4 Most Important Intuitive Warning Signs That You Always Need to Listen

Psychology

November 27, 2017

Your intuition is that part of you which offers proper guidance in your life unceasingly. It directs your soul to the right path that leads you to cosmic alignment.

You will come to hear this inner voice once you calm your mind and find stillness within.

It is not as easy as it seems, though. You need to give it some time and practice.

Above all, you need to be able to distinguish between your intuitive voice and the voice of your ego. Your ego voice seeks only to serve itself and can often lead to your downfall.

Intuition unlike the ego, is not aggressive nor demanding. It kindly and calmly speaks to you and guides you, most often through emotion.

But, when you see the following warning signs, it means your intuition is telling you to pay more attention to it.

4 Most Important Intuitive Warning Signs:

1. You are indecisive.

In making the right decisions, your intuition is always available to help you out.

Feeling indecisive means your intuition is sending you signals that your choices may not be the best for you.

There may be some things that you need to consider before making an important decision. It is best to wait some more and listen for more clues from your inner wisdom.

Give time for meditation to achieve clarity. And always remember, choose the decisions that feel right even if they sound a little irrational.

Your intuition doesn’t follow the rules of logic. It is connected to higher levels of intelligence that your logical mind cannot fully grasp and comprehend.

2. You seek approval from other people.

There is nothing wrong with seeking advice from other people if your purpose is to see some blind spots you would have missed in the decision-making process.

Seeking approval from others is only unhealthy when it is their validation you want to seek. Or, in some cases, you may be undermining the truth that you have already perceived.

Not hearing your intuition clearly is the most tempting time to listen to others. When you find yourself seeking out everyone’s opinion, take some time off and listen more to what your intuition is telling you.

After all, it is your life. People can only give advice but won’t be there to suffer with you should you face unwanted consequences resulting from your wrong choices.

3. You feel drained of energy.

When you surround yourself with the wrong company or put yourself in an unlikely place or situation, your intuition will come to your rescue.

Feeling energetically drained or depleted is one of your intuition’s tools of getting your attention and letting you know that the place or people are not really good for you.

Once you catch yourself in any of these situations, try to listen to your intuition by meditating.

If you agree that the place or those people are not really good for you, than just stop going there and hanging out with them.

You will feel recharged after you have removed yourself from the space or the company of people.

That’s your biggest sign that you’ve done the right thing for you.

4. You feel something is not right.

Having a general feeling of “offness” is your intuition’s most common and most serious warning sign. You feel that something is not quite right. You can’t explain it, but you feel it.

Ask your intuition for the next best steps to take. You also have to make sure that nothing is causing you to feel stressed and anxious because these emotions often get confused with this “offness” feeling of intuition.

But when you notice that the overall feeling of “offness” is accompanied by indecisiveness and feeling zapped, you must pay attention to your intuition.

Check with yourself by taking deep breaths or meditation. Once you calm your mind, you may hear clearly what your intuition tells you.

Always choose the decision that feels more light and more right in your heart.

Source: Rise Earth > Forever Conscious;

You Can Unleash Your Superhuman Powers With This Ancient Technique According to Scientists…

Journey

Nezel Padayhag

November 24, 2017

The ability to unleash our superhuman powers has always been in front of us. It does not require large sum of money nor lots of hours spent in meditation.

It comes from a source that is very much available to every living creature on this Earth.

Ancient Technique to Unleash Your Superhuman Powers

The sun is believed to have a power that heals diseases, provides energy, vanishes hunger, and even enhance the ability of people to develop telepathic abilities.

Ancient societies such as the Egyptians, Mayans, and Indians incorporated sun-gazing or looking directly into the sun as part of their religious practice.

Individuals who employ this technique are found out to be the most spiritually advanced.

How to do this technique correctly?

This technique is done by looking at the sun at sunrise or sunset while standing on the ground barefoot.

Sun-gazers begin by directly looking at the sun for 10 seconds, and as they do it daily, they add another 10 seconds in the practice.

