15 Signs You’ve Met Your Soulmate

Journey

May 9, 2018

Even if nobody is perfect, when your soulmate comes, you might consider them as one.

Not every person is compatible with you because you’re a unique being who has unique needs and flaws that only a few people can truly satisfy. And this is to a degree.

But your soulmate comes like the perfect piece of the puzzle, and you cannot even explain how perfectly it fits to your uniqueness. You will spark from within because that is what they have come for. And it’s a two way street, both of you bring out the best in each other.

There is almost no friction between the two of you, just a divine lightness that feels like a breath of fresh air. You feel like both of you together can manage every problem and face every fear. When both of you are together others can feel your powerful connection.

Having a soulmate encounter is divinely guided, hence, you should be highly aware of the kind of people that you allow to enter into your life. If not, you’ll end up with the wrong people who bring more pain than happiness. You do not want to miss your soulmate.

But don’t worry, when your soulmate comes, there are some powerful signs that happen to you to let you know they are the real deal.

If You Experience Most Of These 15 Signs, You’ve Met Your Soulmate:

1. You no longer fantasize other people.

Asking yourself how it is to be like with other people even if you’re in a relationship is normal and even healthy. You do it just for curiosity’s sake.

But when you’re with a soulmate, such thoughts would not even occur in your mind because you know that you’re with the best person in the world and you couldn’t ask for more.

2. You feel a magnetism towards this person.

There’s a time in your life when you make a resolve not to entertain any serious relationship at the moment because of a specific goal you’re working on.

Even if you meet your soulmate, you avoid as much as possible to get connected with this person.

Yet, you keep bumping into each other as if fate has led you into each other’s arms.

3. You feel their strength in your weakness.

While it’s common to hear ‘like attracts like’ there’s also what we call ‘ opposite attracts’, though, it’s not what you lack that attracted you to them.

It’s only that you complement each other.

They have what you lack and you have what they lack. In a way, there’s a kind of balance in the relationship.

4. You open up to them much easier.

In your previous relationships, you created a boundary in which you only open up things that you’re comfortable having the other person know about.

With your soulmate, you easily open up to the things that you kept a secret within yourself for quite a while, though you hardly know them.

It’s like you can tell them everything.

5. You feel in tune with what they’re thinking.

Even if they don’t tell you what they’re feeling, you just know it.

Or, when you’re having a bad day, they also sense it and will do their best to cheer you up.

When in a crowd, you know what the other is thinking just by looking into each other’s eyes.

6. You’re more passionate than ever before.

Passion makes the relationship runs deep. While you’re being passionate in your previous relationships, you’re feeling it twice with your soulmate.

Though you’ve been together for a longer time, you still feel the butterflies in your stomach whenever the two of you meet and sparks seem to fly every time you kiss.

7. You straighten things out easily whenever a petty fight arises.

In normal relationships, conflicts arise from to time. Whenever you two have one, you’re able to forgive them easily despite the mean things you or they have said.

They also do the same with you. No one is too proud to accept the mistakes done because you both want the relationship to work out.

8. You want the same thing that they want.

Surprisingly, the things that they want are the things that you want too.

You’re not making any compromises just to please them.

Planning for your future isn’t hard because you agree with each other without having to argue as to whose plans or aspirations will be followed.

9. Your life is an open book to them.

Because you’ve been honest with them since day one, there’s nothing that you feel you should hide. They know every problem that you have and every quirky thought that comes to your mind.

You lay all your cards on the table because you know they won’t criticize you nor judge you and you can discuss practically everything.

They’re there to listen to you and give you encouragement whenever you need it.

10. You laugh at their silly jokes.

Having the same sense of humor, you both enjoy a good laugh.

Even when things are hard, like when one of you loses a job, you’re still able to put a smile on your faces. Life is very much bearable because you two know how to deal with it lightly.

11. You see the value of each passing day.

A day spent with your soulmate is a day full of fun, adventure, and lasting memories.

You always look forward to each day because you know every second with them is filled with meaning.

Trying new things come as an adventure to cherish for.

12. You see love differently.

Having been in love for a number of times, you thought you already know what love is. But everything has changed since the day you meet your soulmate.

