All of us, without a doubt, want the best for ourselves. At least consciously.
However, subconsciously we might get attracted to things and people who are not good for us.
Why is this?
Our subconscious mind always tries to find a way to help us heal our mental, physical, emotional and spiritual self. But our conscious mind rarely notices.
That’s why we might end up in repeating cycles like being unable to sustain a relationship or always ending up with emotionally unavailable partners.
Here are 3 main reasons why you always fall for emotionally unavailable partners:
1. You have a bigger chance meeting an emotionally unavailable person.
According to a research, it seems that avoidants (people who avoid intimacy or deeper connection) dominate the dating market.
The study showed that avoidants who entered a new marriage, post-divorce, were more likely to divorce again. Since this type of person suppresses the emotions of love, they get over partners almost instantly.
The study also showed that avoidants avoid other avoidants because they lack the emotional glue to stay together. Ironically, one study didn’t even find a single pair that was avoidant-avoidant.
Since secure partners settle down once things go ok, and they don’t ask for too much, they are rare on the market. The majority of people in the dating market are emotionally unavailable.
2. You find emotionally unavailable people attractive.
We are always attracted to people who project our deepest insecurities. This is because attraction, getting a partner and creating a relationship is all about both people becoming the best version of themselves. So subconsciously we are attracted to people who show us our insecurities so we can overcome them.
Studies on the science of adult attachment including Paula Pietromonaco (University of Massachusetts) and Katherine Carnelly (University of Southampton – UK) found that avoidant individuals actually prefer anxiously attached people. Another study done by Jeffry Simpson of the University of Minnesota showed that anxious women are more likely to date avoidant men.
People who strongly guard their independence are attracted to partners who invade it. People who desire extreme closeness are attracted to people who are scared of intimacy.
Both of these groups need each other so they can help each other to face their inner shadows. But nobody is consciously aware of this. So the ego comes to play and one group starts to chase while the other runs away.
3. You find emotionally healthy people to be missing “the spark”.
We are taught what is love in our childhood. Our parents are the first people that show us what a romantic love looks like. Whatever they show us that’s what we associate romantic love with, and that’s what we subconsciously look for in a partner.
Most parents don’t have healthy relationships. They give each other mixed emotions and signals, they create unnecessary drama and lie to each other. Children raised in such environments usually seek the same from their partner.
When you meet a secure lover, the messages you receive are honest, straightforward, and consistent. Due to the belief that they are worthy of love, secure lovers are not afraid of intimacy.
If you were raised in an environment where love is associated with drama, emotional inspection, lies and even fighting, that’s what you’ll look for. A secure lover will lack the emotional turmoil that you need in a relationship. You’ll feel like they miss some “spark” even though they are most suitable for a healthy relationship.
All of this is deeply subconscious and rarely can we control it. However, being aware of it is the first step in getting out of this cycle of dating emotionally unavailable and unhealthy individuals.
It is believed that medicinal herbs and plants have the ability to cure diseases since ancient times, so scientists and researchers showed interests in studying their effects.
However, it’s difficult, or even impossible to measure the energetic and spiritual effects of these plants using modern research equipment, making this ancient knowledge lose its substance.
But this doesn’t mean we need to totally bury the knowledge of old just because it can’t be measured. It’s the same as the electron which was an unknown particle before. People used to be clueless about it. But its existence today has been widely acknowledged.
The same holds true for the energetic and spiritual properties of plants. Maybe we’ll find the proper technology and equipment to study that part of nature in the future but for now, we have to explore through ancient knowledge, use logic and our intuitive wisdom to find the answers.
What Are The Effects Of Medicinal Herbs?
Even if many aren’t aware, there are some who are perceptive and sensitive to their effects and potency on the human body.
There are also some ancient systems of medical practice that exist in earlier times, like the Ayurveda and the Traditional Chinese Medicine.
These practices provided classical and detailed texts that go in-depth, mapping and outlining the psycho-spiritual and energetic effects of plants and other herbal medicines.
This type of treatment (psycho-spiritual and energy) was even preferred by ancient physicians than the treatment of the physical level to heal an ailment.
For them, the physical level is only the symptomatological level and not the actual cause of the disharmony in itself.
This shows that herbs have powerful agents and activating properties that aid in shifting spiritual consciousness.
An example of this is the shamanic concoction Ayahuasca. The herbs that we use daily and purchase in our local health food store have also similar effects.
To restore and reawaken the lost ancient knowledge of herbs, here are the three highlighted personal favorites with its distinct and noticeable psycho-spiritual and energy activating effects.
3 Psycho-spiritually Activating Herbs That Will Expand Your Consciousness And Supercharge Your Health
1. He Shou Wu (Fo-Ti)
He Shou Wu was considered to be the foremost longevity tonics in the world by the Daoist philosophy.
