10 Subtle Things You Do That Show You Have an Alpha Personality

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An Alpha Personality is one of the types of personalities that many are attracted to.

Some people might find them to be bossy or assertive, however, these people are simply born with the inherent qualities to lead.

But an Alpha Personality goes beyond natural predispositions. A real Alpha Personality is a product of intense core work and deep self development that asks for a lot of clobbering by your own inner demons to a point where you master your own self.

Most people who are seen as Alpha are just really extroverted. They don’t have a core self confidence. They are hiding their insecurities behind the perception of others.

Put them in a situation where they would need to truly test their Alpha title and they will either find an excuse, avoid it, or show you their true colors. They most often justify their avoidance by labeling something as uncool, stupid or beneath them.

To not be confused about who has a real Alpha Personality and who tries to fake it, there are a couple of patterns that people with real Alpha Personality show, and you can look for them.

10 Subtle Signs of True Alpha Personality10 Subtle Things Show You Have Alpha Personality

People with real Alpha Personality do the following things:

1. They are accurate conversationalists and straightforward. They don’t beat around the bush because they value their time as well as that of others.

2. They pay close attention to action rather than words. They don’t care what you have to say as long as you put into action what you mean.

3. They are not afraid to feel left out just because they didn’t show up. They only go to events which interest them and not because everybody is there.

4. They always mean what they say. They don’t make any commitments which they know they are unable to fulfill.

5. They have a few selected friends. They choose to be with people who they trust and let go of the toxic ones.

6. They are not afraid to be alone. And even prefer to be all by themselves than be with people they are not comfortable with. Alone time is also a great time for them to recharge.

7. They have their own preferences. They buy only things that they need and are not carried away by the latest trend or fad.

8. Their life is bereft of dull moments because they are interested in a lot of things. They are always doing something that boredom has no place in their life.

9. They are not waiting for someone to make them feel whole. They welcome the coming of soul mates not to complete them but to have someone who shares their views and goals in life.

10. They live life according to how they want it. They don’t care what others think because they don’t allow their life to be based on society’s expectations.


Source: Conscious Reminder;

Harvard Psychologists Say: These Are The 5 Essential Ingredients To Raise ‘Good’ Kids!

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This is probably one of the most difficult times for raising up kids in modern human history.

With the advent of the internet, kids are exposed to things that were once suitable only for adults, and they are exposed from all directions.

They can play violent video games, watch movies or shows with adult themes or expose themselves to cyberbullying, and each of that can have a harmful effect on their psyche.

There are many things that are not even familiar for the parents to be able to take the appropriate action.

As tough as it may seem, parents have to rear their kids to become healthy, responsible and loving individuals, in the midst of all that.

Harvard psychologists provide the following tips for raising up responsible kids in these challenging times.

5 Essential Ingredients To Raise Responsible Kids:Harvard Psychologists 5 Essential Ingredients To Raise 'Good' Kids

1. Spend quality time with your kids.

Your kids won’t remain kids for the rest of their life. But before they have to grow up and stand up for themselves, make sure that you have invested quality time with them.

Spending quality time with your kids will give them happiness that money can’t buy. Because you are there for them, they will not seek for anyone to be their confidant.

Another thing is, you get to teach them things that they need to learn while growing up.

It’s much better for you to guide them in learning important matters about life than having them learn it from their outside friends.

2. Practice what you preach.

Be a role model to your kids. Don’t teach them things that you can’t actually perform.

If you teach them the value of honesty, let them see how honest you are. Kids learn best by example.

As their role models, there’s a big chance that your kids will follow your footsteps. They may even emulate your actions without you telling them.

3. Teach them the right values.

Pass down to your kids what you believe and stand for.

When they know the right values while they are still young, they are able to navigate through the outside world with less confusion.

Even more, they will build upon these values. They will shape the prism that they will use to observe the world with by these values.