You never thought you could love that much nor feel loved by somebody that much.

Love suddenly has a different meaning and it’s something you can hardly explain.

13. You can’t think of breaking up from the relationship despite your arguments.

Breaking up is never an option whenever you engage in arguments.

Unlike your previous relationships where breaking up is the only available means to stay sane, with your soulmate, breaking up is never even an option.

You both know that arguments are part of your communication and self-expression. When it’s heated up, you both know how to cool down and pacify each other.

14. You respect their need.

You’re not offended nor take it personally whenever they ask for an alone time.

You respect them the way they respect your individuality.

You both understand that each of you needs some space to grow and give it every time one of you asks for it.

15. You’re very much prepared to meet them even if you feel you aren’t.

Though there is never a specific timeframe that says you’re ready to meet the “one”, they just arrive at the time you least expect it.

Interestingly, you respond to the connection with openness even if deep inside you’ve just been contemplating that you’re not ready yet for another intimate connection.

The previous relationships served as your training ground so that when you encounter your soulmate, it would be for keeps.

Everything happens for a reason. Having meet your soulmate at such time and place has always been designed to take place.

Stop Energy Vampires From Sucking Your Energy In 10 Elegant Ways

Attitude

Nezel Padayhag

May 8, 2018

High energy keeps us positive, happy, and healthy. When we vibrate on the lower levels of the energy spectrum, we align with depression, apathy, and other illnesses mentally or physically.

Keeping our energy high is a necessity in living a dynamic, happy and prosperous life. But then there are people, situations, places, or things that can suck the energy out of us.

Everyday, we’re exposed to these energy vampires that drain our energy until we ourselves start vibrating low, and we end up stressed, overwhelmed, irritable, or anxious.

These energy vampires appear in many shapes and forms, for example as negative news on the TV and the internet, crowded places, and even neurotic pets. But the worst energy vampires are certain types of negative people whom we interact with every single day.

They are the narcissists, the egoists, the gossipers, the aggressors, the melodramatic, and others who simply drain you of your energy. You should stand up for yourself and prevent these weak people from draining your energy. But all of this can be done elegantly.

10 Elegant Ways To Prevent Energy Vampires From Sucking Your Energy:

1. Avoid having a longer eye contact.

The longer you establish an eye contact with energy vampires, the more they suck the energy out of you.

Look at them in the eye only ocassionally to prevent prolonged engagement.

2. Reduce the time spent with them.

Your time is precious and should be spent on something productive.

Spending time with an energy vampire not only wastes your time but doesn’t serve you as well. If you can’t avoid being with them, set a time limit then excuse yourself.

3. Refrain from showing any reactions.

Energy vampires feed on how they expect you to react. If you react on something negative that they say, it will encourage them to draw out more reactions from you. It’s what they want in the first place.

They’re not talking to you because you’re somebody important. But they’re talking to you because they want to feel they’re important. They get this validation whenever you react.

4. Try not to argue or oppose.

Energy vampires love argument. Winning in an argument feed their egos.

No matter how absurd their ideas or how wrong their opinions are, try to maintain a neutral side.

Opposing them wouldn’t help because they’re not there to listen to what you have to say in the first place.

5. Make sure other people are present.

When you’re alone in the company of an energy vampire, their negative energy is directed only to you. But when other people are present, you would spend lesser energy with them.

So, when you need to approach them for an important matter, make sure you’re with two or three other people who are not energy vampires themselves.

6. Allow them to talk.

Most often, energy vampires only want someone to listen to their woes or complaints.

Allow them to do the talking while you ask questions that encourage them to talk further. This way, you’re preserving your energy.

7. Suggest simple and light topics.

You already know what kind of topics the energy vampires are putting on the table. Try not to add more fuel on the negativity they are pouring out.

Instead, try to redirect the discussion to lighter and simpler topics without offending them.

8. Try visualization techniques.

If you’re keen on protecting yourself from possible negative energies, try visualization. It helps others and it might help you too.

Not only will it shield you from psychic fatigue but will calm your mind as well.

Visualize yourself surrounded by a protective light before meeting the energy vampires.

