Melissa Acob is one of the coaches that we found this month and we did a little interview with her. Coach Mel, as her clients like to call her, is not your usual mindset coach. She impressed us with her deeper approach to mindset coaching. Instead of just focusing on changing the thoughts she focuses on changing the underlying emotion or belief that operates those thoughts. She is more of an energy mindset coach and her skills are remarkable. Here is what she said.
Meet Energy Mindset Coach Melissa Acob:
Name: Melissa Acob
Pillar: The Spirit, The Mind
Who is this coach for: Business owners, entrepreneurs, and busy professionals who want to attract more wealth and happiness in their business and personal lives.
How they can help: By finding the root cause of your problem, energy work, affirmations, just to name a few.
First of all, how are you and your family doing in these Pandemic times?
My family and I are surviving and doing well, thank you. It’s keeping the accountability of staying safe and healthy especially when around my older parents.
This pandemic has definitely made the family dynamic a little different but manageable for all the right reasons.
How does the coronavirus pandemic affect your clients? Did it affect you at all?
With change and the unknown, there is always a shift of energy of “what if I fail”? You can’t think that way because what we feel, think, say, or do is creating energy on a daily basis and that energy manifests into our reality.
As a coach, my job is to work my clients through self doubt which is connected to unhealed deep rooted issues.
As a first time business owner myself, there are a lot of things I am learning about running a successful business. However, doing the mindset work before opening my business has opened the doors to amazing opportunities and clientele!
What are the biggest lessons that you learned in this pandemic?
My biggest lesson is anything is possible if you believe. Pandemic or not, you have the power to change your reality and your life!
This pandemic hasn’t stopped time, it hasn’t stopped people from needing to make a living, it hasn’t stopped money circulating in the world, and it doesn’t stop people from getting the help they need to become more successful.
Mindset and Energy Coaching are needed more than ever these days. We just need to get out of our own way with the past limiting beliefs we’ve been hanging on to for so many years.
The Origin:
Tell us about you, your career, how you started with your coaching career?
Interesting story, I actually started my career in 2020 when the pandemic began.
Being in lockdown was the perfect time for self reflection on what I wanted to do with my life, finding my life purpose.
I always knew I wanted to help others, but I didn’t exactly know how I was going to accomplish this.
One thing I knew was before I could help others, I needed to work on myself and my mindset.
I wanted to learn how to create positivity in my life and how to manifest more happiness and success.
During the course of the next 8 months, I took 5 mindset and energy courses including a manifesting course which led me to a coaching academy that specialized in mindset, energy, and childhood conditioning.
After earning my Master Life Coach Accreditation, I opened my own coaching business named Soul Vibe and Energy High and have never looked back.
What was your biggest obstacle that you had to overcome in your life that made you who you are today?
The biggest obstacle I had to overcome was recognizing my past trauma and healing my inner child.
We all have past trauma we are dealing with, whether we subconsciously know it or not. It pops up in our lives when we don’t feel good.
Growing up in an Asian household, I was conditioned to be seen and not heard. You were expected to excel in school and in my family dynamic there was a lack of emotional connection.
This led to being involved in toxic friendships and relationships and I had a lack of self worth my entire life.
I always appeared confident on the outside, but inside I felt defeated most of the time.
When I started to do the work on healing myself, there was a major shift that happened in my life. I was finally accepting who I was and learned what I had been through as a child was not my fault.
This realization was a game changer!
I was able to start putting the puzzle pieces together on why I attracted the things and people in my life and why I was not happy.
We have to understand, childhood conditioning is a generational mindset. Our parents are conditioned a certain way, they condition their children the same way, and it goes on for generations until someone says “stop”.
Giving appreciation to my hurt inner child allowed me to learn how to reframe my mindset and heal in a positive way. We all have the power to change our mindsets and heal our past.
The Coaching Style:
How do you innovate with coaching your clients?
I help business owners, entrepreneurs, and busy professionals become the best versions of themselves.
I coach them on how to create a positive mindset, how to create specific goals, and how to feel good about themselves.
Our subconscious mindset is running 95% of the time, our subconscious mind is where past trauma, limiting beliefs, and past conditioning are stored.
If we don’t understand how our mind works, we can be overtaken by self-doubt, self-sabotage, and negativity on a daily basis which blocks us from manifesting our desired outcomes.
What’s unique about your coaching approach?
One thing I do in my coaching programs that sets me aside from other Mindset coaches is I get to the root of my client’s problem.
When I ask my clients what their goals are, I ask them why they aren’t achieving those goals.
What will come up is the self-doubt, insecurities, and the past trauma that needs to be worked through.
I can sit on a 20 Minute Complimentary Call and within less than 10 minutes, I will find the root of your problem.
We all have 5 to 10 stories attached to emotions replaying in our mindset when we find ourselves feeling defeated, self-sabotaging, or feeling blocked from success.
Once we work through the past trauma, my clients start manifesting their goals very quickly, within days!
As a coach, this is very exciting to witness!
My clients are attracting more business opportunities, more financial stability, self confidence, and healing their relationships with themselves and others.
Once you change your mindset and once you create positive energy, you are now a magnet to your desires, it’s Universal Law.
The energy you put out is the energy you pull in like a boomerang.
What benefits do your clients get after working with you?
Whether you are enrolled in my 1 on 1 coaching programs or my Club Mel Membership, my clients are starting to live a happy and abundant life.
Clients start living with a clear mindset, a life of being their true authentic self, a life free of self judgment.
Living a life with clarity of who you are and what you want, eliminates the smoke and mirrors. When you are clear of your value and clear of your goals, you have created for yourself a new reality where positive change is inevitable.
Absolutely everyone can do this, all you have to do is be ready for change, put away your ego, and give yourself the time and care you deserve.
One question I ask my clients when making the decision to work with me is, “when do you want to start feeling good?”
Do you use any specific tools to be efficient with your clients?
In my 1 on 1 programs and Monthly Membership, I give my clients accountability exercises.
However, before we can use tools such as energy work, affirmations, or gratitude, we have to find the root of your problem.
If you skip this step, then you will keep replaying the same negative cycles in your daily life.
You have to start at the root, our foundation, and create a new solid foundation. Then you can incorporate new daily habits.
The Impact:
If you had a super megaphone that, when you speak into, the whole world will hear your message, what would you say?
It doesn’t matter who you are and what you have been through, it’s never too late to work on yourself. It’s never too late to create new dreams. It’s never too late to start over.
What is the greatest lesson you have learned in your life?
The greatest lesson I have learned is life has no boundaries, it’s only your mindset that sets limitations.
What you think you become, what you believe you are.
If you ever feel alone, you are never alone, all you have to do is ask the Universe for help. Help never comes, unless you ask for it.
If you are desiring a big change in your life, you have to believe in something bigger than yourself. We are all energy and we are all connected, we need to learn how to use it to our advantage.
Your final thoughts?
If you feel pulled to get help, it’s the Universe saying “it’s time”.
We all deserve to be happy, we all deserve to manifest our dream life.
It is all possible, the only person blocking this from coming to fruition is you. So I’ll ask the same question, “when do you want to start feeling good?”
Where Can You Find Melissa Acob?
If you resonated with what Coach Mel said in this interview, make sure to visit her website at https://www.soulvibeandenergyhigh.com/ and see how she can help you become the best version of yourself. You can read and watch all of her testimonials here.
If you are unsure if she can help your unique situation, you can always schedule a FREE 20 minutes call with her. See if you are a good fit to work together.
If you want to connect with her, make sure to follow her Facebook and Instagram where she shares valuable pieces of content. It was an honor having this interview with her.
