Bigger the heart, bigger the heartbreak? | What We Can Learn from Whales


Imagine the vast ocean that covers the planet and the creatures so massive and majestic that their hearts alone can weigh as much as a car!

Yes, we’re talking about whales, those gentle giants of the sea who not only mesmerize us with their size but also with their enchanting songs. πŸ‹πŸ’”

Did you know that a blue whale’s heart can weigh as much as 2,000 pounds (907 kilograms)? That’s around the size of a small car!

It’s one of the largest hearts in the animal kingdom.

But it’s not just their hearts that make whales remarkable…


Their mating and pairing rituals are equally intriguing.

Whales are known for forming strong bonds with their partners, often staying together for long periods, sometimes even for life.

Whale mating isn’t just about reproduction, it’s also about forming deep emotional connections. πŸ’–

Just like humans, whales seek companionship and support from their partners, especially during challenging times. πŸ’ 

When it’s time to mate, they engage in elaborate courtship displays, which can involve singing complex songs.  

So, when we listen to whale songs, we’re not just hearing beautiful melodies, we’re also tapping into the emotional world of the largest heart on this planet!

Their songs remind us of the power of connection and resilience, guiding us through the ups and downs of life, including the journey of healing after a breakup. πŸŒΈ

The right music is healing!

So this weekend if you are sad or lonely or just need to get out of the energies of any unhappy relationship, make a playlist to suit your mood and let the emotions roll.

Cry to some sad songs and release those pent up tears.

Tap your feet to the upbeat song to allow yourself hope and brightness.

Sing along a peppy song that gives you energy and motivates you!

Maybe listen to some whale songs!!

Let their majestic deep voices resonating through the entire ocean wrap around you like a comforting embrace, reminding you that, just like the vast ocean, your heart is capable of great strength and boundless beauty. πŸŒŠπŸŽΆ

Allow the depth and the strength of the song to help you rise above the daily difficulties and remember who you truly are! A majestic human capable of holding an ocean of love in your heart.

Remember this weekend to offer that love to yourself first!

After all, as Shakespeare said so eloquently in Twelfth Night, β€œIf music be the food of love, play on!”

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