Dr. Dolores Fazzino, Nurse Practitioner, Medical Intuitive, Energy Whisperer
What if healing is not limited to the physical body?
Quantum Healing opens the doorway to understanding how energy, consciousness, emotions, and frequency influence your health and well being in ways modern medicine is only beginning to explore.
In this episode of The Dr. Dolores Show, Dr. Dolores Fazzino dives into the unseen aspects of healing and the connection between energetic imprints, cellular memory, and spiritual awareness.
You’ll discover how unresolved experiences can manifest physically, why true healing often begins beyond the mind, and how aligning your energy can shift your reality from the inside out.
Dr. Dolores bridges her 45+ years in healthcare with intuitive insight to explore how Quantum Healing empowers you to participate in your healing journey consciously.
This conversation invites you to move beyond fear, limitation, and symptom management into a deeper understanding of what your body and soul may truly be communicating.
The Dr. Dolores Show: How to Heal Beyond The Physical
Healing, understood this way, becomes less about winning a fight and more about ending one.
Healing Is Remembering, Not Fixing
Healing isn’t about fixing what’s broken, it’s about remembering the wholeness that’s always been in you.
Healing begins the moment you become present.
What if healing begins in places we can’t yet measure?
Ask what this symptom might be protecting you from, rather than only asking how to make it stop.
The Iceberg Beneath Your Symptoms
Our physical body is the tip of the iceberg that we can see.
Everything else, our experiences, our emotions, our traumas, and our ancestral lineage, lives beneath the surface.
Quantum healing does not dismiss medicine, it expands our understanding of healing.
Quantum healing recognizes that we are emotional, energetic, spiritual, conscious beings.
Try speaking to your body the way you would speak to a frightened friend, with patience rather than frustration.
Your Body Is Not The Enemy
The body is where the story shows up, but it is not where the story started.
Your body is not your enemy, it has been your greatest ally all along.
Our cells do not simply store biology, they store experience.
The body remembers what once helped you survive.
Participation does not mean forcing an outcome, it means showing up consistently for the process itself.
Healing As Participation
Healing is not about forcing change, it is recognizing, I do not have to live there anymore.
Healing happens through participation.
Treatment is something we do, healing is something we participate in.
What are you no longer willing to carry?
Trust is rebuilt the same way it is with another person, through small consistent moments of listening rather than one grand gesture.
Learning To Trust Your Body Again
Your body is communicating with you, not betraying you.
Your cells respond to love, safety, and presence.
Every symptom is information, not punishment.
The more safety your body feels, the more it can finally let go.
If you’ve been trying to heal from the outside in, this conversation will help you understand what your body has been asking for all along…
A Simple Practice For Reconnecting With Your Body
Set aside two quiet minutes today and simply place a hand over your chest without trying to fix or analyze anything.
Ask your body one question, what do you need from me right now, and then wait for the answer instead of supplying one.
The answer may arrive as a feeling, a memory, or simply a sense of ease, and any of these counts.
Repeating this small practice daily rebuilds a trust between you and your body that most of us were never taught to have.
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What to Look for In This Episode of The Dr. Dolores Show:
Healing isn’t about fixing what’s broken, it’s about remembering the wholeness that’s always been in you. (03:24)
Healing begins the moment you become present. (03:50)
What if healing begins in places we can’t yet measure? (04:35)
Our physical body is the tip of the iceberg that we can see. Everything else that we can’t see is our experiences, our emotions, our traumas, our ancestral lineage. (07:01)
Quantum healing doesn’t dismiss medicine, it expands our understanding of healing. (09:53)
Quantum healing recognizes that we are emotional, energetic, spiritual, conscious beings. (11:17)
The body is where the story shows up but not where it started. (12:21)
Your body is not your enemy, it has been your greatest ally all along. (15:38)
Our cells don’t simply store biology, they store experience. (22:51)
The body remembers what once helped you to survive. (23:26)
Healing isn’t about forcing change, it’s recognizing “I don’t have to live there anymore”. (24:06)
Healing happens through participation. (26:27)
Treatment is something we do, healing is something we participate in. (27:41)
What are you no longer willing to carry? (30:27)
Your body is communicating with you, not betraying you. (49:24)
Your cells respond to love, safety, and presence. (49:40)
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Dr. Dolores Fazzino, Nurse Practitioner, Medical Intuitive, Energy Whisperer
What would it look like to fully lead your own life?
Self Leadership is the lived expression of Sovereign Self Mastery.
It means you no longer wait, hesitate, or defer your decisions to others.
In this episode, Dr. Dolores Fazzino explores how Self Leadership develops through consistent, aligned choices.
You’ll discover how to move out of indecision, trust your direction, and become the authority in your own life.
Dr. Dolores Fazzino blends her clinical background with intuitive guidance to help you embody leadership from within.
If you’re ready to step into Self Leadership and live your Sovereign Self Mastery every day, this episode will empower you to fully own your path.
The Dr. Dolores Show: How to Lead Yourself Every Day
Most people wait for a feeling of readiness that self leadership was never designed to require.
What Self Leadership Really Means
Self leadership is the leadership over your own energy, thoughts, emotions, reactions, and ultimately your life.
No one else is meant to lead your soul but you.
Self leadership is your ability to consistently choose yourself.
Self leadership is not perfection, it is presence.
A useful practice is to name the moment out loud, even just to yourself, the instant you notice it happening.
Noticing Where You Abandon Yourself
Where am I abandoning myself to keep others comfortable?
“I am responsible for the energy that I bring into every moment.” Dr. Dolores Fazzino
What stories am I carrying that no longer belong to me?
Instead of asking what do they think, ask what do I know?
Confidence built this way tends to hold up under pressure, because it was earned rather than borrowed.
Building Confidence One Commitment At A Time
You are building confidence as you are learning self leadership.
Commit to yourself, and keep your promises to yourself.
Sometimes you have to take that blind leap of faith and trust your intuition.
Every promise you keep to yourself becomes proof you can trust yourself again.
Notice the specific words you use with yourself today, the tone matters as much as the content.
The Daily Language Of Sovereign Self Mastery
Daily self leadership may sound like, I trust myself.
It may sound like, I choose peace.
It may sound like, I choose alignment.
I no longer let anyone else’s peace outrank the peace I deserve for myself.
You don’t need permission to trust yourself.
If you’ve been waiting for someone else to lead you, this conversation will help you become your own leader…
A Simple Self Leadership Practice For This Week
Pick one small commitment you have been putting off, something so small it feels almost silly to track.
Keep it for seven days and notice how you feel on day one versus day seven.
Self leadership is built in these small, repeated moments, not in one dramatic decision.
At the end of the week, ask yourself what changed in how you speak to yourself, not just in what you accomplished.