It is believed to be what kept alive Li Ching-Yuen, a Chinese herbalist, and Qigong master for almost 256 years. It may just be a legend, but a recent scientific research proved that the plant does indeed obtain a life-extending property. It’s been credited to reverse many diseases, repair and protect the DNA, extend lifespan and inhibits the MAO-B enzyme.
He Shou Wu may be less popular in activating on a spiritual level, but it enhances one’s intuitive perception and abilities.
Daoist philosophy classified it as Shen and Yin tonic. Shen is translated as “spirit” and Yin corresponds to the feminine element or energy that promotes receptivity. Thus, it’s an herb that makes us “receptive to spirit.”
It’s even believed to enhance creativity, inspiration, and intuitive guidance making it a popular herb for artists and meditators.
Other benefits of He Shou Wu include deep cellular rejuvenation that enhances libido.
If you want to try the plant, it is recommended to start with 1/4 to 1/2 teaspoon daily and work up from there. Some feel its effects in just one dose while it took some time for others.
Reishi is known in the East as “Mushroom of Immortality” and “Mushroom of Spiritual Potency.”
The Daoist Philosophy considered it as the most revered health-boosting herb as it virtually affects every system in the body and mind in the most positive way. It’s backed up by scientific research as it’s used in hospitals to treat difficult diseases like cancer.
Ancient healers also used Reishi for its spiritually-activating properties.
Reishi is also a powerful Shen tonic that helps mainly in relaxing the nervous system, calming the mind, inducing a state of relaxed focus and flow.
In addition, Reishi creates a noticeable shift in time perception which seems to make time move slowly. The mind continues at a normal speed but times slows down making one get more with life every second without feeling rushed or sped up.
Some of its compounds affect the pineal gland which controls the perception of reality and time. Its calming effects on the nervous system frees up the bandwidth that has been occupied by stress signals and makes the flow of sensual data into the awareness more fluid. Hence, all these produce a feeling of hyper-awareness and hyper-perception.
When Reishi is intended for spiritual purposes, one must be aware where the harvested Reishi comes from. The Daoists believe that the plants growing in its natural habitat, that is in densely forested high mountains, contains more Shen energy than the ones grown on sawdust and woodchips in greenhouses.
Holy Basil is a legendary part of Hindu culture, often referred to as “The Elixir of Life” and “Mother Medicine of Nature.”
Some of its well-known benefits are reducing stress, calming anxiety, balancing blood sugar and restoring proper functioning of the endocrine system.
However, it’s also known to have effects on the subtle energy fields of humans. Researchers and physicians see it as a powerful bio-energetic field harmonizer that restores and balances the electromagnetic fields generated by the mind and body.
The Yogic philosophy considers Tulsi as a unique herb that balances the chakras or energy centers. Meditators in India, as well as other parts of the world, use it to calm the mind and body, allowing them to enter into deeper states of awareness more quickly.
Basil can be consumed as a tea or in more concentrated capsules and tinctures. You don’t have to use it daily to feel its effects, yet, prolonged use has been found to have accompanying profound shifts in health.
[This article is not intended to promote their use but give you information about each of their effects. We believe that it’s time to give a little more attention to studying the spiritual side of plants.]
There are all kinds of parents and parenting possibilities. Some are very strict and control every aspect of their child’s life, others are very chill and let the child make their own decisions and mistakes.
It is most certain that although there are many different approaches, all parents want to do the best for their kids.
Unfortunately, some parents fail to be the best supporters and examples. Of course, all parents make mistakes from time to time, and there is no right or wrong way to raise a kid, but some mistakes are bigger than others and can leave a permanent mark on the child.
Find out if your parents were making these errors when they raised you. And if you are a parent, try to avoid these 13 behaviors, because this hurts your child.
13 Signs Of A Toxic Parent
1. FAILING TO CREATE A SECURE AND SUPPORTIVE ENVIRONMENT
Some parents believe that giving tough love teaches the child what the real world has become. Of course, this might make the child more independent, but it might also leave him with commitment issues and without close relationships later in life. The fact is that we all need love and affection. We need to have that security, which no matter what we do or say, our parents love us unconditionally.
This way we have the courage to try new things and understand who we truly are (because we only learn from our mistakes). Tough love is not wrong, but it definitely cannot be the only approach.
2. CRITICIZING THEIR CHILD’S EVERY MOVE
All the parents want best for their kids, but telling them they are always wrong is not healthy. Being too negative leaves the child without any confidence and motivation to try new things.
It is normal for children to make mistakes and to learn from them and parents should understand that. Being overly judgmental is not the way to go. Parents should find a balance between positive and negative feedback and rather encourage their kids not bring them down.
3. DEMANDING ALL THE ATTENTION
Toxic parents often think that their children owe them something because they have spent so much time and energy on them. They do not understand that their child has his/her own life and might not always be available for them.
