10 Destructive Myths You Have About Life And Need To Replace With These Universal Truths

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February 13, 2018

After four years of her bout with cancer, Anita Moorjani’s organs started shutting down putting her into a deep coma. The doctor informed her family that her organs failed and she’s in the final hours of her life.

What was supposed to be the end was just the beginning of Moorjani’s second life. After 30 hours of deep sleep, Moorjani woke up and recalled how she was greeted by her deceased father and her best friend.

Both encouraged her to return back because it was not yet her time to exit from this physical world.

With much reluctance, she obliged and woke up from coma. Interestingly enough, within 4 days, her tumor shrunk about 70% and within 5 weeks she was cancer-free.

Her experience of NDE (Near Death Experience) was considered exceptional.

For this, she has been connected to organizations studying about NDE, got invited to speak about her experience and insights, and finally wrote a New York Times Bestseller book Dying To Be Me.

Anita Moorjani began to be sought after by suffering people who want healing the way she had had. Unluckily, as more and more people spoke to her of their suffering, the more she felt inadequate of helping them all.

After opening her soul to the universe, she received the insight that love for self is the key to helping people; and that “when you love yourself and know your true worth, there’s nothing you cannot do or heal…” It was knowing her worth that healed her cancer.

With this in mind, Moorjani wishes to guide us through the common myths of life we deemed true but are actually false.

We need to replace these 10 myths with the universal truths to find our true worth.

10 Destructive Myths Most People Have:

Myth 1: You deserve your lot.

Universal truth: Love is your birthright; you don’t need to earn it.

You’re worthy of unconditional love no matter what people say or think about you. In the other realm, we’re all recognized as beautiful, magnificent, and powerful creation of the universe.

Myth 2: You’re selfish if you love yourself.

Universal truth: You can’t love anyone else unless you love yourself first.

Loving yourself stems within you. When you feel the love for yourself, you won’t consume it, instead you’re able to share it. The more you share love, the more it exponentially grows.

Myth 3: Anything can happen in real love.

Universal truth: You can’t love another unconditionally until you love yourself unconditionally.

When unconditional love is present between people, no one is being used or abused because in a relationship such as this, both people enjoy the benefits. People who genuinely love unconditionally want only the best for the other person.

There is total acceptance where each one is accepted as they truly are without expecting them to fit in a certain idea or expectations.

Loving unconditionally could even mean letting the other person go than obligate or manipulate them to love you back.

Myth 4: We’re not okay.

Universal truth: We’re born perfect in every way.

Seeking guidance from outside yourself is not so much helpful because you’re born perfect as you are. You’re already everything you ever wanted to be.

You only feel broken because you’ve temporarily forgotten who you are.

Don’t take that the presence of challenges in your life indicates there’s something wrong with you. These challenges are essential in your journey of coming back to yourself.

Myth 5: Health care holds the key to our health.

Universal truth: Seeking guidance and deciding on the best course of action lies in your hands.

Doctors and other health-care professionals only validate our physical condition, providing us with every piece of information we need. Seeking guidance and deciding the best course of action to take lies in yourself and no one else.

Poor health does not only indicate a medical problem, it also points out to your mental, emotional, or spiritual state of health.

Having an illness doesn’t mean you’re a victim because illness don’t come out of nowhere. There is more you can do in improving the state of your health.

An illness comes with different purposes. At times, it serves as a teacher or a wake-up call showing you a better path and not an evil to be destroyed, a consequence of a bad karma, or the result of negative thinking.

Even death could be a friend. You’ll gain a better perspective of the whole situation if you seek for the messages that an illness brings you. Once you see this, you’ll become more empowered and may change the outcome.

Myth 6: It’s all coincidence.

Universal truth: We’re part of one big, cosmic whole that’s intricately connected.

Because we are part of this big, cosmic whole, anything that harms another also harms us, and what helps another also helps us.

From a state of non-duality, everything that happens is perfect as it is; but from a limited earthly perspective, we see it differently.

Myth 7: Sins are paid at the time of death.

Universal truth: Only unconditional love and compassion exists on the other realm.

In the other realm, no one judges us or punishes us for the things we do or didn’t do while we’re on Earth. Our infinite selves—who we are on the other side—are completely devoid of any part of our physical-world identity.