9. Stay away from them.

On the days that you feel you’re not at your best, try to stay away from energy vampires as much as possible to prevent yourself from being influenced or sucked by them too easily.

But on normal days, welcome their presence because they can teach you valuable life lessons in the process.

10. Cut your ties.

Whenever these energy vampires are too overwhelming to bear, cut off your ties with them. Protecting yourself should be your top priority, especially when their presence is alarmingly harmful.

You have the right to your own happiness and you can’t compromise it just to feed other people’s egos.

Astrology And Cosmic Update For May 2018: Here is What May is Bringing for Each Person

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Dejan

May 7, 2018

The last month was all about discovering our inner light and becoming aware of it.

This month is all about making our light shine. It’s about pealing off the things that prevent our light to shine while improving the ones that make it shine even brighter.

If we started working to be a better version of ourselves the previous months, this month is when the first improvements start to show results.

This month will summon your courage and conviction to step up and do what you need to do to improve yourself and make a better world for yourself and others.

So mental upgrades, the end of conflict, joy creation and synchronicity are all there for you this month.

Here Is What Astrologists Say May Has In Store For Each Person:

After the transformative Scorpio Full Moon, the first weeks of May kick off with some beautiful, soft, and gentle energy that is really going to bring soothing relief. We may find that it’s easier to relax and we may naturally feel more optimistic about the future. The first half of the month really offers some wonderful energy that will comes as a relief after the up and down energy of April.

Then on May 15th, we have one of the most significant and special days of the year. This is because we have the protective and supportive, Taurus New Moon and we also have the rare movement of Uranus from Aries into Taurus.

The New Moon in Taurus will be offering a very stable and rewarding energy that is going to help us maximise all that we have been working on throughout the year, particularly professionally.

If you have been feeling lost in your career, or unsure of how to turn your passion into profits, this is going to be a great time to put plans into action.

If those plans aren’t super clear just yet, it is also the perfect time to set an intention and to think about what your career path may look and feel like.

Perhaps even consider writing down what you want your ideal day to feel like, and then work on bringing those feelings into your daily routine one by one. This simple exercise is likely to help you get things moving and will help you to shift your vibration.

Uranus moving into Taurus on the same day is also going to assist with this energy and may bring new insights or awakenings into your life.

Uranus is the planet of awakenings and has the power to shake up and stir whatever it touches so we can realize new things and see things from a different perspective.

Because Taurus is a very grounded, stable Earth sign, Uranus may not always feel completely comfortable in this placement. Uranus energy wants us to do things on a whim and to try something completely different, whereas Taurus longs for us to move in methodical, practical steps that have been tested and proven.

This opposing energy may create challenges, and there even be a similar tug of war within your own heart and soul as well. Perhaps you will feel the need to question some of the steps you have been taking in your own life, and whether they are still serving you or whether you need to try something different.

While this energy may manifest differently for everyone, on a whole, it is likely when Uranus has finished its journey through Taurus in 2026, we are all going to have a new insight into what brings us security and what is really important to pursue in our lives.

The energy of May wraps up with the Sagittarius Full Moon on the 29th. This is a beautiful Full Moon that is really going to help us to open our hearts big and wide.

This Full Moon is also wonderful for attracting new loving energy into your life, or for releasing blocks that are holding you back from experiencing true love.

The overall energy of this month:

May offers some delicious energy that is going to help us feel more excited and optimistic, especially when it comes to love, romance, and creative projects.

Overall, May is a busy month with lots of new energy to explore and enjoy.

If you are looking for love or if you work in a creative field, this is going to be one of the best times to put yourself out there and begin working hard to achieve all of your dreams.

May is an excellent time to pursue creative projects, plan or make career moves, and to put yourself out there to find new love.

References:
– http://foreverconscious.com/intuitive-astrology-forecast-for-may-2018;
– https://www.leeharrisenergy.com/p/may-2018-energy-update;

How To Be The Best Self: 3 Things To Do This May To Be A Better Version Of Yourself

Attitude
Life Coach Code

Dejan

May 7, 2018

The past month was all about reconnecting with your spirit and rediscovering who you are. The month before was reconnecting with your heart and doing the things you love doing.