So the best thing for parents to do is to give their kid some space and then they will want to reach out themselves. No relationship can be forced, even not the one between a parent and a child.
4. MAKING HURTFUL JOKES
It is quite similar to emotionally abusive relationships, where one partner brings the other one down but does it with a smile on his/her face. Picking on kids and pointing out everything they do wrong is bad for their confidence and self-love.
So if you are a parent never mock your child because of the way she/he looks or behaves. If you have valid concerns, then talk to your kid privately and maturely.
5. BLAMING IT ALL ON THE KID
Some parents accuse their children of the terrible ways they treat them. If your parents were emotionally or physically abusive, it most definitely wasn’t your fault, even if they made you believe it was. Because most of us look up to our parents and believe every word they say, this might be very damaging to a kid.
Thinking that you deserved all the insults or hits makes you doubt your value as a person. It is possible that you will be in an abusive relationship later in life as well because you think that kind of behavior is normal and you do not deserve better.
6. NOT ALLOWING TO EXPRESS THOUGHTS AND EMOTIONS
All of us have good and bad times. It is important to talk about all kinds of feelings and not hold the negative emotions inside. Such conversations can prevent mental and physical illnesses. It is not healthy to raise your kid with the “boys don’t cry” attitude.
Crying and showing emotions makes the child emphatic, caring and loving in the future. Holding all the emotions in can lead to depression and loneliness. So, if you are a parent, encourage your kid to speak up about their feelings.
7. BEING SCARY AND FRIGHTENING
Structure and discipline are important to some level, but your child should never be afraid of you. If you raise them in an environment, that everything that happens is their fault and they get punished all the time, then they become scared to talk to you about anything. This affects them primarily later in life as well, and they might not get close to you every.
There is a huge difference between respecting your parents and being afraid of them. It is important to create a secure and loving environment and make your kid feel that whatever happens, they can always talk to you and turn to you for advice.
8. THINKING ONLY ABOUT THEMSELVES
All parents should take into consideration their child’s thoughts and opinions. Of course, parents are smarter and know what is best (most of the time), it is important to include the whole family in the decision-making process.
Whether it is where to go for a dinner or a vacation, your child should have a say in it as well. And if you finally choose the opposite to their wish, make sure to explain to them calmly and understandably why you made this decision.
9. WANTING TO FULFILL THEIR DREAMS THROUGH THEIR KID
It is selfish to make your child do the things you wanted to do as a kid. For example, do not force them to do ballet, if you wanted to become a ballerina or do not make them study law if you dreamed of becoming a successful lawyer.
Your kid is an individual with his/her thoughts, ideas, and the world. Let them make their own decision because otherwise none of you will be happy.
10. CONTROLLING THE KID WITH MONEY AND GUILT
Parents should not expect something in return when they give their child gifts or money. As a parent, do not try to buy your child’s love and respect. Earn it in another way.
Also, do not try to fix your mistakes with money or gifts. It is important to admit being wrong and apologizing because actions speak louder than words.
11. GIVING SILENT TREATMENT
Which one of you is the kid again? It is very childish and ignorant to “solve” a problem or an argument with keeping your mouth shut. As with any relationship, communication is the key, and you must talk things through.
This passive-aggressive behavior only teaches your kid unhealthy ways of communicating.
12. IGNORING BOUNDARIES
If a parent wants respect from their child, they must give them respect as well. This means following the boundaries and agreements yourself as well. If you as a parent are never on time, how do you expect your child to be? Also, give your child some space and privacy.
For example, knock before entering their room, especially when dealing with teenagers.
13. MAKING THEIR KIDS RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR HAPPINESS
Do not be one of those parents, who only talk about how much they have sacrificed for their children and how your children should take care of you now. Becoming a parent was your choice and responsibility, you cannot expect your children to forget about their life and only support and entertain you from now on.
Do not become a burden on your children, because then they will not want to spend time with you at all. If you are not happy, do something about it and do not blame your kids. Remember, we are all responsible for our happiness.
Conclusion
Some ways of parenting can be quite toxic and negative. They can also leave a permanent mark on the kid, which might mess up his/her future relationships.
So be the best parent you can be, give your child a secure home, but also enough personal space.
Talk to them about things that matter and their feeling, but do not become too obsessive over them.
Let them make their mistakes and let them know, that you are always going to be there to support them.
Feeling stressed out in life has become a common phenomenon in modern times.
In the course of carrying the burden of daily life, one often faces depression and exhaustion.
One way to replenish your energy is to opt for a getaway and experience some adventure in life.
There are places around the world that can change your life if you visit them. They are so powerful both in energy and scenery, that you will instantly feel as a different person once you experience them.
