7 Ways How To Become Irresistible To Your Partner

You can be irresistible to your partner, in fact, you already are, you just have to remove what blocks your shine.

What makes us irresistible to someone is our unedited shine, our truth, the uniqueness that we let radiate outward freely.

If you ask any couple, they will say that this exact thing made them choose their partner. They’ll say it was something about their partner they can’t explain.

This something that makes someone irresistible is this shine you hold within yourself, your own unique light.

But we often let this light be suppressed within us because it’s too bright for someone who can’t deal with their own truth. Here is how to shine again in your relationship.

7 Ways To Be Irresistible To Your Partner:how-to-become-irresistible-to-your-partner

1. Learn to laugh from the heart.

When was the last time you laughed in front of someone else without censoring your expression of laughter? Probably in a while.

When we laugh from our heart we are showing one of the most beautiful expressions of ourselves.

Learning to express this side of yourself fully is probably one of the biggest things you can do to become more irresistible for your partner.

2. Be honest.

Honesty is one of the most beautiful phenomena in the world. It can penetrate through every fakery, through every illusion and facade.

By being honest you are being vulnerable, but by being vulnerable and being honest, you are showing an irresistible strength.

This divine strength that’s within vulnerability is a force of attraction and beauty that cannot be compared with anything else.

3. Look them directly in their eyes.

When you are speaking with someone, or when you are listening to someone speak, look them in their eyes. Look deep within them.

When you look into someone’s eyes you are seeing beyond their facade straight into their soul, and this is an act of courage.

This act gives them permission to be themselves, it tells them that you accept who they are fully and you are interested, and this bravery is irresistible.

4. Listen with intent to hear what they say.

Just like seeing with an intent to see a person, listen with an intent to hear their truth. Most of us listen with an intent to reply and we don’t really hear what anyone has to say.

When you listen to what someone is trying to say with an intent to hear, you will let them be closer to you. You will allow them to connect with you.

Getting someone’s full attention is what most people crave. That’s why we desperately try to be heard. But for a change, try to listen, and you will become irresistible for others.

5. Let yourself be silly as if you are a kid.

The world is serious enough as it is. The every day colorless lifestyle most people lead is depressing. Play is something that we have forgotten that even exists.

But play, for all that we know, could be the purpose of life. When you become childlike and silly for no reason, you are giving the other person permission to free themselves and play.

Being saved by another person from the colorless streams of society and being reconnected with your inner child is not just irresistible, it’s also highly addictive.

6. Make them feel secure and supported.

To be real, nobody really knows what is happening, nobody knows what’s really the right direction. Everyone is just speculating.

In this world of uncertainty, to give someone support and security is something that’s craved by everyone.

If you can make your partner feel secure around you and let them know that you give them unconditional support, they won’t be able to resist you.

7. Take care of your hygiene.

Everything that we said, if you implement it in your relationship, will make you irresistible. But if you reek of smell, than everything falls in water.

Personal hygiene is daily practice. It’s an act of self care, something to clean yourself from impurity, it has a spiritual symbolism and it can make you irresistible instantly.

When you are clean, well groomed and smell beautiful, you are a more irresistible person. Everyone wants to be around cleanliness and purity, it’s a godlike sensation.

Implementing these 7 tips will give you an exponential advancement.

The 7 Biggest Differences Between A Human Spirit And A Human Soul

The spirit and soul are part of the essential elements of the human being. But often times these terms are misunderstood used interchangeably.

Even if these two are both parts of who you are, they’re not one and the same. Knowing how they differ from each other is a great help in knowing more about yourself.

In his book, One Solitary Life: From The Unknown To The Known?, Anthony Fisichella tried to explain that the Spirit is like the electricity that lights up the bulb, which is the soul.

The spirit is The One source that lights up our souls. If this stretches your imagination, let’s just know the different characteristics of each to make an elaborate distinction.

Indeed, the ‘spirit’ of a warrior and a ‘soulful’ song sound much different, right? Here are the greatest differences between these 2

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The Spirit:

– It provides you the Consciousness of Self.

– It is an awareness that is always present in the Now.

– It is a vessel serving as your direct connection to the Source.

– It’s where your intuition connects.

– It’s where your life purpose stems from.

– It is one aspect, a projection of your soul, just like your body.

A lack of connection to the Spirit results to:

– Depression

– Disconnection

– Unworthiness

– Lack of purpose

The Soul:

– It is unique to each one.

– It contains all the memories of your lifetimes.

– It consists of your ancestral karma, perception, and experiences.

– It carries your potentialities, talents, and abilities.

– It is your blueprint in life.

– It is the book you’re writing across all The Universe, and which imprint you will leave.

– It’s heavily influenced by the ego mind but underneath is your greatest unfolding.

Mind Expanding Video With Jim Carrey And Alan Watts Explaining What Really Exists

“I love playing ego and insecurity combined.” ― Jim Carrey

Who are you? Really, think about this question before answering. Who are you? Who is the you that is reading this? Who is the person aware of the one reading this? Interesting.

