativity at your will.

The above-mentioned changes are just the common ones you are most likely to experience.

There are many other good things that could occur when your consciousness shifts to the higher levels of vibration.

Let us know about some of your experiences and changes that you’ve noticed for yourself on your journey.

References:
– https://www.consciousreminder.com/2017/11/15/7-signs-vibration-rise/;
– http://raiseyourvibration.com/10-signs-your-are-raising-your-vibration-and-ascending-your-consciousness-by-sabrina-reber/;

30 Traits Of Someone Who Is A Spiritual Healer

Spirituality

Nezel Padayhag

November 14, 2017

30 Traits Of Someone Who Is A Spiritual Healer

“A healer’s power stems not from any special ability, but from maintaining the courage and awareness to embody and express the universal healing power that every human being naturally possesses.” — E. Leventhal

Every one of us is called to a different life path. While we all have the capacity to call on our deepest healer inside, there are others who are more gifted in the healing practice.

They are the shamans in their own right. They are the people gifted in allowing the energy of the Spirit to flow through them easily. They have the power to manipulate these energies to guide, rejuvenate, and empower others. They are the spiritual healers.

One significant characteristic of a healer is having been wounded at one point in their life. For they have to experience healing themselves before they can pass it on to others.

If you have an inkling that you or someone you know is a spiritual healer, check the following characteristics any spiritual healer possesses.

If You Possess Any of These 30 Traits You are a Spiritual Healer:

1. They are extremely sensitive to energies around them.

2. They are an empath who feel other people’s emotions and physical symptoms as if it were their own.

3. They are intuitive and can read others quickly.

4. They have a broad view of things.

5. They were depressive at some point.

6. They have felt being an outcast most of their life.

7. They think differently from most people.

8. They easily get overwhelmed in public.

9. They were panicky and anxious in the past.

10. They are naturally born a peacemaker.

11. They are a trusted confidant.

12. They suffer from solar plexus chakra disorder like digestive issues, lower back pain, and weight gain.

13. They get drained when spending too much time with people.

14. They attract animals, children, and other sensitive beings.

15. They act as a dumping site for other people’s emotional baggage.

16. They think in grey shades instead of black and white.

17. They are much aware of the interconnectedness of life.

18. They believe in the synchronicities of life.

19. They are raised in a family which has a history of healers.

20. They have gone through a major trauma in life like near-death experience or life-threatening illness.

21. They are spiritually awakened.

22. They have been through some dark night experiences of the soul.

23. They are a right brain thinker.

24. They experienced energy blockages in the body in the form of chronic pain or autoimmune diseases.

25. They are hypersensitive to electromotive force or EMF.

26. They attract wounded souls or people who need fixing.

27. They are a compassionate listener.

28. They are drawn to help people experience balance and wholeness.

29. They can distinguish between energies and even alter the energy inside and outside of them.

30. They are mystics.

Source: Educate Inspire Change;

Here is What Your Ex Misses The Most From You Based On Your Zodiac Sign

Journey

Nezel Padayhag

November 13, 2017

Every person has an amazing personality, even those who appear to be mostly misunderstood. It’s because we each are given a uniqueness that only we can express in the most loving and authentic way.

This applies to any relationship. Even if the two of you agreed peacefully to part ways for good, there is still a quality of that person you can’t forget.

And this could work in both ways. There may also be some qualities in you that your ex misses, even though you both have moved on in your new life.

If you look back, these bitter-sweet memories could just make you smile and tell yourself those were the days. After all, you once opened your life to someone you once considered special.

Your Zodiac Sign gives you a special flavor to that uniqueness that you are. Each Zodiac Sign has a special set of personality traits that other people notice about you.

Here is what of these personality traits your ex misses most about you based on your Zodiac Sign:

What Your Ex Misses The Most From You Based On Your Zodiac Sign

Aries (March 21 – April 19)

Patience and meaning.

As an Aries, you bring fun and spark in the relationship. You are loyal to your partner and never quit too easily on someone you believe in.

When you are gone, the spark of your ex’s life seems to go with you. They are faced with boredom because they lost someone who makes them feel life is easy and worth it.

Losing you means losing someone who teaches them the value of patience and meaning. While winning is a lofty goal, your ex learn from you the value of enjoying the process.

And because they are with someone who has a different outlook on life, they will miss you greatly.

Taurus (April 20 – May 21)

Security and commitment.

Best known for the Bull’s stubbornness, you make your partner secure with you in the relationship. Issues are not that big enough to make you stop fighting for your partner.

When you leave, your ex will miss the security they once feel with you as well as your commitment to the relationship. They know that not everybody is as selfless as you in making the relationship strong.

They will miss the times you defended them and having your back on them.

Gemini (May 22 – June 21)

Fun and unique outlook on life.

Symbolizing the twins, your dual nature makes you open your partner’s eyes to the other aspect of things. You help them expand their perspective by letting them see the other side of the coin as well as considering the opinion of others without judgment.