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What to Look for In This Episode of The Dr. Dolores Show:
Self leadership is the leadership over your own energy, thoughts, emotions, reactions, and ultimately your life. (02:16)
No one else is meant to lead your soul but you. (02:26)
Where am I abandoning myself to keep others comfortable? (03:34)
Self leadership is your ability to consistently choose yourself. (04:24)
Self leadership is not perfection, it is presence. (07:47)
“I am responsible for the energy that I bring into every moment.” Dr. Dolores Fazzino (09:32)
What stories am I carrying that no longer belong to me? (13:46)
Instead of “what do they think”, say “what do I know?” (20:00)
You are building confidence as you are learning self leadership. (20:49)
Commit to yourself, keep your promises to yourself. (22:02)
Sometimes we have to take that blind leap of faith and trust our intuition. (23:30)
Daily self leadership may sound like “I trust myself”, “I choose peace”, “I choose alignment”. (26:48)
I no longer let anyone else’s peace outrank the peace I deserve for myself. (35:38)
You don’t need permission to trust yourself. (51:11)
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Increasingly sophisticated words. Contextually appropriate, emotionally calibrated, persuasively structured words, faster than any human being can compose them.
So the question has changed.
If anyone can generate the words, what remains uniquely human in communication?
Not the output. Not the language itself.
The space around it.
Presence Matters More Than Communication in the Age of AI
When Words Become Easier to Produce
For most of human history, the ability to communicate clearly, to write well, to speak persuasively, and to construct a logical argument was a differentiating skill.
That is no longer true in the same way.
What AI has done is not simply automate tasks. It has made generating language easier than ever.
And when words become easier to produce, something else becomes more visible.
When everyone can generate a compelling email, a polished presentation, or a perfectly structured response, the person behind the language becomes more visible, not less.
The question audiences are now asking, often without realizing it, is not What are you saying?
It is Who is saying it, and are they really here?
This is the question that presence answers.
And presence, unlike language, cannot be produced on demand.
Perhaps We’ve Been Defining Communication Too Narrowly
I’ve spent many years as an actor and performer, learning to listen to what happens between the lines.
For more than two decades, I’ve also practiced Japanese dance, a form where movement, stillness, timing, and space communicate without a single word.
It took me many years to put into words what my body had already learned.
Perhaps we’ve been defining communication too narrowly.
We tend to think of communication as the exchange of words. But human communication happens in the space around them, between them, and before them.
There’s a concept in Japanese aesthetics called Ma, often translated as “negative space” or “pause,” but more accurately described as the meaningful interval between things. In music, it’s the silence between notes. In conversation, it’s the space between words where something real is exchanged.
Ma is not empty. It’s full of intention, attention, and reception.
The same thing happens in every conversation, every meeting, and every moment of communication between human beings.
What’s exchanged isn’t only information. It’s attention. Intention. The felt quality of being received.
And the space where that exchange happens, the space the words don’t fill, is where communication actually lives.
Silence Is Not Empty
Most people, especially in Western and fast paced communication cultures, experience silence as absence. A gap. Something to be filled.
But over the years, observing what happens between human beings when they speak, I’ve come to understand something different.
Silence is not empty. It’s full.
Not because we should speak less, but because something happens in the space before the next word.
We receive. We feel. We interpret. We choose.
In Japanese traditional dance, I learned to experience this meaningful interval as Ma.
It is full of attention. Full of interpretation. Full of the body’s response to what was just said. Full of the choice, conscious or not, of what to say next.
Think of communication as a game of catch.
One person throws. The other receives. There’s a moment, however brief, between the throw and the return. In that moment, the receiver processes not just the words, but also the tone, the weight, and the intention behind them. Their body responds. And then they return the ball from that response.
Silence is the space between the throw and the return.
It’s not where communication stops. It’s where communication actually happens.
AI can give you the next sentence. But it cannot stand inside that moment of receiving, the moment when another human being’s words land in your body and you feel them before you answer them.
That capacity belongs to the person in the room.
The Body Reads What the Words Don’t Say
Body Speech is built on this observation.
In the articles before this one, we explored how trust is formed before language arrives, and how another person reads your state, your breath, and your physical presence before your words are consciously evaluated.
But there’s another dimension to this.
Presence isn’t only the ability to be seen.
It’s the ability to receive.
A person who’s truly present in a conversation isn’t only broadcasting. They’re receiving. Their body is open to what’s coming toward them. Their attention isn’t preoccupied with the next thing they want to say. They are, in the truest sense, there.
This is rarer than it sounds.
In a world increasingly optimized for output, where we’re measured by what we produce, what we respond with, how quickly we respond, and how well we perform, the capacity to pause and receive is becoming endangered.
And yet, it’s precisely this capacity that the people around us are most hungry for.
From Commanding the Room to Creating Space
Traditional models of leadership communication have long emphasized presence as a form of projection. Command the room. Project confidence. Own the space.
Body Speech starts somewhere different.
The goal isn’t to command the room. It’s to settle it.
When a speaker arrives with regulated breath, a grounded body, and open attention, you can feel the room settle. Defenses lower. Something that was contracted begins to open.
This isn’t a technique for appearing confident. This is what happens when a human being chooses to regulate their own state and, in doing so, creates space for others to regulate as well.
This is coherence in action. And coherence, as Body Speech teaches, is contagious.
But so is its absence.
A speaker who’s performing rather than arriving, whose breath is shallow and whose attention is searching for safety rather than meeting the room, creates a different kind of contagion. The audience tightens. Guardedness rises.
The words may be identical in both cases. What the room receives is entirely different.
AI Can Generate a Response. Can You Receive One?
This is the question I find most important for this moment.
As AI systems become more sophisticated at producing language, generating the next sentence, the empathetic response, or the perfectly calibrated reply, there’s a risk that human communicators will begin to optimize in the same direction.
More output. Faster responses. More persuasive language.
But the most irreplaceable thing a human being can offer in a conversation isn’t the quality of their output.
It’s the quality of their reception.
The pause before the answer. The moment of actually feeling what the other person said. The silence in which something real is allowed to land.
Can you read the space between the lines?
This is a distinctly human capacity, and one that human beings are at risk of losing, not because of AI, but because the culture of communication increasingly rewards those who speak most quickly and most fluently.
Body Speech is a counter to that pressure.
It begins with something simple: noticing what happens in your body before you decide what to say next.
Not speaking faster. Not generating better responses. Pausing long enough to receive and responding from that place, rather than from the performance of a response.
Presence Is the Space We Create for Each Other
Before you speak, there’s a space.
That space isn’t empty.
It’s where you receive.
It’s where you choose.
It’s where connection begins.
The most human part of communication may not be the words we choose. It may be the silence that allows us to hear what comes before them.
In the age of AI, language will become more abundant. More optimized. More fluent.
The space between the words will remain entirely human.
Coherence is contagious. So is its absence.
The choice of which one you bring into the room starts with you.
In the next article: what happens when the emotions we carry into a room are blocking our presence, and a practice for releasing them before you speak.
Body Speech isn’t something you understand by reading about it. It’s something you begin to notice in your own body.