Most people will answer with their name, that’s how they identify with. Others will imagine their physical appearance, and some will identify with their mind, with their thoughts.

For some people the identity lies in their emotions and for some in their pain. We all have an idea about who we are, an identity, but have you really tested the validity of this idea?

Are you your thoughts, or the one who is thinking the thoughts? are you your emotions, your pain, or the one feeling these things? Are you your body, or the one who uses it?

Are you the character that you play in life, the role you were given or created for yourself, or are you the actor, the one behind the role?

Who are you really? If you are neither your mind, body, heart, spirit, if you are not your ego, who are you? Well, you are all these things.

These things are different aspects of you, but the real you is undefined, it cannot be defined because it’s pure consciousness, it’s pure energy.

The limits we put on ourselves are there to help us define us, but we just create a role that we play, it’s not who we really are.

We are the infinite stillness from where consciousness arises, we are the eternal light within all energy, we are both, the dance of them both.

To get a clearer idea about what I am writing, here is a profound video with speeches from Jim Carrey and Alan Watts that will expand your mind about who you are.

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Eye Opening Video That Perfectly Depicts The Modern Sickness Of Society

“It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.” — Jiddu Krishnamurti

As technology progresses, humanity diminishes. As more connected we become, the lonelier we are.

This strange phenomena is due to the fact that the advancement of technology surpassed our advancement as humanity.

Everything we have created it was basically for a good cause, it was a tool to make us more connected, to give us more pleasure, godlike power.

But our capacity to handle such tools is limited by the inability to deal with our weaknesses.

So we use these tools to stitch our weaknesses as humans, but all we do is imprison ourselves with the tools that we have created to liberate us.

Whatever we do, it seems like there is no escape but to face our inner weaknesses. No matter the technology, no matter the advancement in science.

We will use everything as our prison and poison if we don’t face the core problem first, and that’s our own weaknesses.

We will always use technology to escape from ourselves if we do not face our inner wounds. We will always use science in a harmful way if we do not heal our inner wounds.

This profound video perfectly depicts what it feels like to be the only one who is not afraid to feel within a society.

It perfectly tells what it feels like to be lonely amongst people, to try to desperately make others open their eyes, but be ignored.

This society has a sickness, and this sickness is our personal inner woundedness that we try to escape.

Everything, well, most things we have produced are not because we loved to create them, or because we were inspired to create them.

The reason why most things were produced is because we desperately tried to invent ways to fill the unfillable hole within us.

Watch this video and decide for yourself whether there is sickness in this society or not. And if you think there is, start looking within yourself, try to find your own inner wound.

When you do find your inner wound, when you find your pain, do not judge it, embrace it, thank it, and let it go. That’s how you heal. That’s how we’ll heal our society.

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Wild Bear Sits Next To A Guy Like It’s His Old Best Friend

“Wild animals never kill for sport. Man is the only one to whom the torture and death of his fellow creatures is amusing in itself.” ― James Anthony Froude

We often times tend to say humans, or humanity, separating ourselves from animals. We use the term society to separate our manmade systems from the wilderness.

We say manmade to separate the things created by our human intelligence from the things that the intelligence of Nature has created.

But who are we really? Aren’t we descendant from animals? Isn’t our intelligence a piece of Nature’s intelligence? Weren’t we created by Nature ourselves?

If yes, than how can we separate ourselves from every other specie on this planet? If we are part of Nature than every animal is a part of this greater system of intelligence.

And when we think of ourselves, we think of ourselves as civilized, and when we think of wild animals we think of them as savages.

But the system of animals functions in harmony, while ours slowly rusts with hate, wars and corruption.

And we might not be as savage as hungry bear, but we are savage for the spirit. We are spiritual savages.

While animals hunt for food and survival, we hunt for pleasure, ego, hobby, boredom and business, we enslave animals for amusement and raise them, farm them to be killed.

I think we have misunderstood the definition for civilized. Objectively looking we are the savages, even though we are not as free as the animals we savage.

Here is a video of a wild bear that freely roams, approaches and sits besides a guy who takes pictures of the wilderness. It’s so peaceful and friendly, like it’s his old best friend.

This video just proves the fact that animals are not enmious by nature, they just can’t control the instinct for survival, and when they are hungry they attack.

But when they are not hungry, no animal will intentionally harm you if it doesn’t feel threatened. They are just like this bear.

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102 Year Old Dancer Sees Herself On Film For The First Time

“Unfortunately, the clock is ticking, the hours are going by. The past increases, the future recedes. Possibilities decreasing, regrets mounting.” ― Haruki Murakami

No matter what we do, no matter how much we want to control the river of time, time will pass. Change is one constant that, ironically, doesn’t change. Everything will pass.

And as time passes, as quicker it passes. What seemed to be an year of experience when you were young now is a decade.

But that’s not the point. As we said time will pass no matter what we do. It’s how much we fill time with love, dance and play that matters.

How much we do what we really love doing, how much of our truth we express, how much we say what we really feel deep inside. Those things give substance in our time.

But most of us spend their time being angry at others, hating someone, worrying for trivial things, things that do not matter.