Backed by science:

The famous scientist, Nikola Tesla, talked about this technique when he said:

“My idea is that the development of life must lead to forms of existence that will be possible without nourishment and which will not be shackled by consequent limitations. Why should a living being not be able to obtain all the energy it needs for the performance of its life functions from the environment, instead of through consumption of food, and transforming, by a complicated process, the energy of chemical combinations into life-sustaining energy?”

This technique of healing the mind and body was also popularized by Hira Ratan as well as tested by NASA.

Benefits Of Sun-gazing Technique:

1. By looking directly at the sun, the sunlight stimulates the pineal gland that boosts the secretion of serotonin and melatonin or the feel good hormones. These are the hormones responsible for increasing our energy levels.

2. Sun-gazing increases the size of our pineal gland, which is said to shrink as we age. But according to researchers, those who practice sun-gazing have bigger pineal gland.

3. Sun-gazing indirectly aids in a healthy way to lose weight. As the energy from the sun nourishes our minds and bodies, our desire and need to eat decreases.

This technique may have been slowly lost in time, but we are lucky to have uncovered it.

We have all the means to utilize it the way our ancestors did, stay healthy and unleash our hidden powers and potential.

Source: https://factsyoudidntknow.com/;

References:
– https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vdumLvrXfmo;
– http://solarhealing.com/;
– http://guardianlv.com/2013/05/nasa-confirms-super-human-abilities-gained/;
– https://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2009/01/08/feasting-on-sunshine.aspx;

These are The 9 Perfect Hobbies For All Empaths That Help Bring Emotional Balance!

Attitude

Nezel Padayhag

November 24, 2017

Our mind and body are capable of many things we often aren’t aware of. One secret way to unlock our hidden capacities is by experimenting with new things and trying new hobbies.

Don’t be limited by your initial thinking of: ‘No way, I couldn’t do that.’

Science provides the following hobbies as ones that not only help you cultivate your mind but might make you smarter as well.

And especially if you are an empath, these habits act as a perfect outlet for your overactive emotional being.

They can even be a powerful sublimator that transmutes your emotions into creative produces.

The 9 Perfect Hobbies For Empaths:

1. Playing musical instruments.

We often leave playing a musical instrument to music lovers. But don’t you know that doing this activity has a lot of advantages in it?

These advantages include improving your skills in language, analytical, math, motor, creativity, and many others.

In addition, playing musical instruments strengthens your corpus callosum – the thick band of nerves that integrates the hemispheres of the brain by creating new connections.

Once your corpus callosum is improved, you are capable of enhancing your memory, your problem-solving skills and executive skills improve, as well as the overall function of your brain.

What is more amazing, this could happen regardless of your age. So, it’s never too late to try your hands on that guitar or your kid’s drums.

If you are an empath this hobby is perfect for you, it will let you transmute your emotions into melody and songs.

2. Reading on a variety of topics.

Sure, there are some topics that interest you and some that don’t.

But reading on a variety of topics gives you more benefit as a result of acquiring new knowledge on things you previously didn’t give attention to.

Reading reduces stress. But most of all, it increases the three types of intelligence, namely:

– crystallized, your ability to use your learned knowledge and experience;

– fluid, your ability to solve new problems, use logic, and identify patterns;

– emotional, your ability to identify your own emotions and feelings as well as that of others. This is something every empath should focus on improving so they can better navigate through the intense emotions they feel daily.

3. Moving your body regularly.

While exercise is good for your body, it enhances your mental capacity too. For best results, a regular exercise is recommended, however, dancing classes can do wonders too.

When you exercise regularly, your cells would be flooded with BDNF (Brain-derived neurotrophic factor), a protein that aids in mental acuity, commonly observed in memory, learning, focus, concentration, and understanding.

Some scientists surmised that sitting for long periods can hinder your brain from working well.

It is best to move around and maybe do some stretching to keep that brain functioning optimally.

Emotions are energy that is moving and another way to deal with them is to flow with them.

So try to make a habit of moving your body daily whether it is an exercise, yoga, or dancing!

4. Learning a foreign language.

Improve your memory by learning a foreign language.

