“What are the chances you’d ever meet someone like that? he wondered. Someone you could love forever, someone who would forever love you back? And what did you do when that person was born half a world away? The math seemed impossible.” — Rainbow Rowell
If you start reading, there are countless spiritual and woo woo guides on how to find your soulmate, but they too abstract. This article will give you the exact surefire solutions.
And the term Soulmate, what is a soulmate really? It’s this person who you would resonate the most with, almost on a soul level.
When you meet, both of you feel this strange familiarity with each other, even though you just met. You are there to help each other’s souls to grow.
This being said, a soulmate is just another person. It’s a human being with human problems, human habits and desires. Just look at your friend, they are someone’s soulmate.
This means that if you want to increase your chances of finding your soulmate you should not sit at home, but socialize, put yourself out there at the right places.
3 Ways How To Find Your Soulmate:
1. Meet as many people as you can.
No matter if you want to find your soulmate, your new business opportunity, your enemy, your mentor, or the person with the weirdest name, you have a best chance of doing so if you meet as many people as you can.
You don’t need to go out to bars and approach strangers in nightclubs, even though it can be of big help. You can get to know the people you already meet every day. The store clerk, the bartender, your neighbor. Start a simple conversation with them.
You can approach people at the park, at the bookstore, at the mall. Ask them something simple, initiate a conversation. You don’t know with who you will have chemistry. Just be open of meeting new people and your chances of meeting your soulmate will skyrocket.
2. Try new passions, hobbies, go to places you want to be at.
Your soulmate is a person who will be passionate about the same, or very similar things as you. So the best way to meet them is to start following your passions and practicing the hobbies you are excited about. Go to those places.
In order to know what you are passionate about you must know yourself. What excites you, what do you enjoy doing, what fills you with energy and positivity, what uplifts your mood, what are your inspirations, what you always wanted to try?
When you answer these questions, you will have a couple of ideas of what you are passionate about. Whether it’s painting, acting, teaching a course, take the first steps towards that direction. Your soulmate will most likely wait for you there.
3. Follow your purpose.
Probably one of the best ways to find your soulmate, or better said, make it easier for your soulmate to find you, is to follow your soul’s purpose. Both of you gravitate toward the same soul purpose so going towards it is a sure way to eventually meet your soulmate.
If you don’t know what your purpose is, follow your passions and talents. See where they meet. What can you give to the world that nobody else can? What cause can you stand for? See where all these things connect. Take a piece of paper and list ideas.
The idea that hits you strong, it might even make you shed a tear, it’s your purpose, or the closest thing to it. So follow it. As you do so you take care of two crucial things, you stop chasing for your soulmate and you go where they are pulled toward.