White Tears: Lost in Illusion

In the vast realm of human emotion, few experiences are as transformative and as tenderly devastating as the aching pull of love unfulfilled.

This poem is a hauntingly beautiful meditation on longing, soul recognition, and the pain of spiritual misalignment…

Longing not just for lost love, but for a connection that was deeply felt yet never fully realized in the physical realm.

Read it slowly and capture a moment of clarity in the fog of illusion.

Feel the quiet rebellion against the idea that deep emotional truth must always be suppressed…


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White Tears: Lost in Illusion

I hold affection for you in my heart since I saw you first,
since then, there is this attraction, this undeniable thirst.

Within me there is this painful desire,
it is like a never ending fire.

Your powerful spirit shines unique and bright,
knowing well how to love and to handle me right.

You are strong and are able to protect me,
I want to be a hero, oh will you let me?

As the white lady I am standing strong and high,
but within myself, when it comes to romance, I am vulnerable and shy.

One might think we hardly talked and I don’t know you,
but really, we have spent many life times as lovers, this I wanted to show you.

Now all seems finished before we ever started,
I should have never departed.

You chose ignorance and silence to tell me what you want,
I honour and accept this, despite this loving spiritual bond.

But let me tell you how this hurts,
as I wrote before: “I am bruised by the unspoken words.”

Before you took that choice,
should you have not given me a voice?

I can forgive and forget and welcome you with open arms,
how could I possibly resist your charms?

Forgive me if I hurt you and have done something wrong,
I apologize for it, it was meant with love, all along.

I searched for you, my darling, to return you home, side by side,
you don’t understand this, but it’s not a solution to hide.

I see it is a challenge to clear the issues and to fight,
especially when you don’t know what is right.

​Why don’t you turn to me with your questions and fears?
I am loving and sweet, I would dry your tears.

​What you are suddenly faced with, are shockable news,
you might be confused by who I am and my “unacceptable” views.

Maybe you think a young, slim soulless shell suits you better,
when you see the truth, please don’t write me an excusing letter.

Why not being proud instead that I am different and real?
I am happy I still hold love in my heart and I feel.

​Are you scared of who I am and feel my love, light and power?
Then look into the mirror and wonder, why I give YOU the red flower.

Your essence is for me the sweetest and most beautiful I have ever met,
it’s a real gentleman, treating me like a lady, and not playing roulette.

I am tired of this game of “nothing AND all”,
in reality you know, we are juggling a fireball.

​You are supposed to balance me, help me on my feet,
to protect me and to make me energetically complete.

I claim, our spirits united is the strongest force there is,
but without your physical smile, I am weak and feel amiss.

I want to reach up high,
but with broken wings, it is difficult to fly.

You are destined to be with me and to learn,
can you not feel that this is the time to grow and to turn?

​Please wake up from this physical illusion and be brave and fight,
return home as a hero and do what in your heart feels right.

Your essence will continue to give you bad feelings and pain,
shake you up, saying it wants to leave the physical realm, not wanting to remain.

Can you not grasp the importance of this decision?
I know it’s difficult, you have the physical blurred vision.

Your essence suffers, because it desires to be with its eternal lady,
hold me in the arms and to create a baby.

​My heart feels empty and my whole body hurts,
it’s difficult for me to speak and to find words.

​Don’t you feel the soft bond in the heart?
At the moment it’s painful, like a knife, oh so sharp.

In your perception this bond is an attraction,
now that I was gone, can you feel it is pure loving affection?

Our heart bond floods the whole planet with love and changes its frequency,
it won’t stop there, it will continue to flow into other dimensions ceacelessly. ​

I am not ashamed to say: “Yes, the golden tears I cry!”
and I wonder all the time: “Why?”

These tears are running down my face and there is nothing I can do,
stopping them is not possible, my heart collapsed, oh if I only knew.

The doors for us are wide open,
even after months of distance, this monumentum is un-broken.

Don’t you think one day you will regret,
you maybe will never forget?

One day you wonder what might have been,
if you just would have seen.

I wish I could see into your eyes forever more and see this joyful smile,
for an endless while.

One would say, I am lovely and young,
there will be another man to come.

But no, this equation in this case is wrong.
as a lady sings: “My heart will go on!”

​​There will come the time after “death” when we are together,
returning home and resting in unconditional love forever.

Indeed, our spirits decided already in the physical to reside in unity,
because at the moment there is no other opportunity.

At night, listen and you feel my heart beat,
because arm in arm we dream and sleep.​

I feel your physical presence and passion so close everyday,
we must find NOW another way.

​​Maybe we can start anew,
I am Stephanie, and you?

Let’s re-write the story line,
and maybe there is still a chance, it will be fine.

I was drawn to the French Coast not knowing why,
feeling it already deep within, with a tear in my eye.

I met you last October first on the astral plane at night,
and suddenly my heart turned bright.

I felt this endless pain and this intensive love,
it was different as if it was sent from above.

In my dreams, I saw this unknown man,
I did not know what to think of this, had no plan.

In December the day had come and I tried to find my way,
wondering around town, gotten totally astray.

When I saw you for the first time my world stood still,
while at the same time my personal life was tough and downhill.

Your effect on me was so intense,
how my reaction on you represents.

I was shy and could not speak,
my feelings for you were too deep.

I learned that we had spent many happy lifetimes together,
with the intention to continue to rest in unconditional love forever.

There is this undeniable heart connection,
this warm, tender, sweet affection.

This irresistible attraction,
true bliss in perfection.

A long time ago you agreed on this incredible task as the man on my side,
as well as having a baby and being “groom and bride”.

You cannot remember and see the beauty of my being,
I wished you could only understand and would be more clear-seeing.

That you wake-up and learn what this is all about,
but you don’t give me the chance to speak it all out.

​I put my golden heart in your hand,
but you dropped it into the sand.

​I am a foreigner and not your type,
and all these weird things that I write.

Truth is truth, and there is nothing I can do,
before you judge, verify and walk in my shoe.

In the physical we hardly talked, but still I know who you are,
I am so intimate with you, near or far.

My dear, I can feel your fear,
so close as if you were near.

I can feel what you feel,
believe it or not, its real.

You are too proud to admit,
while I am the one to do the acquit.

Our energy fields are merged,
while the love between our spirits surged.

Over lifetimes, spiritual unification has taken place,
since March, in an incredible fast pace.

You carry now some of my illumination within,
while we even look akin.

I wish you would open up,
instead of choosing this complete break-up.

The problem is that our spirits stick together like glue,
daily detachment work fails, there is nothing I can do.

They cry and suffer,
don’t want to live without each other.

In the physical you say you prefer a soulless, illusionary shell,
presented to you in pink candy, “with love” from hell.

Congratulations on your choice,
you picked a black duck instead of the golden Rolls Royce.

