Luca Occelli is one of the coaches that we found this month and we did a little interview with him. He impressed us with his life story.

It was like something divine helped him steer from the wrong path of drug addiction and get into helping people connect with their own divinity within.

He is Reconnected Healing Practitioner, EFT, EMDR practitioner, a Hypnotherapist, a Metaphysical Counsellor, he studied psychology and became a Family Constellation Facilitator.

However, his true uniqueness lies in his kindness. His faith is in love and life and he truly believes that anyone can find this divine essence within them. Here is what he said.

Meet Life Coach Luca Occelli:

Name: Luca Occelli
Pillar: The Spirit
Who is this coach for: Anyone who wants to get in charge of their life experience and connection with their true essence and real self.
How they can help: By using different modalities depending on client’s needs, like EMDR, Family Constellations, Reconnective Healing, just to name a few.

First of all, how are you and your family doing in these Pandemic times?

We have all been fine.

How does the coronavirus pandemic affect your clients? Did it affect you at all?

My clients have been affected by the pandemic in various ways.

Some have experienced high level of anxiety due to the drastic changes of their lifestyle. Some have understood what they truly wanted to do in life and took it as an opportunity.

These have been the two major opposite scenario while in the middle there has been a variety of people who have experienced it challenging and stimulating in different areas of their life.

I personally wasn’t able to travel between London and Italy as I used to and started working more online.

What are the biggest lessons that you learned in this pandemic?

I learned that in a very short space of time things can drastically change. To be able to cope with the unknown is invaluable.

Gratitude is truly at the root of enjoying what we have and also what allows us to get more of what we already have.

Family and relationships are at the core of our wellbeing

The Origin:

Tell us about you, your career, how you started with your coaching career?

For me everything started when in 2002 after I have been taking drugs for 12 years and not having much faith in Life. I met someone I didn’t know in a bar in central London that told me he was a medium and that he had a message for me from my mum that had passed away six years before.

He said that my mum wanted me to know that she was absolutely fine and that she would come down in a flash to help me as she did many times but it was time that I took responsibility for my own well being and change my lifestyle.

Also she wanted him to tell me to be careful not to drink and drive and not to get into cars with people that had been drinking for the next two weeks. It all made sense since only two weeks before this encounter, while crossing the street without paying attention because I had taken lots of drugs, I had been run over by a car. Although I almost smashed the windshield of the car with my head, I was totally uninjured. I had others two major car accidents during the previous three years and although the cars were destroyed I always got away without any injuries.

I haven’t seen that man afterwards but that encounter changed my entire Life.

I choose to believe that what he told me could be true and so I literally looked up as if to speak to that God that up that point I hated it for taking my mum away at the age of 47, when I was only 25 and with a very confrontational attitude I pronounced this words: Ok then, wherever you are, whoever you are, if you exist, help me out, I want to change.

I then felt a kind of inner ecstasy that words cannot describe and was feeling better than if had taken the best drugs I could ever find but it was all natural.

In retrospect I simply opened myself up to the Spiritual Truth that we are more than just humans, we are literally Spiritual being having a human experience.

Since than I started meditating, attending spiritual and personal growth seminars and studied to become a Reconnected Healing Practitioner, EFT, EMDR practitioner, a Hypnotherapist, a Metaphysical Counsellor, then I studied Psychology and became a Family Constellation Facilitator.

I am still gaining new knowledge and understanding of how Mind and Spirit can work together to help us being more of who we truly are.

What was your biggest obstacle that you had to overcome in your life that made you who you are today?

The biggest obstacle was the 12 years drug addiction. That was the major catalyst contributing to who I am today.

The Coaching Style:

How do you innovate with coaching your clients?

I help clients to overcome challenges and increase their level of well being and the quality of their life using different modalities that can all be useful cording to the situation presented.

If someone wants to overcome a particular trauma I use EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing).