Here are the top 15 most beautiful places on Earth that often lead to life transformation when visited:
15. Petra – Ma’an, Jordan
Ruined, but magical in its artistic value, Petra represents a unique architectural significance. It dates back to the 4th century BCE and has many references in the Bible. This place is known for its scintillating beauty.
Located at a high altitude, this monastery is known for its tranquillity. There are many legends surrounding this place. Over the years, it has become a major tourist attraction.
13. Manu, National Park – Madre de dios Region/ Cusco Region, Peru
Living in cities, when we almost forget what other life forms are, this place is the best to visit. A wildlife habitation, this place brings one closest to Nature.
12. Mount Kailash – Transhimalaya Mountain Range, Tibet
An abode for the Hindu deities, this place holds religious significance not only for the Hindus, but many other religions as well. Situated in an altitude that promises calmness and serenity, this place is breath taking.
11. Great Blue Hole – Belize City, Belize
This is a vertical cave and is rich in reef life. Diving is a popular activity here that helps you experience the exotic and diverse marine life.
10. Machu Picchu – Machupicchu District
Like the Xanadu, this palace was constructed as a residence of an Emperor. Now in ruins, watching the sunrise from this height is a visual delight.
9. Pyramids of Giza – El Giza, Egypt
One of the unique wonders of the world, the unmatched beauty of this place is still a mystery. It shows how rich the then Egyptian culture was and deports us to the ancient past.
8. Mount Roraima – Guina Shield, Brazil/ Guyana
Enveloped by the clouds, this place is a marvel of the Nature. It has a mystical appearance and is worth the climb.
7. Volcanoes National Park – Ruhengiri,Rwanda
Gorillas and volcanoes should not stop you from exploring the depths of the wild. Once you visit here, an adventurous exploration of wildlife awaits you.
6. Mount Everest – Himalayas, Nepal/Tibet
The highest mountain peak in the world, experiencing the climb of the Everest can teach you a new approach towards life. When you shall literally overcome the fear of this majestic climb, you can face any other insecurities in life.
5. Svalbard – Artic Ocean, Norway
Have you seen anything more mesmerizing than the Northern Lights? This is also a habitation for many exquisite animals like the reindeers and polar bears.
4. Galápagos islands – Pacific Ocean, Ecuador
Situated on the Pacific Ocean, this place is beautiful for its wildlife and volcanic islands.
3. Tianzi Mountain Nature Reserve – Hunan, China
Heavenly in its form, the “floating mountains” is huge in structure and can give you a paradise like experience.
2. Harmandir Sahib – Punjab, India
Popularly known as the “Golden Temple”, it has a humbling effect on its tourists. Peaceful as it is, this place has its own magical quality.
1. Salar de Uyuni – Potosi/ Oruro, Bolivia
Spread across for miles, this place is the largest salt pan of the world. One cannot be but amazed at the largest mirror of the world.
Now that you have your list, what are you waiting for? Pack your bags and tour the world!
Oxytocin has earned the moniker ‘the love hormone’.
Some call it ‘the life hormone’ as well, because one of the major functions of oxytocin is causing uterine contractions during childbirth, helping the baby being born. But in smaller quantities, it also relaxes the body, both in men and in women.
A particularly familiar example is how relaxed people feel when they are with their loved ones. That type of full body languor is very effective in eliminating stress and tension from the body.
But not all of us have someone to love! And even if you do, you won’t say no to more love chemicals, would you?
So how can we trick our body to produce more Oxytocin if we don’t have someone to love?
Here are 29 natural ways to trick your brain to produce ‘the love hormone’ that are waaay cheaper than dating an actual human!
29 Ways To Trick Your Brain To Create Oxytocin Naturally:
1. Connect with your friends
In the age of social media it’s a lot easier to discover old classmates and street friends that you fell out of touch with. That warm and happy rush is just what you need to wash stress away. This warm feeling will stimulate oxytocin production in your body.
2. Call a loved one right now
If you don’t want to look for a long lost friend, just pick up the phone and call someone who’s close to you now. Speaking and sharing with friends gives you a positive outlook and helps your body release more Oxytocin.
3. Earphones in, noise out
Plug your earphones in to listen to some calming and relaxing music. Whether you like the great classics, or just some plain nature sounds while you work. Put yourself in the zone and empty your mind of jarring notes. The beautiful music will stimulate your brain to produce oxytocin.
4. Eat Tryptophan
Certain foods have more Tryptophan that’s been shown to promote oxytocin production. Top Tryptophan foods are eggs, bananas, yogurt, whole grain rice and quinoa, sesame seeds, cashews, walnuts, salmon, spirulina, potatoes, beans and legumes. You will see a noticeable difference if you add these foods in your diet.
5. Take a long, deep breath
Something as simple as a few long and deep breaths can instantly refresh you. Just try it and see. The relaxation you feel from the rush is an amazing feeling and can stimulate your brain to produce oxytocin as a result of the instant relaxation.