People who speak at least two languages are found to be better at solving puzzles than the one who speaks only one.

Learning a new language allows your brain to perform better at any mentally demanding tasks like planning and problem-solving.

Another benefit of being multilinguistic is that you can better self reflect by observing yourself, your thoughts and emotions as someone else.

Some people who speak multiple languages usually have a voice inside their head that speaks on another language and acts as a personal counselor. This is extremely helpful for empaths.

5. Working out your brain.

Challenge your brain using puzzles, riddles, board or card games and other activities that increase your brain’s neuroplasticity.

By giving this challenge to your brain, you allow it to reorganize itself and form new neural pathways and synapses. Neuroplasticity increases when nerve cells respond in new ways.

This increases your ability to see things from a different perspective and respond well to the cause and effect of behaviors and emotions.

By being aware of new patterns, you improve your cognitive abilities.

People with high neuroplasticity are found to be less anxious and depressed, all the while having a sharper mental capacity.

6. Writing.

Just like playing an instrument, writing is powerful outlet for emotions that you cannot reveal to anyone.

Writing can be done in many forms. You can write a journal, poetry, or create a story for a novel.

Whatever you do it’s important to let your thoughts flow freely without filtering them. First write, then edit.

When you write you get in touch with intimate parts of yourself, and no matter what you write, you reveal hidden parts of yourself that you were not aware of.

Keeping a journal for your emotions is especially recommended if you are an empath. You can stay in touch with what you felt and when you felt that so you can better understand the triggers and tides of your emotional self.

7. Practicing meditation.

Scientist Richard Davidson, conducted in 1992 a study on the Dalai Lama and other monks while in deep meditation to find out if it’s possible to generate specific brain waves on command.

Interestingly, when told to focus on compassion, it was found out that their brains waves showed them to be in a deeply compassionate state of mind.

The study implies that we have the ability to control our brain waves and feel a specific feeling that we want to feel.

In short, we can become what we want to become whether it be becoming more powerful or confident.

Meditation is proven to reduce anxiety, give mental clarity and improve the overall emotional health of an individual.

8. Gardening.

When you do gardening, you can select to grow the plants you want to eat and grow them organically. You have to learn the skills and knowledge needed in organic gardening.

However, the real benefit of gardening is the connection you establish with Nature and the environment around you.

You start to appreciate and see plants as living beings that you nurture and take care of.

The veggies and fruits they give you are produced by the mutual love between you and the plants you nurture. They might even taste better.

You will use these gifts of Nature without wasting any because you will feel a deeper connection with them than the ones you get from your local store.

Empaths find calmness and serenity when they are surrounded by Nature. If you are an empath gardening will be something that calms you down, heals your emotional being and gives you a sense of connection.

9. Cooking.

Whether you are a good cook or not, you can try cooking just for the fun of it.

In your self-care regimen, diet is one of the bigger priorities. When you change your diet and start eating foods that nurture your body your whole being improves.

When you are learning how to cook, you can choose to cook what you want to eat. Finding a new recipe not only delights your taste buds but will make you a fulfilled cook too.

You can make your own healthy meals and recipes as you advance with your cooking skills.

Cooking gives you a sense of fulfillment and emotional satisfaction as you subconsciously reassure yourself that you can feed yourself without any help. It improves your emotional health and reduces anxiety.

So, get moving and experiment. Apply the hobbies that resonate most with you to your life to become a smarter and happier version of YOU!

References:
– http://www.yourvibration.com/19053/7-hobbies/;
– http://www.makeuseof.com/tag/creative-hobbies-will-make-happier-person/;

4 Warning Signs That Clearly State Your Life Needs Healing!

Psychology

Nezel Padayhag

November 23, 2017

The wounds we get in our life are mostly emotional and spiritual.

Most of these wounds remain unhealed building our personality as a bi-product of their existence.

Woundedness is an unpleasant experience, yet a necessary ingredient in our learning process. But it’s in the process of healing when we grow.