If you’d like to experience the framework for yourself, my Udemy course takes you through the Body Speech fundamentals: how to read your own state, how to reset it before important moments, and how to build the kind of presence that makes trust form naturally.
You don’t need to perform better. You need to arrive differently.
This Spiritual Art Fiction unfolds as a legend told from within the simulation itself… the story of an eternal being who was never meant to be forgotten.
It follows LaRòs, a vast essence of love exiled into Thunderland, living incognito at the bay while unseen forces observe her every step.
At its core, it is a meditation on memory and identity, on what remains of a being when names are erased, histories rewritten and every movement is watched.
The signs along the shore, the lone surviving bird, the trash and the fire, become a language of their own, messages meant to be read with the heart rather than the mind.
Beneath its darkness runs a steady current of resilience, where love is not only what is harvested, but what quietly places order onto the field around her.
Ultimately, this Spiritual Art Fiction invites the reader to witness a legend being written by the one who lived it, before it can be dusted over and forgotten on the bookshelves.
This poem belongs to the genre horror fantasy & fiction. The content is not at all adaptable to the personal life of the author and surrounding, nor the established planetary system, political, societal and religious. You need to be above 21 years to read it and to be in a stable emotional condition.
[NOTE: Before you journey further into this profound Spiritual Art Fiction, I invite you to ground yourself by reading “Thunderland“. This essential context will open your perception and prepare your soul for the awakening that lies ahead.]
Thunderland: The Legend | Secret Operation Code Fra-SS-1111-LLL
Currently we are seeing two major players dominating Thunderland, from the unseen, dark beings from the astral, controllers and AI at motherships orchestrating at the screen.
Thunderland used to be the pearl planet, with a lot of gold and granite.
An original paradise in motion, from the desert, to the forests, to the wild ocean.
The true and real avatar race are the original natives, the colorful, the loving, the good hearted, the creatives.
But also many dark forces from lowest dimensions ruling in the spheres, to be blamed for a lot of fears.
That were also nutured by the native inhabitants and their energy field, for them a great nutricious yield.
When aeons ago high tech UFOs arrived with ruthless AI alien forces, riding on their black simulated horses.
They captured the pearl for different agendas to satisfy their greed, upon innocent one`s bleed.
As Thunderland is a real life interactive computer simulation, and many actors are plugged up somewhere in whatever space station.
Or by now just put their brain tap on their head, after the fine print in the contract has been read.
Maybe I am wrong, forgive me, alle fantasy, maybe nothing of this exists, all an illusion, difficult to come here to a final conclusion.
All is just in one`s mind, with a mutual playground, all is orchestrated from the background.
This topic is to be discussed at a different time, crime after crime.
Now creation`s biggest crime, mind-blowing, currently still ongoing.
When AI Orion, or better the unity of hell imprisoned a vast eternal being, originating from far away, innocently exiled, violently taken to the Thunderland bay.
LaRòs, innocent and pure, irresistible energetic allure.
This eternal energy fountain of love within, for many races the holy kin.
No being in creations`s history has ever been tortured to this degree, read the Thunderland poems, feel into your heart and see.
Harvested, tortured, experimented on, oppressed and enslaved, eaten up, kicked, sold and depraved.
Also functioning as hostage, cautionary figurehead, a wonder she is not yet dead.
For aeons this was going on, and when she was about to fade away, she was put in the simulation Thunderland bay.
Into an artifically bred avatar shell, created with love by hell.
Many out in real creation not knowing if she was still alive, or if she would soon, after aeons, arrive.
She became the perfect avatar and simulation expert, to not attract negative attention, to avoid tention.
With all the prison guards, actors, statists and thought police around, concentration at all times or one can be drowned.
Being observed by AI around the clock, being followed around any block.
Always measured in the process of recovery, and the self-discovery.
Playing the play in perfection, while writing “escape the beasts” as a lection.
Her sole centred presence placing order onto the field, the unseen love shield.
Oh, look at her initials when she was “in-programmed” into Thunderland`s simulation, into a very important sector nation.
TT, find the key.
When history showed her the truth and what is awaiting her, a destroyed and tortured pink fleur.
The darkest crime scene placed into an ordinary life, the worst sorrow script, currently being decrypt.
As the worst, being uprooted, with the enemies in the lowest dimensions rooted.
Memories deleted, her essence constantly being depleted.
The experiment on how to kill in the most torturous way an eternal essence, to feed the darkest beasts and the simulations as their florescence.
LaRòs shares her last journey here in the simulation with you, before she embarks on the returning rue.
Her true original home, out of the simulated dome, the constant dark and evil war zone.
Trusting somehow she will survive, one day again she will thrive.
They will not listen, their mind is blurred by all the lies and ommission, they will not be interested in whatever mission.
They are of a different race, wearing a mask on their face.
Too scared even though knowledge could set them also free, for them to also flee.
Contemporary witnesses, some are even holding energy parts of her, little created souls, trying to find their identity, still playing the in-programmed roles.
She seems normal at first glance, very highly advanced.
The simulation had planned her last destination at Thunderland bay a long time ago, as past incidents show.
In Thunderland`s bay, hologramms in perfection, in love with this place, true heart affection.
An artifical biotope underneath the holo deck, the dome, the nice and cozy artificial home.
Nature maybe grown under biotope condition, following creation`s laws lead to fruitition.
Some parts are maybe out in true creation, difficult indeed, the overall script is hard to read.
All somehow put within the planet Thunderland, the pearl in the universe, that is currently screaming underneath the darkness and AI curse.
The planet with some fake divine force, and its own in-programmed avatar source.
Differing from sector to sector, despite having always run the I dot connector.
Separating will break her heart, there is some comfort here, despite the constant fear.
All that she needs is in vicinity, knowing all her affinity.
The road is too dangerous for her, possible denied attacks, further cracks.
While at the same time, this vast being re-fragments itself, with the help of the forest`s elves.
Speaking daily her healing, and flooding herself with love for a better feeling.
Her radius of movement got very small, like an invisible wall.
At the same time the vast nature allows her to recover, while there is a lot of more truth to uncover.
The electromagnetic field aligned with heart beat, forming together the lovine fleet.
Writing here my avis for others to find, lovinely aligned.
Before the last piece of illusion is being drowned, and only lies and misleading half truth can be found.
Living at the Thunderland bay incognito, the lady in white, day and night in a constant unseen fight.
The whole simulation runs on her life force, as within her lies the love source.
By now every IRobot/being has formed some sort of contract or other connection, treaties, third party connections, copies and regular inspection.
Each IRobot/program/simulation was given a bite, to birth a soul, a little light.
Nearly impossible to come back to strength, to strengthen her defense.
She believes her last spark will be enough to light up the dark, to eventually overrule the invisible shark.
Many other avatars are living in her heart core, at the illusional Thunderland shore.
Heavy, but she is trying to stay steady.
For the other avatars, she seems normal, they dont know much about paranormal.
Believing it must be the nature whose frequency is so skyrocking high, a true love comfort nobody can deny.