I was not worth a talk,
nor even a neutral beach walk.

​I see that in the physical the time has come to let you go,
but there is something I desire you to know.

​In reality, you are so strong and sweet,
telling me I am the best one you could ever meet.

You, the Gentleman not wanting to leave my side,
taking part in my work, encouraging me to be brave and do what is right.

Being with me day and night,
and not being afraid of my light.

Giving me the loving power that I need,
while calming me down, so that I can fully succeed.

Indeed, my heart was closed for so long,
I did not know where I belong.

You opened up my closed heart,
while you also made my brain so smart.

My poetry is the best,
this is something I would have never guessed.

I am better than Goethe and Shakespeare could ever possibly be,
look at my poems and you will see.

In difficult times you raised me up,
for this you deserve the golden cup.

You taught me what it means to deeply love without condition,
while I got so motivated to full-fill my love mission.

I could not proceed the way I do,
if it was without you.

I learned to fight for what I want and to not give up,
despite this heart-breaking sudden break-up.

I have to find a way now to move on,
but I have a good foundation as you made me strong.

Seeing in the timeline what should have been,
if you would have chosen a different scene.

The memories that should have taken place,
if I would have won the race.

​The crystal baby spirit, ready to incarnate, at my side,
now returning back into the infinite light.

​Knowing these deep wounds will never be healed,
my heart torn apart, like a battlefield.

I wanted to leave and run away from the pain,
but I understand it will come and find me and I would still be out in the rain.

I still have the desire to go but my inner voice demands me to stay,
its destiny to be this way.

This area is being prepared for what is to come,
when I earn an international income.

Also, your spirit is begging me to stay,
hoping that one day we will find another way.

The pain is changing and I have to find my way to live with it,
but I will make it, bit by bit.

I might look at other men fooling me they are a potential,
while they could never give me what is essential.

What they cannot replace,
true spiritual love combined with this beautiful smiling face.

I will find a man who respectfully kisses my hand,
and romantically writes “I love you” in the sand.

A man who appreciates my gold,
one who warms me whenever I feel cold.

A man who hands me a red rose as a present,
while laughing about my terrible French accent.

I think I am fooling myself here,
you will not be replaceable my dear.

Where is my dignity and pride?
I must have lost it along the ride.

​I wished you would have thought twice before you rolled the dice,
may it be known that I conducted on you my first love blessing as Mme Weiss,

​Nonetheless, for you, my heart will remain open,
my love for you will be un-broken.

​Look there is this tiny little seed,
pick it up and care for it, this is what I plead.

​Water it and it will grow,
the love between our spirits will make it glow.

One day we would regret the lost years,
our eyes would hurt, all the un-cried tears.

Our agreements have strong love power,
while at the same time being soft like a white flower.

The place on my side is a huge challenge, but you agreed,
you have the inner wisdom and strength to fully succeed.

I offered you to write history,
while all this for you is still mystery.

I would teach you all you need to know,
you would grow, even if it is slow.

I trust we can work it out,
I see it in my timeline, so no doubt.

Sometimes, I wondered if your essence is of a different race than mine,
but I would not have cared, this would have been fine.

It is a bit like beauty and the beast,
while you are the beast with 10 times more animal DNA, at least.

My intuition tells me something is wrong,
that your heart voice sings a different song.

Breath some air and take your time,
meanwhile I write the next rhyme.

Please catch the golden ball,
it is just about to fall.

We hope one day you will know where you belong,
we will wait for you, preparing a welcome song.

​I trust my choice was right and you are my hero, THE man,
being fully dedicated and even better than Sam.

You will make sure that I arrive,
while the love between us will further thrive.

​Its getting late, we are having dinner with delay,
the table is set, you are welcome, we are having “panem vitae”.

Darling, I will let it rest,
my hero, for now, I wish you all the best.

to be continued…

Spirit of White, at some point in the eternal NOW

Find Life Coach | Meet Kathryn Lovewell: How to Unconditionally Trust Yourself and Embrace Radical Self-Compassion?

Kathryn Lovewell is one of the coaches that we found this month and we did a little interview with her. She impressed us with her lively spirit and the unconditional faith in her inner voice.

She turned her personal adversity into a powerful mission to help others reclaim their inner truth and liberation. She was battling chronic illness and medical gaslighting at the same time. But that’s exactly what pushed her to the edge, to radically trust her own inner voice, unconditionally. And that’s what saved her. She discovered the profound wisdom of the body and heart.

She has a deeply empowering approach. She doesn’t hand out solutions, she creates a space where clients can find their own. Through self-compassion skills, tapping into body wisdom and heart centred guidance, she helps women break free from fear, self-doubt, and societal expectations, allowing for radical transformation that is uniquely their own.

She shifted from running fully booked live retreats to embracing the online coaching space post pandemic. Now, she reaches a global audience, helping clients trust themselves, find joy, and live life on their own terms. This is more than coaching, it is a journey of self discovery, empowerment, and liberation. Here is what she said…

Meet Life Coach Kathryn Lovewell:

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Name: Kathryn Lovewell

Pillar: The Spirit, The Heart

Who is this coach for: For ambitious, high-achieving women. Whether you’re a purpose-driven mumpreneur, a corporate changemaker juggling it all, or a woman in leadership who’s quietly craving something more, Kathryn helps you find what you need.

How they can help: Kathryn empowers professional women to cultivate a resilient, grounded sense of self through the proven practice of self-compassion. Drawing on decades of psychological research and contemplative science, she equips her clients with evidence-based skills to radically transform their inner landscape. With a blend of self-compassion and positive psychology skills, soulful insight and practical coaching, Kathryn helps you shift from self-doubt to self-leadership, so you can thrive both personally and professionally.

First of all, how are you and your family doing after these Pandemic times?

We are happy and well, thank you.

The pandemic was a time of great upheaval but also deep transformation.

It was a pivotal moment where I had to close my Harley Street practice in London and transition my coaching work entirely online.

While it was a challenge, it also expanded my ability to empower and support people worldwide in ways I hadn’t before.

How did the coronavirus pandemic affect your clients? Did it affect you at all?

For my clients, the pandemic triggered deep fears, stress, and a sense of powerlessness.

Many felt lost, disconnected, and unable to trust themselves in an uncertain world.

For me, it was both a challenge and a transformation.

The sudden closure of my Harley Street practice and live retreats forced me to pivot and rethink how I could empower my clients on a deeper level, from anywhere in the world.

I helped my clients by guiding them to:

1. Reconnect with their own inner power, rather than seeking external certainty.

2. Trust themselves again, knowing that they already have the answers within.

3. Move from fear and resistance to radical self acceptance, creating a sense of freedom even in difficult times.

Ultimately, the pandemic reinforced a truth I’ve always known: when we stop looking outside of ourselves for answers and start listening within, we find our way home.

