Joseph Pellicci is one of the coaches that we found this month and we did a little interview with him. He impressed us with his positivity, passion and focus.
He found himself staring into the deepest mirror life could offer when heartbreak cracked his world open in 2018. After his marriage ended in betrayal, he didn’t just seek healing, he transformed it into a powerful mission… to help men and women improve their most important relationship, the one they have with themselves.
He guides clients through a unique four dimensional coaching approach (mind, body, relationships, and environment) to unlock stuck energy, decode unconscious patterns, and see their triggers as gateways to growth. Blending breathwork, energetic awareness, and the 12 stages of Naphsha, his work goes far beyond surface level fixes… It’s a deep dive into self awareness, emotional mastery, and relational freedom.
He believes the life and love you desire starts from within. And once you stop seeking validation and start showing up fully for yourself, everything begins to change. You stop repeating childhood patterns, you unleash your authenticity, and you attract Authentic Love. Here is what he said…
Name: Joseph Pellicci
Pillar: The Mind, The Heart
Who is this coach for: Anyone who wants to balance their energies, gain clarity on childhood patterns that are still controling their lives and sabotaging their relationships, and learn how to use the wisdom of triggers to improve the most important relationship in their life, the relationship they have with themselves.
How they can help: By using the 4 dimensions framework focused on mind, body, relationship, and environment, as well as using various tools like the 12 stages of Naphsha and specialized breathing techniques.
We’re thriving in ways I never imagined possible.
The pandemic was truly a blessing in disguise for our family.
It forced us to slow down, look inward, and allowed me to become the most authentic version of myself.
My relationships with my family members have deepened because I learned to show up differently, first for myself, then for them.
When you change how you relate to yourself, every other relationship transforms.
It was transformational for both my clients and myself.
It brought people to a place of desperation that became their greatest gift, they finally put focus on themselves instead of trying to fix everyone else.
This desperation created the deepest growth I’ve ever witnessed in clients.
They were forced to look inward, and that’s where all the magic happens.
For me, it allowed the most authentic version of myself to emerge.
That desperation can be our greatest teacher.
When people have nowhere else to turn but inward, that’s when real transformation happens.
I learned that slowing down and becoming authentic doesn’t diminish us, it makes us more powerful and magnetic in all our relationships.
My coaching journey began with the most painful wake up call of my life.
In 2018, my wife left me for an affair.
That devastating experience forced me on my own healing journey, where I had to face the mirror of my relationships and examine how I was showing up.
Through that deep inner work, I discovered a profound truth: I felt most alive when I was able to give back and serve others as a coach, healer, and motivational speaker.
My pain became my purpose.
I realized that helping people heal their relationship with themselves was the key to everything else falling into place, and my mission crystallized: Helping men and women gain clarity, freedom, and safety so they can create the deep, connected, loving relationships they deserve.
Learning to love myself first.
I had to break the pattern of needing validation and fulfillment from others.
Once I learned to give myself what I was seeking from everyone else, everything changed.
I gained clarity on the unhealthy games I’d been playing since childhood and learned to show up differently in all my relationships.
I work through four dimensions: mind, body, relationship, and environment (because how we do anything is how we do everything).
I use the 12 stages of Naphsha and specialized breathing techniques that allow people to release bound energy within the body that’s holding them in illusions and stuck in one dimensional perspectives.
These breathing techniques help my clients release this trapped energy and allow it to be expressed freely once again, which opens them up to multiple perspectives where they hold non solid understanding.
This gives them a tremendous advantage to pick the perspectives that truly stretch them into versions of themselves they never thought were possible.
They stop seeing life defensively and start thriving in all dimensions.
I also help clients understand the difference between feminine and masculine energies within themselves and others, honoring each person’s true nature, while teaching them to recognize childhood patterns and see triggers as mirrors for their own growth.
I don’t just focus on communication techniques or surface level fixes.
I help people understand that their triggers are mirrors, showing them how they show up in similar ways.
I work with the four dimensions of life and help people understand masculine and feminine energies within themselves and others.
Most importantly, I teach people to set boundaries without disclosing themselves while ensuring their needs are met.
Clients gain profound clarity about the patterns they’ve been unconsciously repeating their whole lives.
They learn to pause before reacting, see triggers as growth opportunities, and set healthy boundaries.
All their relationships improve (personal, family, intimate, and work) because their relationship with themselves prospers.
They stop playing the unhealthy games they learned in childhood and start showing up authentically.
I use the four dimensional framework: mind, body, relationship, and environment, along with the 12 stages of Naphsha as a foundational model.
My specialized breathing techniques are particularly powerful, they help clients release bound energy that’s been trapped in their bodies, keeping them stuck in illusions and one dimensional perspectives.
When this energy is freed and expressed, clients open up to multiple perspectives and develop non solid understanding, giving them the flexibility to choose perspectives that stretch them into versions of themselves they never imagined possible.
We also work on recognizing masculine and feminine energies, identifying childhood patterns, and using triggers as mirrors for personal growth.
Love yourself first.
Stop trying to get from others what you can give to yourself.
Your triggers are mirrors, use them to see how you show up in the world.
Set boundaries, honor your true nature, and watch every relationship in your life transform.
You have both masculine and feminine energy within you, learn to honor both in yourself and others.
That you don’t need anything from anybody when you give it to yourself first.
When you truly love yourself, you show up differently in every relationship.
People feel more heard, seen, and valued because you’re not trying to get your needs met through them, you’re coming from a place of wholeness.
The pandemic taught us that sometimes life forces us into the exact place we need to be for transformation.
When we stop looking outside ourselves for fulfillment and start giving ourselves what we need, magic happens.
Every relationship becomes a reflection of how well we love ourselves.
The work always starts within.
If you liked this interview and if you would love to stop the unconscious patterns you’ve been repeating, learn the wisdom of triggers and understand how to use them to improve the relationship with yourself, contact Coach Joseph and see how he can help you achieve that.
If you’d like to peak a glimpse of his coaching, follow his Facebook and Instagram accounts.
And if you’d like to connect with him more personally, you can do that through LinkedIn or by sending him a direct message on his Email elitelifestyleblueprint@gmail.com.
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