Surround yourself with people who inspire you to be the best version of yourself.
There is a famous saying that you are the average of the 5 people you hang out with the most. And this has shown to be true. Really successful people say this is their secret.
Most people hang with other people who are not good for them, nor they are even good friends to each other. They hang out solely out of habit or because they share something.
It’s really terrible how so called friends prevent each other from being the best versions of themselves. They guilt trip themselves into mediocrity, they infect destructive habits.
You can argue that most people are surrounded by the wrong people for them. Yeah, friendship is important, but it should be something that grows between the right people.
When you surround yourself with the right people your whole life will change. You will see the prison you have been living in. Here are 10 other amazing things that happen.
10 Amazing Things That Happen When You Find The Right People:
1. You are empowered.
The right people will empower you. They will make you see your value and all your strengths. The wrong people focus on your flaws, the right people show you the strengths you didn’t know you had.
2. The right information comes your way.
When you are surrounded by the right people suddenly all the answers you were looking for will show up. These people will give you suggestions, they will share knowledge and information that you’ve been looking for.
3. You are inspired.
The right people inspire you to give the world your fruit. They spark up that fire within you that inspires you to create, to be yourself, to follow your passions and discover your soul’s purpose.
4. Your talents get highlighted.
When you are with the wrong people they will avoid talking about your talents. They will avoid giving you compliments or even make you believe that you are worthless. The right people do the opposite.
5. You are happier.
The right people will make you happy with their presence. You will feel that they get you, that they really do see what you stand for. They will get your jokes, your sense of humor, your likes, unique tastes and weird desires.
6. They push you to be smarter.
The wrong people are stuck in a loop. They will talk about the same topics for years. The right people push you to be smarter. They are educating themselves continuously and share their ideas with you.
7. You are supported.
The right people will make you feel like you’re unconditionally supported to be yourself and to follow your purpose. They’re your biggest cheerleaders. They will remind you who you really are when you doubt yourself.
8. They make you a better human.
Being with the wrong people can make you a negative person. It can make you angrier, sadder or more toxic version of yourself. The right people find the goodness in you, they push you to be kinder and more loving human.
9. You are loved.
The right people make you feel you are loved. They make you feel you really belong. They make you feel like you are home. They will show how much they care for you, and they are always there when you need them.
10. They make you feel like you matter.
The wrong people act as if you don’t matter to them, as if you need them and you should always work for their approval. The right people show you that no matter how you feel, you matter. You always do. You are important.