Kelly Boyer is one of the coaches that we found this month and we did a little interview with her. She impressed us with her wisdom and innovativeness.

She took a completely different path in a world saturated with cookie cutter coaching programs… a path carved not from textbooks, but from intuition, lived experience, and a deep reverence for the soul. Grounded in trauma informed psychology and energy work, she didn’t just study transformation, she embodied it. Her coaching journey was born during the stillness of the pandemic, when a friend recognized her rare gift for seeing beyond words into the truth of people’s souls. What began as intuitive soul readings soon unfolded into a revolutionary approach to healing and purpose led business.

She now guides her clients through the CLEARITY Method™, her signature framework that weaves together psychology, quantum strategy, and soul work. This isn’t about fixing broken people… it’s about helping them remember who they truly are beneath all the layers of programming, fear, and expectation. Her process is a journey of deconditioning and rediscovery, empowering clients to reconnect with their essence and unlock the wisdom they already carry within.

She believes that real transformation begins from within. At the core of her work lies a radical yet simple truth: you don’t have to chase a life that feels right, you can create it. Whether she is helping someone dissolve subconscious blocks or build a business aligned with their Human Design, her approach empowers clients to lead from the inside out, reclaiming their power, purpose, and peace. Here is what she said…

Meet Life Coach Kelly Boyer:

Name: Kelly Boyer

Pillar: The Spirit, The Mind, The Heart

Who is this coach for: Women who want to go from chaos to clarity, heal, and create a life that their soul came here to lead.

How they can help: By using her own CLEARITY Method™, Quantum Human Design, as well as ohter various tools and techniques like conversational hypnosis, NLP, CBT, intuitive energy work, and somatic parts therapy, just to name a few.

First of all, how are you and your family doing after these Pandemic times?

We’re doing great and truly thriving.

The pandemic, while it brought its own set of inconveniences, didn’t impact us in the same way it did for many others.

As a family, we were already pretty home-oriented even before everything changed.

In a lot of ways, we were ahead of the curve with how we lived day to day.

We were already having groceries delivered, working remotely, and using services like Uber Eats, DoorDash, and Amazon.

So, when the world had to shift, our lifestyle was already aligned in a way that made the transition feel smoother.

How did the coronavirus pandemic affect your clients? Did it affect you at all?

The pandemic was a deeply challenging time for so many, and it called for an immense amount of compassion, flexibility, and presence from not only individuals but also anyone in a position of support, like coaches, healers, and therapists.

During those two years, I quickly realized that my coaching had to evolve to meet people where they were.

For many of my clients, they were navigating uncertainty, fear, grief, and deep emotional turbulence.

So, my work naturally shifted to focus more on energetic healing and intuitive guidance.

Many clients were struggling with an overwhelming sense of unease, uncertainty about their futures, their families, their jobs, and the world at large.

Others experienced heartbreaking losses during that time.

A number of clients lost loved ones and couldn’t say goodbye or be present in the hospital due to restrictions, which created immense grief layered with guilt and shame.

In response, I leaned into my background in trauma based psychology and energy work, offering grief healing sessions and emotional support that allowed them to process those heavy emotions with greater understanding, compassion, and care.

One thing I often share is that trauma doesn’t just affect us mentally; it becomes embedded in the body’s memory and energy field.

Every trauma, whether big or small, leaves behind an energetic imprint.

When a new trauma occurs, it can trigger a web of stored emotional memories, reactivating old wounds and intensifying the present pain.

So, when someone was grieving a recent loss, they were often also feeling the weight of unresolved traumas from their entire life.

This is why the pandemic triggered such a mental health crisis.

It wasn’t just about the moment; it was about everything the moment was connected to.

To support my clients through this, I used a combination of grief and trauma-informed healing techniques, along with energy based approaches that helped them move through those experiences with more gentleness and clarity.

At the same time, many people were grappling with the fear of the unknown, including fear of illness, financial uncertainty, or what the world would look like moving forward.

My intuitive work became especially important during this time.

I was able to tap into their unique energetic timelines and provide personalized insight on what was ahead, as well as how to overcome energetic blocks or limiting beliefs standing in their way.

Rather than just trying to soothe the fear, I focused on helping clients transform fear into empowerment.