6. Commune with yourself
Take the time to enjoy your own company. It’s a healthy process, to spend time with yourself. Whether it’s taking a short, quiet walk, or sitting at home and laughing hard as you can at something you’re reading or watching. Activities that center you go a long way in boosting the basal oxytocin production. You show yourself that there is always someone that loves you, yourself!
7. Try something new
It inculcates a sense of adventure and exploration, no matter how small the new thing you’re undertaking. There’s no better way to defeat stress than genuine enjoyment. And the sole act of getting out of your boring routine will fill you with love and excitement!
8. Hug someone
One of the reasons oxytocin is called the love hormone is because it gets released when people hug or hold each other in close contact for over 30 sec.
9. Eat Dark Chocolate
It is well known that chocolate promotes dopamine production in your brain and more dopamine can boost your oxytocin levels too.
10. Get a massage
Research done by a group of scientists found that getting a massage increases the oxytocin levels in your body and reduces adrenocorticotropin hormone in humans. We are creatures that crave physical touch and connection. Getting a massage will give you the physical touch you need, it will reduce the stress hormones of your body and boost the oxytocin levels that make you feel loved.
11. Increase your B Vitamins
Most of the B Vitamins take care of your brain’s health. They also support the promotion of dopamine and oxytocin levels.
12. Get some sun
Soaking in the sunlight will instantly make you happier. The sun rays stimulate the parts of your brain that promote feel good chemicals and oxytocin and the sense of warmth and brightness will additionally support that process.
13. Exercise
30 min exercise can significantly boost your dopamine levels and reduce the stress hormones in your body. The sole act of exercising is subconsciously letting your body know that it is loved and taken care of. This stimulates the production of oxytocin.
14. Increase your intake of Magnesium
Magnesium supports the production of oxytocin. Foods with high levels of Magnesium are: Spinach, Chard, Pumpkin seeds, Yogurt or Kefir, Almonds, Black Beans, Avocado, Figs, Dark Chocolate and Bananas.
15. Meditate
Practicing meditation can give you a sense of love unlike you’ve ever felt before. It will show you that love is not just the romantic aspect we were led to believe, that in fact, the romantic aspect is just one of many forms that love manifests through.
16. Dance to your favorite songs
Dancing is a great form of exercise, it reduces stress and boosts dopamine. Add your favorite songs to the equation and the feeling of freedom dancing gives, and you have a powerful stimulation for oxytocin.
17. Dip yourself in water
Dipping yourself in a body of water, a lake, a sea, the ocean, or even a bath, can have tremendous effects on stress reduction. The rejuvenated feeling you get after swimming is a result of the stress reduction effect of water and the dopamine boost it gives. All of this is a powerful stimulation for oxytocin production.
18. Hike in nature
The feeling you get when you walk through nature and natural scenery is a powerful one. It gives you a sense that you are a part of something much bigger. This feeling of belonging promotes production of oxytocin.
19. Watch a comedy
Having a laugh is the best way to spike the levels of your dopamine and promote the production of oxytocin. People who watch comedies are often more compassionate and connect easily with others.
20. Play
Do you remember when you were a little kid and that special time you had to play? It’s not important whether you played with your toys, or in the park, the mindset of playing is what you need to aim for. The mindset that you have 1 hour to be free, that you can’t do anything wrong, is one of the best ways to cure depression according to many confessions. Getting into that mindset will give you back that childlike spirit that in return will show you a more loving side of the world. Play a game, go out partying, do whatever gives you that sense of freedom!
21. Speak to strangers
Getting out of that mental prison that prevents you from speaking with strangers is one of the best feelings ever. You slowly start to realize that other people are just like you. We are all afraid, we are all searching for happiness and we all love. This understanding will give you a bigger connection with people. You will start seeing everyone with more loving eyes.
22. Go on a quest to make the best Instagram or Facebook photo
The modern society is preoccupied with their social persona. We literally get dopamine boosts whenever others like our images. Don’t be a slave to this mindset but you can use it. Set out on a daily adventure alone or with your best friend to create the best photo of yourself. Dress in what you look best, go to beautiful places, take your smartphone or camera and make a couple of shots. Choose the best photo and upload it to Facebook or Instagram. Getting likes from others and receiving compliments will give you a sense of being loved. Just don’t let it bloat your ego.
23. Do something that scares you
Facing your fears, intentionally doing something that you love but you are afraid of, will give you one of the biggest rushes of happiness and love towards the world. That’s how you show yourself that you are courageous enough to follow your heart!
24. Give a gift
Giving something to others stimulates feelings of kindness, compassion and love. Their reaction and smile on their face will additionally stimulate your brain to produce oxytocin.
25. Snuggle with your pet
What’s a better way to feel loved than snuggling with your pet?!