If processed rightly, wounds will give us the wisdom of healing. But when the wounds are denied, healing is denied, and we remain stuck in a place where moving on is impossible.

All we do is compensate for the wounds through things that make us forget that they could possibly exist. But exactly those compensations enslave us to these wounds without giving us the opportunity to grow.

To know if you keep on denying yourself the healing you need, check the following signs that clearly state your life needs healing.

4 Warning Signs That State Your Life Needs Healing:

1. You are pessimistic.

All you see in your life are the negative circumstances that take place.

You feel you are meeting the wrong kinds of people, you’re engaging in wrong relationships or working in the wrong workplace.

We all went through some bouts of self-pity. But when you overdo it and see your future as bleak, it’s time to consider healing.

Filling your mind with negative thoughts prevents you from realizing your true purpose. Nothing good will come out from a negative mind.

Take care of yourself by taking the first steps, listen to yourself and do what feels good for your heart.

The first step of healing is to become aware of your wound and stop running away from it.

2. You overthink things.

When most of the thoughts that stay longer in your mind are the ones where you keep fighting people and figuring out how you should have responded in an argument, it clearly shows you are overthinking things.

Dwelling in the past is misusing your precious present moment. The past is better off to be set free.

When you learn to let go, you will be able to spend the present moment doing things that can make your life better. Ruminating about the past will only complicate things.

Since you overthink things, that’s a clear sign that there is something from your past that you’ve not dealt with. Or, it might be something from your future that you are scared of facing. It might even be something imaginary.

Whatever it is, it signals that something about that event is sucking your mental energy and it needs healing.

3. You find letting go an arduous task.

Letting go is surely not an easy move especially when the person, place or situation you have to let go of has been a part of your life for a longer time.

Letting go will seem emptying up a space in your heart. Finding something to fill that void seems impossible.

But if letting go is the only means to improve your life, you have to do it for the sake of making your life better.

And if you still cannot let go of the thing that’s clearly dragging you back, it means that you are scared of change and you need healing.

Maybe it’s a drastic change or something you are hardly attached to.

Whatever it is, respect your need for healing so you can loosen up the attachment string you need to let go of.

4. You feel the need to control things.

While it is a natural urge for us to want to make things happen the way we want them to, taking control of everything is impossible.

When you try to control the turn of events, you are only preparing yourself for a major disappointment.

What you have sole control over is only yourself and your life. If you find yourself trying to control things, look inside you for the part that needs healing.

Because the need to control outer things spurs from a lack of inner power and inner confidence. We tend to compensate with outer control for the lack of power we find within.

However, the only thing we can ever control is ourselves. That’s our real power. And that’s what you need healing with.

You need to take control of the one thing you can truly control and discover the source of your inner power along with your self esteem.

Taking care of yourself is a gift that you alone can give to yourself. When you open yourself up for healing, you are giving yourself the nourishment you really deserve.

Source: Conscious Reminder;

10 Unpleasant Signs That Tell You are Moving to The Right Path of Your Life

Journey

Nezel Padayhag

November 22, 2017

The thing is, we are all born walking on our right path. But as we grow and integrate into society, we start to listen to other people’s advices more than we listen our heart.

So we slowly drift away from our right path.

As we awaken we take the wheel back into our hands and we try to get back onto our right path.

But moving to the right path of your life is not as easy nor shiny as it might sound.

It means that you would have to go off road for a while and that’s where most people get these unpleasant signs.

It’s only in moving through these challenges that lessons are learned and enlightenment is achieved.

Here are some of the challenges you will have to face when you move toward your right path.

10 Unpleasant Signs That Tell You are Moving to The Right Path of Your Life:

– You feel that there is not enough time to do everything. It is because you slowly understand the importance of time and the importance of achieving your goals.

– You come to understand the psychology behind your past mistakes. Owning up one’s mistakes may be difficult but it’s the only way to grow.

– You are scared of making more mistakes. Realize that nobody is perfect and making mistakes is necessary to know what works best.

– You want to avoid toxic people even the ones who are close to you. This may seem hard on your part but it’s the most effective way to prevent yourself from getting drained.