You can share your values through stories or anecdotes to make them grasp the essence of what you are trying to say.

When they get old, these stories will remain with them and they might even pass them on to their kids too.

4. Teach them the importance of gratefulness.

Teach your kids to be grateful for everything that they have no matter how small it may seem.

By being grateful, they might be less prone to comparing what they have with that of their friends.

When they know that everything has value, they are likely to take care of their things. And having a grateful heart will make them much happier individuals.

5. Orient them to the outside world.

Make your kids aware of the bigger world outside of your home.

But most of all, teach them to choose for themselves the role that they are about to play. Show them that their actions have consequences.

When they know that their small acts matter, they are more aware of the needs of other people.

Prepare them for all the possibilities of winning or losing, of happiness or sadness or of being liked or disliked. This will train them how to cope with the world’s dark side.

Teach them that not everything will happen their way, but also teach them that they can make anything happen if they find the right way.


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Source: Curious Mind Magazine;

References:
– https://mcc.gse.harvard.edu/parenting-resources-raising-caring-ethical-children/raising-caring-children;

3 Partners You Might Mistake for Your Soul Mate!

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Your soul mate is that special someone you agreed to meet before you come into this world, some would say.

However, this doesn’t mean that they will come into your life exactly when you want to.

You have to go through many obstacles, challenges and self development before the two of you will finally resonate as strongly to pull each other together.

To complicate things even more, many people will come into your life and they will seem to be the right one.

In case your gut is not as precise, watch out for these soulmate lookalikes that most people assume were their real soulmates.

3 Partners You Might Mistake for Your Soul Mate:3 Partners You Mistake for Soul Mate

1. Normal crush that we all experience.

Having a new crush makes you feel excited and inspired. It gives you a warm, fuzzy feeling as if this person is someone really special, almost magical.

You start feeling the butterflies in your stomach. You are emotion drunk.

As you look for signs, you notice that you have mutual interests and even the same tastes and opinions on many different subjects.

But all these things don’t mean that this person is your soulmate. We tend to justify what we want to believe in by finding proofs for that belief while filtering out everything else.

Wait until your initial emotions or feelings will settle. A real soulmate is beyond similarity.

They don’t have to like the same things as you do. A real soulmate makes you feel like both of you are a perfect fit despite logical proof.

In fact, you don’t even bother looking for a proof, you just know!

2. Opposite attraction.

You might be one of those people who gets attracted to the person exactly their opposite.

And at first it will seem like they are there to teach you something, to change you, to expand you. It might be really fun and exciting, just like with a soulmate.

That’s completely normal, both of you can learn so much from your differences. You can always find something in each other that keeps you from getting bored.

On the other hand, being with someone whom you don’t have anything in common will cause a difficulty in the relationship as the days pass.

Besides, you don’t want to be with a person whom you can’t be comfortable with, and if that’s the case they are not your soulmate.

Your soulmate will always make you feel comfortable to be open about all your passions and interests. They do not care if it’s opposite of what they are interested in.

With your soulmate there is no opposite, the fire between you makes everything a whole.

3. Family projection.

There are times when you are swept by the influx of your emotions that you follow your heart without any second thoughts. And you might be right.

But sometimes, what we feel and what we assume is the reason for the way we feel can be 2 very different things.

Very often, the person most people call to be their soulmate is in fact an idea of a soulmate their parents have implanted in their belief system when they were young.

Other times people are attracted to someone who reminds them of one of their parents.

They either want to make up for an emotional negligence they had with their parents, or that’s the only real love they recognize in this world. So they project this idea and reconstruct a similar relationship.

But a real soulmate is not conditioned by any idea. A real soulmate is someone that resonates with you beyond the model of your belief system.

So, if you are on the lookout for your soulmate, be always aware and keep in mind that not everyone who comes is the right one.

7 Steps to Become More Spiritual Every Single Day! (The first 2 are enough)

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To live a highly spiritual existence is not as complicated as you might think. It’s not that weird either.