This month is about finding courage to be the person you know you are.

You already know what you love, what the best version of yourself looks like, what your purpose is.

This month is about starting to believe in this version of yourself and actually being congruent to your ideal self.

It’s about being courageous to do 3 things that will make you the best self you can be. I’m not going to explain how each of these will help you so you just have to trust me. Just do what it says, without overthinking and overanalyzing the task.

3 Things To Do This May To Be The Best Self:

1. Start the project.

We all have a project that we keep postponing because of imaginary excuses. Stop. No matter what your excuses are, start this project that you keep postponing. Whether it’s writing a book, learning to play an instrument, or starting a business, just start.

2. Accept the challenge.

Do you have a challenge that you always wanted to do, but it makes you a little afraid and excited in the same time? Maybe you wanted to join some competition or do public speaking. Whatever it is, accept this challenge, find courage to do it.

3. Approach.

There is a moment when you see someone passing by you, or a person on the bar, and you really want to get to know them, but you do nothing about it. Change what you do in this moment and approach them. Do not think. Whenever you feel it, approach them and talk.

How To Raise The Frequency Of The World In 7 Easy Steps

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Nezel Padayhag

May 7, 2018

An increasing number of people believe that our planet needs a consciousness revolution if we want to see a safer and better world.

But we need to create this revolution individually.

Gandhi supported this idea when he said, “Be the change you wish to see in the world.” We can’t only hope for change to come. We need to make it happen.

By raising our own vibration we are raising the vibration of humanity as a whole and the world. Not to speak that we inspire others to vibrate higher and transform themselves.

To transform yourself is a life long challenge that takes a conscious effort every single day. But as nature tends to change the face of the earth in a gradual and elegant manner, we, too, can transform ourselves, our lives, and the world around us one step at a time.

7 Easy Steps How To Raise The Frequency Of The World:

1. Focus on soul work.

As the new wave of consciousness is changing the vibration of the earth, here is how to not be left out in this new paradigm.

Work on your soul and raise your vibration through any spiritual means that resonate with you.

You can do yoga, tai chi, different meditations, nature connection, and take practice in the creative arts.

Do whatever you feel in positive resonance with and do not put too much thought in how it is helping others. This step is not about others it’s about you.

Everything you do in this first step is to uplift your own vibration before you can uplift others.

2. Remove habits that lower your vibration.

Raising your vibration is an important aspect of uplifting the world. However, it’s nothing without removing the things that drain your energy and lower your vibration.

Find out if you have habits that are dragging you down. These may include wrong activities, like watching too much news or internalizing the voices of the society. Poor eating habits, too much alcohol and stress also dim your shine.

Make a list of all the habits that are draining your energy and start removing them from your lifestyle one by one.

A habit cannot be eradicated completely, it can be replaced. So start replacing these energy draining habits with habits that uplift your vibes and energy.

The second step is all about removing unnecessary burden preventing you to vibrate even higher.

3. Discover your path.

We all have different paths in our spiritual journey. We are all observers of this Universe from different angle and moment in time.

Yet, we all come to the same truth just looking at it from a different angle. It’s because we each have unique experiences and memories that we create different beliefs, develop different gifts, and come to different conclusions. But the truth within is all the same.

Of course, there are people who inspire us, people we can follow, but you can’t copy every detail of their life journey.

Their path is not your path and following their every step will only derail you from discovering your own version of the truth. That’s why you need to discover your own path.

Your gut is always at work in helping you achieve your life purpose. Whenever you felt inspired, excited about a topic, energized doing some activity, it’s your intuition telling you that you are on your right path. Nobody can tell what’s your path, you have to discover it yourself.

Follow your own inner guidance, listen to your own inner wisdom.

One interesting secret about this step is that, whatever you do, if you are open to learn your own lessons, you’ll be on your right path.

It’s not what you do it’s the place you approach it that matters.

This step is about recalibrating yourself to your right path.

4. Become self sustaining.

Self sustaining means to make yourself enough. To be enough to find resources and thrive while not taking part in systems that damage the planet.

Be aware of how you spend your money. Don’t waste it on things that don’t serve you. On the other hand, sustain yourself and be resourceful, especially on the food that you eat.