26. Have a meal with your partner in a romantic restaurant
Going out with someone you love, dressed up, in a romantic atmosphere while soft music is playing in the background is one of the best ways to boost your oxytocin levels while strengthening the relationship. The food is just a plus!
27. Play an instrument
Learning different ways to express your emotions like playing an instrument, or writing, strengthens the connection you have with your heart.
28. Do something that you really love doing but always postponed
You don’t have to be afraid to not do something you love, you might just postpone it because you think there are more important things you need to do now. What’s more important than what the essence of your existence is telling you to do?
29. Cry
Just surrender to your emotions and cry. There is a sense of purity in the act of crying, a sense of beauty and pureness that come straight from your soul. Embrace your emotions and let them go.
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Our DNA is activated and returned to its perfection as cosmic energies continue to immerse our planet with waves of higher consciousness.
This evolution activates all the psychic abilities that have been inactive for thousands of years. Some incarnated children exhibiting psychic abilities at a young age have more strands activated than anyone else.
What is a Star Child?
A child that has more strands of its DNA activated than other people is called a Star Child. They arrived on planet Earth through some of the following ways:
1. Changes of DNA as a result of absorbing cosmic energy.
2. Agreement between the original soul and the Star Being while the child is very young.
3. Natural incarnation and carefully planned genetics whose bloodline lineage is from incarnated Star people.
There are a couple of theories that suggest that there were ancient civilizations who lived on Earth and were significantly more advanced than Humanity is today. But this advancement was more spiritual than technological like most of us think.
The theory says that they used to have 12 active major strands of DNA with at least 64 codons turned on before the “Fall of Atlantis.” Currently, we only have 2 strands and around 20 codons which make us lack the ability and consciousness.
Some theorize that these civilizations ascended this realm of existence through spiritual practices, some say they evolved into higher beings and others suggest that they were destroyed.
There is a theory that we are the children of those ancient civilizations but we have forgotten our real nature. We have locked our true potential for some reason, and think of it as junk DNA.
This handicap is the main cause why we forget who we are. It’s now humanity’s greatest challenge to incarnate in this lifetime and unable to remember who we are, or even how we’re connected to our Source Creator.
As the waves of cosmic energy consistently immerse our planet for the last 40 years, we are currently in the best times of waking up and activating our junk DNA.
This raises our vibration into higher density to start a new cycle of existence as a new type of human beings. Our next evolution could be promoted exactly through the spiritual revolution that is currently taking place around the world.
What’s the purpose of Star Children?
The Star children play an important role in this great transformation for humanity. Their higher vibration that affects the collective human consciousness helps to shift humanity towards a fifth-dimensional existence while inside a physical body.
Some Star children already exhibit abilities beyond that of the average human such as remembering past lives, remembering when they “walked in,” or knowing things that even most spiritually awakened people still haven’t understood.
They may even have full knowledge of their purpose here and are prepared enough to help humanity go through this vibrational frequency shift.
26 Psychic Abilities A Star Child Can Possess:
The following are some of the powerful psychic skills Star children have, according to Dr. Richard Boylan:
1. Telepathy – The ability to communicate mentally.
2. Precognition – The ability to know the future.
3. Telekinesis – The ability to move objects by mental concentration.
4. Clairvoyance – The ability to mentally see things that are distant in space or time.
5. Downloading information – The ability to gather information from off-planet consciousness.
6. Cross-species Communication – The ability to communicate with other species.
7. Penetrating intuitiveness – The ability to “know” something even without being told.
8. Affects electrical devices – The ability to make electrical devices turn on or off, even blow out as the child passes by.
9. Remote-influencing others – The ability to influence others through telepathy.
10. Interdimensional viewing – The ability to view things in an interdimensional level.
11. Aura Reading – The ability to learn about another’s health, intentions, and others by observing the energy fields surrounding the person.
12. Psychic Diagnosis – The ability to read the person’s energy field fluctuations.
13. Psychic or bioenergetic healing – The ability to transfer helpful energy to another person.
14. Invisibility – The ability to make oneself invisible through mental concentration.
15. Teleportation – The ability to transfer oneself or move objects from one place to another through mental effort.
16. Levitation – The ability to rise from the ground through mental effort.
17. Mental influencing – The ability to cause another to “feel” like doing something the Star child wants.
18. Earth Energy – The ability to do earth energy adjustment work.
19. Time dilation or contraction – The ability to cause events, trips, etc. to take a longer or shorter time than ordinary.
20. Pre-sensitivity to disasters – The ability to sense disasters before it happens like earthquakes or human disasters like car crashes.
21. Interdimensional awareness – The ability to understand what is occurring.
22. Astral travel – The ability to have out of body experiences.
23. Channeling – The ability to serve as a conduit for a person not present and speaks through a Star child.
24. Shared consciousness – The ability to share consciousness with a Star Visitor guide.
25. Mental connections with Star Visitor Guides – The ability to operate in close mental connections with Star Visitor Guides.