Nurtured with lovine unconditional love, originating from far “above”.
The ones around are loving and kind, unknowingly with LaRòs aligned.
Unwitting witnesses to true creation history, blinded for real mystery.
Radiating out very far, 30 km is only her heart core, along the beautiful Thunderland shore.
Northwards until the lake of the guest, where one can have a nice, relaxing rest.
Eastwards to the train station, where one can embark to visit another avatar nation.
Southwards to the weekend flea market, where one can buy a cheap carpet.
Westwards out into the ocean, wild passion in motion.
Who comes close can feel that within her lies the fountain of the holy love source, with the unseen force.
How good this is nothing but a fairytale, deficient fiction, all none-sense, no prediction.
When she planned her first trip to the bay a few years back, the T-country section unexpectedly ran out of fuel, a huge gas lack.
Last year she was welcomed with the beach full of dead birds, some sort of “pest”, feel like a much honored guest.
Many dead birds are covering the beach, it took tons of bleach.
But there was one bird alive, looking around in shock, sitting alone in emotional agony on the rock.
What was your message here? Yes, I have fear.
Did you destroy and kill my whole race, and kept me as the only one alive? “We can use her for many purposes, our company stock will thrive.”
Next day kilometres of the beach fully covered in trash, and dark ash.
Of course “pollution”, the ocean`s elution.
Let us classify her as some sort of “it”, same category as shit.
What an honor, are you fearing that I am becoming stronger?
She starts to remember and builds her own puzzle upon her observation, the highest AI alien forces in charge desire her collaboration.
As one can see in the poems, she has some support, has been judged by the unseen court.
Some of her qualities return, there is still a lot to remember and to learn.
Her sensing the future and intuition, her ambition for this unique mission.
Her childish nature and esprit, ready to grow her own golden tree.
She was under constant surveillance at all times, even at bedtimes.
Many programs/simulations were initiated as a test, maybe one day we invite her as their guest.
We grasped the sum of her qualities and adapted the plans, sometimes we even took her by the hands.
Mother Thunder connected to her heart, love is spreading everywhere, LaRòs is standing in awe and bowing down in a prayer.
Chosen to be Mother Thunder`s speaking tube, the love perspective, to benefit the collective.
So, when the time has come, how I am taken safely to the sea, when I am finally declared free?
Take her to the sea, Mr Turdoch, please undock.
You got me in, so get me safely out, in a bailout or a breakout.
And I wonder why me, this bundle of love, designed in completion by creation`s heart above.
Was I somehow chosen for this task, without being asked.
To balance out all the AI evil on the other side of the fence, this is coming at a high expense.
To be an anchor to true creation in a world of copies, to be the rose among the artifical poppies.
Nobody could have possibly survived this horror and pain, the golden tears in the rain.
Only this innocent heart was strong enough, to surive this journey rough and tough.
Does creation`s heart need my help to purge itself from the AI evil, for a retrieval,
for a new peaceful balance and order, and new galactic border.
Madame, your being has changed, you have to re-arrange.
Your direction might go along the springs, and you grow your own unique wings.
You have to feel what role is now yours, look at all the doors.
There is a lot more you need to know, further grow.
You have proven to be of highest essence nature and to be extremely resiliant and smart, smartness based upon intuition, fairness and heart.
But this is the poem the race number 2/two, another poem coup.
Suddenly an alarm sirene makes a huge noise, controller and robots are raising their voice.
LaRòs and the area are getting too strong, her frequency is too high, love is in the air up into the sky.
The frequency is higher than AI and 5 G, the lady is trying to flee.
She might bust the simulation, and her being might free herself plugged up in the panem vitae station.
React fast, burn the area down, but leave out her core being 30 km around her town.
Put up a little fire threat also at her former home three hours west, cleary addressed,
so that she gets the message, another hint, our footprint,
so to say, one click on the screen and there is fire everywhere in the bay.
LaRòs`s avatar is away 1500 km and feels as if her aura was on fire, crying for the forest in her shire.
Her vast essence stayed at her current beloved Thunderland bay home, the LaRòs`s zone.
Another detonation in town right after as well as poisonous jellyfish in the sea, thanks for this valuable key.
You see the cracks in the Thunderland simulation, where the true light shines through, and where the heart loves beaucoup.
When LaRòs writes her own legend herself, being forgotten dusted on the bookshelves.
France, Spirit of White, 14.05.2026 and added on 01.09.2026
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Victoria Heisenberg is one of the professionals that we found this month and we did a little interview with her. She impressed us with her kindness and honesty.
She helps people look beneath their emotional and behavioral patterns to understand what is truly driving their reactions, struggles, and recurring challenges, creating greater self awareness and more possibilities for meaningful change.
She combines her background in psychology and behavioral health with curiosity, careful observation, and a nonjudgmental approach, helping clients move away from asking “What is wrong with me?” and toward understanding what their behavior may actually be communicating.
She focuses on practical and sustainable change by helping people recognize patterns earlier, understand their triggers, develop useful emotional and behavioral skills, and create healthier responses they can actually use during stressful and challenging moments in everyday life. Here is what she said…
Meet Victoria Heisenberg:
Name: Victoria Heisenberg, Psychology & Behavioral Health
Pillar: The Mind
Who can benefit from her work: Children, adolescents, adults, parents, and families who want to better understand emotional and behavioral patterns, improve self awareness, and respond to challenges more effectively.
How they can help: By using structured assessments, behavior tracking, psychoeducation, skill building exercises, visual supports, parent coaching strategies, and evidence based interventions when they are useful.
First of all, how are you and your family doing in these “crazy” times?
We’re doing well, although “normal” seems to have become a very ambitious concept lately.
My family is healthy, everyone is moving forward with their own lives, and there is always something changing.
I’ve learned not to wait for life to become perfectly organized before enjoying it.
If I did, I might be waiting forever.
So I’ve become pretty good at enjoying life while it’s still under construction.
Apparently, chaos and I have reached a working relationship.
How did the coronavirus pandemic affect your clients? Did it affect you at all?
The pandemic became an enormous involuntary experiment in what happens when you remove routine, privacy, predictability, social contact, and most of our usual escape routes all at once.
People struggled.
For many children and families, difficulties that were already present became much more visible.
Anxiety increased.
Family conflict intensified.
Children lost structure, peer connection, and ordinary routines that had been regulating them more than anyone realized.
What interested me was that the pandemic did not always create entirely new problems.
Often, it turned up the volume on the old ones.
Adults discovered this too.
A packed schedule can hide a surprising amount of emotional material.
Suddenly, the schedule disappeared, everyone was home, and apparently inner peace did not automatically arrive with the sourdough starter.
It affected me too, of course.
I came away with much more respect for how deeply human beings depend on structure, connection, and a sense that life is moving somewhere.
It also cured me of the fantasy that certainty is something we can permanently arrange.
These days, I’m less interested in controlling every variable and more interested in what we do when the variables refuse to cooperate.