What are the biggest lessons that you learned in this pandemic?

Empowerment comes from within.

No external event, no matter how chaotic, can take away our inner strength.

We are not alone.

Even in isolation, we are connected through our shared humanity.

Healing is not about “fixing” yourself, it’s about embracing who you are, fully and completely.

The Origin:

Tell us about you, your career, how you started with your coaching career?

My coaching journey began not as a career choice, but as a deep calling, one born from personal experience.

I have spent much of my life navigating chronic illness, misdiagnosis, and the emotional pain of feeling unheard and misunderstood.

Through this, I discovered that true healing doesn’t come from trying to “work things out” in the mind, it comes from going beyond the mind and tuning into the deep wisdom of the body, heart, and consciousness itself.

When I realised that the answers we seek are already within us, I knew my purpose was to help others rediscover their own inner power and truth.

I guide my clients to trust themselves, to “know that they know“, to access their body wisdom, and to empower themselves to live life on their terms, free from the constraints of fear, self doubt, and external expectations.

Before the pandemic, I ran fully booked live retreats and a Harley Street practice, but when the world changed, so did my work.

I embraced a new way of coaching online, reaching more people and helping them reclaim their power, their joy, and their liberation, whatever that looks like for them.

What was your biggest obstacle that you had to overcome in your life that made you who you are today?

Living with a hidden disability has been my greatest teacher.

Chronic pain, medical gaslighting, and the experience of being dismissed by the medical profession forced me to fight for my survival, physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

But through that, I found strength, clarity, and purpose.

I learned that I am not my suffering.

I am not my diagnosis.

I am not what the world expects me to be.

That realisation is at the heart of my coaching… I help my clients step into their own power and liberation, breaking free from limitations and fully embracing who they are.

The Coaching Style:

How do you innovate with coaching your clients?

My coaching is deeply empowering and heart centred.

Unlike many approaches that focus on giving answers or solutions, I guide my clients to discover their own answers, because this is their journey, not mine.

I don’t have an agenda, a fixed idea of how they should heal, or what their transformation should look like.

I will never tell my clients what to do or how to live their life.

Instead, I create a space where they can listen to their own hearts, break free from old conditioning, and find their own unique path to healing, joy, and fulfilment.

My work is innovative because it goes beyond mindset coaching, it delves into the energy, vibration, and consciousness of what’s really happening.

This means:

1. Exploring not just thoughts, but the energy of pain, addictive behaviours, and self destruction, to uncover what truly needs healing.

2. Moving past “thinking things through” into deep body wisdom, where real transformation happens.

3. Helping clients develop mindful awareness, self-compassion, and the ability to hear their own truth.

When people step into this space of empowerment and self trust, radical transformation happens, not because they’ve followed someone else’s path, but because they’ve discovered their own.

What’s unique about your coaching approach?

Most coaching focuses on giving solutions.

My approach focuses on empowering clients to find their own.

What makes my coaching unique:

1. Empowerment over dependency. This is their journey, their transformation, and their liberation.

2. Body wisdom and energy work. Going beyond mindset shifts into deep consciousness transformation.

3. Common humanity. Knowing you are not alone in your struggles is a powerful healing force.

4. Heart centred guidance. Not about “fixing” problems, but about embracing who you truly are.

What benefits do your clients get after working with you?

They stop second guessing themselves and start trusting their own inner knowing.

They experience deep self liberation, moving beyond self doubt and fear.

They break free from destructive thought patterns and step into self-compassion and radical acceptance.

They create a life that is truly theirs, filled with joy, purpose, and fulfilment.

The Impact:

If you had a super megaphone that, when you speak into, the whole world will hear your message, what would you say?

Your power is already within you.

You don’t need to be ‘fixed’… you need to be heard, understood, and reconnected with your inner wisdom.

Trust yourself.

Trust your heart.

That’s where the answers live.

What is the greatest lesson you have learned in your life?

That when we stop fighting against ourselves and start supporting ourselves, everything changes.

True transformation begins with self-compassion, self trust, and deep inner listening.

Where Can You Find Kathryn Lovewell?

If you liked this interview and if you would love to learn how to radically trust yourself and unleash your true path, go to her website and see how Coach Kathryn can help you.

Here is a great FREE quiz you can take to evaluate how kind is your inner voice and find what’s your self-compassion score.

And if you’d like to connect with her more personally, you can do that through LinkedIn or by sending her a direct message on her Email [email protected]. It was an honor having this interview with her.

The Golden Choice: Which Pill are You Choosing?

This poem is an exploration of the choices we face, the systems that bind us, and the awakening that awaits those who dare to see beyond the veil.

It is not just a reflection but an invitation… to question, to awaken, and to reclaim the power that is inherently ours.

As you read, I encourage you to open your mind, listen with your heart, and consider:

Which pill will you choose?


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Golden Choice: Which Pill are You Choosing?

“In some areas of my life I am still in the golden prison,
Trying to collect money to pay my admission.”

“Embarking to be free,
Sealed by the number three.”

Aren’t we lucky and must we not be grateful that we are alive on the “Earth”,
We accept our limited life until “death” starting early upon birth.

The rat race starts already early in schools,
Where you are being brainwashed with illusionary nonsense and learn all the tools.

To function well in this society,
While suppressing any doubts and anxiety.

With the family coming first, making sure you are staying in line,
“You must think and behave like us, you are mine.”

“Otherwise we don’t love you anymore, and kick you out,
“You are the white sheep” shouting out loud.

The religions out there to full-fill your inner divine desire,
Making sure you are a praying, staying small, and not reaching higher.

The new age scene is truly the best misleading road,
Making sure the truth does not get unfold.

To capture the awakening souls,
Who are fed up with the Matrix roles.

Upfront Reiki, the archangels, and a lot more,
They offer something that you adore.

You just pay money, get a canal and heal?
Very simple, sounds at first like a good deal.

They even present you the “pure” divine,
So that you are comforted, all is fine.

For every taste there is something out there,
All kinds of Matrix masks to wear.

Take your colorful choice,
But please shut up, and don’t raise your voice.

Fall back into the hypnotic sleep,
While you have alcohol, and tons of red meat to eat.

But this is not the topic I want to speak about,
There are many others who shouted the message out loud.

Read the books of David Icke, and others,
My dear divine sisters and brothers.

Every divine child will be offered the red or black pill, when the time is right,
So they can take a choice, the dark or the light.

Let me correct myself here, Lucifer mis-used the word as a bringer of light,
So let’s use another word, to put it right.

Love is better to describe the truth and our roots,
So that you can stop eating the forbidden fruits.

To make you aware of the Matrix and your own divine heir,
That you can become souvereign, and shine with your own eclair.