It is a structured therapy that encourages the client to briefly focus on the trauma memory while simultaneously experiencing bilateral stimulation via eye movements, which is associated with a reduction in the vividness and emotion associated with the trauma memories.

For many other challenges I may use Hypnotherapy to allow the inner unconscious resources of the client to be used.

The solution to the challenges the client is facing are all inside themselves and I allow them to tap into their own inner source of wisdom creating a relaxing trance during which all possibilities can be explored and then put into action.

I also use Family Constellations since the influence of the family system is determining how people relate with themselves, others and the world in general.

They are an extremely effective method to address the root cause of limiting patterns generated by hidden loyalties towards some family member and energetic entanglements.

I use a methods I have learned that his called Hypno Constellation. During the process the client is invited to experience first hand how people he has issues with are feeling allowing them to become more emphatic and more able to find the solutions to their problems.

I also see people that are willing to undergo a journey of inner growth and discovering using Metaphysical Counselling.

Metaphysical Counselling provides the awareness and the tools to connect with one’s own Divine Essence getting rid of mental conditioning and strengthening the line of communication with one’s own spiritual GPS.

I also facilitate session of Reconnective Healing to restore balance and order so that the client can experience self healing and accelerate their own evolutionary process by being exposed to this particular frequencies.

What’s unique about your coaching approach?

It is supported by Universal Love.

It takes into account that we are One with Life and with Everyone.

Life can be lived effortless when we trust and let go!

What benefits do your clients get after working with you?

Each one receive what’s most appropriate for them.

If I had to generalize I would say that they all gain more awareness, greater physical, emotional, mental and spiritual wellbeing.

A greatest sense of being in charge of their Life experience. Greater inner peace and connection with their Essence, with Who They Truly Are.

Do you use any specific tools to be efficient with your clients?

Presence and inner guidance first and foremost, then all the experience and knowledge that I have accumulated over the years.

The Impact:

If you had a super megaphone that, when you speak into, the whole world will hear your message, what would you say?

Nothing has any intrinsic meaning except the one you give.

You are what you choose to be in any given time.

Life is what you make of it!

What is the greatest lesson you have learned in your life?

The most important thing in Life is Love and Love equals Respect and Faith in Life.

Your final thoughts?

In Life many things happen that are out of our control and we cannot choose.

What we have some power over is our attitude and the way to respond to what happens to us.

I invite everyone to consider that things happen for us and through us, not to us.

This shift in perception can allow us to learn more from our experiences without feeling as if we are the victims.

We are the creator, the writers of our Life Story.

What kind of Story are you choosing to write?

Where Can You Find Luca Occelli?

If you liked this interview and you would love to see how Luca can help you get in charge of your own life experience, go to https://www.lucaoccelli.com/ and discover your next step in your journey.

If you want to get a glimpse of his coaching, follow his YouTube channel where he actively shares videos weekly, you can also follow his page on Facebook.

If you want to connect directly with him, follow his Instagram account and Facebook profile. It was an honor having this interview with him.

Chloe Lindsey is one of the coaches that we found this month and we did a little interview with her. She impressed us with her raw honesty and strength of character.

What she has been through till now not a lot of people can say they go through in one whole lifetime. She has learned one of the hardest lessons of life when she was very young.

However, she is using all those difficult lessons to evolve more and help others transform into their most authentic versions.

She is an entrepreneur, an experienced and licensed life coach, speaker, and DISC trainer through The Maxwell Leadership Team. Here is what she said.

Meet Life Coach Chloe Lindsey:

Name: Chloe Lindsey
Pillar: The Spirit
Who is this coach for: Anyone who wants to transform into their most authentic self.
How they can help: Mindfulness and meditation practices, guidance, support.

First of all, how are you and your family doing in these Pandemic times?

We are doing just fine. At this point, I feel we have all begun to adjust to “The New Normal”.

How does the coronavirus pandemic affect your clients? Did it affect you at all?

My clients seem to have acclimated, at this point.

I personally had the virus twice. The last time was the worst experience. I had it for almost a month and it felt as if I were dying every night and then waking up the next day, to do it all again.