Being spiritual means to work on your spirit and become spiritually aware. It means that you grow as a person and follow your own journey towards the truth.

You can do each of the following things for a few minutes per day to get more and more spiritual.

7 Steps to Become More Spiritual Every Single Day:7 Steps Become More Spiritual Every Single Day

1. Wake up early and meditate.

If you want to get the best of your day, wake up thirty minutes earlier than your usual waking up time. Dedicate these minutes to meditate.

Meditation helps you gain clarity and focus. When you begin your day by decluttering your mind of unwanted thoughts, you direct your focus to things that need your immediate attention.

Meditation is giving your mind rest before taking action. You’re like a runner who prepares yourself before getting on the track; you are highly focused on how to win the race even before it takes place.

2. Stay present.

Whether you are preparing your meals, driving for work or sending the kids to school, be completely there. Staying in the present moment is creating the habit of mindfulness.

When you are mindful, you do not cling to anything. You deal only with things that life provides you in the present moment.

3. Take a short walk in nature.

Be amazed by the wonders of life by spending time with nature. Maybe there’s a park or garden near your place.

A 10 to 15 minutes brisk walk will do wonders for your system and your spirit. As you walk, contemplate how green are the trees, how fragrant are some flowers or how blue is the sky.

Or on weekends, you can go to the beach and recharge your spirit as you walk barefooted and listen to the calming splashes of the waves. The effect will benefit you for a whole week.

4. Develop a grateful heart.

Be grateful for everything you have in life: your family, your house, your clothing. When you count your blessings, you are opening your doors for more blessings to come.

Be grateful even for the challenges you have in life. Because challenges help you grow, make you strong and foster your growth.

5. Cultivate an open mind.

No matter how you plan your life to be, certain things get in your way that is least expected. But once you are open to every possibility, taking some changes would not be so hard.

Just keep in mind that things happen for a reason. Every person or situation which comes unexpectedly in your way carries a gift that is helpful to you in the long run.

An open mind will also open your eyes to wonderful possibilities that you never once thought possible.

6. Honor your intuition.

Your intuition is the gut feeling that prevents you from doing or urges you into doing certain things with the absence of valid reasoning. It’s a gift you are born with but unable to use as you become more logical.

Start paying more attention to your gut feeling because it will help you with your inner work. It also takes you to the path you were meant to trod.

7. Keep learning.

Learning should not stop once you earn your degree. As the world gradually allows us to become more connected, the opportunity for learning has widened.

You can choose to learn other languages, cultures or other skills. Learning is also a great tool in your spiritual evolution.

Once you expand your learning, you also expand your world as well as your spirit.


Source: Conscious Reminder;

9 Signs That Someone In Your Life is Your Guardian Angel

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Everyone we meet in life is there for a reason.

Some people awake the worst in us while others inspire us to become a better version of ourselves.

And, there are those people who appear as guardian angels in our life at the exact moment when we need their energetic guidance the most.

They could be anyone, a distant sibling, new workmate, a romantic partner, they can be a stranger that works in a coffee shop you know much less than your best friend.

Is there someone in your life who acts as your spiritual protector?

If you have, chances are, they could be your guardian angel sent into the world for the sole purpose of looking over you.

9 Signs That Someone In Your Life is Your Guardian Angel:9 Signs Someone is Your Guardian Angel

1. You are your authentic self when you are with them. There’s no need for you to hide anything because you know they never judge you, but truly see you as you are.

2. You derive the best advice from them. When life gets tough, you know they are the wise souls whom you can run to for the best possible steps to take.

3. You have built a strong bond with them. Even though you don’t know them as much as other people in your life, you easily resonate with their presence.

4. You feel they were meant to be in your life. Even though the odds to your encounter may be great, they found the way into your life at the exact time when you needed them.

5. You are always comforted by their presence. Even if you are in a bad mood, once they are there, they seem to bring sunshine in your life.