– You want things to be perfect and you get discouraged at how things sometimes turn out. The fact that you are on the right path does not guarantee a smooth ride.

– You feel small and you see your purpose as insignificant in the grand scheme of life. If you become your true self your greatness will help others in ways you cannot connect right now but will seem perfect once you look back.

– You might have let go of many things including some goals and relationships. This is the part of the journey where you need to focus on improving your self and your life.

– You feel lost while understanding the bigger picture. Minimize paying attention to life’s smaller details to grasp things in a wider perspective.

– You have enormous ideas in mind that, at times, you don’t know where to begin. Take the simple and basic steps and allow your creativity to lead you.

– You feel that what you do isn’t important at all. Feeling that what you do is meaningless means you are more attuned to immediate gratification and you should think longterm picture to see the real meaning.

If you experience any of these signs, do not be confused or afraid. Keep following your heart!

10 Beliefs of The New Age Movement That Limit The Evolution of Human Consciousness

Spirituality

Nezel Padayhag

November 20, 2017

10 Beliefs of The New Age Movement That Limit The Evolution of Human Consciousness

As we raise our consciousness to higher levels of existence we learn things we haven’t learned before.

We come to see ourselves in the bigger scheme of things, especially our role in the grand design of the universe.

We are given the clarity of the things that caused us confusions in the past, we find answers and glimpses of the wonder that surrounds us all and we are all a part of. We realize new points of view, new wisdom and see different aspects of the Truth!

However, as most of this pieces are subjective and hard to define, there are a lot of half truths and concepts that can actually limit our potential.

These half truths create beliefs that limit the further evolution of our consciousness as humanity!

Check the following list of the 10 most harmful beliefs from the so called New Age Movement and how to depict them in their true light.

10 Beliefs of The New Age Movement That Limit The Evolution of Human Consciousness:

1. Avoid any negativity.

This notion states that focusing on the negativity will only make the matter worse. To avoid feeling uncomfortable, one should avoid any negativity.

Truth: Negativity is a means of knowing that something is not right and needs correction or improvement. When you totally avoid it, you totally disregard the possibility of cure as in any illnesses or serious diseases. Seeing negativity in its real form is bracing yourself against its harmful effects.

2. Avoid getting angry.

According to New Age, anger is an emotion to avoid and must be purged out of your system.

Truth: An anger that destroys you and others is one that is unchanneled and counter-productive. But the anger that motivates people to act is the one that creates positive change in the world. Anger protects boundaries and a small amount it’s crucial for a healthy mental state. You must be angry for the right reason. If not, you’ll remain unconscious.

3. Everything acts as One.

New age proclaims that Right and Wrong are dualistic in nature and are invalid. They say everything is okay because “we’re all one”.

Truth: As conscience means “to know together”, to have a “common sense”, it urges us to be objective in knowing the difference between “right” and “wrong”. Even though darkness and light are 2 sides of the same whole, acknowledging their differences is crucial in order to understand that whole.

4. It’s beyond perception.

According to New Age Solipsism, knowledge of anything outside the mind is unsure, that there is no objective reality and nothing can truly be known.

Truth: Perception is not a reality. It must be one’s objective to align the two. Getting away from this ideology is paving the path for human maturity and spiritual development.

5. Allow injustice as it comes.

This belief teaches not to take action in changing the things that are not right in this world. The New Age Movement has been applying this ideology through meditation and yoga. They teach people to accept their current condition.

Truth: Meditation is a tool for rebalancing the left and right brain hemisphere while yoga serves in helping us rebalance our bodies and our energy. These practices help us discover our true purpose and motivate us in doing it. But none of these practices is mainly for teaching inaction. Sometimes there are things that need action and can easily be fixed for the sake of our evolution.

6. A self-serving law of attraction.

The New Age alters the law of attraction into something that serves only the self.

Truth: The Law of Attraction is a natural law that follows a Universal system of cause and effect conditions. It is binding, immutable, and it serves to the truth rather than the self. Being co-creators, we observe harmony with Natural Law.