We don’t carry our emotions with us. Instead, we feel only unconditional love, understanding, complete acceptance, and joyous ecstasy for being united with the divine and all that is.

Myth 8: Spiritual people are devoid of egos.

Universal truth: The ego is necessary for survival in the physical world and not an enemy that needs to be overcome.

The physical realm is a reality where we are to experience separation and duality with all its contrasting qualities. Without ego, it would be impossible to have experience this fully.

Upon birth, we’re equipped with a healthy ego and a healthy sense of conscious awareness. By loving ourselves and embracing our ego, we’re able to see ourselves beyond our ego, becoming fully aware of our infinite selves.

Myth 9: Women are weaker than men.

Universal truth: Both gender are needed to make a complete and balanced whole.

No gender is either superior or inferior in relation to each other because physical bodies don’t exist in the spirit realm.

Myth 10: Always remain positive.

Universal truth: Pushing negative thoughts away don’t make them disappear.

We are not our thoughts because thoughts come and go, and we have no control as to which thoughts will enter into our mind. The best we can do is see negative thoughts as they are.

Emotions associated with negativity, such as pain, anger, frustration, fear, and others must be embraced. These emotions are naturally part of being human.

Don’t think that experiencing them is being less spiritual. Rather, embrace pain and then allow yourself enough room to grow from the experience.

A negative thought doesn’t hurt as much as not loving ourselves enough.

Source: https://upliftconnect.com/how-to-experience-heaven-on-earth/ by Anita Moorjani;

9 Ways To Avoid BPA Toxicity In Your Life

Nutrition

Nezel Padayhag

February 12, 2018

9 Ways To Avoid BPA Toxicity In Your Life

Bisphenol A, or BPA, is a dangerous chemical that poses health risks including digestive problems, brain development, fertility problems, male impotence, heart disease, and other conditions.

BPA is found in the environment and in the manufactured products we use everyday. Some of it include water bottles, baby bottles, dental fillings and sealants, dental devices, medical devices, eyeglass lenses, DVDs, CDs, household electronic items, sports equipment, and can also be found in epoxy resins used to coat the insides of food and drink cans.

Being most harmful on developing brains and bodies, the amount of risk from BPA is greater in pregnant women and children.

Despite the claims of the industry that BPA exposure level is safe, a prolonged contact with the chemical must be everyone’s concern.

9 Ways To Avoid BPA Toxicity:

1. Avoid canned goods.

Not all companies took BPA out of their canning processes. Even if there are some who did, it’s still safe to avoid it altogether.

Your best bet would be to buy products in glass jars or cardboard box. Or, if you can, buy foods that are either fresh, frozen, or dried.

2. Quit canned soda.

To begin with, Soda is not even a health option. But if you still want to consume one, having them from a soda fountain is a better alternative.

3. Turn down receipts or wash your hands after handling them.

BPA can also be found in most types of receipts. This means the moment you hold one, you’re allowing BPA to pass from your hands through your body.

Turn down the receipts if you can, but if you can’t, make sure to wash your hands as soon as you get the chance to do so. Washing hands before handling food is the best way to ensure you’re not allowing any toxins to get to you through your food.

However, there are BPA free receipts, like thermal paper from Appleton Paper and regular bond paper.

4. Discard the type 3 and type 7 plastics right away.

Check out the type of plastic used in your products. The number is usually found at the bottom of it.

Discard right away the number 3 and 7 types so as to avoid your children to be drinking from this BPA-laden plastic.

5. Use BPA free jars in canning your food.

If you want to preserve your harvest or make pickles, see to it that you’re using a jar that is not laden with BPA. Some jars contain BPA in their lining.

Make sure to check the label when you shop.

6. Breastfeed your baby.

While nursing your baby is the best way to ensure they’re fully nourished, it’s also a great way to avoid BPA toxins from getting into their tiny bodies and affecting their development.

If nursing them isn’t possible, try using powdered formula. Find tips and seek advice from professionals on how to feed your baby safely using bottles.

7. Choose wooden toys instead of plastic.

Toddlers and children have an innate nature of putting into their mouth everything they could put their hands on. Wooden toys is much safer in their mouths than plastic toys do.