Can you remember the thing you worried about, the thing you thought was really important one month ago? That’s exactly my point. Those things fade, they are illusions.

They do not give substance in your life. In fact, we cannot afford to hate each other, to hold grudges.

You go on with your routine day, having hundreds arguments inside your mind, angry at some people, holding grudges, worrying about other things. What the hell are you doing?

There are people around you that you love, people who care about you, things you want to do, movies you want to watch, songs you want to listen, places you want to visit.

And you think you have time to hold a grudge, to hate someone, to be angry and spend days in worry? You don’t have time to do all the things that you want to do already.

So wake up. Listen to what really matters to you, what will be remembered when you are old, what your heart wants you to do, and just start living.

Here is a video of 102 year old woman who was a dancer all her life. Everything she wanted to do since she was young was dancing.

She is seeing herself dancing for the first time on film. When she is asked how she feels after watching these videos she says something that is really important.

She says that she feels like getting up and doing all of that over again, even though she is 102 years old and can barely speak.

So just imagine how much power, meaning and energy doing what you love holds within, to want to do all of it again, not regretting a single thing.

There is power in the things that move your heart. And those things are the things that matter the most in the end.

Everything else fades, but those things are the substance of your life, they give meaning within time. But even they will fade.

So just live in the now, love, dance, play. Change might be the only constant, but the present moment is the only thing that ever exists.

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Jason Silva Rants About The Divinity Of Existence To A Baby And The Baby Looks Awe Struck

“Man is the universe becoming conscious of itself.” ― Greg Iles

Think about this. If everything in The Universe is made out of the same pool of energy than everything in The Universe is The Universe itself.

Just like every wave is a wave and the whole sea all at once, we all are an individual and The Universe as a whole, all at once.

But the interesting thing about this is the fact that we can be conscious of this grand phenomena. We can be aware about being conscious. A beautiful mystery.

Just thinking about this idea gives you a sense of wonder, thinking deep about these facts and you can’t help but be awe struck, surrendering to the beauty of this.

We are consciousness emerging from The Universe on a planet that is suspended on a sunbeam in the midst of an ever expanding space, and everything is connected.

Not just that we are consciousness, but we are consciousness with self awareness, an ability to be aware of all of this that you are reading here.

Now think about explaining the majesty of all this to a baby. One guy went on a rant about the beauty of holding the baby, the piece of The Universe, the conscious wetware.

But it was the baby’s reaction that captivated global attention. The baby looks as it understands every word and as it is awe struck by the speech, it’s hilarious!

Here is the hilariously heartwarming and awe inspiring video that Jason Silva made, being inspired while holding the baby in its hands.

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Burglary Suspect Breaks Out In Tears After Recognizing The Judge Being His Old Friend From Middle School

“The greatest healing therapy is friendship and love.” — Hubert H. Humphrey

There is a sickness in humanity. It’s a sickness that festers greed, fear, enmity and hate. It’s a sickness that gives neurotic inflammation and ego inflation.

This sickness comes from one simple misunderstanding that plagued the human consciousness for centuries, and that is the idea that we need to fill the hole within us.

This confusion has infiltrated into societies, into laws, into social structures and development of humanities, it’s integrated deep within our dynamics.

It festers corruption, hostility and erosion, it keeps us in a neurotic state, stressed and always in hurry, it imprisons our potential and turns each other against one another.

The structure of our humanity is built upon the foundations of this misbelief and that’s the root cause for our misery.

But the hole within us is not to be filled, it’s a hole to the infinite, and how can you fill the infinite. The hole within us should be a door where love comes from.

We are all just children deep within, lost and confused, doing what we know best to survive within this delusion we have created for ourselves.

And the structure pushes certain individuals to their limits until they surrender to the truth or succumb to their weakness and react in a bad way, in a way that’s harmful.

But even these individuals are just like you at their core, they are pure and childlike, only their egoic layers have hijacked their freedom and filthied their spirits.

The criminals we imprison are not inhuman, they are lost within the sickness of humanity, and only love can show them the way.

And when I say love I mean real love, pure love, honest, childlike, friendly love that penetrates through the falseness of societal structures, straight to their core.

Only this kind of love can remind them who they really are at their core, vulnerable children who seek love and connection with others.

That’s who we all are behind our masks. And this amazing video captured on camera proves my point.

A burglar who is brought in front of a judge starts weeping the moment he realizes that the judge is his old middle school friend.

Why does he break out in tears? Why does he look like any criminal, serious and kind of tough, until the moment he is reminded of his friend, the judge?

Because he is reminded of something else, he is reminded of a time when he was innocent, not just by law but in his own eyes, a time he was a child.

He is pulled out of the structures of law and society into the realm of pure friendship, where people don’t need to call each other maam and sir, but buddy.

He is reminded that behind the judge archetype there is a human being, a friend, someone who he played with.

But also the judge is reminded that behind the criminal archetype there is a human, a friend, an innocent kid who succumbed to his weakness.

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It’s not just in this case, there is a friend, an innocent child, deep within anyone. We should all strive to remind each other of who we really are. That’s how we can heal humanity.