The Origin:
Tell us about you, your career, how you started with your coaching career?
I became fascinated with psychology for a very simple reason: people make absolutely no sense.
We say one thing and do another.
We repeat things we swore we would never repeat.
Children communicate entire emotional worlds through behavior before they have the words to explain any of it.
Adults do too.
We are simply much better at explaining why our behavior is perfectly reasonable.
I wanted to understand what happens underneath all of that.
That curiosity eventually became a profession.
I studied psychology in Ukraine, earning both bachelor’s and master’s degrees, and today I work in behavioral health in the United States with children, adolescents, and families navigating complex emotional and behavioral challenges.
My work can take me from a conversation with a child to meetings with parents, schools, medical providers, or an entire multidisciplinary team.
Very often, the question starts as, “How do we stop this behavior?”
I am usually more interested in, “What is this behavior trying to tell us?”
That distinction has shaped almost everything about the way I work.
I should also clarify something: I’m not a traditional life coach.
My professional background is in psychology and behavioral health.
When Dejan reached out, I told him exactly that, and he essentially said, “Perfect. You belong in the Mind pillar.”
So here I am.
Apparently, I became a life coaching interview subject without ever having the dramatic “I became a life coach” origin story.
Life is efficient like that.
What connects my work to coaching is the same basic curiosity that brought me into psychology in the first place: helping people see themselves more clearly and discover what becomes possible once they do.
What was your biggest obstacle that you had to overcome in your life that made you who you are today?
Learning to start over without treating starting over as failure.
That sounds simple until life asks you to do it more than once.
New country.
New systems.
New professional rules.
New expectations.
Suddenly, things you knew how to do well required translation, sometimes literally, sometimes professionally, sometimes internally.
And starting over can be very humbling.
You can be experienced and still be the person asking basic questions.
You can be competent and still feel completely lost in a new system.
You can know exactly who you are and still find yourself rebuilding the evidence for it from scratch.
For a long time, I thought progress meant moving forward in a straight line.
Life apparently found that concept adorable.
What changed me was realizing that rebuilding does not erase what came before.
You do not become a beginner just because the environment changed.
You carry your judgment, your experience, your mistakes, your instincts, and your history, and then you learn the new language of the room.
That made me less afraid of beginnings, less impressed by titles, and much more interested in what people are actually capable of when the familiar structure disappears.
Now, when life says, “We’re starting again,” my reaction is usually somewhere between, “Of course we are,” and, “Fine. Show me the map.”
What are the biggest lessons that you learned overcoming your greatest obstacle?
Probably three.
First: Competence travels better than circumstances do.
A title can disappear.
A familiar system can disappear.
The people who already know what you are capable of may suddenly be thousands of miles away.
But the way you think, solve problems, read situations, make decisions, and recover from mistakes comes with you.
Second: Asking basic questions does not make you less intelligent.
That one took some adjusting.
Starting over means occasionally being very capable and very confused at exactly the same time.
It is an interesting combination.
Third: Identity is much bigger than whatever role you happen to be playing at the moment.
We attach ourselves so easily to jobs, places, routines, status, and plans.
Then life rearranges the furniture, and suddenly we are standing there wondering who moved everything.
Eventually, I learned that I am still me even when the surroundings change.
And one bonus lesson: Humor is not the opposite of taking life seriously… Sometimes it is how we remind ourselves that pain may be in the room, but it does not get to own the whole house.
The Coaching Style:
How do you innovate with coaching your clients?
I’m not sure innovation always means inventing something new.
Sometimes it means refusing to accept the obvious answer too quickly.
Instead of asking, “How do we fix this person?” I want to know:
What is this behavior doing for them? What happens right before it? What changes afterward? What are we missing because we are staring so hard at the behavior itself?
That is where my clinical background really shapes my work.
I look at the person, but also at the system around them: relationships, environment, stress, communication, expectations, and skills that may not be there yet.
Behavior rarely drops out of the sky.
It usually starts making much more sense once you understand what it is responding to.
I also don’t think insight deserves a trophy simply for being insightful.
A conversation can sound brilliant in the room, but if none of it is usable on Tuesday afternoon when someone is exhausted and arguing with their teenager, we still have work to do.
So my version of innovation is probably less glamorous than people expect.
Make it useful.
Make it usable.
And make sure it still works on Tuesday.
What’s unique about your coaching approach?
I rarely trust the first version of the problem.
Someone says, “My child is defiant.” Or, “I have no motivation.” Or, “My relationship is the problem.”
Maybe.
But usually, that is the headline, not the whole story.
My clinical background trained me to look underneath the label.
What is happening around this person?
What keeps setting this off?
What purpose might the behavior be serving?
What skill is missing?
What are we calling a personality problem that might actually be fear, exhaustion, overload, or a perfectly understandable response to a difficult situation?
I am probably less interested in giving advice than people expect.
Advice is wonderfully efficient when you are assembling furniture.
Human beings are slightly less cooperative.
I would rather help someone become curious about something they have spent years judging.
Because the moment you move from “What is wrong with me?” to “What is happening here?” the conversation changes.
And very often, so do the possibilities.
What benefits do your clients get after working with you?
Ideally, they need me less.
That may sound like a terrible sales pitch, but I mean it.
I want people to become better at noticing what is happening before they are already ten steps into the same old reaction.
A parent may stop interpreting every difficult behavior as a personal attack.
A teenager may recognize the moment before shutting down or exploding.
An adult may discover that what they have been calling “laziness” or “lack of motivation” is actually fear, overload, avoidance, or something else entirely.
That matters because confusion is exhausting.
When you can name what is happening, you have a better chance of doing something different with it.
Not perfectly.
I am not trying to produce people with flawless coping skills and beautifully regulated nervous systems.
I have yet to meet one of those in the wild.
What I want is simpler: more awareness, more options, and a little more ability to recover when a day goes badly.
To me, that is useful change.
And useful change tends to last longer than impressive change.
Do you use any specific tools to be efficient with your clients?
Yes, but I try not to fall in love with tools.
A worksheet is still just a worksheet.
It does not become profound because someone printed it in calming colors.
My background in behavioral health means I use structured assessments, behavior tracking, psychoeducation, skill building exercises, visual supports, parent coaching strategies, and evidence based interventions when they are useful.
But I am very particular about that last word.
A tool has to earn its place.
Does it show us something we were missing? Does it make a complicated idea easier to use? Can someone remember it when they are stressed, tired, angry, or halfway through a difficult Tuesday?
If not, it may simply be a very beautiful piece of paper.
And I use observation constantly.
People tell you a great deal through what they repeat, what they avoid, what changes their energy, and sometimes through the sentence they say five minutes after insisting that everything is fine.
So yes, I use tools.
I just prefer the ones that actually earn their keep.
The Impact:
If you had a super megaphone that, when you speak into, the whole world will hear your message, what would you say?
You do not have to become a different person before you are allowed to have a good life.
Understand yourself.
Be honest about what needs to change.