8. Check out the label before buying an item.

All products sold in the market have labels on them. Check out these labels and avoid the items which contain BPA.

9. Don’t microwave your food in a plastic dish.

Instead of using a plastic dish, use another alternative, most especially cookware designed for the microwave. And make sure the ceramics, glass or plastic container you use are safe for microwave use.

References:
– https://www.care2.com/greenliving/best-ways-to-avoid-bpa.html;
– https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/221205.php;

3 Ancient Rituals That Can Shower Your Spirit With Positivity

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Life Coach Code

Nezel Padayhag

February 12, 2018

3 Ancient Rituals That Can Shower Your Spirit With Positivity

Most people renew the commitments they have for themselves in the beginning of the year, others during their birthday. While cleaning your slate in a specified time is good, having it cleaned on a regular basis works best too.

Your spirit needs regular cleansing and renewal to face every day with a positivity that is more aligned with your happiness and attract the good things that you deserved.

Different cultures have their own varying traditions for the renewal of life as well as the spirit.

Whatever your faith is you may try the following rituals from the ancient traditions to boost your happiness and shape your life and spirit the way you want it to be.

3 Ancient Rituals That Bring Positivity To Your Spirit:

1. Make a household shrine.

The purpose of a household shrine is to make you feel good every time you enter your abode. It’s something that reminds you of comfort, joy, safety, and well-being.

You have all the freedom as to how you prefer to design your shrine. Items that are commonly used are family souvenirs, your most cherished items, or gifts from your loved ones.

Flowers and plants are great additions too.

2. Honor your ancestors.

In ancient times, family history is considered sacred. The ancestors played a big role in shaping a child’s identity while growing up.

The ancestors role in anyone’s life might not be that significant these days, but giving them honor and credit for what you’ve become is a good idea.

Look back at your lineage and find out how your ancestors lived, what are their roles, and how they contributed to the person that you are today.

By knowing your family history, you’re revitalizing the type of spirit that has been present from your great, great grandparents.

3. Set a night for stargazing.

Stargazing is a powerful ritual that can connect you to the incredible majesty of the universe.

Watching the stars gives you a feeling of being connected to something as enormous as the unlimited universe. No matter how small you are in the grand scheme of the universe, you feel that your whole being is part of it.

The starts are more visible on a dark night. Sit outside with a flask of tea, wine, or hot chocolate. You could play your favorite song in the background while giving reverence for life.

Stargazing with a loved one, friend, or child is a best experience too.

Inspired By: https://www.consciousreminder.com/2018/02/04/7-ancient-rituals-renew-life-spirit-happiness/;

7 Clear Signs You’re In One Sided Relationship With Your Partner

Attitude

Nezel Padayhag

February 12, 2018

7 Clear Signs You’re In One Sided Relationship With Your Partner

People are not perfect, so are relationships. A smooth flowing relationship takes place when both partners put their efforts to make it work.

But because people are fragile, there comes a point that they overlook where their relationship is heading, especially when one partner is willing to give more than is asked of them.

When one person freely gives, the other partner always take until this could become a pattern. However, people are beings not designed to only give but to take as well.

The one who gives without taking will soon deplete themselves of their own self nourishment. This could result to unhappiness and exhaustion which would eventually hurt the person and the relationship.

If you feel exhausted and out of balance in your relationship, then it might be one sided. Here are more clues that tell you you’re relationship is one sided.

7 Clear Signs You’re In One Sided Relationship:

1. You’re always there for them but they can’t do the same for you.

They are your number one priority in life. Whenever they need you by their side, you’re able to ditch everything in your schedule just to be with them.

But when you’re on the same situation, you hardly have their attention. They can’t be with you always.

2. They’re a part of your life, without feeling a part of theirs.

You have allowed them to enter in your life. They’ve meet your close friends, peers, or even family. Whatever the events in your life is, you always make sure they’re present.

However, you have a hard time entering into their lives. It’s as if their life is private and you’re not welcome to enter nor become a part of it.

It makes you feel you’re just one of their colleagues and not someone special.

3. It’s always you who make the effort of having a time together.

When it comes to giving them your time, no one beats your generosity. You’re able to set aside everything if you want to be with them.

But, when you ask them of their time, they’re either busy or doing something very important, as if you’re not one of those important things.