We shifted the energy from contraction to expansion, moving from survival mode into intentional living, and anchored into what could still be created, even in the midst of chaos.

Interestingly, while the pandemic was disruptive for many, it gave me the space to step further into my calling.

I was working an intense full time job before the pandemic, and the forced global pause created room for me to slow down, listen deeply to my soul, and fully commit to the work I knew I was here to do.

It was during that time that I stepped more fully into my role as a healer, a coach, and a guide, serving in ways that felt more meaningful and aligned than ever before.

What are the biggest lessons that you learned in this pandemic?

One of the biggest lessons I learned during the pandemic was this: life was never meant to be lived in overdrive.

We weren’t designed to constantly hustle, burn out, or push ourselves to the edge in the name of success.

The pandemic, in all its intensity, revealed something sacred… that life is meant to be felt, not just managed.

It’s meant to be lived with presence, connection, and intention.

When everything slowed down, I began to realize just how fast I’d been going for so many years.

I had been stuck in survival mode, caught up in the grind of ‘doing’ instead of truly being.

And while I did use that time to slow down and reflect, in hindsight, I can see that I still wasn’t slowing down enough to really hear what my soul was trying to tell me.

The truth is, I spent years chasing success, thinking that if I just pushed a little harder, worked a little more, achieved one more goal, then I’d feel like I had arrived.

But what I didn’t realize at the time was that in that pursuit, I was missing the very life I was trying so hard to build.

One of my deepest regrets is feeling like I missed parts of my son’s childhood.

I was the mom who was present physically, but emotionally and energetically, I was just trying to survive, focused on striving instead of simply enjoying him.

I was chasing a version of success that had been fed to me by the outside world, not the one my soul truly longed for.

It wasn’t until much later (December 2023, to be exact) when the message finally hit me with full force.

Practically overnight, I lost 95% of my client base.

It was like the universe pulled the rug out from under me.

And while that moment felt jarring, I now see it as a divine intervention.

The lesson I thought I had learned during the pandemic?

I hadn’t fully embodied it.

That moment forced me to stop, to be fully present, and to finally just BE.

But here’s the beautiful part: in the stillness, not in the hustle, my business began to build again.

This time, however, it was rooted in a completely different energy.

It was no longer about chasing success or proving my worth.

It became about alignment, service, and sustainability.

My focus shifted to cultivating deeper connections, creating spaciousness, and allowing the work to flow from a place of integrity, intuition, and genuine impact.

The business that emerged was built not from pressure, but from presence.

And it’s been more fulfilling than anything I could have created from burnout.

I now understand that every experience (joyful or painful) is neutral until we assign meaning to it.

And even the difficult seasons carry sacred wisdom if we’re willing to listen.

The pandemic taught me to stop measuring life by how much I do and instead start living by how deeply I can be.

The Origin:

Tell us about you, your career, how you started with your coaching career?

My background is deeply rooted in psychology (CBT, ERBT, Hypnosis, NLP, and Trauma Informed Care), with much of my professional experience centered around trauma informed mental health, public safety, and crisis intervention.

Over the years, I’ve developed a strong understanding of human behavior, especially how the subconscious mind shapes the narratives we live by and how trauma impacts memory and body consciousness.

I’ve always been fascinated by the mind body connection and the energetic shifts required to create real, lasting change.

Working in the mental health field gave me insight into how often traditional approaches serve more as a temporary band aid rather than a path to true healing.

I found myself asking deeper questions about why we behave the way we do and how we can actually shift our patterns at the root level.

At the same time, I developed a passion for quantum physics and energy work.

I became increasingly drawn to the idea that transformation doesn’t come from fixing ourselves… rather, it comes from alchemizing our energy, shifting our inner state, and remembering who we truly are beneath all the conditioning.

My coaching journey began somewhat unexpectedly during the pandemic.

Unlike many coaches who pursue certifications as their entry point, my start was much more intuitive and based on lived experience.

A close friend encouraged me to start offering guidance sessions after noticing that my “advice” often came from a place of deep knowing.

What she saw and what I began to realize was that I was intuitively reading people on a soul level, seeing beyond what was said and uncovering truths that others couldn’t.

At first, I offered intuitive sessions, but they quickly evolved.