That you can awaken from deep within,
And conciousness can break in.

Indeed, they themselves have to tell you the truth, it’s universal law,
Delivered to you with the dark claw.

As a method they prefer movies in the genre fiction,
While the pope gives his “holy” benediction.

The news will tell you what is coming, what scenario is in line,
But don’t worry they care for you, all is going to be fine.

The fake alien invasion or the second coming of the Christ,
Whatever meets the Zeitgeist.

The New World Order is the big goal,
While stealing your most precious, your divine soul.

Everything orchestrated to keep you in constant fear,
I know it is difficult to hear.

To steal your energy, your gold,
That they are warm and you are cold.

To make you fall forever,
Without you realizing it, it is so clever.

Most likely one of the love warriors come into your life,
While they stand behind you, on your throat a knife.

“Don’t you dare to awaken,
Or you will be forsaken.”

“You cannot truly believe these conspiracy threorists, they are wrong,
Follow us and you will get along.”

What if everything is true,
And it is time now that you knew?

That cognitive dissonance is not a solution,
That it only leads you into confusion.

Truth is truth, even if you deny it,
You are scared, do you admit?

When the walls break, cry,
We are here for the tears to dry.

The illusion and trap is so incredible smart,
You can only grasp the truth with an open heart.

The soul prison you are in…..
Oh dear, I don’t know where to begin.

First, differentiate between the humans and the soulless people,
David Icke calls them “sheepl”.

I call the people programs, illusions, guards or zombies,
The Matrix´s donkeys.

With the goal to lead you astray,
Making sure you never find your way.

Upon each “death” you are being recycled in the tunnel of light,
Tailored for your unique needs, they know all your delight.

Indeed you are an open book for the dark and the divine,
So I invite you to re-define.

Who you are and what you want to be,
Think wise, that is what I plea.

That now the time has come to decide,
On which side of the fence to reside.

Which pill to swallow,
And whom to follow.

When you defend the system you serve the dark,
Rather remind yourself of your own divine spark.

May you take the right choice,
And raise a loving voice.

May you swallow the pill of love,
And rise above.

Stephanie Weiss, 21.11.2023

Find Life Coach | Meet Michael Dunn: How to BE Yourself and Heal Energetically?

Michael Dunn is one of the coaches that we found this month and we did a little interview with him. He impressed us with his easy going outlook on life and passion for energy healing.

He blended ancient wisdom with modern healing practices to guide others on a journey of self discovery and transformation. Drawing from his training in horticulture, energy healing, and his personal experiences overcoming autism and depression, he developed a unique approach to helping others.

He has a unique coaching style deeply rooted in embodiment and connection to nature, with a focus on slow, long term results rather than quick fixes. What sets him apart is his dedication to personal growth, not just for his clients, but for himself as well.

He believes that true healing happens when individuals are ready to let go and embrace change on a deep, energetic level. Whether through energy healing, vision quests, or even sweat lodges, his methods encourage a deep reconnection with the self and the natural world. Here is what he said…

Meet Life Coach Michael Dunn:

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Name: Michael Dunn

Pillar: The Spirit, The Heart

Who is this coach for: Anyone who wants to learn how to BE their real self and heal energetically.

How they can help: Through coaching, guidance, energy work and energy healing.

First of all, how are you and your family doing after these Pandemic times?

My family and I were not badly affected (health wise) by the coronavirus, luckily.

When the pandemic started, I was at Uluru in the center of Australia with two friends, and there weren’t many people there.

It was a great experience.

It felt like we were in some sort of magical cocoon while hell broke loose over the rest of the world.

Uluru is an incredible place.

I did suffer some long term health problems for one year after I had the coronavirus, so that was a difficult year in some ways, but I’m totally fine now.

As well as Energy Healing, I also run a garden with some of my family, which is open to the public.

The pandemic hit right when we were poised to grow as an organization.

It hit that enterprise pretty hard.

How did the coronavirus pandemic affect your clients? Did it affect you at all?

I wasn’t doing a huge amount of healing at the time, so the actual main period of the pandemic was a very relaxing time for many people in my area, a total contrast to the cities.

Life was slower, birds and the natural environment were less stressed, everyone had to slow down, and the pace of life became a little more natural.

When I had health issues for one year, that affected my ability to do regular healings and marketing.

What are the biggest lessons that you learned in this pandemic?

The lesson I learned for my own health is that I live in a vehicle, my body, which requires quite careful and specific management.

Making sure I have the right diet, exercise, rest, space, and supplements is very key for me.

This has shown me how different everyone’s systems really are.

I’m not a fan of generalized diets as a result.

People’s requirements can be quite different.

The other lesson was that we really live too fast, and we need to slow down.

That’s still a struggle for me and everyone else, I think, because the human race has created a vibrational environment where everything has to be now, and that affects everyone.

During the pandemic, there was a slowdown, and that really benefited the natural environment, which is what gives us life.

But that seems to have been forgotten now.

The Origin:

Tell us about you, your career, how you started with your coaching career?

I’m from Pembrokeshire, West Wales, and live here now.

I lived in Edinburgh for 10 years.

Pembrokeshire is an incredibly beautiful place to live, in the UK, so there are the benefits of living in a first world country, but Pembrokeshire is a lot more relaxed than most places.

I’m a trained horticulturist, so I spend a fair bit of time with plants.

I trained in energy healing after a friend gave me an incredible book.

He’d been giving me Reiki, and I subsequently gave his daughter history tuition.

After one of these sessions, he went upstairs to get a book, couldn’t find it, and brought down Hands of Light by Barbara Brennan.

There was a strange energetic transfer when he handed it over.

I read the book and realized I’d wanted to learn this information my whole life but without knowing it.

Only when I opened the book did I realize this was what I wanted to know.

I then learned that someone who lived 20 minutes from me was trained and a long term practitioner in this healing modality and was about to start teaching for the first time, so it was very serendipitous.

After practicing for around five years, I decided to teach an introductory course.

I’ve just finished that, and I’m in the process of putting it out there right now.

I also run a sweat lodge for my local community, and I do a lot of vision quests, fasting in the natural environment, mostly on my own but sometimes with other traditions.

I plan to hold group vision quests in the future to help people get out there and develop their connection to nature and spirit.

What was your biggest obstacle that you had to overcome in your life that made you who you are today?

I’m autistic, and finding this out in later life has brought things into much greater clarity.

I often struggled when I was younger, and autism certainly contributed to that.

Going through and recovering from very serious depression in my mid twenties was the biggest turning point for me.

Dealing with the way autism shapes my brain and my life is an ongoing challenge, but one which does foster strength and determination.

The Coaching Style:

How do you innovate with coaching your clients?

It’s really about an embodied approach, really doing your own work and feeling it in your body.

A healing is generally as successful as the person being healed wants it to be.