You lost count of the alibis they’ve given you. If this is the case, it’s clear they’re not that serious in the relationship.

4. You’re not your true self in their presence.

You’re on constant guard in their presence, making sure every act or word you say is right, otherwise they’ll get turned off when your actions or words don’t please them.

In short, when in their company, you’re a person other than your true self. And this exhausts you because it makes you feel uncomfortable to pretend you’re someone that you’re not.

Feeling discomfort in the presence of someone who is suppose to accept you as you are is definitely ironic.

5. You’re always asking for apology.

You could no longer remember how many times you say ‘I’m sorry’. An apology is always expected from you whenever they find a flaw in your manners or words no matter how simple or silly it appears.

If this is a regular occurrence in your relationship, you have to think twice. Ask yourself if you want to share your life with a person who does not make you feel good.

6. You think twice before talking to them.

As a loving partner that you are, you love to call them at the end of the day just to ask how their day went. Instead of thanking you, they’ll get angry with you for disturbing them and even make you feel guilty about it.

Thus, you have to think twice every time you feel the nudge of calling them. On the other hand, they’re too busy to even give you a quick call. They seem to be so distant, you find it difficult to make a connection.

7. They make you feel that your relationship is an obligation they need to do.

You always find the initiative of keeping your romance alive. Whenever you ask them to do their part, they’ll feel as if they’re obliged to do something and not because they truly love you.

They’ll give you the freedom to do all the plan and the execution, while they just go along as if they can’t do anything about it.

Source: https://themindsjournal.com/signs-one-sided-relationship/;

Follow These 9 Wise Guidelines To Improve The Quality of Your Life!

Attitude

Nezel Padayhag

February 11, 2018

We have the potential to change our reality by choosing rightly the right actions and receive the potential reaction.

9 Wise Guidelines To Improve The Quality of Your Life

1. Whatever you do (sow), you will receive (reap) exactly the same in return. This applies to anything you do, whether they be positive or negative. Try to be as positive as you can so as to have a positive reality.

2. You are not a mute spectator in this journey of life. You have to be active and participate in making things happen. Rise up from being a bystander to a doer.

3. The first step to change the world or anything is to accept that it exists as it really is. Acceptance is key to the change you want to see.

4. If you want to grow some aspects in your life like in career or relationships, you need to create the change in yourself first. Be the change you wish to see and everything else follows.

5. Stop putting the blame on others when things don’t turn out your way. You are responsible for your own life and no one else does.

6. There is no one important moment. Every moment is. Everything is only a chain reaction and holds equal importance. Make each moment counts.

7. Focus your energies on only one thing at a time. Multitasking may look good but it lowers your efficiency and may affect productivity.

8. Do not expect anything in return whenever you give something to anyone or put out something into the universe. Expecting what you get in return encourages lack in yourself.

9. It is of utmost importance to be present in the current moment. You will miss the here and now when you dwell so much about the past or the future.

Inspired By: https://www.consciousreminder.com/2018/01/07/12-laws-karma-potential-change-reality/;

4 Necessary Ingredients To Form A Harmonious Twin Flame Relationship

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Nezel Padayhag

February 11, 2018

As soon as they meet, Twin Flames easily connect with each other. They create an intense bond, which makes them feel at home in each other’s arms.

However, this energetic connection that pulls them together has also the tendency to push them apart in the initial stages. Twin Flames are faced with the challenge of testing one another to maintain control and balance in their lives.

This egotistical power struggle will make them slave unless they will learn to break down from their ego and let go of the need for control.

The challenge they both face is on how they can harmoniously merge their energies and achieve balance. Once they do, they will find a sustainable and peaceful relationship.

To achieve unity in their higher calling, Twin Flames need to heal and balance these 4 ingredients.

The 4 Necessary Ingredients To Have Harmonious Twin Flame Relationship:

1. Emotional Connection

Twin Flames have been hardwired to open their heart center so that they could love deeper and harder once they meet each other.

With this deeper connection, they can communicate telepathically with whom they have an unconditional bond. This makes them feel reassured that the love and connection are mutual and authentic.

Twin Flames are energetic mirrors. Once they established a connection with one another, they are able to reflect another’s flaws, faults, and insecurities.