When you are gone, they will miss your ability to see things differently. They find a dullness in viewing things from the same angle.

They will also miss the fun you bring in the relationship. Mostly, they will not forget the passion and vigor you have for life.

Cancer (June 22 – July 22)

Nurturance.

Being a nurturing and clingy crab, you make your partner feel nurtured and loved unconditionally. You have a way of making them open up to you in a natural way.

Once you go, your partner will miss your nurturing nature, especially the way you understand their feelings and pains. They will miss opening up to someone and accept their tough spots.

They will miss finding a home in someone in the midst of life’s hardships.

Leo (July 23 to August 22)

Importance and complacency.

As a Leo, you have the ability to make how important others are. You make your partner see the importance of their actions and words when they fail to see it.

When you leave, your ex will miss the faith you have in them. They will miss the someone who climbs mountains for them and appreciates them.

They will miss how complacent you make them feel and how strong they have become because of you.

Virgo (August 23 to September 22)

Organization and comfort.

As a partner, you have a knack for ordering things to give your partner a comfortable surrounding. You are kind and always seek to help your partner out.

When you are gone, your ex will greatly miss the times when you lift them up and bring out the best in them. They will miss how you made their life organized but comfortable to live with.

They will miss having you pat their back on after a bad day. They will miss having someone who always sees to it that their needs and wants are met.

Libra (September 23 to October 22)

Charm and wholeness.

Libras are the most gifted among the zodiacs. Having a charming personality and the best social skill, you make your partner feel whole and complete.

Once they lose you, your ex will miss the charm and wholesomeness you brought to the relationship. They will miss the logic you applied after every fight you had.

They will miss your balanced judgment and the way you gave value to who is right in an argument without giving way to anger and other emotions.

Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)

Fierce nature and passionate love.

Being born a Scorpio, your partner will never forget you for having a fierce nature at the same time being a deep and passionate lover.

Having these traits is an advantage in a relationship because you bring a value that can stand the test of time and any cruelty that life brings.

Losing you means losing a relationship that can be shattered by life’s challenges yet able to stand up again more swiftly and more passionately. This is what your ex misses greatly about you.

They will miss having to overcome obstacles as tough as with you had been, and then enjoy the deep passion they could find in a partner. They will certainly miss your fierce outlook and the way you make them feel delicate and loved.

Sagittarius (November 23 to December 21)

Spontaneity and freedom.

Sagittarius is spontaneous. You love doing new and exciting things. As a lover, you exude a positivity that makes your partner see the brighter side of life.

Letting you go is like losing the fun side of life. Without you, your ex discovers how dull other people can sometimes be. Though they may find other relationships, your ex will still find how you make things appear beautiful.

They will miss how you made them feel positive about life. Aside from that, they have a hard time forgetting the freedom they once felt when they were still with you. They miss feeling free while staying committed to you.

Capricorn (December 22 to January 20)

Power and hard work.

A Capricorn is known for success, hard work, and a bit unflawed. Many aspire to be coupled with you. Having you is like living on the upper side of life.

As a result, when they break with you, your ex will feel like going down to something lesser. They will miss having to set their goals and achieving them with you.

They will miss how you inspire them to work hard on their dreams. And they will miss the power you impart to them as well as how you helped them build themselves up.

Aquarius (January 21 – February 18)

Simplicity and calmness.

Being an Aquarius, you help your partner become the best version of themselves. You know how to express yourself genuinely and happily. These traits mark greatly to them.

When you go, your ex will miss your simplicity and purity. Your unparalleled straightforwardness is something they may never forget. Despite your temper, your ex could not forget your love and respect once you cooled down.

In fact, they will not forget how cool, calm and collected you are.

Pisces (February 19 to March 20)

Creativity and kindness.

As a Pisces, you have a deep love for art and good self-expression. You make your partner see life in rich and new colors. Through you, they see the greater beauty of life.

When you part ways with them, your ex will miss your way of telling stories in the most creative manner, your way of portraying the pleasures of life, and your effort of coaching them to pursue their goals and dreams.

Your kindness and strength are the traits they will find difficulty in finding with other partners.

Source: Conscious Reminder > http://www.relrules.com/this-is-what-your-ex-still-misses-about-you-based-on-your-zodiac-sign/;

7 Things People With High Emotional Intelligence Do Differently Than Others

Attitude

Nezel Padayhag

November 12, 2017

In the past decades, people with high intelligence quotient were admired. But as humanity evolves, highly emotionally intelligent beings are gradually recognized.

People with high emotional intelligence are great at understanding people and comprehending and feeling the emotions of others.

They can easily understand what others are going through, sometimes even better than others can understand themselves.

And the world really needs people with high emotional intelligence these days.

Luckily, these abilities are not inborn. They can be learned.

If you want to increase your emotional intelligence, you can emulate these traits of the highly emotionally intelligent beings.