I also am more careful about my brother being exposed.

What are the biggest lessons that you learned in this pandemic?

To just “BE STILL”.

I feel that we were all given an opportunity to slow down and figure out who we are, who we are not, what we want and what we want to release.

Trying to control anything outside of yourself, just causes chaos.

So, Just “BE STILL” and KNOW.

The Origin:

Tell us about you, your career, how you started with your coaching career?

I am an entrepreneur, with a life coaching business. I am certified as a Life Coach, Speaker, and DISC Trainer through The Maxwell Leadership Team.

My business is Soul2.Soul.Connections LLC. My website is s2sconnections.com. I am a Mindfulness, Transformational, and Embodiment: Life Coach and Spiritual Consultant.

I am certified in Crystal and Chakra Healing as well as certified in Sound therapy: Singing Bowls, Tuning Forks, and Pyramids.

I got started in coaching because I have gone through so much life in a short amount of time. I have been a C.N.A since the age of 17, taking care of the elderly and disabled.

I have raised and cared for my brother, who has Cerebral Palsy and is wheelchair-bound, and have since, the age of 7.

I have lost both of my parents by the time I was 28. I have known “death” and “loss” every year since the age of 5.

I have had 9 near death experiences in my life, the last one was this past March. I was involved in a hit and run that totaled my car, broke my hip in 2 places, fractured my ribs, and had internal bleeding.

I have and continue to turn all my pain into my purpose. My purpose is to speak to people and coach and inspire them. If I CAN do it. They can TOO!

What was your biggest obstacle that you had to overcome in your life that made you who you are today?

If I must choose JUST one, it will probably have to be the loss of my mother. She was my rock and the only constant in my life. After her tragic death, I had to learn a new way of being.

Someone who had to become 100 percent self sufficient and self reliant. I had to step up in the world and decide, who I wanted to be and release all that I was not.

The Coaching Style:

How do you innovate with coaching your clients?

I use my personal experience, my 20 years of spiritual connectedness, practices, and techniques.

As well as all of the schooling and coursework I’ve learned along the way.

So, I can offer a more personal experience, with my own curriculum, courses, and programs.

What’s unique about your coaching approach?

I’m just authentically myself. I am a safe space and people can feel that energy NEVER lies.

I offer them love and support, as well as life experiences and the knowledge, to be able to fit them in the “right for them” program.

What benefits do your clients get after working with you?

They get knowledgeable information to help assist them in their transformation.

Do you use any specific tools to be efficient with your clients?

Mindfulness and Meditation Practices.

Helping people see the importance of being intentional with their thinking and the power they hold within.

Using their inner power as the only tool they need to get the success, they are seeking.

The Impact:

If you had a super megaphone that, when you speak into, the whole world will hear your message, what would you say?

To LOVE YOURSELF.

When you truly love yourself, I mean, all aspects of who you are, the “good” and the “bad”, while showing yourself forgiveness and compassion, you evolve.

Being that we accept the love we think we deserve, we must KNOW our limitless potential.

That will then mirror back to you in the form of other people.

And if we all have this unconditional love for ourselves, we will find our way back to a world that knows peace.

What is the greatest lesson you have learned in your life?

My greatest lesson learned is that nothing is permanent, the flow of life, is both the “birth” and the “death” of something.

To know the differences between “Attachment” and “Connection”. The importance of boundaries, healing, and Self Love. And most importantly to live UNAPOLOGETICALLY AUTHENTIC.

Your final thoughts?

Life is not easy, but it is worth it.

I don’t think people are truly afraid to “Die”, I feel like they are afraid to “Live”. Because that means you must take 100 percent responsibility for your own life.

You don’t get to blame anyone or anything else, and only the courageous can sit with themselves, and face all that pain, without numbing themselves.

To LIVE is to mindfully decide every day, what thoughts and emotions are serving your highest good and releasing the rest.