I started seeing not just people’s current challenges but also their quantum possibilities, the future potential waiting to be unlocked.

I also began noticing the subconscious blocks standing in the way of that potential.

So, I started integrating my background in psychology with intuitive and energetic healing practices to help clients move through their own transformation.

Over time, it became clear that this work is not about fixing people.

Instead, it’s about deconditioning.

It’s about helping people unlearn the false stories they’ve been told or internalized and guiding them back to their authentic selves, the truth of who they’ve always been.

Eventually, clients who had gone through this inner healing began asking for help in building businesses aligned with their unique gifts.

That’s when my work expanded into business coaching, but in a way that was far from traditional.

I wasn’t interested in helping them build copy and paste businesses.

Instead, I helped them design businesses aligned with their human design, energy blueprint, and soul led mission.

I used quantum strategy to help dissolve limiting beliefs and then helped build backend systems to support and sustain their passion.

This entire journey led to the creation of the CLEARITY Method™, which I now use in both personal development and business coaching.

It’s a unique framework I developed to walk women through the process of coming back home to their truest, most authentic selves.

It’s a blend of trauma informed healing, energetic alignment, intuitive insight, and soulful strategy.

This all began when the world finally slowed down during the pandemic and gave me the stillness and space to hear what my soul had been trying to say all along.

What was your biggest obstacle that you had to overcome in your life that made you who you are today?

Without a doubt, the biggest obstacle I’ve had to overcome was myself, and more specifically, the version of myself I had unconsciously constructed from years of conditioning, trauma, and external expectations.

For so long, I was living out the projections of others and the programming of a world that tells us who we should be, how we should act, and what success is supposed to look like.

It wasn’t until I was forced to slow down and really look inward that I realized the person I had become wasn’t the full truth of who I really was.

This journey required a raw honesty and a willingness to face my own shadows, not just the pain and trauma I had experienced, but also the parts of myself I had rejected or hidden away.

These were aspects of me shaped by survival, by adaptation, by believing I needed to be someone else in order to be safe, accepted, loved, or successful.

It was deeply uncomfortable.

Our ego naturally wants to point outward, to assign blame to people or circumstances, because it’s easier than owning the responsibility of looking within.

But real transformation demands that kind of inner reckoning.

I came to realize that no one was to blame, not even myself.

We’re all creating and living in a reality shaped by the beliefs we’ve accepted as truth.

The moment I took ownership of that, everything shifted.

I stopped looking for answers outside of myself.

For years, I was chasing solutions, validation, and direction, always looking outward to feel whole.

But nothing ever truly clicked because the solution was never out there.

It was in me.

Committing to my own healing was the hardest, yet most liberating thing I’ve ever done.

I had to return to myself, to my soul, and rebuild from that place.

In doing that deep inner work, I didn’t just reclaim my identity, I found my power.

And in that process, I also discovered the gift of guiding others through the same journey.

That’s why, whether I’m supporting someone through personal transformation using the CLEARITY Method™, or helping them build a purpose driven business, my approach always begins the same way: by going inward.

True growth and success, personally or professionally, has to be built from the inside out.

That inner reconnection, what I call coming home, is where everything begins.

Once we return to that place, we stop chasing the life we think we’re supposed to have and begin creating the life we were always meant for.

The Coaching Style:

How do you innovate with coaching your clients?

One of the most important things I’ve learned through both my own personal growth and professional experience is that coaching should never be a one size fits all approach.

Like many others, I’ve worked with incredible coaches and mentors throughout my journey, each of them bringing valuable tools to the table.

While I appreciated their support, something never quite clicked.

I constantly felt a subtle but undeniable resistance in my body, a knowing that I was trying to mold myself to fit into someone else’s blueprint rather than living in alignment with my own.

It finally became clear that the discomfort wasn’t about the coaches themselves, but about the system.

I was trying to force myself into their framework, their methods, and their way of doing things.

The truth is none of us are meant to walk identical paths.

Each person has a completely unique energetic signature, a way of expressing, creating, and existing in the world that is only theirs.

That realization pushed me to innovate the way I approach coaching.

I became deeply curious about how we could guide people, whether for personal development or business growth, back to themselves.

That’s when I discovered Quantum Human Design, and everything changed.