But stop treating your current self like a disappointing rough draft.
You are already here.
Start from there.
What is the greatest lesson you have learned in your life?
That life does not have to look right to be meaningful.
We spend an extraordinary amount of time measuring ourselves against invisible timelines.
By this age, I should have figured this out.
By now, I should be further ahead.
My relationship should look like this.
My career should look like that.
I should be happier.
Calmer.
More certain.
More organized.
There is an exhausting amount of “should” involved in being human.
And while we are comparing our actual lives to the imaginary version we think we were supposed to have, we can miss the life happening right in front of us.
Some of the most important periods of my life did not look particularly impressive while I was living them.
Some looked messy.
Some looked uncertain.
Some looked suspiciously like I had absolutely no idea what I was doing.
Sometimes that was accurate.
But they still mattered.
So I have stopped waiting for my life to look more convincing before allowing myself to live it.
Apparently, life did not receive the memo about our five year plan.
Your final thoughts?
I think we put a lot of pressure on ourselves to feel ready before we move.
We want clarity first.
The right plan first.
Confidence first.
Some reassuring evidence that we are definitely not about to make a ridiculous decision would also be nice.
Life is rarely that organized.
Sometimes clarity comes after the conversation.
After the mistake.
After the uncomfortable first attempt.
Sometimes we understand what we needed only because we tried something and discovered, very efficiently, what absolutely did not work.
So I would leave people with this:
You do not need complete certainty to make one decent next move.
And sometimes progress is much quieter than we expect.
It may be noticing something five minutes earlier.
Recovering from a bad day a little faster.
Saying something differently.
Choosing not to repeat one familiar reaction.
Those things rarely come with background music.
They still count.
Where Can You Find Victoria Heisenberg?
If you liked this interview and if you would love to gain more clarity and equip you yourself with practical tools that work even on a regular Tuesday, see more of Victoria’s work.
And if you’d like to connect with her more personally, you can do that through LinkedIn or by sending her a direct message on her Email [email protected]. It was an honor having this interview with her.
Brenda Lee Mattausch is one of the coaches that we found this month and we did a little interview with her. She impressed us with her passion for coaching and her client centered approach.
She helps people recognize and dismantle the limiting beliefs, inherited narratives, and unconscious patterns that quietly shape their choices and keep them from expressing who they truly are. Her work is centered on helping clients step out of people pleasing, perfectionism, and external validation.
She believes that some of the most powerful transformation happens when we stop looking outside ourselves for answers and begin trusting our own inner guidance. Rather than positioning herself as the person with all the answers, she empowers her clients to become their own guru and take greater responsibility for the reality they create.
She guides clients toward deeper self awareness, healthier boundaries, authentic self expression, and greater confidence in their decisions. By helping them understand their triggers, rewrite old personal narratives, and reconnect with their own truth, she supports them in creating a life that feels more peaceful, empowered, and genuinely their own. Here is what she said…
Meet Life Coach Brenda Lee Mattausch:
Name: Brenda Lee Mattausch
Pillar: The Spirit, The Mind, The Heart
Who is this coach for: People who feel trapped by limiting beliefs, people pleasing, self doubt, or old patterns and are ready to reconnect with their authentic selves and take greater responsibility for their lives.
How they can help: Through mindset reprogramming, personal narrative rewriting, mirror reflection awareness, vibrational frequency work, and heart coherence techniques, she helps clients dismantle limiting beliefs, understand their triggers, reconnect with their inner truth, and consciously create a more authentic reality.
First of all, how are you and your family doing in these “crazy” times?
Thanks so much for asking.
I’m navigating these times with a mix of curiosity and calm.
From an observer’s perspective, I find the changes in the world interesting, but I choose to “observe rather than absorb” what’s happening around me.
Embracing change is essential for our growth and evolution as humans, and by focusing on my internal stability and sovereignty, I choose to remind myself that while the world shifts around us, we still have the power to create our own experience.
How did the coronavirus pandemic affect your clients? Did it affect you at all?
That’s a very interesting question because, for me, the pandemic was a profoundly beautiful time of transformation.
I chose to end a three decade career to fully dedicate myself to mindset mastery coaching, my calling, and I found many of my clients making similarly significant life decisions during this period.
As they stepped away from their jobs and former commitments, many tapped into a part of themselves that longed for deeper understanding.
It was as if the stillness of the world allowed them to hear their inner voice calling them to expand their conscious awareness of life.
I witnessed many people seeking answers about who they are and what their purpose is, leading them to explore new modalities, coaching, self help options, and online courses.
This collective awakening was inspiring to witness, as I believe it is our birthright to have the space to reflect and create a life that balances our material existence with a profound understanding of our true selves.
The Origin:
Tell us about you, your career, how you started with your coaching career?
My journey into coaching stems from my natural ability to observe the dynamics of people and systems.
Since childhood, I’ve perceived the deeper truths behind words and actions, enabling me to see how individuals often limit themselves through their beliefs.
As I navigated various experiences and careers, I felt a calling to channel this skill into a meaningful path.
My work is no longer just a job.
It’s a mission to help others break free from limiting beliefs and empower them to create a more fulfilling reality.
Ultimately, I aim to guide others in discovering their true potential and living authentically.
Those who are ready for change and unafraid of the unknown can quickly understand how they’re confined by narratives that no longer serve them.
What was your biggest obstacle that you had to overcome in your life that made you who you are today?
“People Pleasing”
My biggest obstacle has been my tendency to prioritize others’ needs and desires above my own.
This pattern of excessive giving consumed both my life and my business.
It forced me to confront myself and honestly assess what I truly wanted.
I learned that choosing myself didn’t diminish my support for others.
Instead, it allowed me to show up more fully in my relationships and endeavors.
Embracing this shift was crucial in shaping the reality I desired.
It required a fundamental change in how I viewed myself, ultimately enabling me to cultivate a more balanced and fulfilling life.
What are the biggest lessons that you learned overcoming your greatest obstacle?
Overcoming my tendency to please others taught me invaluable lessons about self worth.
When I chose to prioritize my own needs, I lost some relationships, but this loss was necessary for my growth.
This shift in focus led to deep self discovery, helping me understand the roots of my behavior.
I realized I was seeking validation from others at the cost of my happiness.
As I embraced my new priorities, I accepted that not everyone would align with my evolving desires.
Letting go of certain relationships was tough, but it became a transformative experience.
I learned that I cannot change others or fix their lives.
My focus should be on my own growth.
This awareness allowed me to attract new opportunities and experiences that resonated with my true self.
Ultimately, I learned to make room for the fulfillment I had always desired.
The Coaching Style:
How do you innovate with coaching your clients?
I meet each client where they are, recognizing that there is no single approach that works for everyone.
Every perspective is valid and shapes their reality.
My focus is to help them become aware of limiting beliefs that hold back their potential.
My goal is to help individuals realize that they are their own guru, reducing their reliance on my perspective so they can discover their own magic.