26. Physically summoning – Connecting with one’s Star Visitor and other guardians.
Aside from these skills, Star children sense their connection to Source. They feel it deeply in their being, they confidently know we are all connected.
They will help us remember by activating our DNA on a spiritual path. Later, this spiritual ascension will be embodied and the true potential of our DNA will be unlocked!
Star children may become our guides on Earth, helping us better connect to higher frequency guidance during our DNA activation. They may also help us reconnect with our Star family and fully understand how to begin life on Earth as new human species, embodied as the Source, transforming this world through love.
If you have a Star child, or you think you are one, it is wise to follow a suggested protocol and seek a support system to aid you and your child in this earthly journey.
In our modern society, alcohol consumption is implied and widely accepted. It’s even promoted in media through countless ads, depicting glamorous and cool living.
Society loves to associate alcohol consumption with having fun, indulging in the finest liquor, wine, and beer.
The Etymology of Alcohol
In order to know more of alcohol, it is best to go back to its etymology.
“Alcohol” comes from the Arabic word “al-Kuhl,” which means Body Eating Spirit. The English word “ghoul,” also comes from it. Which according to Middle Eastern Folklore, is an evil demon believed to eat human bodies.
“Alembic” and “alcohol” are both metaphors for aqua vitae, or “life water” and “spirit.” It refers to a distilled liquid, which came from Middle Eastern alchemy.
Alcohol and the soul
Jason Christoff, a health writer, and enthusiast say that in alchemy, alcohol is used to extract the soul essence of an entity. Hence, it’s used in extracting essences for essential oils, and the sterilization of medical instruments.
When one consumes alcohol into the body, this in effect extracts the very essence of the soul, making the body to be more susceptible to neighboring entities, most of which are low frequencies. This is why those who consumed alcohol in excess get blacked out, unable to remember what happened.
Too much alcohol in the body makes the living condition too polluted and too traumatic for the good soul to thrive. Thus, it ejects from the body and stays connected only on a tether. This allows a dark entity to take the body, often in a hedonistic and self-serving illogical frenzy. For the spirits, our bodies are cars that when one spirit leaves another one takes over for a joyous ride. In essence, when someone gets dark by polluting themselves with too much alcohol, another entity possesses their body.
This would hit home for anyone who consumes alcohol for a while. The idea of a soul actually stepping out of physicality as a result of excessive alcohol consumption would somehow resonate. This clearly explains why a drunk person usually forgets or becomes unaware of what happened under the influence of alcohol.
Someone admitted that waking up in the morning and being clueless of what had happened is the worst thing that happened to him. In his normal state, he wondered how could he chose to do things that led him to a situation where his “good soul” would not absolutely do. This made him confused and afraid.
According to him, when he started to drink, he reached to a certain point where he was unable to stop. At this point, he could see the darker entity taking over his physicality and used his body as a vehicle to experience a hedonistic lifestyle for the evening.
He conceded, his experience of blackout started when he was 16 years old and continued for about 10 years of his life.
He had difficulty taking responsibility for his actions because he had literally no memory whatsoever of what happened. He felt guilty and ashamed, but too hesitant to admit to others he has a problem in his life. Those closest to him would say that when he’s under the influence of alcohol, he’d become a completely different person as if it was not him.
He decided to stop consuming alcohol after his healing journey of ayahuasca. He vowed never to allow his body to be used again as a vehicle for other entities.
While we may see this as just one person’s journey of an alcohol problem and may not apply to everybody still, it affects anyone who drinks regularly and even those who manage to keep their senses and wits about them. Or, perhaps we can also consider the number of people out there who are in denial with alcohol problems.
Most often, alcohol is used as a crutch, to aid in our feelings of comfort and confidence. Ironically, it doesn’t help in any way. It’s only making us someone we are not.
How much should you drink?
If you consume alcohol, get more clarity in your drinking sessions by taking these questions into consideration:
1. How often are you drinking alcohol?
2. Is your drinking habit not an escape from something else?
3. Do you find yourself enjoying in social situations without alcohol?
4. Do you drink alcohol to relax or relieve stress?
Answer these questions honestly. When the answers are clear to you, consider and assess your relationship with alcohol.
You may also consider challenging yourself by not taking alcohol for a month and see how your life goes without it. You may come up with healthier alternatives instead.
When stressed out, try breathing exercises. Without alcohol as a means of escape, it would be easier for you to face the issues in your life and actually fix them.
Once you take a break from alcohol consumption, you may face the possibilities of being ostracized from society or left out. When this happens, use this opportunity to get in touch with who you really are and embrace your insecurities, if you got any, head on.
Who knows by doing this, you might find new friends who are more in alignment with your path.