Quantum Human Design offers a precise and powerful energetic blueprint of who we are at our core.

It maps out how we’re wired to make decisions, build relationships, create, rest, and show up in the world.

I dove into it, studying it deeply, and quickly saw how transformative it could be when integrated into coaching.

At the same time, I developed my own signature framework, CLEARITY Method™, which was born out of my years of professional expertise, lived experience, and a deep intuitive connection with the Divine.

The CLEARITY Method™ is a soul centered framework that empowers women to release trauma, rediscover who they truly are, and remember the truth of their own essence.

It walks clients through a healing journey where they learn to align their energy, values, and actions with their authentic self, not the conditioned version of who they’ve been told to be.

The combination of Quantum Human Design and CLEARITY Method™ allows me to design coaching programs that are entirely unique to each client.

There’s no trying to fit them into a box that doesn’t belong to them.

Instead, I guide them in reclaiming their truth and stepping into the life and business they were always meant to create.

That’s real innovation, coaching people not into my model but into their own.

What benefits do your clients get after working with you?

The benefits my clients experience go far beyond just business success or personal growth.

The first and most profound benefit is that they begin to remember who they have always been, their authentic, soul driven selves beneath all the conditioning, trauma, and external expectations.

This reconnection serves as the foundation for everything else.

From there, they’re able to create something truly meaningful and fun (usually a business or career path) that flows naturally from that authentic place.

It’s no longer about chasing someone else’s version of success but about crafting a life and work that brings them joy, purpose, and fulfillment.

One of the things clients tell me most is how comforting it is to have someone truly in their corner, someone who sees them deeply and supports them unconditionally.

Throughout the process, they never feel broken or pressured to ‘fix’ themselves.

Instead, they feel hopeful and empowered, knowing that what they desire in life is not only possible but within reach.

I strive to create a space of genuine conversation where it never feels like a rigid coaching program or a checklist of steps, but rather an open, compassionate dialogue that honors where they are while gently guiding them toward who they want to become.

This human centered approach makes the journey feel supportive, inspiring, and deeply transformational.

Do you use any specific tools to be efficient with your clients?

Yes, I use a combination of powerful tools, both intuitive and practical, that help me support my clients in a way that’s both efficient and deeply transformational.

Depending on the type of support they need, whether it’s mindset and emotional healing or business strategy and backend structure, I tailor my approach to meet them exactly where they are.

On the personal development and mindset side, I use tools like conversational hypnosis (which is one of my favorite and most effective methods) NLP, Quantum Human Design, intuitive energy work, and somatic parts therapy.

These modalities help uncover and rewire subconscious beliefs, release stored trauma, and shift internal narratives that may be holding them back.

One of my gifts is being able to take what feels like chaos inside someone’s head and help them make sense of it… I bring neutrality and clarity so they can move forward with confidence.

That’s a big part of what my CLEARITY Method™ is all about: making the intangible tangible and guiding people back to the truth of who they really are.

On the business side, I use Quantum Human Design to align my clients’ businesses with their natural energetic strengths.

From there, we integrate practical systems to help their vision come to life, whether that’s building websites, setting up booking platforms, creating funnels, or designing automated workflows.

I love helping clients take their passion and purpose and turn it into something sustainable and structurally sound so they can stay focused on doing what they love without the burnout.

Everything I use is chosen with intention because my goal is always to create a coaching experience that feels grounded, soul led, and uniquely aligned to each client’s journey.

The Impact:

If you had a super megaphone that, when you speak into, the whole world will hear your message, what would you say?

You are not broken.

You were never broken.

Everything you need to create the life you truly desire is already within you, waiting to be remembered, not fixed.

We’ve spent so much of our lives trying to earn our worth, chasing someone else’s definition of success, trying to fit into boxes we were never meant to fit into.

But what if the truth is that your power has always been in who you already are?

My message to the world is this: it’s time to come home to yourself.

To slow down.

To breathe.

To stop performing and start being.

You don’t have to hustle your way into value or prove your right to take up space.

When you live in alignment with your own energetic design, when you honor your truth instead of contorting to meet the world’s expectations, you begin to experience a freedom that’s not just felt, it’s lived.