7 Things People With High Emotional Intelligence Do Differently:

1. They live their life with purpose.

People with high emotional intelligence know that they are here on earth to add value to the world. They know they have to define their purpose and work towards fulfilling it.

Because they perceive much more emotional information, they know the emotional power living a purposeful life evokes.

In fact, they completely understand that following your purpose is one of the best directions to live your life and that awakens all of your emotional aspects.

Their life is designed by goals and ambitions that are helpful for humankind because they want to live in a world where people feel positive emotions.

2. They are comfortable in their own skin.

Highly emotionally intelligent people know their strengths and weaknesses. They glorify their strengths and fully embrace their weaknesses.

They know that by loving themselves for who they are, people will come to accept them in the same manner. Their overall knowledge of themselves is what makes them understand people as they are.

They see people the way they see themselves. This is what makes them respectful and less judgmental.

3. They are extremely empathic.

Because people with high emotional intelligence easily perceive subtle details and body language that reveals people’s emotions they are more understanding toward others.

It is easy for them to pick up what the people around them are going through.

They don’t stop with the feelings of empathy, they reach out to help. They also empathize with animals, nature and other life forms around them.

4. They are insatiably curious.

They want to learn many things, if not all things. Their curiosity never satisfies them.

They know that through learning, they are able to expand themselves and understand the world around them even more.

Questions never seem to stop coming out from them. They understand that being curious is part of their evolution.

5. They handle change with ease.

Change is the other side of comfort.

While most of us dread change, highly emotionally intelligent people brace themselves for change.

No matter how uncomfortable it may look, they embrace change because they know it’s the only way to grow.

There is no other way to make themselves better other than taking the leap to change.

6. They manage to live a harmonious life.

Finding balance in life is a challenging task for most of us. There are just so many things we have to attend to such as work, home, kids, community, our self and a couple other things.

It’s because each of these things demands a different set of emotions and mindsets, it’s easy to get driven by one emotion and get out from the balance of your lifestyle.

But highly emotionally intelligent people attain this life balance. They know how to set boundaries for each so that they can have more time for other important things.

They have time for others, and most importantly, find time for themselves in solitude and connection. They can attain their balance because they are highly aware of each emotion and the intensity behind it.

They know how to play with each emotion even before that emotion fully happens. They know when they should immerse and when they should take a step back to attain their balance.

7. They don’t desire things to be perfect.

Highly emotionally intelligent people know that perfection does not exist.

They know that seeing a person, situation or thing in a perfect state is limiting the potentiality of the person, situation or that thing for growth.

They know this because they’ve learned it from the emotions. Emotions are messy but somehow, in the midst of that messiness, they are as perfect as they can be.

If you try to micromanage an emotion, you will just ruin the purity and the essence of that emotion.

They are also aware that everything has its own flaws. What matters is to work for the evolution of each despite and through these flaws.

Most of all, they know that finding wholeness through the blemishes, failings, and weaknesses is the greatest achievement anyone can do in their life.

Source and Featured Image By: Conscious Reminder;

7 Steps to Purify Your Life by Eliminating Clutter In Your Home

Attitude

Nezel Padayhag

November 10, 2017

A cluttered surrounding usually creates a cluttered thinking. This is so true when you have accumulated things that you seldom use or even never use at all.

For example, you bought a piece of furniture because it’s on sale. But you don’t know where to place it in your home.

It only adds up to the clutter and even gets in your way.

Think of things you possess like obstacles for thought flow. Some things help you be more effective, while others are just that, obstacles on your way.

To eliminate clutter in your home means to get rid of the things that you no longer use and are blocking your thought flow.

Follow these steps to simplify your life and eliminate clutter in your head.

7 Steps to Purify Your Life by Eliminating Clutter:

1. Make a list of all your things.

TIP: Categorize them from the most important to the least important. The least important are those that you seldom or never use.

2. The most important are the things that you use every day or on special occasions.

3. Dispose of all the things that are not important or you no longer use.

4. From the list of your most important things, figure out if you will actually use all the things from that list.

5. Get rid of the lowest 20% of things that you are not likely to use from your list.

6. Arrange the remaining items in their proper places.

7. Have your unwanted items on sale. Or better yet give them away or donate to foundations.

7 Advantages of Living Minimalist Lifestyle:

Eliminating clutter in your home is the first step to a living a simple life or having a minimalist lifestyle.

Many people are living a minimalist lifestyle because simple living means more peace of mind. When you follow a minimalist lifestyle you will enjoy the following:

– You become a conscious shopper because when you are out to buy something, you are already aware to purchase only the things that have a real purpose to you.

– You start to live an economical lifestyle and save up only for things that have value.

– Your life is more effective and efficient. You don’t need a long time searching for something among your bunch of things.

– You have more space to move around because your things don’t require a lot of storage that occupies extra space.

– You are much happier in your own home. Having things you need will make you less guilty of spending your money on things that are not of much use.

– You find it easier to clean your home since you only have fewer things to move.

– You have more freedom and are not weighed down by things.

Source: Conscious Reminder;

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