If they’re really ready to let something go, that’s the energy which generates great results.

This doesn’t mean that lighter work isn’t also beneficial, it’s just to point out that the power lies with the student or the person on the table.

The healer or teacher is just a channel.

For the students, it’s about giving themselves the time and space to move through their own energy fields and deal with some of the things they might find there.

It’s about experiencing those higher realms and pulling that energy down into their everyday selves to lift their everyday lives and those of the people around them.

What’s unique about your coaching approach?

It’s perhaps a little more relaxed than what I think the 21st century commercial world wants it to be!

It’s unlikely I’ll be doing one of those social media videos where the coach is talking with the camera zoomed right into their face.

I focus on slow and long term results and building yourself to create deeper and longer lasting change.

That’s really what I’m into helping people do, and I think this will help me find more students and clients who are into this approach.

What benefits do your clients get after working with you?

The biggest thing with the students will hopefully be much greater knowledge of who they are and how they work in the world, and how consciousness itself creates the world we live in.

With the healing clients, it’s about recharging, restructuring, and cleaning the energy field.

If the client wants to go into a deep body centered process, this is when great work can take place, removing the energetic effects of trauma from this life and other lives, which has the potential to be transformational.

Do you use any specific tools to be efficient with your clients?

I’m not entirely sure what you mean by the question, but written feedback is important for me, really making sure the client is well held after a treatment.

The Impact:

If you had a super megaphone that, when you speak into, the whole world will hear your message, what would you say?

Be who you are, don’t be afraid to be yourself, everything’s going to turn out well!

What is the greatest lesson you have learned in your life?

Really, it’s just to be yourself.

That is the absolute key to life, I think, just be who you are.

So many of the thought patterns we deal with, which lead us toward actions that do not benefit us or others, seem to come from wanting to please or live up to other people’s ideas of who we should be.

But if we’re comfortable in ourselves, then nothing can really hurt us.

This doesn’t mean everything is happy 24 hours, 7 days per week…

There’s being yourself in dark times, being yourself in crisis.

It’s still being yourself.

Your final thoughts?

I’m really looking forward to teaching Energy Healing.

It’s a system that encompasses almost everything that pertains to our lives, including where our core beliefs are held and how they affect our actions, our personal place in the universe, and how we run and shape our lives from the highest level right down to the physical reality we experience day to day.

The world is in such a strange place at the moment, and I think it’s going to continue to become stranger, so I’m really looking forward to getting this information out there and lifting people towards a knowledge of their life’s purpose.

Where Can You Find Michael Dunn?

If you liked this interview and if you would love to learn how to be yourself and heal energetically, reach out to Coach Michael via his Facebook and see how he can help you achieve that.

If you’d like to peak a glimpse into his coaching, join his private Facebook Group.

And if you’d like to connect with him more personally, you can do that by sending him a direct message on his Email [email protected]. It was an honor having this interview with him.

Find Life Coach | Meet Rajesh Hari: How to Develop A Vigilant Mindset?

Rajesh Hari is one of the coaches that we found this month and we did a little interview with him. He impressed us with his professionalism and focus.

His journey is a testament to resilience. In the face of near certain death, some people crumble, but others rise, rebuild, and redefine their lives. That’s exactly what this Vigilant Mindset Mentor Coach did. He has a career marked by both setbacks and stunning achievements, including the Best Career Counselor Award from the Big 5 at just 34 and a VP position by 39. Yet it wasn’t the accolades that shaped him, it was the art of bouncing back, again and again.

His own challenges made him the coach he is today. With over 50 success stories and six extraordinary case studies featured in his book, his coaching is not just about reaching goals, it’s about transforming mindsets and reaching top performance as a human being.

His approach is unique. He helps people develop what he calls a “vigilant mindset”, a mindset that helps you achieve in few days what would otherwise take years. He empowers high performers, tailoring his approach to each client’s unique challenges. Through deep diagnosis and a relentless focus on internal change, his clients don’t just improve performance, they unlock a bold and beautiful life. Here is what he said…

Meet Life Coach Rajesh Hari:

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Name: Rajesh Hari

Pillar: The Mind

Who is this coach for: Senior level professionals aged 36 to 45 who are navigating complex life and business conflicts.

How they can help: By using various tools and techniques to help his clients develop a vigilant mindset and achieve top performance.

First of all, how are you and your family doing after these Pandemic times?

We are doing great, as it is a great blessing to get back to life itself after the pandemic.

How did the coronavirus pandemic affect your clients? Did it affect you at all?

The pandemic didn’t affect me much, but for some clients, it really did.

What are the biggest lessons that you learned in this pandemic?

Life is a blessing, and we shouldn’t grumble over small things.

The Origin:

Tell us about you, your career, how you started with your coaching career?

I am a mechanical engineer from a top college, but I was average at work with spurts of brilliance.

Then, I faced certain death and am grateful to have survived and bounced back.

I received the Best Career Counselor Award from the Big 5 at the age of 34, went on to become a VP at 39, and then, after a few years, decided to become a volunteer.

Later, I became a Vigilant Mindset Mentor Coach for high performance.

What was your biggest obstacle that you had to overcome in your life that made you who you are today?

I passed some tough exams, faced certain failures in my profession, survived near certain death, and repeatedly bounced back.

Finally, I am able to live on my own terms.

The Coaching Style:

How do you innovate with coaching your clients?

Each client has a unique set of problems and high conflicts, and I tailor my approach based on the most effective and reliable way for them.

I have six extraordinary case studies in my book where I probably didn’t have expertise but still delivered results for my clients.

What’s unique about your coaching approach?

I believe that if you are vigilant, you can achieve in a few days what would otherwise take years.

I have achieved this with 50+ clients.

My coaching first starts internally to bring change, and over time, a vigilant mindset develops.

What benefits do your clients get after working with you?

Top performance leads to a bold and beautiful life.

Do you use any specific tools to be efficient with your clients?

I use my expertise and experience to diagnose deeply and then fix the issues.

The Impact:

If you had a super megaphone that, when you speak into, the whole world will hear your message, what would you say?

Start winning over yourself like a crawling tortoise in the beginning, and with time, you will become an unstoppable eagle soaring high.

You need aspiration, will, and vigilance.

That’s all.

What is the greatest lesson you have learned in your life?

If you are vigilant, you can change every circumstance in your life.

Your final thoughts?

You start to win if you stay positive, have an aspiration to be vigilant, and apply your will, even when facing unsteadiness, time conflicts, and priority struggles.

You will win in 14 weeks.

Where Can You Find Rajesh Hari?

If you liked this interview and if you would love to develop a vigilant mindset, book a free consultation call here and see how Coach Rajesh can help you transform to the best version of you.

For more info on his coaching feel free to check his website.