6. You feel comfortable sharing your most intimate secrets with them. You sense that there is an unconditional acceptance from their side.

7. You know they accept you without conditions. They see you as an individual and accept you for your uniqueness.

8. You feel that your energy is uplifted when they are around. They always know when to give the best compliments, and the exact right ones that you need at the moment.

9. You have a more positive outlook of the world after you spend time with them. Their energy is like a fix you need to start seeing the beauty all around you.

3 Symptoms You are In Danger of a Spiritual Illness, According to Shamans…

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Shamans are healers who possess higher consciousness. They can peak into other realms of existence and see a bigger picture of reality.

With their healing prowess comes the knowledge of what causes the physical illness that a person suffers from.

If doctors look at the outer aspect of the illness, shamans look at the inner world. They look at the other side of reality, behind the scenes of the physical world.

There are diseases that come from the physical aspect of reality, from the outer world. However, according to shamans, most diseases come from inside.

By all means, diseases must be treated accordingly and our suggestion is to always speak to a professional doctor.

But as we stated earlier, if every possible type of medication doesn’t work, it might be time to look for the main cause of the disease.

According to shamanism, there are a couple of signs that indicate our spirit might be in need of healing. Neglecting these symptoms can cause a spiritual illness and this can lead to a physical illness as well.

3 Symptoms You are In Danger of a Spiritual Illness:

3 Symptoms You are In Danger Spiritual Illness, According to Shamans
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Find out if you or anyone you know experiences these symptoms because their spirits might be in danger of an illness.

1. You are full of fear.

Fear has many causes. Some of it may be injected by outside sources like watching violent movies, watching too much news or hearing second hand stories.

It might be caused by trauma and witnessing firsthand a violent scene. But for whatever the reason, if this fear remains unmanaged and avoided, it will just keep on growing.

Prolonged fear is likely to lead to anxiety. When you are constantly anxious, it will weaken your nerves and even create an imbalance in your system and spiritual being.

But the real problem here is not the fear itself, but the avoidance, the resistance to face your own emotion of fear. It makes you neglect an important part of yourself, a part that just wants to keep you safe.

Facing your fears does not mean doing the exact things that make you afraid, but letting yourself feel the emotion of fear that you’ve resisted.

If you avoid this side of yourself you are suppressing a part of your spirit. By doing this you can not feel whole.

Doing this for a long time might cause you problems with your personal power and self confidence.

2. You feel like nothing really matters.

All of us feels like this from time to time. However, faith is what we hold on to pick ourselves up and find meaning again.

Faith, in whatever you believe in, is deeper than the religion you’ve chose. It’s a psychological program that sources our meaning for existence.

Nobody knows for sure what are we doing here, or why and how everything that’s real came to be. Nobody knows for sure the true purpose of The Universe or whether there is one.

Faith gives us the answers to all of that. And it’s not the point whether they are the real truth or not, but that they enable us to find meaning and create our own journey.

It’s not what we believe in as important as the act of believing in something. That’s what gives you wings and essence to your spirit.

It gives us to hold on to something as we evolve, it gives us a direction to evolve towards.

The Universe is like a sandbox where you choose for yourself what and how you are going to play. Faith gives you the desire to play, it gives the meaning for your game, without it, everything is just a pointless sand.

3. You are neglecting yourself.

For whatever the reason, you start to neglect yourself. It happens gradually.

You neglect your health by eating unhealthy foods or drinking alcohol. You neglect your heart by turning your back to your emotions, intuition and desires.

You might start to hang out with people who you do not resonate with, you might start doing an activity that you do not really like doing.

Whatever it is, you end up doing wrong things and choices that are against your core truth.

You keep on running away from yourself scared of your own judgment, you indulge in activities and substances that give you a momentary escape from reality.