7. Turning the other cheek.

The New Age gives a false interpretation to unconditional forgiveness.

Truth: True forgiveness is forgiving others for their wrongdoings but not allowing them to do the ugly deed over and over again. It doesn’t mean you must do to them what they have done unto you. It means you stand for what is right and never tolerate their harmful actions.

8. Avoiding chaos out of fear.

The New Age Movement believes that in order to be safe and at peace, one must avoid stress and chaos by any means. They allow their Free Will to be limited by the avoidance of chaos and thus, all possibility is wiped out.

Truth: The exercise of true freedom will result in infinite possibility, whatever they may be, chaotic or not. The greatest ideas and inventions were created in midst of chaos and stress. Freedom means embracing chaos and stress, without fear.

9. Feeling good all the time is the common goal.

Rulers distract us from reality by making us believe to feel good all the time is the purpose of life. The New Age Movement preaches happiness because this is an “ideal” way of living.

Truth: There is more to life than just happiness. When you feel uncomfortable with the current condition of humanity, then you are aware and conscious. This discomfort is what motivates some members of the society to create the real change that everybody desires.

10. No need for defending the truth.

New Age believes in not confronting anyone because there isn’t a need for defending the truth.

Truth: The Truth operates through us. Those who live not in truth will face their own consequences. We can create a different reality by learning the truth, then developing and defending it in every way possible.

A Strong Person Has 5 Good Reasons For Not Doing Revenge!

Attitude

Nezel Padayhag

November 20, 2017

Some people have a tendency to hurt us no matter how much we try to be at peace with them. Whether they do it intentionally or not, getting back at them is quite tempting. It’s exactly the way we act in such situations that filters out the weak people from the strong ones.

The weak ones automatically plot their revenge because they act out of the surge of their emotions.

The strong people, on the other hand, think before they act. When they figure out that raising a finger to someone is not worth it, they act accordingly.

It’s not that a strong person allows for others to step on them or avoids revenge at any cost. They are just strong enough to not let a fragile ego make the decisions for them.

Strong people understand a deeper layer of revenge that weak people are blind to because they either don’t want to be aware of or are too driven by the fires of their wounds.

Strong people also realize that what they give to the world, they will receive back. Hence, they don’t want to add more negativity.

These are the 5 main reasons why strong people avoid to opt for the dirty trick of revenge.

5 Reasons Why Strong People Avoid Revenge:

1. A strong person is satisfied with letting Karma take care of it.

Karma is a law of the universe that no person can escape from. When a person hurts you, you know pretty well that the person will learn their lessons well because of Karma.

And strong people don’t even care whether the person suffers or not, as long as they learn the lesson. They don’t let their ego stay hurt until the score is settled, they heal their ego, forgive, but do not forget.

After some time they don’t even look at it personally, they are free from hate and live their life while the other person walks in circles until they learn their lesson.

Every action has a reaction. Therefore, the inner forces that make someone do something will lead them to learn the lesson.

If you try to do a revenge on someone you are driven by your own inner forces and wounds, and that’s the Karma you make for yourself.

A strong person transcends the need to do a revenge by healing themselves and learning. They spend their time on things that make them grow instead on wasting it to settle the imaginary score!

2. A strong person values clean conscience and inner peace more than settling the score.

When you allow Karma to take over, you focus more on how to make yourself better. It’s the most loving thing you can do for yourself. You are making your conscience clean.

As we have mentioned earlier, revenge is a dirty trick. When you take it into your own hands, you are making your hands dirty as well as your conscience.

Letting go of the hurt is also keeping the peace in your heart and mind. A peaceful mind is a strong and powerful person’s best weapon.

3. A strong person values their energy.

A strong person is a wise person. They know that a desire for revenge leads to holding grudges. Once you hold grudges, you are spending your energy on issues that are not worth fighting for.

You are aware that the right battle to fight is one where you can become better as a person. Your energy is best spent on these activities than on grudges or past injustices.

After all, taking too many battles is counterproductive and unhealthy. Strong people know that war is not something that measures your greatness, but the ability to grow without the need to go to war.