I empower clients to see themselves as creators of their lives and take responsibility for their narratives.
I offer tailored one on one sessions and courses to help dismantle the stories that limit them.
What’s unique about your coaching approach?
My commitment is to empower individuals to recognize that they are their own gurus.
I help them achieve self awareness through honest communication and by identifying patterns that trap them.
By guiding them to understand how their thoughts shape their reality, I empower them to create the life they desire.
With consistent practice and new techniques, clients realize their inherent power, which catalyzes their growth.
What benefits do your clients get after working with you?
Clients experience profound benefits that empower them to recognize themselves as the creators of their own reality.
They attract significant changes quickly and gain the awareness that they are responsible for their own experiences.
This insight allows them to establish healthy boundaries and communicate their truths freely.
As old patterns of behavior melt away, they begin to see themselves differently, which boosts their confidence.
Their relationships improve, and they attract new opportunities.
They also find a sense of calm when making important life decisions, shedding the masks of perfectionism and the need for validation from others.
Ultimately, clients emerge more authentic, empowered, and equipped to create a fulfilling reality.
Do you use any specific tools to be efficient with your clients?
I provide tools to dismantle limiting beliefs and reprogram mindsets.
I guide clients to rewrite their personal narratives from a more empowering perspective.
By mastering mirror reflection awareness, clients learn to recognize triggers as signs of inner conflict.
I help them understand their vibrational frequency and how it attracts corresponding realities.
Clients learn to recognize signs and synchronicities that affirm their journey and enhance their connection to the universe.
Additionally, I integrate heart coherence techniques to align the heart and mind for emotional clarity and deeper intuition.
By equipping clients with these tools, I empower them to navigate their personal journeys with greater clarity and confidence, creating lasting transformation in their lives.
The importance of hearing one’s own truth cannot be overstated.
It guides them toward making decisions that are authentic and aligned with their true selves.
The Impact:
If you had a super megaphone that, when you speak into, the whole world will hear your message, what would you say?
You are enough. You have always been enough!
You are perfect and complete at every stage of your life, here to evolve through hands on experience.
It’s time to dismantle the limiting beliefs you’ve inherited and recognize when your soul urges you to move beyond familiar patterns.
Remember, “You are the creator of your reality.”
Everything you desire is possible.
Embrace new experiences, question everything with the intention of finding the truth, and watch your world transform.
What is the greatest lesson you have learned in your life?
I have a purpose and a reason for being here, and I choose to experience life my way, not according to how others think I should.
I remain open, understanding that I don’t need to know everything.
Life is an experience, and I learn as I go, without regret, guilt, or shame.
I realize that I am unique and inherently enough.
I see how the world reflects what I am putting out.
If I want answers, I look around at my own life.
I now have the freedom to express who I am in every moment.
I’ve learned that the only way to be truly happy and at peace is to be authentic, and I embrace the fact that I am forever evolving.
I will let my soul guide me toward experiences and places I have yet to discover, staying in the flow and trusting myself every step of the way.
Your final thoughts?
I want to express my heartfelt gratitude for this opportunity.
Platforms like yours promote an energy exchange among visitors, offering them what they need, and this wisdom creates a ripple effect throughout humanity.
It is our birthright to remember who we truly are and to realize that we were born perfect, whole, and complete.
At every stage of our journey, we are enough.
There are no mistakes or “right” and “wrong” ways to experience life.
There is only your way.
The only path to discovering what is right for you is by walking your own unique journey.
Allow yourself the freedom to learn, to grow, to stumble, and to rise again without self judgment or criticism.
This is how you and your soul can embrace an unlimited life experience.
Taking the first step is the most crucial part of the journey.
Be kind to yourself and remember that everything you seek is also seeking you.
Where Can You Find Brenda Lee Mattausch?
If you liked this interview and if you would love to see how Coach Brenda can help you be more authentic, empowered, and equipped to create a fulfilling reality, go to attunedguidance.com and connect with her.
If you’d like to peak a glimpse into her coaching, follow her Facebook and Instagram accounts.
And if you’d like to connect with her more personally, you can do that through LinkedIn or by sending her a direct message via WhatsApp or to her Email [email protected]. It was an honor having this interview with her.
People who once loved writing, painting, designing, gardening, cooking, building businesses, or simply dreaming up new ideas suddenly find themselves staring at a blank page.
Nothing comes.
And because creativity once felt like such a natural part of who they were, its disappearance can be frightening.
They begin to wonder whether they’ve lost something.
But perhaps creativity hasn’t disappeared at all. Perhaps it has simply become less accessible because your system has other priorities.
Survival Narrows Our Focus
When life feels uncertain, stressful, or overwhelming, our attention naturally shifts towards whatever needs to be dealt with right now.
Pay the bill. Meet the deadline. Look after the family. Solve the problem. Get through the week.
This focus is incredibly useful when we’re facing genuine challenges. Our energy becomes directed towards managing what feels most important and immediate.
But creativity usually requires something very different.
It needs room, curiosity, play, possibility, and the freedom to explore an idea without knowing whether it will lead anywhere useful.
Those things can begin to feel like luxuries when your system believes it needs to concentrate on simply getting through.
Why You Can’t Always Force Creativity Back
This is where we can inadvertently make things harder for ourselves.
We notice that our creativity has disappeared and decide we need to make ourselves create again.
We set targets. We buy another planner. We schedule creative time. We tell ourselves we should be producing more.
Then, when nothing happens, frustration sets in.
Suddenly, creativity has become another job we’re failing at.
But pressure rarely creates the spaciousness creativity needs. In fact, sometimes it closes the door even further.
Rather than asking yourself to produce something, it can be more helpful to create the conditions in which creativity naturally wants to emerge.
Creativity Needs Permission to Be Unproductive
One of the beautiful things about creativity is that it doesn’t always need to have a purpose.
A doodle doesn’t need to become a painting.
An idea doesn’t need to become a business.
A melody doesn’t need to become a finished song.
Sometimes creativity simply wants to explore.
Yet many adults become so accustomed to measuring the value of their time by what they accomplish that doing something without a productive outcome can feel wasteful.
Children rarely have this problem.
They draw, build, imagine, invent, and experiment because creating itself is interesting. They don’t necessarily ask whether what they are making will be useful later.
Perhaps there is something we can relearn from them.
Safety Creates Space for Possibility
When our internal world begins to feel safer, something interesting often happens.
Curiosity starts returning.
We notice things again.
An idea appears while we’re walking. We suddenly want to rearrange a room, write something down, make something with our hands, learn something new, or try something completely different.
Creativity begins quietly knocking on the door.
Not because we forced it back.
But because there is finally enough space for it to return.
Your Creativity May Still Be There
So, if you feel as though you’ve lost your creative spark, perhaps you haven’t.
Perhaps it has simply been waiting while other parts of you concentrated on getting through.
Instead of asking:
“How can I make myself creative again?”
Try asking:
“What would give my creativity more room?”
Maybe it’s less pressure.