Failing to nurture yourself will ultimately lead to an unhealthy spirit; which in turn, if the negligence lasts for a really long time, it might manifest as a physical illness. The good thing is that you can start listening to yourself at any moment.

Do what’s good for your own mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual health. Be selfish when it comes to nurturing yourself!


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There are Really Just 3 Steps to Achieve Self-Knowledge, But It’s More Complicated Than It Sounds…

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Self-knowledge is the ticket to discovering the divinity within you. It’s what gives you bigger freedom to exercise your free will.

Once you soak yourself in it, your life’s purpose becomes clear and you see your existence in a bigger framework.

Seeing your connectedness with all creation as you saturate yourself in the blending of the world and spirit, is one of the astonishing powers self-knowledge could give you.

You may face several demons along your way, but self-knowledge will redeem you. It will give you strength as you grow day by day all the while helping you evolve to your best self.

The path to obtaining self-knowledge doesn’t come to you in a wishful thinking. It is a path you choose walk every day of your life. But it’s not that hard.

In fact, there are only 3 steps you need to make each day to obtain self-knowledge. However, it’s more complicated than it sounds!

The 3 Steps to Achieve Self-Knowledge:Achieve Self-Knowledge

To obtain self-knowledge and embrace its astonishing powers, follow these seemingly easy steps:

Step 1. Meditate.

You can’t look into the depths of an ocean through a restless water. A noisy mind prevents you from listening your self. It is in the stillness that you quiet your mind from its clutter and listen to the voices that are coming from your depths.

A muddy water is best cleared by letting it become still. In order to acquire self-knowledge you have to be able to look into yourself. The muddiness of your mind will be cleared by practicing stillness through meditation an letting it become still, so you can see within.

Step 2. Stay present.

Mindfulness makes you live in the present moment. It gives you the fullness of joy for being alive. It’s only in the present moment where you can observe reality as it is, without twisting it through the many filters of our psyche.

Being mindful, however, does not guarantee you a mind free of negativity and fear, but detaches you from their influence on your perception. Staying present and being mindful enables you to step back and examine these emotions and the triggers that evoke them.

When you are mindful, you pay close attention and become a detached observer to everything that comes and goes within your mind.

Step 3. Be aware of the things outside and inside of you.

While growing up, you may have been bombarded with limiting beliefs that hinder your growth and learning. You may have been made to believe that you can’t do a certain thing or you don’t deserve something.

Expand your world by acquiring knowledge outside of you. Read books, take courses, and be constantly open to new things and ideas that are different from your own.

Expand your self-knowledge by acquiring information about the way you react and prejudge certain things.

By collecting information both, from outside and within yourself, you are putting together a powerful arsenal that will help you understand your real nature.

That wholeness is the divinity at work in you. Your divine nature is leading you to your life’s deeper purpose.

As you slowly realize that you contain within you everything that you need to achieve your life’s purpose, you find the astonishing power of self-knowledge. The Higher Power provides you the inner wisdom to see your journey and the ability to expand your sense of self that is connected to all and is in all.


Source: Rise EarthConscious Reminder;

7 Not So Famous Ways to Achieve Higher Consciousness (from least to most effective)!

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Perhaps you have done it all: good sleep, meditation, yoga, diet, and exercise, all to achieve higher consciousness.

And you probably had some kind of results. At the beginning, yes. But what about going further?

There comes a moment when you feel like the things you do just do not push you enough to reach higher states of consciousness.

But, let me tell you a secret: what you do is just the beginning of your spiritual journey. Your consciousness can evolve much higher than you can even imagine.

You can achieve so much more!

There are a couple of less known ways for acquiring higher consciousness. Much of these are practiced by people you’ve heard nothing about.

Do any of these 7 secret options and enter a path to even higher consciousness!

7 Not So Famous Ways to Achieve Higher Consciousness:7 Ways Higher Consciousness

These are sorted from least to most effective. However, all 7 are picked out of hundreds of methods and techniques, meaning that they are all one of the most effective ways for reaching higher consciousness.