While this may seem negative, it is positive in the sense that both need to know where the unresolved issues and unsealed wounds are hiding.

Twin Flames trigger the hidden emotions that weren’t acknowledged or loved in the past, highlight the shadow sides that need forgivenesses and understanding, and help each other in loving themselves unconditionally and without fear.

Thus, it is essential that they bring into light everything that they feel ashamed of for acceptance and avoiding negative reactions when they feel uncomfortable or provoked.

Once each twin opens their hearts with courage and vulnerability, despite the possibility of rejection or getting hurt in the process, they will soon be rewarded with the highest and purest form of love.

2. Mental Connection

A Twin Flame’s mental connection is so strong they forget about the people around them or even the passing of time. They seem to be enchanted with each other’s presence that they give their focused attention.

They usually share the same beliefs, morals, values, interests, and goals in life. Or, when they are opposite, they are able to compliment one another and achieve balance by opening each other’s awareness and perception.

Twin Flames also have similar hobbies and share the same views about social causes or issues.

When they join together their talents and skills, they will complete their Earthly mission.

Twin Flames will find their union to be fulfilling when they mentally stimulate each other and keep their interest with one another.

3. Physical Connection

The moment Twin Flames meet, they trigger a physical and chemical attraction that releases their Kundalini energy, an awakening energy stored at the base of the spine.

With the release of this Kundalini energy, the Twin Flame’s spiritual growth is accelarated. They start to question various aspects of themselves and can see everything with fresh, new eyes.

Because of the awareness to their faults and flaws, they choose to separate to give focus on their healing. This soul work could take years before the Twin Flames are prepared to unite again.

When they do, they will experience a strong and powerful physical attraction because, this time, they already share the same unique energetic signature.

They both radiate an energy on the same frequency that feels harmonious, as if they have a spiritual oneness.

The Twin Flames attraction is both physical and energetic. Their physical presence is a bliss unto each other.

4. Spiritual Connection

A Twin Flames connection is rare and when they finally connect, their soul lessons empower them. The process makes them wise so long as they are open to learning.

Their inner work could be done separately or together. They just need to be compassionate in healing past emotional wounds with no judgments whatsoever.

Twin Flames are spiritually connected when they can sense the other’s emotions and feelings, and able to pick up their thoughts as well.

They also have the ability to read the moods of the other whether their twin is near or far. Because there is a need to separate, they will greatly miss each other.

It is this feeling of emptiness that both will come to heal their wounds that prevent them from feeling whole.

Becoming whole individually is a necessity for each of the twins to feel complete together.

It’s only when they have overcome their ego-based perceptions that they are able to unite harmoniously and vibrate on the same frequency.

Source: https://www.consciousreminder.com/2017/04/17/4-requirements-twin-flame-relationship-work/ > https://www.elephantjournal.com/2017/02/the-4-requirements-for-a-twin-flame-relationship-to-work/;

5 Symptoms You Will Experience When Your Pineal Gland Fully Activates

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Nezel Padayhag

February 11, 2018

The Pineal Gland, which lies near the hypothalamus, is considered as the third eye. It controls the vital functions of the body and soul.

Spiritualists regarded the Pineal Gland as a tool for attaining a higher self, a collective conscious that links to the whole, and a pathway to the Akashic records. Its activation is said to open our eyes to the reality.

The Pineal Gland is even said to regulate our intelligence, psychic tendencies, clairsentience, mental resilience, higher self, spiritual knowledge, and energy to name a few. It holds information and higher understanding.

5 Symptoms of Fully Activated Pineal Gland:

1. Your intuition is enhanced.

Before activation, you may receive weak signals from your gut. But once you managed to activate your Pineal Gland, your intuition is enhanced.

Your body cooperates with your soul as your third eye is opening. You will then have the ability to anticipate fear or intuit the future with precision.

Your wild hunches can be trusted now.

2. Your mental capacities broaden.

You will notice the expansion of your mental capacities. You are more focused and able to concentrate more.

The things that obscure your mind start to disappear. You are more in tuned with your feelings and emotions, achieving clarity on the things you want.

And you are no longer a slave to your emotions and old beliefs.

3. You develop psychic abilities and mediumship.

You start hearing the voices of spirits and even see their forms. You communicate with them, acting as a medium.