Eat organic, buy locally and if you can, learn how to produce your own food. You can plant your own food and help reduce the destruction of the earth caused by deforestation in favor of large scale farming.

Think about the way you waste energy and electricity. Think how you can change your energy consumption to be more eco friendly.

Solar panels, batteries and alternative sources of energy are beautiful way to sustain yourself while keeping a small part of the world clean.

This step is all about changing the way you consume and spend energy in a way that’s beneficial to life on this planet.

5. Aim to be more connected, not dependent.

Consumerism is what drives people to work hard and stress to buy the stuff they don’t really need. Their inner woundedness forces them to fill a void they can’t ever fill. Their ego is what drives them to damage their health just so they can impress people they do not even like.

This 3 headed monster is responsible for most of the destruction in the world. But this monster is not out there, it’s within us all. And you do not get rid of it by aiming for its heads but for its heart. However, its heart is a deep part of you that you need to work on.

The essence of why this monster exists is a belief you have within yourself that you are not enough to be who you want to become.

Read this again. And again. And again, until you realize that most of your decisions were based either to prove yourself to others, or to make up for a flaw you think you have.

By believing that you are not enough you are in debt by default. This may even lead you to be ‘owned’ by certain organizations and companies, organizations and companies that feed from you and operate in systems that damage our planet to gain profit.

But these organizations are not the root problem. The heart of the monster is your belief that you are not enough to be who you want to become.

How to fix this? You need to work on yourself daily. You need to become aware of your inner wounds, of your desires and addictions, of your ego and your triggers.

When you are aware of these inner forces you need to work on healing yourself while starting to do the things your soul always wanted you to do, despite your fear, shame and excuses. Instead of playing to fit into society, improve it. Do kindly what your soul wants.

That’s how you get rid of the monster within while connecting to your soul and projecting your ideal self upon the world.

Nature is the best tool you can use for grounding yourself and connecting with Mother Earth. When you start connecting with nature, you’re starting to connect with all the life that surrounds you. This will connect you to your own soul.

The most important part of this step is to stop depending on all the things serving your inner wounds and become more connected with yourself.

6. Start doing something about your purpose.

As you start connecting with your soul your real purpose starts to emerge gradually. The reason you’re here is to shine your light through your purpose.

The moment you radiate your light gloriously, through your purpose, it’s then that you’re able to uplift the world and create a lasting impact.

So when you start becoming more aware about what your purpose might be, start doing something about it.

Take a step following your purpose, no matter how small it is, and more opportunities will start to show up.

The 6th step is all about taking action towards your purpose.

7. Create strong personal boundaries.

As you start implementing habits that raise your vibration and replace the ones that drain your energy, as you start walking your own path and becoming self sustained, as you detach from all the things that make you dependent while connecting to your soul and following your purpose, people will start judging you.

There’s no escaping from it. That’s just how society is. And these people will most likely be people you really care about, close friends and family, they will judge you the most.

Some people, especially those who haven’t begun their journey of spiritual evolution yet, will judge or criticize you for following the path least traveled. Spending time with them might disturb your energy and make you question your own sanity.

To protect yourself, you need to set strong personal boundaries and limit the interaction you have with them. You can shower them inspiration, but do not try to change them.

Nobody forced you, right? So trust that these people will find their own path. People start waking up when they are ready.

Give yourself freedom to walk away from anything that is draining your energy without the need to explain yourself.

Wherever you are, don’t lose heart when you feel alone in your journey of transformation. Just do what you feel you need to do in each moment. Keep connecting with the flow and soon you’ll find others who vibrate in the same level of frequency as you.

As you rise in the higher paradigm, your light will shine brighter and create ripples that will progressively impact your life and the whole world around you.

This step is crucial to help you sustain your tempo of raising your vibration and uplifting the world.

9 Revolutionary Thoughts That Will Help You Improve Yourself To A Whole New Level

Attitude

Nezel Padayhag

May 6, 2018

We have come to the point in time where more and more people are embracing new ideas, thoughts, or concepts that can revolutionize their lives.

These radical thoughts are very helpful in our quest for growth and self improvement.