1. Binaural Beats meditationBinaural Beats meditation

Binaural beats is one of the most popular forms of technology that provides you a benefit with that of meditation.

To understand binaural beats more fully, you need to learn the basics of brain waves.

Your brain cells communicate with each other through generating electricity. This electrical activity then forms patterns known as brain waves.

Each brainwave state is associated with distinct states of consciousness. You can manipulate your brain waves either by meditating or by using binaural beats.

By listening to binaural beats, your brain then synchronizes itself with the beat frequency.

As an effect, you can induce a desired brainwave pattern that allows you to experience the benefits of the brainwave state at will.

When you tap into the Gamma brainwaves, you’ll be at your peak performance, having heightened focus, super concentration, and massive productivity.

That’s how you can open your mind to download higher intelligence from the Cosmic energy that surrounds us.

Here is a variety of binaural beats technology available in Youtube.

2. NootropicsNootropics

In the recent years, the science of mental nutrition has advanced extremely.

Research has been conducted to find out the best foods, minerals, vitamins, herbs, and nutraceuticals that can enhance focus, memory, mental energy, and mood.

This leads to the creation of supplements categorized as “Nootropics”. These supplements are formulated to support the brain’s neural pathways and help in optimum performance.

New emerging companies offer these kinds of supplements, one of which is Neurohacker, a start-up biotech company. This company sees to it that they are at the cutting edge of neuropharmacology.

By supplementing your brain to unlock your mind’s peak performance you are making room for higher consciousness.

The stimulation itself will create new neural connections that can make you perceive the world you live in from a different angle.

3. Travelling for anthropological purposesTravelling for anthropological purposes

While a vacation is an excellent way of restoring yourself, traveling for anthropological purposes restores you in a very different way.

When you expose yourself to places which have a culture far different than your own, most of the things that cause you stress will appear superficial.

Try to visit places not only for the tourist spots they offer but also for the way of life the people there have lived.

This will make you understand a little more about the nature of humans, our consciousness and the different ways each of us could have developed.

Familiarizing yourself with different people, environment, and culture will open up a whole new world that you never knew existed.

You will start connecting different parts of the truth, and it will enlarge your bigger picture.

You’ll get back not only with amazing photos and stories to share, but a higher way of looking at things.

4. Transcendental meditationTranscendental meditation

According to Maharishi Mahesh Yogi, a teacher of transcendental meditation, there are 7 levels of consciousness.

We start with The State of Waking Consciousness; we rise into Deep Sleep; Dreaming; Transcendental Consciousness; Cosmic Consciousness; God Consciousness; and Unity Consciousness;

The first 3 are easily reached by most of us. However, the last 3 are more mysterious and have been reached only by few.

According to him, these higher states of consciousness become accessible only as one engages in regular practice of meditation.

The key according to Maharishi is Transcendental Meditation, maintaining the 4th state of consciousness for a prolonged period of time.

Transcendental consciousness is basically silence. It’s silencing the mind, the senses and the environment, while the consciousness remains awake. It’s just being there in that silence, existing.

“Gradually, with the ability of the nervous system to stay in contact with the fourth state of consciousness, one develops the ability to sustain that inner silence, that unbounded inner reality simultaneously while one is doing things, thinking thoughts, [being] active. Eventually, that becomes stabilized and it becomes a permanent state of consciousness which Maharishi called the Cosmic Consciousness.” – Transcendental Meditation

You can try a sensory deprivation chamber to achieve a complete transcendental experience.

5. Become a VeganBecome a Vegan

Eating foods closer to the Sun is said to increase the level of consciousness.

What are foods closer to the Sun, what does this saying mean?

You eat for energy. However, the energy you consume, the molecule is created through photosynthesis. The leaves of trees and plants are using photons of the Sun to merge C, H and O together, Carbon, Hydrogen and Oxygen.

