When Past Lives Hold the Key to Healing a Relationship

The knowledge of past lives can be remarkably powerful in
couples therapy.

Throughout my professional journey, I have worked with several couples who came to me separately. Usually, one partner comes first and later recommends the work to the other. Every session is strictly confidential, but when I uncover information that may have a direct impact on the other partner, I sometimes suggest that certain aspects be shared. The results, in terms of mutual understanding, tolerance and acceptance, can be extraordinary.

Let me tell you about one couple. I will call them Ana and Ricardo.

Ricardo came to me with a deep sense of anguish caused by extreme jealousy. He told me that he became anxious when his wife dressed up, went out with her friends or even when she was simply at home, because his mind was constantly tormented by the thought that she might betray him at any moment.

He also complained that she did not fully surrender during intimate moments.

When we accessed one of Ricardo’s past lives, he and Ana were also a couple. They had been deeply in love, a very happy couple who were the envy of those around them. But Ana was secretly desired by a neighbour who had become obsessively attracted to her.

One day, Ricardo left to travel, and the neighbour saw an opportunity to approach Ana. When he saw her returning from shopping, he offered to carry her bags and accompanied her home. As she thanked him and said goodbye, he asked her for a glass of water. Ana could not bring herself to refuse.

Once inside, he deliberately prolonged his stay, making conversation. Ana did not want to be rude, although she was becoming increasingly anxious for him to leave, so she continued talking to him. Eventually, the neighbour leaned towards her and kissed her.

At that precise moment, Ricardo walked through the door. He had not actually gone on his trip because of an unexpected change of plans.

When he saw the scene, he was devastated. His shock quickly turned into rage and violence. Ana desperately tried to explain what had happened, but he simply refused to believe her. He insulted her and accused her of betraying him. Ana would later confirm that his violent and enraged reaction was remarkably similar to the way Ricardo behaved in their present life.

And so, in that moment, their once happy marriage came to an end.

When Ricardo learned about this information, he was deeply shaken. From that point onwards, his behaviour changed radically. He began to trust his wife more, following the guidance he had received in our sessions.

Ana also complained about Ricardo’s jealousy, but that was not her main concern. Her deeper struggle was connected to her se3uality, which also confirmed Ricardo’s complaints about her difficulty surrendering during intimacy.

When we explored several of Ana’s past lives, we encountered experiences in which she had been desired, abused and disrespected by men. That energy seemed to have followed her into her life, where she had once again awakened the obsessive desire of her neighbor.

She also carried the belief that intimacy was something shameful or sinful, which contributed to her resistance in this area.

Because of this trauma, she had learned to hide her beauty. This was also why Ricardo’s jealousy did not affect her as much as one might expect.

In our sessions, however, we worked on her self-esteem and on the way she perceived herself as a woman. Ricardo was advised that, more than ever, he would need to trust his wife, because she was becoming more magnetic, and that was exactly how it should be. She deserved to feel free to be herself.

Ricardo accepted this well, especially because he had already worked through the roots of his jealousy.

In fact, he was very pleased with the changes he saw in his wife. According to him, she seemed different, more open, and their sexual relationship had improved considerably.

Ana also said that they had returned to the intimacy they had shared during the early days of their marriage.

This is just one of many examples in which conflicts and misunderstandings can begin to dissolve when couples understand the deeper reasons behind certain reactions, habits and circumstances through the perspective of past-life information.

Partners begin to understand each other’s wounds. They develop empathy and can actively contribute to each other’s healing and transformation.

But this only happens when there is love.

There have been many occasions when the sessions revealed that a relationship had already reached its limit, particularly when the dynamic was damaging one partner’s self-esteem.

But I believe that when a relationship is truly worth saving, life creates opportunities for healing, resolution and transformation.