If you’d like to peak a glimpse into his mind, we suggest to get his book.

And if you’d like to connect more personally with him, you can do that through LinkedIn or by sending him a direct message on his Email [email protected]. It was an honor having this interview with him.

Emily’s Story: How Pregnancy Affects a Teen’s Mental Health?

By Charles Barnard, founder of Success Institutes.

Emily had always been the responsible one.

The one teachers trusted to lead group projects, the one her friends turned to for advice, and the one her parents never worried about.

She was the girl with the plan.

She was the girl who won the scholarship to a state university and secured the summer internship at the local newspaper, all with the dream of becoming a journalist.

All that changed when she saw two pink lines.

It was a Tuesday afternoon when Emily took the test in the bathroom of the local pharmacy.

She had been feeling off for weeks, nausea in the mornings, exhaustion in the afternoons… but she had convinced herself it was just stress from finals.

Her hands trembled as she stared at the test.

The second line was faint, but it was there.

Her breath caught in her throat.

No. That was her first thought.

This isn’t happening.

Emily stuffed the test back into the box and shoved it to the bottom of her backpack.

She walked home in a haze, her heart pounding so hard she could feel it in her ears.

Her mind raced with questions…

What will my parents say? What about school? What about college? What will people think?

The next day, Emily skipped school.

She lay in bed, staring at the ceiling.

Her phone buzzed on the nightstand, texts from her friends, a missed call from her mom, but she couldn’t face any of it.

Every thought led back to the same dark corner: My life is over.

Three days later, Emily forced herself to go to school.

She sat quietly at lunch, barely touching her food.

Her friends noticed.

“Are you okay?” Olivia asked.

Emily nodded, her eyes downcast.

She wanted to tell someone, needed to tell someone, but every time she opened her mouth, the words stuck in her throat.

The weight of the secret grew heavier with each passing day.

Emily began to withdraw.

Her grades slipped.

She stopped texting back.

Nights were the hardest.

She would lie awake, one hand resting on her stomach, tears sliding down her face as her mind filled with visions of the future, a future that no longer resembled the one she had worked so hard to build.

The Psychological Toll of Teen Pregnancy

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Teen pregnancy is more than a medical event, it is a profound psychological shift that alters a teenager’s identity and mental health.

Research shows that adolescent pregnancy is strongly linked to increased rates of anxiety and depression.

Pregnant teens are more likely to experience emotional distress due to stigma, lack of social support, and fears about the future.

Emily’s reaction reflects the psychological upheaval that many pregnant teens face.

The uncertainty about how her boyfriend, family, peers, and community would respond created a foundation of fear and shame.

Studies show that the fear of social rejection and judgment increases the risk of developing clinical anxiety and depressive symptoms in pregnant teens (Letourneau et al., 2017).

Moreover, pregnancy disrupts normal adolescent development.

While most teens are focused on establishing independence, forming peer relationships, and exploring future career goals, pregnant teens are suddenly forced to shift their attention to caretaking and survival (SmithBattle, 2013).

This premature role shift can leave teens feeling isolated from their peers and overwhelmed by adult responsibilities.

Emily’s withdrawal from her friends reflected this shift.

The fear of being judged and excluded is one of the most common reasons pregnant teens become socially isolated (Letourneau et al., 2017).

This withdrawal, in turn, worsens feelings of loneliness and despair, creating a cycle of emotional vulnerability.

Emotional Consequences: Anxiety, Depression, and Self Worth

The emotional toll of teen pregnancy extends beyond the initial shock.

Studies show that pregnant teens are more likely to experience generalized anxiety, social anxiety, and depressive symptoms compared to their non pregnant peers.

The combination of hormonal changes, emotional stress, and social stigma creates a perfect storm for mental health decline.

Emily’s late night tears were not unusual.

Research shows that pregnant teens often experience sleep disturbances, intrusive thoughts, and panic attacks due to the overwhelming nature of their situation (SmithBattle, 2013).

The hormonal shifts associated with pregnancy further exacerbate emotional instability, increasing vulnerability to mood swings and emotional outbursts.

Feelings of inadequacy and hopelessness are also common.

Pregnant teens frequently experience a decline in self esteem, particularly when they perceive that their future opportunities have diminished (Letourneau et al., 2017).

Emily’s belief that her life was over reflects this loss of hope and self worth.

The contrast between her old identity (the ambitious student, the future journalist) and her new identity as a pregnant teenager created a painful internal conflict.

Social Impact and Relationship Strain

Teen pregnancy significantly alters social dynamics.

Pregnant teens often experience increased conflict with parents, friends, and romantic partners.

Research shows that parental disappointment and fear of social judgment are major sources of stress for pregnant teens (Letourneau et al., 2017).

Emily’s silence toward her parents reflected this tension.

The fear of disappointing them kept her from seeking support.

Studies show that teens who perceive low levels of parental support are more likely to develop depressive symptoms and engage in risky behaviors during pregnancy.

Romantic relationships are also strained by teen pregnancy.

Emily’s relationship with her boyfriend, Tyler, became increasingly fragile.

Tyler initially promised to support her, but as the reality of parenthood sank in, his texts became less frequent.

This emotional distancing reinforced Emily’s sense of abandonment and fear.

Friendships are also affected.

Teens who experience pregnancy often feel excluded from peer groups and social events.

Emily’s withdrawal from her friends reflects this social disconnect.

The loss of peer relationships deepened her feelings of loneliness and increased her emotional vulnerability.

Breaking the Cycle: Supporting Pregnant Teens’ Mental Health

Emily’s story reflects the broader pattern faced by pregnant teens, but recovery is possible with the right support.

Research shows that cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is effective in helping pregnant teens manage anxiety, depression, and distorted thinking patterns.

Providing pregnant teens with access to peer support groups helps reduce feelings of isolation and increases emotional resilience (Letourneau et al., 2017).

However, true transformation begins when pregnant teens take responsibility for where they are and begin to shift their mindset.

Taking Responsibility

Emily’s breakthrough moment came not just when she confided in her mother, but when she recognized that she held the power to redefine her path.

Emily realized that while she couldn’t change the fact that she was pregnant, she could control how she responded to it.

Taking responsibility didn’t mean blaming herself, it meant accepting the reality of her situation and deciding to take charge of her future.

She began to assess her time, decisions, emotions, values, and beliefs with clarity and honesty.

Identifying Negative Beliefs

Emily identified the limiting beliefs that had been holding her back, the idea that she had “ruined her life” or that she “wasn’t capable of being a good mother.”

She also confronted the negative labels (“reckless,” “irresponsible,” and “weak”) she had carried for years.

Recognizing these mental barriers allowed Emily to begin the process of rewriting her internal narrative.

Addressing Unresolved Negative Emotions

Cleaning up the past meant addressing unresolved negative emotions.