If you want to grow to be your best self, then you may use these thoughts as tools in changing your life and be the best self you can ever be.

9 Revolutionary Thoughts That Will Help You Grow:

1. You are not your thoughts.

Your thoughts are shaped by your experiences, environment, and life situations.

Your mind works based on how you perceive and interpret things but it doesn’t define who you are.

Whatever you perceive, you are not that thing because you’re only the observer of it.

2. Your life is lived in the now moments.

All throughout your life you’re faced with the present, the past, and the future. But in the real sense, you’re only living in the now moment.

The concept of a past or future only robs you of living in the present.

When you take care of your present day situation, you don’t need to worry about the past or the future.

3. You will find satisfaction in life when you know how to control your moments.

By facing every challenge that comes with the moment, you’re able to control how your life goes.

When you’re doing things that aren’t working against your will, life is more satisfying and fulfilling.

That’s how you find real satisfaction, by realizing that you always have the power to choose how you react, not the moments themselves.

4. You can live in the moment fully by not attaching yourself to outcomes.

While you create a mental idea of something before you make it happen, you should not be attached to its outcome.

Anything can happen under the sun. If things don’t happen the way you want them to be, accept and let go.

Living in the moment is being open to anything that is designed to take place.

5. You have the power to cope with suffering.

The presence of suffering can denote two things.

It’s either you’re doing something wrong and suffering is the only way to wake you up, or you’re being nudged to roar and realize your full potential.

What you should know is, you have the full control of your reaction to pain and suffering. And if you’re wise, you’re able to realize the gift that suffering brings you.

6. You should not rely on your emotions.

Your emotions can sometimes be influenced by the external forces around you. If you’re an empath, you’re prone to picking up emotions that aren’t yours.

If you’re unaware of this, you may think that something is wrong with you when in fact those emotions belong to someone else.

Besides, on your journey to spirituality, deep sadness may bother you. But this doesn’t mean you’re on the wrong path. Your emotions are just pointing you to something that needs healing within.

7. Good and bad are both effective motivators that help you to keep going.

Don’t think that you only need the good to survive in your chosen path.

You need both the good and the bad, the light and the dark.

The good will inspire you and the bad will provide you lessons that push you to stay strong, do more and be more.

8. Effective beliefs are not fixed.

Believing in something can give you directions and structure in life.

But as your growth is laid down before you on an installment basis, so must your beliefs be.

Effective beliefs are the ones that aren’t limited or fixed because you’re an evolving being who should hold a belief system that is expandable as you are.

9. Your life path is yours to take.

The path you’re intended to follow is designed solely for you. It’s based on your experiences, choices, influences, and your unique signature. No one can live it for you.

It may be a struggle when nobody seems to understand you. But take note that you couldn’t understand them fully either.

It’s only when you accept that each person is unique can you truly understand why others fail to understand you. This must come with a choice, a decision, an agreement with yourself. You are the author of your life and only you can control it.

If You Are Able To Say ‘Yes’ To These 5 Questions All Your Relationships Will Improve

Attitude

Nezel Padayhag

May 5, 2018

We want to be acknowledged, to be recognized, to be seen.

It’s not that we demand for selfish attention. But it’s inherent in our human nature because of our desire for connection.

Maya Angelo brought this reality to light when she said that each of us asks four questions in silence. Even if no one uttered it, we all can relate to these four questions.

Saying ‘yes’ to all of these questions is a sign that you’re building healthy relationships.

Most of us think we really care for the people we are in relationship with, but most of the time it’s our ego that is involved, not our souls. If your answer is ‘no’, to any of these questions, it means you need to go the extra mile of seeing people as they really are.

Say ‘Yes’ To These 5 Questions And All Your Relationships Will Improve:

1. Do you see me?

Seeing others is not merely knowing that they’re physically there, but it goes beyond their physical presence.

To truly see someone is to be present with them, to look into their eyes and connect with their souls. It goes beyond the nod that we give to a neighbor or the greeting we give to a friend when meeting with them.

When we feel the connection with others as we look into their eyes, it’s then that we see them even when we don’t speak a word.

2. Do you care that I’m here?

At times, we’re all guilty of not giving so much care to our loved one.