4. A strong person is aware of vengeful intentions but does not look at them with pride.

Even if someone will reason out that the person who has done injustice deserved to be punished, strong people know that revenge will still produce unwanted consequences on their part.

No one may know your vengeful intentions, still, you are aware them. And most people look at these intentions with pride because they reveal a wild part of themselves that society has suppressed.

But strong people are aware of this wild part in each of us, they don’t need to validate themselves or prove anything to anyone. They accept this wild part in themselves but they don’t let it control their actions.

You should take full responsibility of your actions and their consequences. The Karmic law forgives no one. But if you want to make the world a better and more civilized place, you start with yourself.

Thus, you hold on to your positive karma is more important than any idea of revenge.

5. A strong person follows a strong purpose that makes revenge insignificant.

Having a well-lived life makes the people who have wronged you be amazed at how incredibly you have managed your life. They might even envy you or regret not sharing it with you.

Showing how strong and positive you have become is making the other person ashamed of the injustice they have done unto you.

It shows them a better way, one that they can take if they remove their ego for just a moment to learn from you.

But most people who envy you will not do that because they are not as strong. Regret is a far more disquieting feeling than being cheated on or mistreated.

Strong people know that the same inner forces that drove other people to hurt are the same forces that keep them locked in their miserable realities.

However, they don’t even care. Strong people follow a strong purpose that makes others obsolete. Their purpose is much more important than spending time and energy on revenge for some insignificant everyday detail.

References:
– https://www.davidwolfe.com/strong-people-let-karma-take-care-of-it/;

Here is Why You Should Not Marry Before You Find The Person Who Feels Like Home…

Attitude

Nezel Padayhag

November 20, 2017

The modern media and society preach a love story to the world, a story where you have to find your other half in order to be whole.

The irony is, the more we adhere to this mindset, the more we feel we are not good enough. It takes emotional maturity to see that we are already whole and enough.

It’s with such mindset that you can find and see someone whose love goes beyond egoistic desires.

If you seek a relationship that is substantive, you will need to date someone who will not question your appearance or personality, someone who accepts and wants you for who you are at your core.

Find the person who allows you to be yourself without wishing you to change. Someone who loves the essence of your whole.

Yes, you don’t need others to be whole, but if you find the right person both of you become more than you could have ever been by yourself.

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.” ― C.G. Jung

If you don’t know how to find this person here is one BIG HINT: Look for the person who feels like home!

The One Who Feels Like Home Has The Following 7 Qualities:

1. They bring out the best in you.

This person sees you as you are. You don’t have to pretend to be somebody you are not when you are with them because they make you feel confident of your own self. They don’t set unreasonable expectations with you. And they accept you as you are.

2. They are understanding.

They understand that you are not always on your best self every single day. They are open to the reality that you also have your rough days. When you don’t want to do anything than crawl back into bed, they will crawl back into bed with you. In your tough days, they are there and they never leave you.

3. They are patient.

When you tell them you are not available because you want a little time with yourself to recharge, they understand and are willing to wait for you. They will give you the space to be just yourself. No matter how much they miss you, they adjust to their needs in favor of what makes you feel good.

4. They are not judgmental.

They see you as a unique person who has your own style and way of thinking. If you act differently than what is socially accepted, they won’t judge you as crazy. They even join you in your craziness.

5. They can be trusted.

They are someone whom you can trust even with your deepest secrets. They choose to be with you not because they can get something from you or out of the relationship, but because they find delight in being with you. They are ready to defend you and the relationship when necessary.

6. They see you as someone important.

They see you as someone special, someone who is the best in their eyes. When you are with them, you don’t feel like you are someone whom they want to be with only for that moment. They make you feel like you are the most important person they can’t have a future without.

7. They make you feel secure.

A home is where you feel comfortable, happy, and at peace. This is exactly how they make you feel. They give you a sense of security, unwavering love, and serene peacefulness. They have the ability to make you feel better after a bad day. In short, they make you feel at home.

Source: Conscious Reminder;

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