You deserve a life that feels like you, a business that reflects your heart, and relationships that meet you where you are.

And you don’t have to walk that path alone.

You get to be seen, supported, and held.

That’s the kind of world I want to help create, where people don’t just survive…

They come alive.

What is the greatest lesson you have learned in your life?

The greatest lesson I’ve learned in my life is this: I am good enough just as I am.

And while that may sound simple, or even cliché, it’s actually one of the most profound truths we can embody.

For much of my life, I felt like I had to prove something.

To be more, do more, and achieve more in order to be seen as worthy or successful.

I thought if I just hit the next milestone or lived up to others’ expectations, then I would finally feel like I was “enough.”

But all of that striving only distanced me from my truth.

It wasn’t until I began to unlearn the conditioning and reconnect with my authentic self that I discovered what I had been missing.

Life isn’t meant to be a performance, it’s meant to be an expression.

When we align with who we truly are, without trying to fit into anyone else’s mold, life becomes lighter, more joyful, and more creative.

That’s not to say it becomes perfect, but it becomes aligned.

And from that place, everything flows differently.

That alignment truly began to click into place when I discovered Quantum Human Design.

I had heard of it before, but it didn’t resonate with me at first.

That changed when I experienced a major ego check in December 2023, as my business seemingly unraveled overnight.

It was in that moment of stillness and self reflection that I began to explore Human Design with fresh eyes.

What I discovered was nothing short of life changing.

Everything I had been doing… how I worked, how I made decisions, and how I pursued success… was in direct opposition to my own energetic blueprint.

That realization was a massive aha moment.

I finally understood why things had always felt hard or chaotic.

I wasn’t living in alignment with how I was designed to operate in this world.

So, I made the decision to begin living according to my soul’s design.

Once I did, my life transformed dramatically.

The chaos stopped.

The survival mode lifted.

I began to heal traumas that had once felt impossible to reach.

Perhaps most powerfully, my futurist gift (the ability to intuitively see potential timelines and possibilities) returned in full clarity after being blurred by trauma I had experienced during my early teens.

Through that deep alignment, the foundation for my CLEARITY Method™ naturally emerged, long before it even had a name.

I came to see that everything we’re trying to build in this life… whether it’s the right career, the right relationship, or the right business… must come from within.

More specifically, it must come from our unique soul signature.

That’s where true clarity, freedom, and fulfillment are born.

Today, I no longer make decisions based on what the world expects or what others say I should do.

I trust my inner compass… I follow my heart.

That is where the truth lives… not outside of us, but within.

And that’s what I want for others.

I want people to know that they are already enough, exactly as they are.

We are not here to fit into someone else’s version of success.

We are here to remember who we are and live from that truth.

That’s real power.

That’s real freedom.

That’s coming home.

Your final thoughts?

As I reflect on everything we’ve talked about, what keeps coming up is just how important it is to come home to ourselves.

This journey, both my own and the one I guide others through, has never been about fixing or becoming someone else.

It’s about remembering.

Remembering that we are already enough, already worthy, and already equipped with everything we need to create a life that feels like us.

I want people to know that healing doesn’t have to be heavy.

That building a business doesn’t have to mean burning out.

That success can feel like freedom, joy, and alignment rather than pressure and performance.

Whether someone is seeking personal clarity or building something bigger than themselves, I want them to feel truly seen, supported, and empowered every step of the way.

If you take away anything from this, let it be this: your path is valid.

Your timeline is divine.

And your soul already knows the way.

I’m just here to help you remember how to listen.

Where Can You Find Kelly Boyer?

If you liked this interview and if you’d love to go from chaos to clarity and create a life that your soul came here to lead, go here and schedule a FREE 15 minute discovery call with Coach Kelly. See if you are a good fit to work together.

You can check her website here and see all the ways she can help you. And if you want to join a community of like minded individuals, renowned spiritual leaders, healers, and change makers, Join Here!

If you’d like to peak a glimpse into her coaching, we strongly suggest to follow her YouTube channel, get the “Unleash Your Inner GIRLBOSS” FREE eBook or explore her videos here.

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And if you’d like to connect with her more personally, you can do that through LinkedIn or by sending her a direct message on her Email kelly@kellyboyer.org. It was an honor having this interview with her.