Emily worked through feelings of shame and fear, realizing that holding onto those emotions would only limit her ability to move forward.

Through therapy and reflection, she challenged the limiting beliefs that told her she couldn’t succeed as both a mother and a professional.

She stopped labeling herself based on past mistakes and started focusing on the strengths that would carry her forward (resilience, determination, and love for her child).

But mental transformation isn’t just about clearing out the mental clutter, it’s about building new, empowering habits.

Building Empowering Habits

Emily committed to filling her mind with positive input every day.

She developed a morning routine that included journaling her thoughts, practicing mindfulness, and setting daily intentions.

She learned to monitor her internal dialogue, replacing thoughts of self doubt with affirmations of strength and capability.

Instead of feeling trapped by her circumstances, Emily began to see herself as capable of shaping her future.

Learning Exercises to Manage Stress

To truly take control of her life, Emily also had to learn how to regulate stress and negative thinking.

When fear or uncertainty crept in, she practiced deep breathing and grounding exercises.

She started viewing setbacks as opportunities to adjust her approach rather than evidence of failure.

Through these practices, Emily learned that while she couldn’t control every outcome, she could control her mindset and how she responded to life’s challenges.

Counselor Guidance

Emily’s guidance counselor played a key role in reinforcing this new mindset.

When her counselor helped her explore scholarship opportunities for young mothers, Emily began to see a path forward, a future that included both motherhood and professional ambition.

But the real shift happened when Emily stopped seeing herself as a victim of her circumstances and started seeing herself as the architect of her future.

The Result

Emily’s shift in mindset gave her the clarity and emotional strength to explore all of her options with confidence and wisdom.

She understood that the decision she faced (whether to keep the baby, place the baby for adoption, or terminate the pregnancy) was profoundly difficult and life altering.

Each path carried its own emotional weight, moral complexity, and long term consequences.

Emily knew that this wasn’t a decision to be made impulsively or based on fear.

It required deep inner alignment and the ability to engage her heart, mind, and gut with a Champion’s Mindset.

Her heart guided her with compassion and emotional truth, helping her recognize her deepest desires and the emotional toll each choice might carry.

Her mind provided rational analysis, allowing her to weigh the practical realities of motherhood, adoption, or abortion, including financial stability, future opportunities, and emotional well being.

Her gut offered instinctive wisdom, sharpening her sense of what felt right at the core of her being.

But most importantly, Emily’s inner moral code (her sense of integrity, responsibility, and love) served as the foundation for her decision.

This wasn’t about finding an easy answer, it was about having the courage to face the truth, to own the consequences of her choice, and to stand by it with strength and grace.

With her new mindset, Emily was able to approach this life changing decision with clarity, conviction, and courage, knowing that whatever path she chose, she had the strength to face it head-on.

Conclusion: How Pregnancy Affects Teen Mental Health

Emily’s story illustrates the profound emotional and psychological impact of teen pregnancy.

The combination of social stigma, emotional vulnerability, and disrupted developmental milestones creates a challenging landscape for pregnant teens.

However, recovery is possible.

Through therapy, social support, and educational resources, pregnant teens can reclaim their mental health and envision a future defined not by their pregnancy, but by their resilience and strength.


References:

  1. Letourneau, N. L., Stewart, M. J., & Barnfather, A. (2017). Adolescent pregnancy and social support. Canadian Journal of Nursing Research, 39(3), 74-88.
  2. Rao, S. S., & Kaushal, K. (2019). Mental health outcomes of teen pregnancy. Journal of Child Psychology, 58(4), 345-358.
  3. SmithBattle, L. (2013). Teen pregnancy and identity disruption. Journal of Family Nursing, 19(3), 312-327.

The Dr. Dolores Show: How to Power Your Path to Success with Intention and Creation?

Dr. Dolores Fazzino, Nurse Practitioner, Medical Intuitive, Energy Whisperer

In this episode of The Dr. Dolores Show, Dr. Dolores Fazzino dives deep into the powerful relationship between intention and creation.

We often hear that our thoughts and intentions shape our reality, but how do we harness this energy to manifest what we truly desire?

Dr. Fazzino discusses the steps to aligning your intentions with your actions, and how this alignment fuels creation in both personal and professional life.

Learn how to set clear, purposeful intentions that not only inspire but also guide your actions toward manifesting meaningful outcomes.

With practical tips and profound insights, Dr. Fazzino offers listeners a roadmap to creating the life they want, step by step.

The Dr. Dolores Show: The Link Between Intention and Creation

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We are all powerhouses of creation, capable of bringing our dreams into reality.

However, manifestation is not just about wishful thinking, it requires clarity, intention, and aligned action.

Intention is more than just a thought, it’s the driving force behind the creative process.

Intention is the Blueprint for Creation

At its core, creation is the act of transforming thoughts and desires into reality.

As Dr. Fazzino states, “Creation is the action of bringing thoughts and desires into reality.”

However, this process is not random, it follows an energetic blueprint.

When we set an intention, we are directing energy toward a specific outcome.

But simply having an intention is not enough.

Intention is the seed of manifestation, yet it requires the right conditions (action, clarity, and alignment) to fully blossom.

The Difference Between Intention and Wishing

Many people mistake wishing for intention.

The key difference? Clarity.

When we make a wish, we are hoping for something without a clear path forward.

Intention, on the other hand, is a deliberate act of directing energy.

It requires us to be specific about what we want and to take conscious steps toward it.

This is where aligned action comes into play.

It is not enough to set an intention and wait.

Taking purposeful steps toward our goal ensures that we are in harmony with our desired outcome.

Embody the Energy of Your Desires

One of the most overlooked aspects of manifestation is being in the frequency of your desires before they manifest.

Our emotions and mindset play a significant role in shaping our reality.

If we focus on self doubt and fear, we send mixed signals to the universe.

If we embody confidence, gratitude, and belief, we align ourselves with our intentions.

As Dr. Fazzino wisely puts it,

“When we focus on self doubt and fear, we are sending mixed messages to the universe.”

This is why it’s essential to cultivate a mindset of trust and certainty.

Let Go of the ‘How’ and Trust the Timing

One of the biggest obstacles to manifestation is getting caught up in the how and when of it all.

Many people struggle because they obsess over the process instead of trusting that the universe will deliver in divine timing.

Rather than fixating on when your desire will arrive, focus on embodying the feeling of already having it.

Your feelings should match the frequency of your desire.

This alignment accelerates the manifestation process.

Gratitude and Appreciation Open the Doors to Manifestation

The final key to successful manifestation is gratitude.

Expressing appreciation for what is already present (and what is yet to come) creates a powerful magnetic force.

Gratitude signals to the universe that you are open and ready to receive.

Additionally, manifestation is not just about getting what you want, it’s about becoming the person you are meant to be.