We talk to them without even glancing at their direction. When they ask a question, we answer with our eyes fixed on our phone.

Caring for them is not only telling them that we love them. Caring for them is giving our full attention whether they need it or not.

3. Am I enough for you, or do you need me to be better in some way?

We usually ask this question for self-assurance. But, of course, we don’t ask the other person literally about this feeling.

We only strive hard enough to be acceptable because we’re not sure whether we’re good enough.

To let our loved ones know that they’re good enough for us, we need to assure them from time to time. A quick glance may be enough to let them know that they’re being loved.

4. Can I tell that I’m special to you by the way that you look at me?

As it’s been said, the eye is the mirror of the soul. Our feelings show through the gaze that we give.

If we’re genuine to a person, we look them in the eye much longer. But if we’re not, we withhold our gaze for the fear of letting them know what we’re truly feeling inside.

So if you care for a person that much, look at them in the eye.

5. Do I really love them, or just need them?

Loving somebody truly means that you wish them all the best from your heart no matter if you benefit.

Needing someone means that you want that person for some personal gain, physical or emotional. It comes from a place of lack.

When you are sure you want somebody to be happy, whatever they do and with whoever they do it, that’s a clue that you care for that person from a place of love and pureness.

Most People Avoid Empaths Because Of These 3 Main Reasons

Psychology

Nezel Padayhag

May 4, 2018

If there’s one word we can use to describe an empath’s journey, it would be ‘challenges’. From feeling other people’s pain to absorbing the negativities around them, empaths are such magnificent beings designed to carry these weights all throughout their lifetime.

But not only are empaths wired to face these challenges, they’re also wired to get immune to people who choose to reject them constantly.

While people have their own preferences and tastes, preferring the company of others over some people, their strong dislike for empaths goes way beyond.

Sometimes it involves a bizarre resentment even if the empaths have done nothing to cause them to feel this way. Well, we couldn’t see energies. But empaths greatly feel them.

This is what makes some people feel uncomfortable in their presence and choose to reject these empaths instead.

3 Main Reasons Why Most People Avoid Empaths:

1. Empaths function as a mirror.

Some people operate their lives in total inauthenticity. They couldn’t be true to themselves because of certain aspects of their personality they want to deny.

They wear masks when they go out into the world and strive to be the person they’re not.

At times, they do certain things to manipulate people and get what they want. But because empaths have the gift of detecting lies, these people can’t go past an empath. The moment they execute their lies, empaths start to reflect it back to them.

What they don’t know is, when they shower disgust in the empaths way, they get it back.

Not that empaths feel disgusted about them in return, it’s just that empaths are able to pick up their emotions and unconsciously project it back to them.

Empaths are just reflectors of other people’s shadow selves. What they dislike in themselves, they get it back.

2. Empaths vibrate at a higher frequency.

As much as possible, empaths try to avoid negativity because this can cause them discomfort.

For the same reason, people who vibrate at a lower frequency level aren’t comfortable either in the presence of empaths.

They cannot stand the clean energy that the empaths radiate.

Not everyone is prepared to raise their vibration because of the many lessons they still need to learn. Thus, they prefer to be around with people who also vibrate in the same frequency level.

Empath friends or acquaintances who are on their way to higher frequency levels are either being pulled down or rejected instantly.

3. The silence of empaths is wrongly interpreted.

Empaths are of a different breed. Their nature often gets in the way when dealing with insecure people.

People who aren’t self assured interpret the empaths’ silence and aloofness as being a snob or showing disrespect when in reality empaths just have an emotional overload.

When everything is too much for them to bear, especially when the energies around are overwhelming, no one can expect an empath to act just like anybody else.

They may even want to vanish immediately should they be given the chance to do so because all they want is to recharge themselves.

However, others see this as an insult and feel they’re unimportant in the empaths eyes. With these insecurities lurking in their minds, they reject empaths and may even label them as socially anxious.

They believe, by rejecting the empaths, they’re punishing them in a way.

If you’re an empath and all of the above statements resonate fully, refrain from taking personally someone’s hostility towards you. You’re an empath and it’s just the way things are.

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