While I was growing up I used to watch romantic movies, you know, the ones where the main characters would end up being together despite every odd going against them.
And I started fantasizing about having someone to fight for. I thought that real love equals drama. And most of us do think this way. But life is not a movie!
Movies need to have a plot, they need to have drama to be interesting to watch. Life doesn’t have that problem. It doesn’t need to capture anyone’s attention.
We are not movie characters, we are human beings. Deep down we don’t really want drama, we don’t want to fight against the world for a simple relationship.
All we want is an honest relationship. Someone to talk to at the end of the day, someone to hug, someone to connect with, someone to be there for us.
We don’t really want to slay dragons and fight the world just to be with someone we love. It should be much easier than that. It should be natural.
All we want is a simple relationship. An honest relationship. No lies. No pretense. No mind games. No cheating. Just a normal person who we can rely on.
There shouldn’t be any unnecessary drama. The world is dramatic enough. We are constantly being stressed and anxious and nobody knows what’s happening.
We don’t need more of this in our relationships. Hell, we need less of it. We need a relationship to shelter us from this. Just a simple one, an honest one, a real one.
Love shouldn’t be hard. We were imposed wrong beliefs. Love should be the easiest thing in the world.
It shouldn’t be something we fight for, it should be something that naturally unfolds in each and everyone’s life, something we experience with ease.
I had enough of unfaithful relationships. Enough of drama and fighting for partners. Enough of forcing love to happen. It shouldn’t be like that. It’s not like that.
And the moment I changed my beliefs about love, the way I experienced love changed. I no longer had to fight for it, love was all around me all the time.
The right people came easy. The right relationships unfolded. There was no unnecessary drama involved, it was just honest, simple, real love between two human beings.
And this is what we all wanted in the first place. Not a perfect, spectacular, movie kind of relationship. But honest, real and human relationship that is filled with love.
Love doesn’t have to be hard, it doesn’t have to be painful. Love is our natural right, so do honest relationships.
And when you start believing in this, you will attract honest people and the right relationships will unfold naturally.
So instead of living like a fake movie character in real life, live like a real human being. Stop complicating things. Love should be easy. Relationships should be honest.
Sincerely, Everyone who is tired of forcing love to happen.