Great relationships are never sought after. They come in their own time, especially when you’re ready.
However, there are times when you feel you’re ready for a new relationship that doesn’t come.
You feel that despite your best efforts, you’re still at a loss. Some of your friends might be engaged by now, while you’re still waiting for the right one who seems it’s nowhere to find.
If you’re struggling with this kind of issue, pause for a while and look at your relationship habits and perceptions. They are the reason that prevents a great person from finding you.
Stop these 6 habits and raise your vibration to attract the right person to come your way.
6 Habits That Prevent Your Ideal Relationship To Manifest:
1. Stop believing the dating pool is limited.
Stop believing that just because you don’t see your potential mate in your surrounding, they aren’t out there.
Expand your surrounding, approach and meet different people in different areas, other than just bars and clubs.
Meet people for the sake of getting to know them and who knows, maybe their friends will be your ideal partner.
In order to attract your ideal partner you need to open streams they can come from.
You’re likely to manifest lack when your mind is limited.
2. Stop feeling you’re not good enough.
When you fail to see your true worth, your actions speak for it. You do things that don’t demand respect from others.
Because you’re an energetic being, your energetic vibration affects the people around you. Feeling not good enough and having a low self esteem are low vibration emotions.
When you vibrate this way, people will vibrate it back to you, the main reason why you keep attracting the people who tend to hurt you instead of love you wholeheartedly.
To stop this from happening over and over again, find ways to love yourself more. Pamper yourself and give yourself extra tender loving care.
Doing this raises your vibration until you will find your one true love.
3. Stop believing there’s a specific time in finding a mate.
While young, you may believe that you’re too young to find a mate. Or, when you have gone past your thirties or forties, you may believe that you’re too old to find a mate.
The truth is, there’s no specific age and time to finding a great relationship. It comes when you’re ready regardless of your age bracket.
Settling down is not a race so is having kids and raising a family. So, be open to all possibilities. Who knows true love may surprise you at the time you least expect.
4. Stop believing having a mate is a “must.”
Don’t work too hard to find your potential mate. You might create a certain attachment to it.
When you do, your subconscious mind will work in a ‘search’ mode and not in an ‘open to all possibilities’ mode. Instead, let go of that need.
Life has this way of surprising us. As what we have stated previously, the right one may come at an unexpected time.
Release the need and put your focus on loving yourself and becoming the person you want to meet.
5. Stop focusing on relationship failures.
Some relationships work while others don’t. But this doesn’t mean one is better than the other, though this is how it appears.
Undeniably, a good relationship feels great. But it’s only through poor relationships that we learn the greatest lessons.
When something doesn’t work out well, some inner work might be needed before you are ready to connect again.
This is all for your benefit and growth.
Stop focusing on the negatives. Focus on the positive because it’s where great relationships thrive.
6. Stop envying other relationships.
Envy is a sign of lack, but it carries an important message from your heart.
The more you envy the successful relationships around, the more you feel the lack in you.
But do not suppress envy, listen to it. When we suppress envy it becomes destructive, or as we know it better, jealousy.
When we listen to envy we discover what we truly desire.
Be grateful for the great relationship that you witness and that you’re also receptive to that kind of relationship to manifest in your life.