The molecule releases the exact photons used for its creation and that’s the energy you actually consume when you eat.

Eating foods closer to the Sun means eating first hand foods, vegetables, fruits and plants that were not consumed by something else before.

This way you are using a shorter approach to the photons absorbed, instead of getting them from an animal that ate those plants, or ate an animal that have eaten those plants.

Your organism is using less energy to process foods closer to the Sun and is filled with purer energy.

You save more energy, you gain more energy and you gain purer energy. Your mind is less clouded and there is more power to process higher consciousness.

It’s no wonder brilliant minds like Albert Einstein and Leonardo DaVinci were vegans!

6. Face your deepest fearsFace your deepest fears

It is said that each of our greatest treasure lies in the cave we most fear to enter.

The saying tells us more than just to face our fears, but that each of us have our own unique journey.

On this journey, we all fear different things. But the fact that we fear something so strongly and so intensely, as to call it our greatest fear, tells us that there is something special beyond that fear especially.

Your biggest compass toward your greatest treasure is your biggest fear.

The treasure, however, is not a thing you find beyond the fear, but the act of facing your greatest fear itself. It’s about defusing this powerful force that lingers inside your psyche.

The freedom we feel after facing our fears is a sign that this limiting force that operated a big part of our life is no longer that powerful and has no influence over our decisions. Well, at least for a while.

Fear never goes away, it’s a program of your psyche that’s there to keep you safe.

So fear is not bad by default, but leaving it unmanaged to grow so big as to take control over your life, is.

However, in that window of limitless freedom that we experience after we face our greatest fears, we make an opening for our consciousness to evolve.

Some say that the act of facing your greatest fears is the most powerful inducer for acquiring higher consciousness.

It’s the moment of immersion in that limitless reality when we stretch our mind and perception of possibilities. The opening of the gates that kept our energy stifled for so long give us a powerful energy boost. We feel ecstatic, alive, as we live for the first time ever.

All of these elements force our consciousness to grow into higher levels of vibration.

7. Read Carl Jung and his take on The Shadow SelfThe Shadow Self

Each of us is dual by nature.

“If only it were all so simple! If only there were evil people somewhere insidiously committing evil deeds, and it were necessary only to separate them from the rest of us and destroy them. But the line dividing good and evil cuts through the heart of every human being. And who is willing to destroy a piece of his own heart?” ― Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn

Our psyche is like a big dark room. Our conscious part is like a light in that big dark room, but the darkness is also a part of our psyche, it’s our unconscious part.

Both our light and our darkness are a part of us, no matter if what we are aware of is just the light.

Sometimes this light creates shadows that we do not like to face inside this big dark room. And we leave them there. We avoid them. We are scared of facing them.

But these shadows play major role in our decisions, and the fact that we are not aware of them just makes them more and more powerful.

“That which we do not bring to consciousness appears in our lives as fate.” ― Carl Jung

The famous psychologist Carl Jung called these shadows as a collective entity he named The Shadow Self.

Diving deep in our psyche we can become aware of these shadows and, eventually, face them in order to reveal what they are really shadows of.

By casting the light of our consciousness at the shadows, they are gone, and we can get a better understanding of the big dark room.

That’s how each of us can unite the darkness and the light within us, and stop projecting monsters at the world that are spawn by the internal battle of the both.

And one of the best ways you can start this journey is by reading Carl Jung’s explanation of The Shadow Self.

“One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious. The latter procedure, however, is disagreeable and therefore not popular.” ― Carl Jung

Choose 1 of these 7 not-so-famous ways and try it out. All of them can do wonders. And most importantly, do not forget to have fun on your journey!


References:
– http://in5d.com/100-ways-to-become-more-conscious/;
– https://tmhome.com/books-videos/7-states-of-consciousness-video-interview/;
– https://academyofideas.com/2015/12/carl-jung-and-the-shadow-the-hidden-power-of-our-dark-side/;