Attachment is ego based and will hurt you every time and connection is divine and it always shows up, right on time.

Where Can You Find Chloe Lindsey?

If you liked this interview and you would love to find out how Chloe can help you transform into your most authentic self, go to https://s2sconnections.com/ and you’ll find the next steps of your journey.

If you like to connect with her directly, make sure to add her on Facebook or follow her on Instagram. It was an honor having this interview with her.

Deb Jones is one of the coaches that we found this month and we did a little interview with her. She impressed us with her honesty and courage.

She has always been empathetic and wanted to help people. From being a police officer to being a life coach, Deb faced many lessons that made her wiser and more experienced.

Over the last 17 years she has been growing, learning and expanding her business and skills to support her clients with their mental, emotional and spiritual growth.

She is definitely a woman that walks her talk. She helps her clients unstuck themselves from subconscious blockages and live a life full of meaning. Here is what she said.

Meet Life Coach Deb Jones:

Name: Deb Jones
Pillar: The Spirit
Who is this coach for: Anyone who feels stuck or blocked in life and wants to liberate themselves.
How they can help: By using a drawn timeline of the client’s life and a Block Clearance Therapy.

First of all, how are you and your family doing in these Pandemic times?

I am lucky to say we all made it through and are fighting fit.

The pandemic was life changing for us all. Seeing the meaning to what we were facing helped both me and my older children to maximize our experiences in a positive way, however challenging it was at the time.

Personally, my life entering lockdown looked very different to what it has transformed into.

I decided to uproot my life and move to another country, taking my business with me to Spain from the UK. My need for growth and expansion pushed me beyond my limits to a new life I could not have imagined!

How does the coronavirus pandemic affect your clients? Did it affect you at all?

Like most therapists, my business previously was all in person before switching to zoom almost over night.

Naturally, I lost some clients in the lockdown due to finances and those who were unable to gain privacy within their home to talk about their issues.

This was a tough time for most, having given up their freedom, social contact and income and the difficult experience of family being together in the confines of their home, and for others to be completely alone.

For me, I suddenly found myself alone, unable to see my children and fear and panic set in.

I was recently separated and had just bought my own home, how was I to financially cope? How would I mentally survive?

What I so quickly learned was how my external world pulled together, and were so resourceful in keeping in touch and providing entertainment for each other.

We made it fun! I was learning a new way of being and was loving it!

I could see I was being given time, time to complete tasks I had not yet accomplished, time to heal and work on my separation and financial support for my business, so The Universe provided for me in SO many ways.

I felt very grateful for this time that I would never get again in my life and I took as much meaning from it as I could.

I transferred this insight to my clients to help them understand their learning and stay positive and connected.

And then, my life changed. I woke up one morning with the idea to move to Spain.

I have no idea where that came from other than a previous dream laid dormant, but I intuitively knew to trust it.

I put the house on the market, told my family and friends and 5 months later I’m on a plane with my son to Malága!

The pandemic gave me a gift and a path that I chose to follow and so pleased I did. I will be forever grateful.

What are the biggest lessons that you learned in this pandemic?

I learned to be still, to listen to my inner world and not be afraid of it.

To enjoy the simple things in life and take away the white noise of the life we previously led and notice all that is important.

To be resourceful, productive and consistent.

And most importantly that what we want in life does not need to be a dream, it can be a reality!

The Origin:

Tell us about you, your career, how you started with your coaching career?

I feel I have always possessed empathy. It has always felt natural for me to want to help and listen to people.

I had gone through life with a want to help people on a deeper level, which in previous professions as a Police Officer and Parenting adviser, could not meet. So, I trained as an Integrative Counsellor in 2005.

Over the last 17 years I have been growing, learning and expanding my business and skills to support clients with their mental, emotional and spiritual growth.

In 2010 I had a spiritual awakening with the sudden sad loss of my cousin, which led me to explore my life and beyond it. My life needed to change if I was to grow and complete my life purpose.