A realization will dawn on you that you have known this ability before. As the clandestine powers of clairsentience slowly manifests, you feel capable of doing things you have never done before.

You see things through a higher perspective and free yourself from the grips of materialism. Your purpose becomes clear to you and you no longer want to have a career that is bereft of meaning.

You will even feel the urge of quitting your job as your Pineal Gland opens up. Switching careers is an option you want to consider.

4. You perceive things more deeply.

You feel things more deeply as if everything comes alive. The air that you breathe seems to caress and communicate with you.

As your Pineal Gland activates, you add more frequencies to your spirit and you synchronize more with nature. You become aware that everything is energy and see this energy swirling around you while making the universe tick.

Because of this, a collective consciousness develops within you. You will receive a mental insight that enables you to communicate with everyone and everything.

5. Your eating habits change dramatically.

You will begin to notice how your eating patterns change and how conscious you have become of the food that you eat.

You no longer allow yourself to consume that which can make you unhealthy. Instead, you crave for those that enhance the health of your body and mind.

Source: https://www.consciousreminder.com/2017/12/04/pineal-gland-activation-symptoms/ > http://www.spiritualunite.com/articles/pineal-gland-activation-symptoms/;

5 Fears You Need To Overcome To Achieve Your Dreams And Purpose In Life

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Nezel Padayhag

February 10, 2018

Fears are normal emotions of every human being. While the feelings of fear help us, in a way, to prevent ourselves from getting injured such as handling sharp objects with care, most often than not, it prevents us from getting out of our comfort zone.

It’s this kind of fear that keeps us from achieving our dreams and life purpose. Some of these fears are even irrational and unnecessary.

So, to keep our focus on the now and attain success in life, we need to identify those fears and face them head on.

5 Fears You Need To Overcome To Achieve Your Purpose:

1. The fear of letting go.

As humans, we have this tendency to get comfortable with what is familiar, even if it hurts us or prevents us from getting happy. We keep holding on to the past all because we’re too afraid of letting go.

Going beyond our familiar surroundings looks unbearable. But this is the shortest way to kill our dreams and purpose.

Hence, don’t just dream of moving forward. Act on it. Let go of the past.

Let go of the thoughts, ideas, and any beliefs that are holding you back and believe in the possibility of your dreams taking their shapes.

2. The fear of change.

The number one thing that prevents us from letting go of something is the fear of change. We hate change because it means going to unfamiliar places or meeting unfamiliar people.

The fear of the unknown paralyzes many of us. But it’s not enough reason to kill your dreams.

You need to embrace change and allow movement and growth to happen in your life.

3. The fear of failure.

Most often than not, we don’t take the plunge because of the fear of failure. That little voice inside our minds is comfortable in receiving less than what we deserve because it’s so afraid even to try.

However, success often hides under the guise of failure. It’s when you fail that you’re more fired up to try different things, change your approach, or develop more skills.

Be not afraid to try. Nobody got it perfectly the first time.

4. The fear of being different.

There’s nothing wrong with pleasing other people. But when you do it as a lifestyle and do only what others approve of or think what others are thinking, you will lost the person that you are.

The reason why so many of us aren’t happy is because we never give ourselves the chance to be who we are, do our own thing, or think our own thoughts.

Becoming different means going against other people’s agenda. Yet, if it’s the only way for you to be happy and fulfill your purpose in life, then be different.

You have a purpose that only you can fill and a skill only you can do. In time, people will see how beautiful you look because you’re no longer ‘just a face’ in the crowd.

5. The fear of unleashing your hidden potential.

This kind of fear is often rooted deep within. It’s the situation where you are trying to move forward but deep inside something is holding you back.

This fear is inside your subconscious, that part of you that is scared of what is going to happen once your hidden potentials are unleashed.

Obviously, exposure and more responsibilities will come with your power. And your subconscious mind isn’t prepared for that, thus it’s holding you back.

You need to give yourself enough reasons why you have to push forward so that every cell in your being will cooperate.

Inspired by: http://www.riseearth.com/2018/01/9-fears-that-keep-us-from-achieving-our.html > https://www.purposefairy.com/4818/9-fears-that-keep-us-from-achieving-our-dreams-and-purpose-in-life/;

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