True transformation happens when you align with your highest self, rather than just chasing outcomes.

Remember, manifestation is a COcreative process between you and the universe.

Are you ready to step into your power and manifest your best life?

Tune in to discover how to activate the power of intention and creation to manifest the life you’ve always dreamed of…

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What to Look for In This Episode of The Dr. Dolores Show:

  1. We are power houses that can create anything but we need to look at the nuts and bolts of it. (1:49)
  2. When we set an intention, we are directing the energy. (3:03)
  3. “Creation is the action of bringing thoughts and desires into reality.” Dr Dolores Fazzino (3:34)
  4. Aligned action is setting an intention and then taking an action to create that. (5:13)
  5. The difference between intention and wishing is clarity. (5:42)
  6. Intention alone is not enough to bring something to reality. 9(:46)
  7. Intention is the seed to manifestation. (10:00)
  8. Don’t focus on how it’s going to manifest. (11:23)
  9. Our intention is the energetic blueprint. (12:48)
  10. To manifest effectively, we must embody the energy of our intentions before it manifests. (14:45)
  11. It’s not your timing, it’s the universe timing for manifestation. (20:04)
  12. Many people can struggle to see manifestation because they aren’t taking aligned action. (21:05)
  13. “When we focus on self doubt & fear, we are sending mixed messages to the universe.” Dr Dolores Fazzino (22:59)
  14. Have gratitude and appreciation for what is to come. (25:37)
  15. It’s not just about getting what you want, it’s about becoming the person you are. (26:49)
  16. Your feelings should match the frequency of your desire. (28:47)
  17. Being is who you are at the core, not just what you do. (35:40)

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The Dr. Dolores Show: Listening to You Body’s Wisdom (with Guest Donnielle Carter)

Dr. Dolores Fazzino, Nurse Practitioner, Medical Intuitive, Energy Whisperer

Your body is always speaking, but are you listening?

In this enlightening episode of The Dr. Dolores Show, Dr. Dolores Fazzino welcomes special guest Donnielle Carter, a renowned expert in body awareness and energetic communication.

Together, they explore how to cultivate a deeper relationship with your body, understand its unique language, and harness its wisdom for greater well-being.

Donnielle shares powerful insights on tuning into your body’s signals, releasing resistance, and embracing a more intuitive approach to health.

Discover how small shifts in awareness can lead to profound healing, increased energy, and a greater sense of ease in your daily life.


Who is Donnielle Carter?

Donnielle Carter never thought she would work with bodies even though she has spent over 35 years working in the field of bodies.

She came into it early when her mother became a nutritionist and hosted a health talk radio show host which lasted 27 years.

Donnielle was right there with her every Saturday doing the show with her.

Learning and resisting much.

Originally shy, Donnielle spent 10 years professionally in the world of TV Production and Promotion in background, pushing buttons and holding cameras.

Now a Nationally Board Certified Health and Wellness Coach, she uses her extensive experience and powerful energetic tools to create practical applications that have proven transformative for both her own life and the lives of thousands.

Throughout her career, Donnielle has been dedicated to helping individuals embrace their bodies, live and speak authentically.

Her teachings are deeply rooted in the belief that everyone deserves to feel empowered and confident in their own skin, regardless of societal norms or personal challenges.

She passionately advocates for a shift in perspective, encouraging individuals to celebrate their bodies, diversity and inherent beauty.

To work with Donnielle please check out her website.

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The Dr. Dolores Show: Listening to You Body’s Wisdom

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Overcoming Mental Programming

Dr. Dolores Fazzino highlighted that our minds have been over programmed, causing us to operate from a fragment of our full potential.

We often get caught up in thought loops, societal expectations, and conditioned beliefs that limit our ability to experience true wholeness.

Recognizing these mental programs is the first step toward breaking free and embracing a more intuitive and embodied life.

Listening to the Messages from Your Body

Donnielle Carter emphasized the importance of tuning into your body’s signals.

Your body is constantly communicating with you, offering valuable information about your emotions, stress levels, and overall well being.

Instead of dismissing physical sensations as mere discomfort, take a moment to be present with them.

By listening to your body, you can gain deeper self awareness and make choices that support your health and vitality.

Your Presence Alone Creates Change

One of the most powerful realizations from the conversation was the idea that you change the world simply by walking through it.

Your energy, presence, and awareness have an impact far beyond what you may realize.

By embodying mindfulness and authenticity, you inspire and influence those around you in profound ways.

The Link Between Doing Mode and Illness

We live in a culture that glorifies productivity, but as Dr. Fazzino pointed out, being in constant “doing mode” triggers stress, which can lead to illness.

When we push ourselves beyond our limits, our bodies respond with fatigue, tension, and even chronic health conditions.

Balancing action with rest and self care is crucial for maintaining overall wellbeing.

Fear of Connecting with the Body

Many people avoid tuning into their bodies because they fear what they might discover.

Donnielle Carter pointed out that this fear often stems from discomfort with emotions, pain, or past trauma stored in the body.

However, ignoring these messages doesn’t make them disappear, it only amplifies the disconnect.

Developing a healthy relationship with your body requires courage, curiosity, and compassion.

Does Your Body Have Its Own Consciousness?

What if your body has an intelligence of its own?

Donnielle Carter invites us to consider this possibility.

Rather than viewing the body as merely a vessel for the mind, what if it has a unique awareness that can guide us toward better choices?

Honoring this intelligence can lead to profound healing and transformation.

Your Body is Not Your Enemy

A common misconception is that the body works against us, but Donnielle reassures us that “your body’s not mad at you.”

Instead of seeing pain or illness as punishment, we can reframe these experiences as signals guiding us toward healing.

When we shift our perspective and cultivate a more compassionate relationship with our bodies, we unlock greater harmony and well being.

Start listening to your body today, it may have more to tell you than you ever imagined!

Join us for an inspiring discussion that will change the way you relate to your body, because when you listen, your body responds with greater harmony, balance, and vitality.

Tune in and start the journey to truly hearing what your body has been trying to tell you all along…

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What to Look for In This Episode of The Dr. Dolores Show:

  1. We have been over programmed in our minds which is a fragment of the whole. Dr. Dolores (8:23)
  2. Your body is giving you information, be with it. Donnielle (11:42)
  3. Do you know you change the world just by walking through it? Donnielle (20:38)
  4. “When you’re in major doing mode, you go into stress mode and then you go into illness.” Dr. Dolores Fazzino with guest Donnielle Carter (23:23)
  5. “People are afraid to connect with their bodies because they’re afraid of what their bodies will say.” Donnielle Carter with host Dr. Dolores Fazzino (25:39)
  6. What if your body has a consciousness of its own? Donnielle (34:34)
  7. You’re bodies not mad at you. Donnielle (53:15)

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