Humans are basically dual in nature. Our core is made up of light and darkness. But one seeks a home, a place where they feel they must be. This place is within, in the heart center. And you are the whole!
We are used to seeing light and darkness as 2 separate things that go against each other, forever at war, one must destroy the other. But this point of view is just our human narrative trying to explain to ourselves these 2 elements.
We fail to realize that these 2 sides, or light and darkness as we call them, are 2 elements of the same thing. They don’t compete with each other, they do what they supposed to do so the thing they are a part of can thrive!
For us, the purpose of each of them seems so contradictory to the other that we can’t help but think they are at war. But that’s just what our dualistic point of view sees.
That’s like saying that a night and a day are at war. Both of these occurrences happen so life can thrive on Earth.
We are conditioned for duality!
We’re conditioned to choose between good and bad, love and hate, better and worse, winning and losing, bigger and lesser, success and failure, etc. etc.
This mind conditioning becomes the seat of our consciousness and cycles into the victim and perpetrator mindset.
This mindset is aggressively obsessed with what is the moral high ground versus what is immoral. We follow a morally correct path over what it is perceived to be immoral without even considering the place where our actions are coming from.
And sooner or later, what we perceive as moral promotes negative results that lead to immoral activity. This happens because we focus too much on not being immoral rather than the reason and intent behind our actions.
We care more about looking moral in eyes of others, or before a higher entity, than the intent behind what we do.
Of course, we are not suggesting immoral behavior, but a deeper examination before we judge. And yeah, not all of us have time to dive deeply behind someone’s actions, but if we didn’t live in such dualistic system that’s integrated EVERYWHERE in society, we wouldn’t have to.
The system that is not based on duality will prevent future immoral actions from happening itself, by not letting others be pushed that far in the first place.
The dualistic system of society, and society itself is what drives many people to make immoral actions, not that this is an excuse because they are still weak in character.
As a result, we don’t really improve as society, we just try to look improved and blame others who don’t fit that description not realizing that most of our actions are what created the actions of the ones we blame.
How to merge your duality into oneness?
Within the framework of victim and perpetrator mindset, the two energies of light and darkness could never be integrated into one.
The human interpreter separates them through fragmentation and is unable to see them as one and of the same energy, because what they perceive is either positive or negative.
People don’t realize that both sides are there to serve the whole. So, for example, one would think of fear as bad and have negative emotions whenever they feel it. They would not realize that fear is there to let you know what is possibly dangerous so you will rationally think of a safety plan. And they would run away from fear not realizing that they are running exactly towards what they are afraid of.
So as a result, feelings like guilt, anger, envy, resentment, and anxiety are accumulated in their being. This creates dys-function in the body and in the relationships people have.
These accumulated negative emotions we run away from dealing with can promote further disharmony and disbalance creating various diseases. One example is Cancer which thrives on guilt, resentment, and anger.
But when the interpreter starts to align with both the light and the dark energies as one, the filters dissolve along with the right and wrong paradigm, and the victim and perpetrator mindset disappear.
The DNA field starts to change and allows the greater percentage of it to be activated. Research has shown that in the presence of negative emotions the DNA tightens while when you are more relaxed the coils of your DNA relax too.
The vibration instantly changes and no longer allows any disbalance within the body and the external relationships that are dominated by right or wrong framework.
Changes in everything take place, such as in the body, relationships, view of other people, view of the world, and above all, the love of self.
One is no longer preoccupied with thoughts of past pain and future anxiety that are prevailing in right and wrong paradigm. There’s an increase in self-worth as well as an escalation of authenticity.
Here are 14 signs you will experience if you’ve merged your darkness and light and transcended duality:
– You start noticing high amount of synchronicities.
– You get along in all relationships.
– You’re able to easily connect with others without the need of imposing.
– You find kindness and cooperation in places where antagonism and confrontation once thrive.
– You see the benevolence in everyone and everything without the need to highlight what’s wrong in the world.
– You look for problems and solutions inside and not outside.
– Your lifestyle becomes more relaxed and easygoing.
– Much of your ego driven desires dissolve, things you thought you always wanted to do suddenly feel pointless. This could leave you with a sense of confusion, even emptiness.
– You are completely ok with your darkness, you are not hiding nor being controlled by it.
– Movies, music and other drama infused media is no longer appealing to you, it might be even funny.
– You start appreciating nature a lot more, you are amazed by the perfect balance that is integrated inside.
– You are not against technology, but you see it as something that could be tweaked to become a part of nature and not another system that harms it.
– You suddenly get huge chunks of information and understanding about different things, your mind starts racing connecting different things all at once, and it might produce anxiety or even mild panic in some cases.
– You start forgiving people easily, you don’t hate, you might even think there’s something wrong with you that you don’t hate others who might want to harm you.
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