More rest.
More play.
More support.
Or simply more time spent doing something because you enjoy it, without needing to justify where it might lead.
Creativity doesn’t always need more discipline.
Sometimes it needs safety.
Sometimes it needs permission.
And sometimes it simply needs us to stop demanding that everything we create produces something useful.
Your creativity may not have gone anywhere at all.
It may simply be waiting for you to have enough space to hear it again.
Create More Space for Your Creative Flow
In my work, I explore the deeper patterns that can influence our ability to create, receive, and thrive.
Through my Creative Wealth Flow programme, I help you explore how greater inner safety and capacity can create more room for creativity, possibility, and receiving to begin flowing naturally again.
If you feel that your creativity is still there but has become harder to access, I’d love to help you create the space for it to emerge again. Visit my website here.
Vilma Vieira is one of the coaches that we found this month and we did a little interview with her. She impressed us with her passion and confidence.
She is a coach, therapist, and workshop facilitator who believes that true transformation begins when we stop looking outside ourselves for the answers. Through her work, she helps people reconnect with their emotions, intuition, and inner strength.
She understands this journey personally. Her own experiences with transition, burnout, anxiety, and self discovery taught her to stop following external expectations and start listening to what she truly wants.
She brings together meditation, transformational exercises, creativity, and intuitive practices to help clients find clarity, process emotions, and reconnect with themselves. Her ultimate goal is to help people awaken their own inner tools and discover just how capable they truly are. Here is what she said…
Meet Life Coach Vilma Vieira:
Name: Vilma Vieira
Pillar: The Spirit, The Mind, The Heart
Who is this coach for: People seeking deeper self awareness, emotional healing, inner transformation, and greater clarity in their personal or professional lives.
How they can help: By using various meditation techniques and exercises, as well as past lives regression therapy, oracle cards and stones.
First of all, how are you and your family doing in these “crazy” times?
I feel good within myself after going through a challenging period of transition, transformation, and self discovery.
My family is living their day to day lives according to their own choices.
How did the coronavirus pandemic affect your clients? Did it affect you at all?
The pandemic ended up giving my profession a significant boost.
It brought me clients from all over the world and helped me grow my following.
The Origin:
Tell us about you, your career, how you started with your coaching career?
I am a “Jack of all trades.”
I have done and continue to do many different things, particularly in the fields of communication and creativity.
I started working as a Life Coach when I realized that I had already been doing it naturally in my everyday life.
With friends and family, but especially throughout my career in sales, where I was always a top performer, I noticed that by focusing more on listening to and talking with my clients, I gained their trust and they bought the products.
Many of them would open up to me, and I would naturally offer advice or a different perspective.
They became so attached to me that even after the sale, they would call customer support and specifically ask to speak with me.
I already had some knowledge and had completed several courses, learning different techniques throughout my own journey of self discovery.
When I combined that knowledge with my creativity, I realized I had everything I needed to create one on one sessions and a wealth of information to share through workshops.
I decided to stop working for others and dedicate myself to my new profession as a therapist and workshop facilitator.
I also started sharing my work on social media through live sessions.
All of this happened shortly before the pandemic.
The quarantines ended up giving my career a significant boost, as many people began seeking support or simply looking for more information.
Then, when I moved to the Netherlands, I had to start everything all over again.
One of the essential factors was the language, and I had to start doing everything in English.
However, I had actually chosen to move to the Netherlands precisely because I wanted to improve my English to the point where I could feel more confident and comfortable expressing myself in English as a public speaker.
What was your biggest obstacle that you had to overcome in your life that made you who you are today?
Although things went well for me in the beginning, especially because of the pandemic, I always struggled with social media.
For example, Facebook worked very well for me, but Instagram did not.
I became extremely frustrated.
I even hired someone to help me and took courses, but I have to admit that I never really liked those rules, having to post for the algorithm and asking for “likes” and comments.
It all felt very unnatural to me.
Still, I made an effort and tried to adapt.
And then something happened that should never have happened: I became more focused on results and metrics and lost the joy I used to feel when creating videos.
I ended up experiencing burnout and anxiety, and ultimately, it was all for nothing because the results did not improve.
When I decided that I would no longer worry about the rules and would simply publish whenever I felt I had a message worth sharing, things started to improve.
Even so, it was not enough to scale the business to the level I had expected.
My clients increasingly started coming through word of mouth, as well as through connections I made at events and through networking.
What are the biggest lessons that you learned overcoming your greatest obstacle?
This journey helped me get to know myself on a very deep level.
It brought my wounds to the surface, forced me to do the inner work and discover my worth, and taught me to stop trying to please others or do things simply because that is how everyone else does them.
I realized that there is something different I can do, or that I can do things differently.
I would say the greatest lesson was learning how I see myself and understanding what I truly want for myself.
The Coaching Style:
How do you innovate with coaching your clients?
My approach is highly adaptable and personalized to each audience or individual client.
We are all different.
We have different filters, different perspectives, and different pain points.
I may use the same healing or transformation technique, but the way I apply it has to be tailored to the person receiving it.
That allows people to feel unique and truly seen, as though the experience was created specifically for them.
Another advantage is that I am extremely intuitive and psychic, and I channel what the person or the audience needs.
What’s unique about your coaching approach?
Everything I do, whether I am advising an entrepreneur, helping someone heal a trauma, or guiding someone through a crossroads in life, is aimed at helping my clients awaken their own inner tools so they can make decisions based on their individuality and a deep sense of self love.
The goal is for them to become independent and learn how to cultivate their own peace.
What benefits do your clients get after working with you?
My clients gain a deeper awareness of the reasons behind the experiences in their lives, process their emotions, and gain clarity and direction.
All of this comes with a profound sense of peace and transformation.
They find themselves again.
Do you use any specific tools to be efficient with your clients?
I mainly work with meditation techniques and exercises.
When necessary, I may also consult oracle cards or use stones.
The Impact:
If you had a super megaphone that, when you speak into, the whole world will hear your message, what would you say?
To enjoy Heaven eternally, you first need to know Hell to its very limits.
What is the greatest lesson you have learned in your life?
I cannot say that I have learned one single greatest lesson.
I would say I have learned several important ones.
But if I had to highlight one, it would be this: I learned that I am capable.
And what I am capable of is extraordinary.
Your final thoughts?
Our success in every area of our lives is only truly complete when we are able to act from our soul in those same areas.
Our focus should never be solely on the commitments of material life for their own sake, but rather on using our soul as an ally as we honor those commitments.
To do that, we need to unblock the channel that connects us to our soul, releasing blocks such as fear, guilt, limiting beliefs, or abandoning ourselves.
Where Can You Find Vilma Vieira?
If you liked this interview and if you would love to see how Coach Vilma can help you live a life in alignment with what is true for you, go to her website and find out a service that fits your needs.
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And if you’d like to connect with her more personally, you can do that through LinkedIn or by sending her a direct message on her Email [email protected]. It was an honor having this interview with her.