Through my own discoveries and finding an esoteric spiritual guide I found a therapy called Block Clearance Therapy®, this connected me to my spiritual higher self and from here my life accelerated and I felt my purpose became clear.

My purpose was to help others with their understanding of their deeper mental health process and their spiritual connection.

I have noticed that the clients who are drawn to me very quickly tell me they are looking for that connection. I enjoy using the mix of traditional therapy, subconscious work and spiritual meaning in my sessions to give a holistic therapeutic approach to my work.

What was your biggest obstacle that you had to overcome in your life that made you who you are today?

Outwardly I have always appeared to have confidence. I have been a performer, a police officer, mother, wife, therapist, friend and appeared to do it with ease but this has not always been the case for me internally.

I have always needed hand holding. My inner child is vulnerable at times, scared and lacks confidence and self belief and at times it deceives me.

I believe becoming single again, in a pandemic and finding myself living this chapter alone, has taught me self reliance, self confidence and belief and that I can move forward and face challenges far beyond my parameters.

So the push to move to a new country, to a culture and language I did not then know has now catapulted me to the next level of growth. In my eyes, that’s a huge obstacle overtaken!

The Coaching Style:

How do you innovate with coaching your clients?

I have no set plan at the outset.

I work with what the client brings, often described as a ‘jumbled up ball of wool’, so we grab a strand and follow it.

It often feels like a mess for them and it is from my skill set that I can see more clearly what is the root cause of their distress.

Clarity is what they are coming for, so they feel less powerless and regain hope.

Understanding and applying meaning to each of their situations helps my clients to find their lesson.

When they discover this, we can then work together to turn that back into power and balanced responsibility to help them get back on track in their lives.

Using the subconscious, Block Clearance Therapy helps us to access their early memories to find the root cause and reconnect with their inner child, this empowers them to make positive changes and recreate new patterns.

What’s unique about your coaching approach?

I have a unique skill set, that I built up for over 50 years even before I was a coach. It’s like no other toolkit.

I love the different dimensions of the work I offer, the pure essence of me that allows me to help people grow. I’m warm, intuitive, honest and at times direct but always from a place of compassion and intention.

What benefits do your clients get after working with you?

A client described my therapy as a laundry basket, washed, ironed and folded at the end of each session. I walk their journey with them until they are ready to walk it alone.

Do you use any specific tools to be efficient with your clients?

In my first session I draw a timeline of the client’s life, from birth to the present day to include everyone and everything significant that has been part of their journey.

From that, we can follow family patterns to where they are struggling now. Ordering their life in chronological order is a powerful tool of self reflection and insight, and I believe that the biggest part of our work together is done in those early weeks using the timeline.

The Impact:

If you had a super megaphone that, when you speak into, the whole world will hear your message, what would you say?

“If you always do what you’ve always done, you will always get what you’ve always got”

If you want change, if you feel stuck or blocked I’m here to help you free yourself to live your life with more meaning.

What is the greatest lesson you have learned in your life?

That we can only be happy, truly happy, love and truly feel love if we know ourselves.

We can seek validation, love and happiness from outside sources, but unless we spend time with ourselves and in our internal world, nothing will feel stable.

I have loved this chapter of my life alone, learning about what I want and don’t want moving forward, what fills me with joy, who I want in my life and what I want to do to fill my time.

For the first time, life feels like I’m living it.

Your final thoughts?

I am here in this life to fulfill a purpose to heal myself and others on their soul journey of growth and expansion.

I feel privileged to support those souls through their pain, and to help them gain meaning to their life that can often lighten the load of this road we travel.

Doing this healing work gives so much joy and meaning to my life.

I send love and light to the souls on my journey from the past, present and yet to come.

Where Can You Find Deb Jones?

If you liked this interview and you would love to unstuck yourself to live a life that truly makes you happy, go to https://www.theenglishtherapist.com and see how Deb can help you.

If you like to catch a glimpse of her coaching, follow her on Instagram or connect with her directly on Facebook. It was an honor having this interview with her.